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oneblueye said:
I know where you can find someone like that but I'm waaaaaay past my two hour drive limit. I understand what it is you say you're looking for, as I'm looking for the same with the exception that I would need reciprocation.
I already spent too much of my life giving with little or no return...
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My desire to suck a cock does not carry with it the desire for a mutual sexual experience where I am also looking to get off. I don't even want the other man having any interest in me, my sexual pleasure or my cock. I really am looking for a one-way experience (or relationship, should I ever find a good match for me that would become an ongoing thing).

There are certainly women that enjoy sucking cock simply because they enjoy sucking a cock and not because it gives them any specific pleasure other than just the act itself and for the love of feeling a hard cock in their mouth. I am the same way. When I am with a woman, I have a strong desire to eat her pussy and enjoy it as much as sucking cock, but when I am with a woman I AM looking for a mutual experience. I do love a woman sucking my cock as long as she wants to do it and enjoys, better yet, loves to suck cock. My ex fiancee spoiled me that way. She loved to suck my cock and did it often. 3 times in the same day on occasion.

Yes, I have been sucked by men and I certainly had some very intense orgasms from a couple of those experiences but I would not ever go looking for a guy to suck my cock even though I know many places where that can easily be found.
 
Delawareguy said:
Have you been on there recently? At times it seems that more than 20% of the men in a chat room have some desire to look, dress or act as a female. Many of them have "sissy" as part of their user names or are using typical female names, so you know before you even communicate with them that they desire to be thought of as female. In chat they will use cute terms and expressions one would typically associate with a woman, such as "hugs", "smooches","kisses" and my all time favorite "giggles". What man uses the term "giggles" when they chat? It's pathetic.

These wanna-be women seem to want to communicate only with other men who are also looking to be women or are looking to receive uncritical adoration from anyone. Many of them are regulars and seemingly are in the chat room for most of the day as if it is how they primary socialize. And I noticed this long before COVID which would give someone a reason to be using the internet for that. It seems to me that web site and those chat rooms are their world. That's even more pathetic.

I can't speak to how common or equivalent the number of men are on Silverdaddies who want to be female could be compared to other similar sites because I do not use them. As to your success in finding other men for sex, we may not be looking for the same thing, are probably not living in the same area, may have different restrictions on who we are willing to explore sexual with and you may be more willing to risk being with someone who I may not. I am also very picky about who I will meet and want them to fall within a certain age group and want them to be desiring a certain relationship with another man that is very compatible (and also exactly opposite) from what I am looking for. You one the other hand may be more open about who you will play with and what you want to do with them.

I want be with an older, or at least mature man, who is looking to be serviced by someone, like me, who wants to be servicing him without reciprocation. I want to be encouraged to please him and not forced, abused or humiliated. I have the desire. I do not need anything more than encouragement and appreciation. You would think I could find one guy who would fill that requirement but it's not easy. But if I just wanted to find any guy who would be up for having his cock sucked or to suck mine, yeah I would have much success. No thanks on that. I am not that foolish. I have far too much to lose should I be caught or bring something home simply because I had to suck some cock.
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Myriad of causes to be sure as everyone is unique. But for the recent uptick especially among the older crowd it's probably because of the relatively new acceptance of such behavior has given more people courage to explore their feminine side that has been shunned for most of their lives. Especially when combined with falling testosterone levels and ED issues with age.

In the end, what does it matter? No need to shame them as "pathetic" if it's not for you. Just move on.
 
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Delawareguy said:
Have you been on there recently? At times it seems that more than 20% of the men in a chat room have some desire to look, dress or act as a female. Many of them have "sissy" as part of their user names or are using typical female names, so you know before you even communicate with them that they desire to be thought of as female. In chat they will use cute terms and expressions one would typically associate with a woman, such as "hugs", "smooches","kisses" and my all time favorite "giggles". What man uses the term "giggles" when they chat? It's pathetic.

These wanna-be women seem to want to communicate only with other men who are also looking to be women or are looking to receive uncritical adoration from anyone. Many of them are regulars and seemingly are in the chat room for most of the day as if it is how they primary socialize. And I noticed this long before COVID which would give someone a reason to be using the internet for that. It seems to me that web site and those chat rooms are their world. That's even more pathetic.

I can't speak to how common or equivalent the number of men are on Silverdaddies who want to be female could be compared to other similar sites because I do not use them. As to your success in finding other men for sex, we may not be looking for the same thing, are probably not living in the same area, may have different restrictions on who we are willing to explore sexual with and you may be more willing to risk being with someone who I may not. I am also very picky about who I will meet and want them to fall within a certain age group and want them to be desiring a certain relationship with another man that is very compatible (and also exactly opposite) from what I am looking for. You one the other hand may be more open about who you will play with and what you want to do with them.

I want be with an older, or at least mature man, who is looking to be serviced by someone, like me, who wants to be servicing him without reciprocation. I want to be encouraged to please him and not forced, abused or humiliated. I have the desire. I do not need anything more than encouragement and appreciation. You would think I could find one guy who would fill that requirement but it's not easy. But if I just wanted to find any guy who would be up for having his cock sucked or to suck mine, yeah I would have much success. No thanks on that. I am not that foolish. I have far too much to lose should I be caught or bring something home simply because I had to suck some cock.
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Again, it appears that you and I have had different experiences on silverdaddies. I do not hang out there every day or every week. I go there only when I want to correspond with a friend or look for a new one. As to your estimate of 20% of the men there are looking to act as female, I would suggest that is high. (Even if it is accurate, what does it matter to you anyway) Keeping in mind the fact that some men are on there for 'romantic' reasons, you might want to be prepared to see the occasional reference to hugs, kisses, and the dreaded 'giggles.' If this upsets you enough, that you think it is pathetic, perhaps silverdaddies is not for you.
 
hey ...

Delawareguy said:
My desire to suck a cock does not carry with it the desire for a mutual sexual experience where I am also looking to get off. I don't even want the other man having any interest in me, my sexual pleasure or my cock. I really am looking for a one-way experience (or relationship, should I ever find a good match for me that would become an ongoing thing).

There are certainly women that enjoy sucking cock simply because they enjoy sucking a cock and not because it gives them any specific pleasure other than just the act itself and for the love of feeling a hard cock in their mouth. I am the same way. When I am with a woman, I have a strong desire to eat her pussy and enjoy it as much as sucking cock, but when I am with a woman I AM looking for a mutual experience. I do love a woman sucking my cock as long as she wants to do it and enjoys, better yet, loves to suck cock. My ex fiancee spoiled me that way. She loved to suck my cock and did it often. 3 times in the same day on occasion.

Yes, I have been sucked by men and I certainly had some very intense orgasms from a couple of those experiences but I would not ever go looking for a guy to suck my cock even though I know many places where that can easily be found.
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Yeah, I get it--, you good at what you do becuz you enjoy and do what you do well.
And myself, I am really good at what I do becuz of the enjoyment I can illicit from the others that I work on.
 
Hushlover said:
A big thank you to all you cocksukers out there willing to help a married man out. I’ve had a few guys over the years help me out and I feel good now knowing it’s a two way service. Some true cocksuckers just want that enjoyment of getting a guy off and sometimes us unfulfilled men just need that. So thank you and let’s just be content in our roles without a lot of worry.
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I could not have said it better
 
I recently discovered sniffies (dot) com. I have had pretty good success with it. I never know when I'll have an hour free. When I do, I drive to an area, log into my account, and it shows everyone around me looking to suck or be sucked with a pic of their cocks. I usually get contacted pretty quickly. A lot of them are gay, so they have the most possibility of hosting and getting you off.
 
leshamp said:
I recently discovered sniffies (dot) com. I have had pretty good success with it. I never know when I'll have an hour free. When I do, I drive to an area, log into my account, and it shows everyone around me looking to suck or be sucked with a pic of their cocks. I usually get contacted pretty quickly. A lot of them are gay, so they have the most possibility of hosting and getting you off.
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I haven't had good luck on sniffies most can't host or want to host in their car, I don't like sex in the car looking over my shoulder.
 
Delawareguy said:
Have you been on there recently? At times it seems that more than 20% of the men in a chat room have some desire to look, dress or act as a female. Many of them have "sissy" as part of their user names or are using typical female names, so you know before you even communicate with them that they desire to be thought of as female. In chat they will use cute terms and expressions one would typically associate with a woman, such as "hugs", "smooches","kisses" and my all time favorite "giggles". What man uses the term "giggles" when they chat? It's pathetic.

These wanna-be women seem to want to communicate only with other men who are also looking to be women or are looking to receive uncritical adoration from anyone. Many of them are regulars and seemingly are in the chat room for most of the day as if it is how they primary socialize. And I noticed this long before COVID which would give someone a reason to be using the internet for that. It seems to me that web site and those chat rooms are their world. That's even more pathetic.

I can't speak to how common or equivalent the number of men are on Silverdaddies who want to be female could be compared to other similar sites because I do not use them. As to your success in finding other men for sex, we may not be looking for the same thing, are probably not living in the same area, may have different restrictions on who we are willing to explore sexual with and you may be more willing to risk being with someone who I may not. I am also very picky about who I will meet and want them to fall within a certain age group and want them to be desiring a certain relationship with another man that is very compatible (and also exactly opposite) from what I am looking for. You one the other hand may be more open about who you will play with and what you want to do with them.

I want be with an older, or at least mature man, who is looking to be serviced by someone, like me, who wants to be servicing him without reciprocation. I want to be encouraged to please him and not forced, abused or humiliated. I have the desire. I do not need anything more than encouragement and appreciation. You would think I could find one guy who would fill that requirement but it's not easy. But if I just wanted to find any guy who would be up for having his cock sucked or to suck mine, yeah I would have much success. No thanks on that. I am not that foolish. I have far too much to lose should I be caught or bring something home simply because I had to suck some cock.
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This is very well said and put together...I have notice as well. I call it the invasion. You can fill out your profile..to which most don't. list what you are looking for and into. Next thing you know...you're filter out the 65-75 y/o CD, Tranny.
Look man...people have fetishes...but, not All of us are into these "wanna-be" women, just because 'we're' told and forced to accept it. I given up, in hopes for a casual chat that may turn in to a meet.
 
Damn I wish I had a married guy who needed occasional sucking. I'd love to be nothing more than a warm wet mouth to stick his cock in and use like a sex toy until he erupts in my mouth. We both walk away getting exactly what we wanted.:)
 
Just block him

klippert said:
This is very well said and put together...I have notice as well. I call it the invasion. You can fill out your profile..to which most don't. list what you are looking for and into. Next thing you know...you're filter out the 65-75 y/o CD, Tranny.
Look man...people have fetishes...but, not All of us are into these "wanna-be" women, just because 'we're' told and forced to accept it. I given up, in hopes for a casual chat that may turn in to a meet.
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Just block him. Don’t need his crap.
Cheers buds
 
JustSexual_4321 said:
I found this thread because I searched "Sniffies". Wondering if anyone is having success with it because I've been on it for about a month and had a couple of ok chats but no IRL meets yet. I'm vanilla and not looking for anything extreme and this area is very extreme (Greater NYC) Plus a lot of idiots who don't know how to act and others who are just out to hear someone else's stories, get off and take off. I expected more married dudes around here, maybe they're on but anon. I don't do anon, a total waste of time. Others are just dicks with dicks. They post a crap dick pic and something like, "here it is, come and get it I need to shoot a load blah blah" - morons.
Tried AFF, full of pros or amateurs looking for $$$. Tried to sign up for doublelist but they only allow verification with your real phone number and that's a non-starter. I started to sign up for bicupid but didn't. At the time it felt too public for some reason.

Got some good advice from a fellow Liter member. He claims to have done ok in situations where he wants to let a dude know he's interested like the gym etc. He'll just give him a subtle compliment on his body or cock (gym locker room or shower etc) He said once or twice the guy wasn't into it and they only said thanks and walked off. No scene or anything. Anyone who's up for playing responds positively.
One thing I will say from the receiving end - I really don't appreciate being stalked through a store or other place. And don't violate my personal space just because you are horny. Seriously, I'm up for playing but don't ever try to force yourself on me - you won't like the result. Desperation is never attractive.

Bottom line is from this thread and my personal experience there are guys like us out there but the means to connect reliably is still missing. I think sniffies is on the right track but for some reason it's still not effective (here). YMMV.
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I’m very discreet in my m2m activities. I have had some success with sniffles but you really don’t get to see many details unless you ask. I’ve met up with two guys - one on multiple occasions.
 
I agree. I prefer mature married myself.. I’m 66 myself and like guys my age or so.
Being married we both appreciate a discrete blowjob
 
Mb0754mm said:
I agree. I prefer mature married myself.. I’m 66 myself and like guys my age or so.
Being married we both appreciate a discrete blowjob
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Absolutely. Discretion is so important. Plus, guys really do have a natural instinct of how to pleasure another man.
 
Damn! buddy. I'm jealous.


robd63 said:
I'm lucky in that I have a couple of buddies, also married, whom I get to play with now and then. Here are two pics. One on my back, the other of me sucking cock. The whole afternoon was amazing!

https://www.***********/s/cxlujn8i2xmeqsm/on my back surrounded by men.jpg?dl=0

https://www.***********/s/76hydi9ot5d05jy/using my oral skills.jpg?dl=0
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newhere2learn said:
Agreed, I discovered my bi side while in the dying years of a toxic marriage. Other married guys were safest..no objections to discretion, or playing safe.

Equally gay guys enjoyed me being married. Especially as I was amazed at what a decent blowjob was.
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Same experience here. I liked sucking while traveling the best. Safe, discreet and so naughty.
 
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