Sexless Marriages
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ccs29745
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Hello sexless family
I missed y’all but I’m now happy to be back after an extended vacation...
Nothing has changed at home for me, but Canada & I go from strength to strength and are into our 6th month
Time flies when you’re having fun & we do
Welcome back beautiful, we've missed you
DDBustyBrit
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Thank you guys, I missed you all but kept in touch through Polranny & TTawhere
Lost_Yonder
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Welcome back to our sexless world!
so glad to hear things are going well for you and Canada - inspiration for the rest of us living in the sex desert!
DDBustyBrit
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Welcome back to our sexless world!
I’m hoping you all eventually get out of the desert too and thank you, good to see you too
philos
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I’m hoping the reason this thread has been so quiet is that there has been a libidinous sea change. All those denying spouses have suddenly become filled with desire. All of you are tired, sore, and breathless from the hours of passionate lovemaking. Some of you can’t even find garments to wear because your SO rips them off as soon as you slip them on. At least I hope that is the reason.
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ccs29745
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Nothing changed here. Wife not letting me touch her, bought everyone lunch and dinner on my birthday last week. No card or anything. Just another day of my life.
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Despite the romance of a Portuguese island in the middle of the Atlantic, absolutely nothing apart from a steadying hand on a walk and a cold night peck on the cheek
Lost_Yonder
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nothing new in my world either...
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Let me explain ...
About 12 years ago, I had a fling with a local woman whose apparent reputation is/was less than acceptable for a woman of a certain age shall we say - she's divorced and lives on her own so my thoughts are she can do what / who she wants in her life (which included me for a couple of months although I suppose it was a little seedy) - and my wife and some of her friends didn't approve. Obviously when my wife found out, she was very angry and decided that if I stayed, there would be no more sexual contact between us because I'd been with "that whore".
So now there is no sexual contact between us at all - and God forbid I should "accidentally" touch her anywhere that might remind her that she could still have feelings!
The result - too many years of frustrated masturbation and internet porn browsing with the desire to take any woman who might show an interest to the nearest hotel and fuck her brains out (well, maybe after drinks and dinner - I'm not that selfish
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So yes, she implemented the sex ban - but it was my fault (although the barren period prior to my fling might have had something to do with it)
Wait, What. She's not putting out then puts a ban on sex? This doesn't compute
About 12 years ago, I had a fling with a local woman whose apparent reputation is/was less than acceptable for a woman of a certain age shall we say - she's divorced and lives on her own so my thoughts are she can do what / who she wants in her life (which included me for a couple of months although I suppose it was a little seedy) - and my wife and some of her friends didn't approve. Obviously when my wife found out, she was very angry and decided that if I stayed, there would be no more sexual contact between us because I'd been with "that whore".
So now there is no sexual contact between us at all - and God forbid I should "accidentally" touch her anywhere that might remind her that she could still have feelings!
The result - too many years of frustrated masturbation and internet porn browsing with the desire to take any woman who might show an interest to the nearest hotel and fuck her brains out (well, maybe after drinks and dinner - I'm not that selfish
) So yes, she implemented the sex ban - but it was my fault (although the barren period prior to my fling might have had something to do with it)
KeenVoyeur
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Been there ...
Well, to that Portuguese island and the peck on the cheek … in fact we've been on several holidays and weekend breaks that I hoped might make her think again, but all to no avail
Not planning a holiday this year (yet) - think it might be lots of decorating and DIY (which will probably include lots of self amusement...)
Well, to that Portuguese island and the peck on the cheek … in fact we've been on several holidays and weekend breaks that I hoped might make her think again, but all to no avail
Not planning a holiday this year (yet) - think it might be lots of decorating and DIY (which will probably include lots of self amusement...)
DDBustyBrit
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Happy Monday guys
Polranny so sorry for the lack of anything on your holidays, I’ve had many like that myself and even in Venice one of the romance capitals!
Keenvoyeur - there are many of us here right where you’re at and we sympathize!
Polranny so sorry for the lack of anything on your holidays, I’ve had many like that myself and even in Venice one of the romance capitals!
Keenvoyeur - there are many of us here right where you’re at and we sympathize!
IASFPWTF
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Lmao!! I still want a beer though....
ccs29745
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Same here, and it's only Monday
IASFPWTF
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Yes, and hoping it gets better as the week goes on...
Polranny
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OMG! I just saw a herd of fecking pigs flying across the firmament.
DDBustyBrit
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You are cracking me up tonight, feisty comes to mind...
Polranny
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It would be unkind to send a pic of my current situation. However, its nearly 2.00am at Gatwick airport and she is asleep in a Costa coffee stall, I have to stay awake in case the flying pigs land before the 5,30 milk train departs. Ciara Storm has a lot to answer for. [Lol, Ciara Storm, great name for a porn star] !
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rosie_dreams
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Wonders Why
Sex life is ok, Eh, not like it was at first. I guess that is the investment in a marriage. Thank God my brain is much better than a " Stable Genius". My brain is alive with sensual, sexual dreams an fantasies. Squeezing the rubber balls I have at work I squeeze while am at work provides my hands, fingers strength. No corporal tunnel on my wrists an hands. We are humans and I believe that both can be at fault for Sexless Marriages.
Sex life is ok, Eh, not like it was at first. I guess that is the investment in a marriage. Thank God my brain is much better than a " Stable Genius". My brain is alive with sensual, sexual dreams an fantasies. Squeezing the rubber balls I have at work I squeeze while am at work provides my hands, fingers strength. No corporal tunnel on my wrists an hands. We are humans and I believe that both can be at fault for Sexless Marriages.
Sexless relationships
58 Blk male.i was married for 19yrs and the last 5 of those years were sexless for many different reason.i think for he most part there is never 1 single reason.sometimes 1 partner evolves while the other stays living in the past.,attraction,health,family,boredom of routine,and sometimes just bad sex with a higher expectation then can be met.what ever.the reason.i came to the conclusion that monogamy for me is a lifestyle that's far to difficult to sustain without a great deal of forced sacrifice..My partner now of 12 yrs both share a amazing open relationship built on honesty and respect that.s not weighted down with jealousy and insecurities. I've grown to love to share her and even encourage this action.for me it would be more painful for me to watch her to suffer with unfulfilled desires then worry about a bruised ego because i may not be able to please her .we have 1 life and when it's over that's it.I feel badly for every who suffers through this growing epidemic.i suggest take control of your situation and take action and do something about it. it's 2020 not 1962.just my 2 cents
58 Blk male.i was married for 19yrs and the last 5 of those years were sexless for many different reason.i think for he most part there is never 1 single reason.sometimes 1 partner evolves while the other stays living in the past.,attraction,health,family,boredom of routine,and sometimes just bad sex with a higher expectation then can be met.what ever.the reason.i came to the conclusion that monogamy for me is a lifestyle that's far to difficult to sustain without a great deal of forced sacrifice..My partner now of 12 yrs both share a amazing open relationship built on honesty and respect that.s not weighted down with jealousy and insecurities. I've grown to love to share her and even encourage this action.for me it would be more painful for me to watch her to suffer with unfulfilled desires then worry about a bruised ego because i may not be able to please her .we have 1 life and when it's over that's it.I feel badly for every who suffers through this growing epidemic.i suggest take control of your situation and take action and do something about it. it's 2020 not 1962.just my 2 cents
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I'm going to put my hand up here.
I'm currently in a sexless marriage but it isn't any fault of mine or the hubby's.
He has some pretty serious health issues so we have both mutually agreed it's not worth the add stress of worrying over.
It's life.. I still have him for now and that's the important thing.
I'm currently in a sexless marriage but it isn't any fault of mine or the hubby's.
He has some pretty serious health issues so we have both mutually agreed it's not worth the add stress of worrying over.
It's life.. I still have him for now and that's the important thing.
Stacysmith287
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Hi
I feel for both parties in sexless marriage. I chat quite a lot on kik to both men and women in this situation. The lonelyness is the thing that hits home to me. I try and add a little excitement to there lonely life.
I feel for both parties in sexless marriage. I chat quite a lot on kik to both men and women in this situation. The lonelyness is the thing that hits home to me. I try and add a little excitement to there lonely life.
