Sexless Marriages

Is there any way to ban a person from a thread? :rolleyes:
(No, I do NOT need an answer, that was a rhetorical question.)
 
Is there any way to ban a person from a thread? :rolleyes:
(No, I do NOT need an answer, that was a rhetorical question.)

the juvenile idiot needs to be banned from all threads. what a complete and total douchebag - and I have him on ignore and still find his idiocy a complete hijacking of what is otherwise a generally convivial place to explore, enjoy, and escape to now and then... :(
 
the juvenile idiot needs to be banned from all threads. what a complete and total douchebag - and I have him on ignore and still find his idiocy a complete hijacking of what is otherwise a generally convivial place to explore, enjoy, and escape to now and then... :(

I agree, wholeheartedly.
 
Been there

I was in a sexless marriage for seven years. For me, it was psychologically devastating. It caused me to lose a great deal of my self-respect and sense of self worth.
Sex in a marriage is a lot more than just having an orgasm. I believe it to be absolutely vital for a relationship to remain healthy.

Marital infidelity, if you are caught, will only make the problem worse. In my opinion, marriage counseling Should be your first avenue.

When I was in the Navy, I saw a great deal of marital infidelity. It always ended far worse than anyone could expect.

I wish you the best.
 
Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.

I'm sorry but I just can't understand this. I mean if you are married and in love why could you not trust your spouse enough to talk about Mayne spicing unit up?
 
I'm sorry but I just can't understand this. I mean if you are married and in love why could you not trust your spouse enough to talk about Mayne spicing unit up?

You can’t spice something up if there is no food.

And yes, Annie has the idea and is very smart.
 
Regardless of the thread ...

Click on user, add to ignore list.

… it's one of the best things you can do!

Unfortunately you can still see that the particular person has posted / replied / made another inane comment - but you don't have to read them unless the comment appears in someone else's reply.

This particular person does seem to have an opinion on everyone else's thoughts on every thread I've subscribed to so it does get monotonous :mad:
 
I'm sorry but I just can't understand this. I mean if you are married and in love why could you not trust your spouse enough to talk about Mayne spicing unit up?

Did you read the whole question? I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't. You can spice things up when there is a desire for change on both sides. But, unfortunately, when for whatever reason hormones change and a woman does not want to have sex anymore, she does not want to have any kind of sex, spicy or not. (This probably applies the same way to men too.)

I've been there, for a few years my husband could have been writing on this thread. I felt very guilty about it, but could not do a thing. I made myself to have sex once a month or two, and can't say that I completely hated it while at it, but every evening the mere thought of doing it brought dread and I would find any excuse to stay up late. And then slowly things changed. It was not something that he did, most likely was not something that I did either, but I found some sex related things that interested me, that I wanted to explore and we went from there. My guess is that there was some sort of hormonal imbalance that resolved itself on it's own. If I knew then what I know now, I probably would have dragged myself to a doctor and checked what was going on. But at that time I thought that it was it, early menopause in the late 30s, what is there to do about it, right? Given my medical history it could very easily be the case, but it was not.
 
I'm wondering - are you in a sexless marriage yourself? If not, and based on your posting history I assume you aren't, why are you posting such utterly unengaged, unreflective nonsense???

Based on experience in other threads, this is all he is capable of.
 
Sorry I got nothing. Getting nothing as well. Lol. I am hoping it gets cold here soon or ther mosquitos this year are going to be hell to deal with.

Well then you’ll have someone who will suck you.
 
Hello

Hello all! I just found this thread, and I read through a lot of it. Glad to know their are others out there in the same situation. I’m a 37 mwm. My marriage has been sexless for the last 2 years. Not totally her fault, due to some medical issues and surgeries so I don’t blame her. But I’m too the point, my hand is getting so old and I just need some human interaction and fun! I can’t take it anymore.
 
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