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If anyone could, it’s you, Sweet Lara.
Showing My Love Of Older Men...take II
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If anyone could, it’s you, Sweet Lara.
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I wonder if the desire for a younger lover is more about being able to show them off. Hey world. Look what I scored. There is no doubt that there is a lot of very attractive young ladies around but at 62, I feel that I am a far better sexual partner than I was at 22. Even us slower people learn a few things over the years. Now I admit, I am not as nimble as I used to be so the back seat of a car will not be high on my list. I have learned what I like and how to get there and am pretty open to rewarding a partner for a job well done
hey ...
I suppose that COULD be true...
I have never found one, (other than my wife) who made me feel like I was even kinda wanted. The were gratefull for the satisfaction but like most guys they got theirs ... get the hell out the way (ESPECIALLY my wife!!!)
I suppose that COULD be true...
I have never found one, (other than my wife) who made me feel like I was even kinda wanted. The were gratefull for the satisfaction but like most guys they got theirs ... get the hell out the way (ESPECIALLY my wife!!!)
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I've had a few younger women
Each were 12 years my junior.
Because of those those experiences, I can sense when a younger woman is attracted to me.
Being authoritative and polite keeps them interested. That and a _little_ spice in the conversation.
Once we're each comfortable and have definitely committed to sexual dialogue or acts, then I teach them what sex really is and how to embrace their sexuality. I liberate them from puritanical restraints, cultural taboos, ghosts of fumbling boyfriends...
Edit: this has been the case with married women I've been with, too. I just realized that.
Isn't it nice when you find a partner whom you sense -- or discover -- speaks your "language"? Or yearns to be taught it?
Each were 12 years my junior.
Because of those those experiences, I can sense when a younger woman is attracted to me.
Being authoritative and polite keeps them interested. That and a _little_ spice in the conversation.
Once we're each comfortable and have definitely committed to sexual dialogue or acts, then I teach them what sex really is and how to embrace their sexuality. I liberate them from puritanical restraints, cultural taboos, ghosts of fumbling boyfriends...
Edit: this has been the case with married women I've been with, too. I just realized that.
Isn't it nice when you find a partner whom you sense -- or discover -- speaks your "language"? Or yearns to be taught it?
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So your wife, especially, and the women you meet up with only want you cuz you can deliver the orgasm(s). Definitely a plus (and keep rockin' it!) but like you, my heart yearns for more, lots more.
You're right Mrs Lara, I would love to have a lady make me feel wanted but not too young though.
You're so right, give me a mature lady that's going to take charge occasionally & teach me something new!!!!!
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My two cents worth
In my sexless existence, I'd be happy to have a woman of any age take more than a passing interest in me ... OK so it was my fault I'm in this situation but as my wife has categorically refused to have any more sexual contact, is it my fault I'm looking elsewhere (again)?
In my sexless existence, I'd be happy to have a woman of any age take more than a passing interest in me ... OK so it was my fault I'm in this situation but as my wife has categorically refused to have any more sexual contact, is it my fault I'm looking elsewhere (again)?
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In my sexless existence, I'd be happy to have a woman of any age take more than a passing interest in me ... OK so it was my fault I'm in this situation but as my wife has categorically refused to have any more sexual contact, is it my fault I'm looking elsewhere (again)?
Why is it your fault? Did you do something to make your wife stop relations? If not, don't beat yourself up for staying in your marriage. I hope all the other aspects of your marriage are fulfilling for you.
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I hope I can still get this type of action when I'm an old geezer.
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Agree...but would love this attention in my mid 40s now!
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Well ...
... I'm not sure but I think having a fling with a woman from down the street might have had something to do with it!
Am I bad for thinking any sex ban at home would make me stray again just to get my rocks off?
Why is it your fault? Did you do something to make your wife stop relations? If not, don't beat yourself up for staying in your marriage. I hope all the other aspects of your marriage are fulfilling for you.
... I'm not sure but I think having a fling with a woman from down the street might have had something to do with it!
Am I bad for thinking any sex ban at home would make me stray again just to get my rocks off?
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Home help ...
During this current virus thing, I'm sure many home carers would be going the extra mile (or 6-8 inches) to make sure the old guys living on their own are well looked after!
During this current virus thing, I'm sure many home carers would be going the extra mile (or 6-8 inches) to make sure the old guys living on their own are well looked after!
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I'm an old man now, and as such, I like to ramble on...
Young man, you will hear an old man bragging, but in truth, I am trying to share with you -- as honestly as I can muster -- what took me a lifetime to learn; and you would be wise beyond your years to listen.
I turn 55 in a few days, and as I look back on my life, I realized:
~ my childhood pretty much sucked;
~ my teens weren't much better but at least I was tough enough to withstand the physical abuse;
~ my 20's were difficult but I willingly paid the price for freedom;
~ In my 30's, I started to see the rewards of perseverance and sacrifice;
~ In my 40's I learned the value of wisdom and why it is such a big deal;
~ In my 50's I am living the best decade of my life (so far).
Oh, yes, you were talking about sex, weren't you?
I always received compliments when it came to sex. Even in my teens, I credited it all to research (reading) and caring enough to talk with my women, and knowing the importance of understanding what they wanted EXACTLY. It didn't take too long for me to see patterns emerge, to learn how some women liked certain things and perhaps other women might also.
As I aged, I learned the value of patience, of taking things slow -- that my survival instinct for aggressiveness can rest during these intimate times, and give way to a comforting quiet in my mind and spirit.
Don't get me wrong. My ex-wife called me The JackHammer for good reason. My absolute favorite thing to this day is to slamfuck my woman while I hold her down and look into her eyes to see her love the pain layered into the multiple orgasms crashing down all over and around her.
But now I am certain where to touch, and more importantly how: How my hands, mouth and cock aren't the only tools I have at my disposal when pleasing a woman. And much like a journeyman carpenter or master chef, I learned to use all of my tools to get the most benefit out of them.
There is a difference now in the way I hunt, the way I find the woman I want, and the way we come together. In my youth I threw everything I had in some flailing, desperate mad dash just to get laid. Now that I am older and cannot run so fast, I know that I don't have to run at all. I can sit and wait, knowing that the right woman will find me attractive just as I am, and I have the confidence to know that her attraction is justified (and perhaps, even smart). And most importantly, it will be she who will come to me most of the time.
Yes, yes, hush child. Yes, sometimes I give chase. I am still the hunter, and every so often I circle around when I find that special someone I want. Those times are not as often however, because I don't chase after every woman who comes around. I save that kind of energy for the special ones; the ones that glow and sparkle with something natural and unique. Now that I am old, I only run for those who are worth it.
So many of us say age is just a number as we get older. I believe that number usually represents something vital and important, particularly as it correlates to wisdom.
Sometimes it doesn't; I've seen more than my share of people who got old but stayed dumb. One way to tell is to look at their state in life: are they broke, sad and trapped in a miserable "situation" of their own making? Are they victims of their own short-sightedness or lack of ambition? Or did sheer laziness and procrastination steal away their lives? Funny how those are the ones who aren't worth getting dirty enough to fuck anyway.
Bah, it's getting late, young man. Time for you to call your college girlfriend and wish her a good night. But if she ever leaves you or breaks your heart, or if she proves she's just not the right one for you right now, well...
Try a woman who knows her way around where it counts. She'll do more than simply entertain you; if you play your cards right, you'll learn a few valuable lessons while she blows you away -- perhaps even literally. That kind of worldly wisdom and experience in a woman... I reckon that starts around her mid-40's.
Young man, you will hear an old man bragging, but in truth, I am trying to share with you -- as honestly as I can muster -- what took me a lifetime to learn; and you would be wise beyond your years to listen.
I turn 55 in a few days, and as I look back on my life, I realized:
~ my childhood pretty much sucked;
~ my teens weren't much better but at least I was tough enough to withstand the physical abuse;
~ my 20's were difficult but I willingly paid the price for freedom;
~ In my 30's, I started to see the rewards of perseverance and sacrifice;
~ In my 40's I learned the value of wisdom and why it is such a big deal;
~ In my 50's I am living the best decade of my life (so far).
Oh, yes, you were talking about sex, weren't you?
I always received compliments when it came to sex. Even in my teens, I credited it all to research (reading) and caring enough to talk with my women, and knowing the importance of understanding what they wanted EXACTLY. It didn't take too long for me to see patterns emerge, to learn how some women liked certain things and perhaps other women might also.
As I aged, I learned the value of patience, of taking things slow -- that my survival instinct for aggressiveness can rest during these intimate times, and give way to a comforting quiet in my mind and spirit.
Don't get me wrong. My ex-wife called me The JackHammer for good reason. My absolute favorite thing to this day is to slamfuck my woman while I hold her down and look into her eyes to see her love the pain layered into the multiple orgasms crashing down all over and around her.
But now I am certain where to touch, and more importantly how: How my hands, mouth and cock aren't the only tools I have at my disposal when pleasing a woman. And much like a journeyman carpenter or master chef, I learned to use all of my tools to get the most benefit out of them.
There is a difference now in the way I hunt, the way I find the woman I want, and the way we come together. In my youth I threw everything I had in some flailing, desperate mad dash just to get laid. Now that I am older and cannot run so fast, I know that I don't have to run at all. I can sit and wait, knowing that the right woman will find me attractive just as I am, and I have the confidence to know that her attraction is justified (and perhaps, even smart). And most importantly, it will be she who will come to me most of the time.
Yes, yes, hush child. Yes, sometimes I give chase. I am still the hunter, and every so often I circle around when I find that special someone I want. Those times are not as often however, because I don't chase after every woman who comes around. I save that kind of energy for the special ones; the ones that glow and sparkle with something natural and unique. Now that I am old, I only run for those who are worth it.
So many of us say age is just a number as we get older. I believe that number usually represents something vital and important, particularly as it correlates to wisdom.
Sometimes it doesn't; I've seen more than my share of people who got old but stayed dumb. One way to tell is to look at their state in life: are they broke, sad and trapped in a miserable "situation" of their own making? Are they victims of their own short-sightedness or lack of ambition? Or did sheer laziness and procrastination steal away their lives? Funny how those are the ones who aren't worth getting dirty enough to fuck anyway.
Bah, it's getting late, young man. Time for you to call your college girlfriend and wish her a good night. But if she ever leaves you or breaks your heart, or if she proves she's just not the right one for you right now, well...
Try a woman who knows her way around where it counts. She'll do more than simply entertain you; if you play your cards right, you'll learn a few valuable lessons while she blows you away -- perhaps even literally. That kind of worldly wisdom and experience in a woman... I reckon that starts around her mid-40's.
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Ramble some more, please. It would be a pleasure to be in your scope.
Yes that would nice. I guess for right now i enjoy their smiles at the grocery stores and little chats.
Well said... i not a writer , I'm a talker and use my hands . Was called Michael Angelo in the bedroom by a lover. Like you said. I use all my tools in the tool box and improvise if a tool is not available. Yes its great to learn more about yourself and life as you grow up. Love to look back at my life, but cant live in the past i always push for the furture. It's a shame my wife is in menopause and has other issues. Trying to learn where to put my sexual energy. Work, hike etc. But no replacement for the touch of a woman, deep kiss, the thank you for fixing things. It's sad that im looking for that somewhere else. Trying learn again in another stage of my marriage how to deal with things.
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^^^^^
Einstein was a brilliant man
Einstein was a brilliant man
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^^^^^
Einstein was a brilliant man
Einstein had many lovers
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That explains the bedhead hair!
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LOL. Some intelligent younger women really like the type
I am told I look a lot like him -- not kidding
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62 - fit, tall, blue eyes, feeling, considerate, i open doors for ladies and believe the are th efairer sex, love chatting very open minded.
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