Sexless Marriages

[Lost_Yonder]

There are some excellent brothels in Nevada.

I am sure there are excellent escorts all over the country. How does this help anybody with feeling wanted? With feeling that you bring great joy to your partner?

From personal experience I can attest that it actually makes the situation worse as you feel more empty and used. Yes, there is a temporary "relief" which has its definite advantages, but they are meaningless encounters with women after their own interests, which are quite different than your own...

 

[DDBustyBrit]

I am sure there are excellent escorts all over the country. How does this help anybody with feeling wanted? With feeling that you bring great joy to your partner?

You know I only realized who you are actually are last night, after you posted on my pics thread

Now it makes sense that I always liked AL

And agree with you on this above, I don’t think it’s what anyone of us really need and miss deep down...

But I might be wrong too

 

[BooksNBrawn]

You know I only realized who you are actually are last night, after you posted on my pics thread

Now it makes sense that I always liked AL

And agree with you on this above, I don’t think it’s what anyone of us really need and miss deep down...

But I might be wrong too

You're not wrong, I think most of us want a connection that's more than physical.

 

[ccs29745]

You're not wrong, I think most of us want a connection that's more than physical.

Most people seems to think it has to be physical, but it doesn't. Physicalness , like you said, doesn't have to be part of relationship.

Have had it ruin a couple friendships cause I wouldn't cheat.

Books, where you been hiding. Not seen you in a while, welcome back.

 

[AnnieLit]

You know I only realized who you are actually are last night, after you posted on my pics thread

Now it makes sense that I always liked AL.

Oh, my! Should I be worried? Is my home address going to be posted next?

 

[mr_rippley]

My wife is my best friend, but she's not been interested in sex in about 15 years. She says it's not about me, and I choose to believe that. It's her decision, and naturally it takes two. I don't think I'll ever accept it fully, in spite of my best intentions, since I'm in a position to continually decide to either a) cheat, which is unacceptable or b) never experience physical intimacy for the rest of my life, which is depressing but acceptable. I choose the latter. I'd rather feel like an idiot than not be able to sleep at night.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Hey sexless family, shameless plug for my new Am Pics thread Illustrated Erotica!

I am doing illustrated erotic stories - so my pics with erotic writing... I could do with some support and comments if you get time...

Plus I think I can guarantee you some stimulation!

Thank you

 

[ccs29745]

Hey sexless family, shameless plug for my new Am Pics thread Illustrated Erotica!

I am doing illustrated erotic stories - so my pics with erotic writing... I could do with some support and comments if you get time...

Plus I think I can guarantee you some stimulation!

Thank you

Not bad Brits, not bad at all.

 

[Kinkydaddy888]

Sexless marriage the last few years used to be a kinky fun relationship. Looking for friends to chat etc very very kinky and open 36 year old white guy here

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Im having the exact same struggle and don't really know what to do. Life really sucks right now

Hey I’m so sorry and send you a big hug. Believe me most all of us in here totally understand where you are at and feel the same frustration and despair some days.

You have found the right group here to be able to share and just vent, we all listen and support each other, many of us think of this thread as our Lit safe place...

Happy you found us too

DDBB

 

[ccs29745]

Im having the exact same struggle and don't really know what to do. Life really sucks right now

It can, but as brits said, welcome to the group. We'r talk about the thought of sex and anything else.

 

[Polranny]

We're all in boats that have been drifting in the doldrums for a while. Just have to wait for favourable weather conditions . Ddbusty managed to get on the right tack, who's next?

 

[DDBustyBrit]

We're all in boats that have been drifting in the doldrums for a while. Just have to wait for favourable weather conditions . Ddbusty managed to get on the right tack, who's next?

Yes it’s time for someone else in here to get lucky!

 

[lovetporoleplay1]

I feel for all of you in these relationships. But let's not forget there are singles out there who are not experiencing sexual relationships either. It's scary out there.

 

[L8tnIt]

That leads to an interesting question:
Is it better to have the ability to and yet be denied, or to just not have the ability to altogether?

 

[Polranny]

That leads to an interesting question:
Is it better to have the ability to and yet be denied, or to just not have the ability to altogether?

Being denied is incredibly painful

 

[IASFPWTF]

Im having the exact same struggle and don't really know what to do. Life really sucks right now

You are in the right place

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Being denied is incredibly painful

Agreed but I’m also over it as it has been so long

 

[Polranny]

Agreed but I’m also over it as it has been so long

I am too but it still fucking hurt at the time

 

[ccs29745]

Being denied is incredibly painful

Especially when you try so hard to improve feelings.

 

[AnnieLit]

To the Tall and Long (or whatever your name on Lit is):
1. Trying to contact people from here off Lit is not cool.
You have something to say on the topic? Comment here.
You have sometbing to say that is too personal for an open board? My PMs are open.
Otherwise it looks like you are fishing for e-mails.

2. Sending anybody message that reads "I will teach you how to live" is a wrong move if you are hoping for a reply.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

To the Tall and Long (or whatever your name on Lit is):
1. Trying to contact people from here off Lit is not cool.
You have something to say on the topic? Comment here.
You have sometbing to say that is too personal for an open board? My PMs are open.
Otherwise it looks like you are fishing for e-mails.

2. Sending anybody message that reads "I will teach you how to live" is a wrong move if you are hoping for a reply.

Are you saying you don't want to know how to live??? Sages have been seeking the answer to this challenge for millennium and now you are being offered the answer to the ultimate question in a pm and you refuse it???

 

[AnnieLit]

Are you saying you don't want to know how to live??? Sages have been seeking the answer to this challenge for millennium and now you are being offered the answer to the ultimate question in a pm and you refuse it???

It was not a PM, it was a fucking feedback, the thing you use if you want to contact a writer! But in this case it was about this thread, not one of my stories.

As for the sages... sorry to disappoint, but they will have to keep seeking, I did not get anything worth passing along. Just another man, another sexless marriage, another stay or stray choice and how it worked out for him.

 

[The_gladiator]

Well, she went to stay with her parents. Guess this is actually happening.

 

[AnnieLit]

Well, she went to stay with her parents. Guess this is actually happening.

Is that a good thing or a bad one?