What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[SassySheDevil]

This strikes a chord that I’m not in a position to elaborate on right now.

Privacy and secrecy are different. I don’t mind being private, but I don’t want to be a secret.

I’m glad you and this other person worked out what was going on, hopefully before either of you got in too deep!

She was pretty hurt. He had used the L word with her.

Oddly enough. Him and I met years later and got a chance to talk some of it out.

 

[LikeableMe]

Almost always just delete. Like you said. Find a way to give me something to reply to that lets me know it is not just a big cut and paste, and I will most likely respond. I used to respond to everyone. But now (if my messages are on) I only respond to those that give me something to respond to.

But this reminds me of all the Cut and Pastes in the personals and something that I assume goes along with this. (What Daisy said.. Cast a big net..)

I see people who either just constantly cut and paste the same ad for a personal, or cut and paste a comment in the KIK or Skype threads.
I read right passed those guys.
Does that ever work?? Why are they so lazy? Do they not realize that sometimes, a little effort goes a long way?

If I have ever responded to such an ad. It was because of something fun someone said, humor, wit, etc.

I agree. Showing personality, wit and so on goes a long way! Maybe someone felt they wrote the perfect personal, and that a cut and paste job will work wonders. But often, effort to make a genuine connection is appreciated over a personal that has taken hours to perfect.

I too, respond to a lot of my PMs. I once had a guy who didn’t realise (after I took a lit break) that he had already messaged me. Sent me the exact same message a second time. I didn’t reply at all. How many women is he sending it to, to forget where he has already sent it?

I’d rather be noticed for something I said, than nothing beyond the fact that I have boobs.

 

[ydahecnot]

I agree. Showing personality, wit and so on goes a long way! Maybe someone felt they wrote the perfect personal, and that a cut and paste job will work wonders. But often, effort to make a genuine connection is appreciated over a personal that has taken hours to perfect.

I too, respond to a lot of my PMs. I once had a guy who didn’t realise (after I took a lit break) that he had already messaged me. Sent me the exact same message a second time. I didn’t reply at all. How many women is he sending it too, to forget where he has already sent it?

I’d rather be noticed for something I said, than nothing beyond the fact that I have boobs.

Wait, you have boobs?

 

[SassySheDevil]

I agree. Showing personality, wit and so on goes a long way! Maybe someone felt they wrote the perfect personal, and that a cut and paste job will work wonders. But often, effort to make a genuine connection is appreciated over a personal that has taken hours to perfect.

I too, respond to a lot of my PMs. I once had a guy who didn’t realise (after I took a lit break) that he had already messaged me. Sent me the exact same message a second time. I didn’t reply at all. How many women is he sending it too, to forget where he has already sent it?

I’d rather be noticed for something I said, than nothing beyond the fact that I have boobs.

haha me too!! I told him my answer was the same as last time he had cut and pasted me that question.

 

[LikeableMe]

She was pretty hurt. He had used the L word with her.

Oddly enough. Him and I met years later and got a chance to talk some of it out.

I’ve been in that place. Had someone use the L word with me, only to find out others were in the picture. I may have been the only one receiving the L word, but if it was heartfelt, surely he would have changed the way he was behaving with the others?

Hopefully talking things out helped. An honest conversation can mean the world sometimes.

 

[LikeableMe]

Wait, you have boobs?

Yes, I do. Big ones actually you didn’t spot them during lifeguard duty?

I’ve received PMs the times I’ve posted them, but I mean that I don’t appreciate being sent a mass PM just for being female.

 

[LikeableMe]

haha me too!! I told him my answer was the same as last time he had cut and pasted me that question.

I love it when people are brave enough to call people out on these things! I wasn’t, I just went quiet. Was there a response to that?

 

[SassySheDevil]

I love it when people are brave enough to call people out on these things! I wasn’t, I just went quiet. Was there a response to that?

he just replied with "Sorry"

 

[ydahecnot]

Yes, I do. Big ones actually you didn’t spot them during lifeguard duty?

I’ve received PMs the times I’ve posted them, but I mean that I don’t appreciate being sent a mass PM just for being female.

You had an insane amount of bubbles, alas

 

[LikeableMe]

he just replied with "Sorry"

I had a guy apologise to me daily, but still repeated the offending behaviour.

You had an insane amount of bubbles, alas

I do love my bubbles!

 

[LikeableMe]

Yeah, make your stuff unique.

If you want to say hi, that's fine. But make it something to respond to. Make it a conversation starter and don't make it so blatant that you're thirsty. Every woman on here, if I can have permission to say it, has no desire to open a message where the first line is something like "Let's fuck" or "Play with your tits" or whatever. You would never do that in person. Why be a jackass and do it on here?

It's called respect, folks. It's not that difficult.

I need to this again

 

[Whiskeyjack]

An update on the trench: He has a large oven, almost like a kiln, in his backyard. Looks like he's putting pipes in to set up some kind of sink or water station next to that. I have no idea what he uses it for, but having water readily available next to it probably isn't the worst idea.

 

[Azuldrgon]

An update on the trench: He has a large oven, almost like a kiln, in his backyard. Looks like he's putting pipes in to set up some kind of sink or water station next to that. I have no idea what he uses it for, but having water readily available next to it probably isn't the worst idea.

Maybe it's so he can put the fire out if his kiln catches fire.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Yes, I do. Big ones actually you didn’t spot them during lifeguard duty?

I’ve received PMs the times I’ve posted them, but I mean that I don’t appreciate being sent a mass PM just for being female.

That is why we no longer need a lifeguard. We have your flotation devices

 

[Azuldrgon]

Sounds like somebody needs to keep a spreadsheet of what they sent and to whom.

Shhh!
Don't give the playas any ideas. lol

*hugs*

 

[Azuldrgon]

No, we WANT them to keep a spreadsheet. Saves us time and frustration. Lol

Robin Williams once said "God gave men two heads and only enough blood to operate one at a time."

I'm guessing if the wrong head is in control, they can't even fathom a spreadsheet.

 

[LikeableMe]

That is why we no longer need a lifeguard. We have your flotation devices

I once had a guy message me here after I posted a photo. He said something along the lines of “god, I bet you don’t need a life buoy with those on your chest! You could float the Atlantic with no problems!”

I’m laughing now, but at the time I was a nervous poster, showing myself for the first time, so it was horrifying to me lol

 

[LikeableMe]

Robin Williams once said "God gave men two heads and only enough blood to operate one at a time."

I'm guessing if the wrong head is in control, they can't even fathom a spreadsheet.

So why do they say “two heads are better than one?”

 

[Azuldrgon]

So why do they say “two heads are better than one?”

Because they say sometimes you need someone else to come up with a good idea.

 

[ydahecnot]

That is why we no longer need a lifeguard. We have your flotation devices

 

[LikeableMe]

Don’t worry, you can still watch over us! You just might not be called into action

 

[LikeableMe]

I have no problem sending a message basically saying "Hey you're cool, how you doin?" or whatever, just because I always like and appreciate those kinds of messages. But there's a part of me that is a little self-conscious about sending them, just because I know women probably get all the pervy randos ever and I don't want to bug people.

Pervy and friendly are very different!

 

[LikeableMe]

Because they say sometimes you need someone else to come up with a good idea.

That is very true! I have a feeling that one head comes up with better ideas than the other, though!

 

[SassySheDevil]

I have no problem sending a message basically saying "Hey you're cool, how you doin?" or whatever, just because I always like and appreciate those kinds of messages. But there's a part of me that is a little self-conscious about sending them, just because I know women probably get all the pervy randos ever and I don't want to bug people.

But there is a difference between the Pervy Randos and someone that can ask simple questions that his dick did not type out.
You've always been polite.

 

[Texastuffbbc]

This thread is so entertaining and very informative in a good way. I am learning more in 5js one the. I have in any other because some of the names I recognized from when I was more active, but now I have a better understanding about how it works around here. Staying in the thread and not in inboxes except in a cordial complimentary way.