Litiquette VII

[SassySheDevil]

Awesome.



I am pro laughing.

Is that one or three podcasts? I can't tell….

He has 3 different ones. I mean technically 4. Cause the 4th one is just his daily show in it's entirety. Oops. 5. First date follow up.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Jumping in with a question:

Nudity in Movies.

Women have been nude in movies since the beginning of time, or at least Eastman Kodak time. And I’m cool with that. On the other hand it is impossible to argue that the objectification of the nude body has been well balanced. And I’m not talking about some guy who went full frontal on Game of Thrones, I’m talking about objectification—the fun kind.

Would you be more interested in a movie with male objectification. And by that I mean high art cinema like Friday the 13th Part 57 where a guy strips naked and goes full dick and balls.

Or a Porky’s remake where a group of girls spy on the guys showers with lots of close ups of male flesh.

Straight Women: would this make a movie more interesting to you?
Straight Guys: are we so homophobic (we all are a little bit) that we couldn’t enjoy a scene like this
Gay dudes: I don’t think I even have to ask you this question
Lesbians: are you already satisfied with the gratuitous female nudity that has reigned supreme for decades, but think it’s time guys whipped it out and soaped it up in slo-mo?
Bi-people: your answer also seems obvious, but let’s hear it.

Let’s talk naked dick . . .

Honestly. I do think it should be more equal. It wont change if I watch a movie or not, and hasn't. But if we are going to show so much of women, bring on the dick. But guys are so insecure about their softness, that very few want to do it.

 

[Endless_Night]

Interesting question.

I don’t entirely agree with the one-sided objectification. At least these days. Buff dudes stripped to the waist are hardly uncommon eye candy. The real issue is that full frontals of women are less *reveal all* than full frontals of men.

It would have a negative impact on my willingness to view. Crotch shots on women would do the same. I’m just not interested in seeing random peoples’ stuff.

(This is wear I insert my obligatory *not into porn* blurb. )

As far as hetero guys not being willing to view, I’m not so sure.

I’m reminded of my early Lit days on the BDSM board. A young fellow showed up, confused about his sexuality. He identified as hetero, but when he watched porn it was the male partner he watched. One of the board regulars jumped in to say that it’s not unusual for people to watch porn from the do-er vs do-ee perspective. In this case, the querent identified as the do-er and his tastes ran to porn where the male was the prime mover.

Slightly odd concept at first, but it makes sense. In my admittedly limited video/pic viewing my focus has been on the female. My bent is submissive, and I'm a do-ee. I’m also pretty solidly hetero.

 

[Endless_Night]

You should try listening to George Carlin tapes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o25I2fzFGoY

For the life of me I couldn't get a mental picture of George Carlin. I kept confusing him with George Burns!

(And, noted. )

 

[hotwords229_A]

. . . I also have to say that I've known plenty of straight guys who would get just as turned on by it as I would. They wouldn't be turned on by the sight of male flesh but rather by the idea of girls doing the peeping and getting turned on by it.

The difference between the sight of a flaccid dick and a hard dick in the movies is huge (even if the dick isn't). The sight of a woman showering is pretty much the same whether she is turned on or not. A guy showering while sporting a boner is a whole different kettle of fish than a guy showering with a dick limply hanging there.

I’m totally that guy!
I think we could probably define the difference of hard or flaccid as porn and not porn. Or maybe a new rating system? NC-18 (in America) for erections?

Honestly. I do think it should be more equal. It wont change if I watch a movie or not, and hasn't. But if we are going to show so much of women, bring on the dick. But guys are so insecure about their softness, that very few want to do it.

I wonder how true this might be. There are plenty of women (especially in horror movies) with small breasts who proudly show them, so would guys trying to break into the business be different? Wouldn’t it just be a matter of us guys realizing that not everyone has a 45” dick? Ya know, or so I’ve heard

Interesting question.

I don’t entirely agree with the one-sided objectification. At least these days. Buff dudes stripped to the waist are hardly uncommon eye candy. The real issue is that full frontals of women are less *reveal all* than full frontals of men.

It would have a negative impact on my willingness to view. Crotch shots on women would do the same. I’m just not interested in seeing random peoples’ stuff.

(This is wear I insert my obligatory *not into porn* blurb. )

As far as hetero guys not being willing to view, I’m not so sure.

I’m reminded of my early Lit days on the BDSM board. A young fellow showed up, confused about his sexuality. He identified as hetero, but when he watched porn it was the male partner he watched. One of the board regulars jumped in to say that it’s not unusual for people to watch porn from the do-er vs do-ee perspective. In this case, the querent identified as the do-er and his tastes ran to porn where the male was the prime mover.

Slightly odd concept at first, but it makes sense. In my admittedly limited video/pic viewing my focus has been on the female. My bent is submissive, and I'm a do-ee. I’m also pretty solidly hetero.

There was a movie called Diving In where a swim team guy accidentally showers in the girls showers and of course he doesn’t hear them come in. They are all in their towels and come around the corner and see him showering. One of them drops her towel and stands next to him saying how a workout in the pool just gets her “stiff all over” and then asks if it makes him stiff.
He runs out of the shower and the girls all laugh.
When I saw this as a . . . younger gentleman, I was disappointed that he wasn’t shown to be nude. The girl was (which I was very happy about), but I remember thinking how awesome that would be to have all those hot girls catching me naked in the shower and what a lost opportunity that was. Knowing that he probably had swim trunks on below the frame ruined the excitement of the scene.

Oh well. I still jerked off to that many times.

I don’t see any guys commenting. Hmmmm

 

[Endless_Night]

< I don’t see any guys commenting. Hmmmm

Because they're all busy watching a movie with nude male nudity?



I'm guessing here.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Because they're all busy watching a movie with nude male nudity?



I'm guessing here.

I hope the movie is at least a wiener of two golden globes.

 

[hotwords229_A]

In an attempt to waken the people who are supposed to be running this thread:

Threesomes, foursomes or moresomes—

I’m not talking about real life, open discussion between trusting partners, agreements on what is and isn’t off limits, etc. I’m talking about late night, by yourself, masturbatory fantasies.

What are your feelings about multiple partners? Do you dream of being taken or being in charge? Do you want MMF, FFM, MFM, FMF, MMM, FFF, etc? Are your fantasies realistic or fantastical? Is it something you desire in real life or are you content just fiddling yourself to it?

Let’s hear your scenarios, don’t be shy . . .

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Happy Filthy Friday.
Looks like you beat me here and got it covered.

I’m game and participated.
Fun, absolutely. A nice mix in my life.
A turn on for my husband- all the naughty shenanigans I bring to the table.
Do I like being dominated, yup.
But I’m also game on for holding the reins. Absolutely.
It all depends on my mood.

Now, that fantasy gang bang of six men lined up waiting to turn me into a cum covered slut - bring that to real life?
If it’s the end of the month and I’m hungry, bring me those delicious men please.
*looks at today’s date*

 

[hotwords229_A]

^^^ It worked!!! Welcome back. Yes it is the end of the month, now you just need five more guys to line up

 

[Endless_Night]

*raises eyebrow*

You do intend to answer this question yourself, Hotwords san?

* * *

Threesomes+ have no place in my kink. Zero appeal. There might have been a time when I would have considered it, but that would have been out of a desire to please a Dominant partner rather than any personal desire.

I should wrap this answer up by saying I’ve participated in a FFM. Well, the use of the word participated might be a bit strong….

I might’ve sort’ve gotten bored and fallen asleep.


(I’ve mentioned this once or twice before on Lit, and let me just say admitting that publicly never feels less awkward. Eesh.)

 

[Endless_Night]

^^^ It worked!!! Welcome back. Yes it is the end of the month, now you just need five more guys to line up

*pfft*

My guess is that Naughty's inbox exploded within minutes of that post.

 

[Dribble]

I am too old. Why embarrass myself? I have participated in several through the years. Would have been more fun if all wanted the same thing

 

[hotwords229_A]

*raises eyebrow*

You do intend to answer this question yourself, Hotwords san?

* * *

Threesomes+ have no place in my kink. Zero appeal. There might have been a time when I would have considered it, but that would have been out of a desire to please a Dominant partner rather than any personal desire.

I should wrap this answer up by saying I’ve participated in a FFM. Well, the use of the word participated might be a bit strong….

I might’ve sort’ve gotten bored and fallen asleep.


(I’ve mentioned this once or twice before on Lit, and let me just say admitting that publicly never feels less awkward. Eesh.)

Oh, I forgot to answer my own question. This is why we need the real pros in charge of this thread.

FFM!!! Wowzers Enny! At least you had the experience. It seems most people don’t find them as enjoyable as they expect, but I’d still like the chance to be disappointed

My fantasy scenarios are usually more of the Indiana Jones style. You know, I get captured by a group of Amazonian women who were derived from a plane of supermodels that crashed in the jungle years ago, they tie me up and learn the male anatomy by doing sexual experiments on me (the fun kind). Or, the one where I’m the only guy available when my female friends at a bachelorette party need me to fill in for the stripper who didn’t show and things get out of hand.

Lately I’ve been talking to a friend about the dreaded MMF scenario. I have reservations about it, but I have to admit imagining her being sexually satisfied by two awesome dudes (one of them me) is really starting to grow on me—if you know what I mean

P.S.—this is all hypothetical, don’t get too excited.

 

[Endless_Night]

< P.S.—this is all hypothetical, don’t get too excited.

Where is that Suz?

At least you had the experience.

It ended up being a lot of Awkward.

The other femme was my bestie at the time, who happened to be bisexual. She made delicate inquiry post-event about an encore, with just us two. Not my thing, and I’d had no idea she was interested in me in that particular way, so Awkward. I didn’t find the male party sexually attractive. Extra Awkward as he happened to be my current boyfriend. Toss in a bunch of indignation and hurt feelings and embarrassment over the going to sleep thing and you get a whole big bag of Awkward.

(Honestly, I will not live to be old enough to live the sleep thing down. )



I get group sex is lots of peoples’ jam (and more power to ya!) but for me…I guess it registers as a null on the sexual scale. At best.

And this^ would be one of the many reasons I don't have sex.

 

[Endless_Night]

I am too old. Why embarrass myself? I have participated in several through the years. Would have been more fun if all wanted the same thing

Curious as to why you find age a factor. If you don't mind my asking.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Where is that Suz?

I’ve asked myself this many times over the past few months. In fact, where is . . . just about everyone?

 

[Dribble]

Curious as to why you find age a factor. If you don't mind my asking.

My dick acts differently. It comes with guys getting older. Takes too long to get hard the second time...it don't get used as frequently as I want and masturbation makes it come easier. It takes a lot of energy to please 2 others. There is always the exception...but that is rare.

 

[Endless_Night]

I’ve asked myself this many times over the past few months. In fact, where is . . . just about everyone?

The board does seem really slow.

A couple of this thread's regulars are busy with other things.

As for the rest...some people are probably are tired of social media. I'm not tired of Lit, but I am here less, and my visits are usually in and out. The threads I frequent aren't active anymore, and most of the Litsters I play on the boards with aren't currently around.

Hard to piffle on my own.



Though, clearly, I've fallen into habits. Just to shake things up I'll pop in a second time, later tonight.

 

[Endless_Night]

My dick acts differently. It comes with guys getting older. Takes too long to get hard the second time...it don't get used as frequently as I want and masturbation makes it come easier. It takes a lot of energy to please 2 others. There is always the exception...but that is rare.

Ah. Thank you for satisfying my curiosity.

 

[investor2020]

The only way I can respond to this topic is to relate the tale about the cowboy who greeted an Indian with the traditional "How" . . . the Indian responded "Chance". The confused cowboy said "Wait, I thought you were supposed to say 'How' back to me".

The Indian answered "Already know how, just want chance".

 

[Dribble]

Ah. Thank you for satisfying my curiosity.

It is a male thing...from what I have heard and my experience...women don't seem to have the same issue...so go for it

 

[Endless_Night]

That^^^ is…a terrible joke.

You know, I find it curious. In my experience, sex has been easy to come by, something I’ve always presumed was due to being a woman. I’ve had opportunity to do…well, all kinds of things. (Almost all of which I’ve turned down, of course, being the prudish little soul that I am. )

Digression aside, I hear so many men saying they wish they had more opportunity to explore sexually.

My question is this: How can men have less opportunity when woman have so much? Is it just a few men getting all the, errr…action?

 

[Endless_Night]

It is a male thing...from what I have heard and my experience...women don't seem to have the same issue...so go for it

I was more wondering if it was an aging body image thing, which seems to be a common feminine concern. The…errr…physical issue simply had not occurred to me.

 

[hotwords229_A]

That^^^ is…a terrible joke.

You know, I find it curious. In my experience, sex has been easy to come by, something I’ve always presumed was due to being a woman. I’ve had opportunity to do…well, all kinds of things. (Almost all of which I’ve turned down, of course, being the prudish little soul that I am. )

Digression aside, I hear so many men saying they wish they had more opportunity to explore sexually.

My question is this: How can men have less opportunity when woman have so much? Is it just a few men getting all the, errr…action?

I think the opportunity is probably there for more women than men, but that doesn’t mean they take the opportunity. So, yes, it probably is a few men getting all the action. I think if men had all the opportunity the whole world would come to a screeching halt because we would all be fucking all the time

Plus, there’s a whole societal thing where it’s more “acceptable” for women to “explore” with other women so they have increased their opportunities greatly right there. Now that society has lightened up on that, it will be interesting to see, in the future, if that changes.