Watching wife get fucked

Our rule is that my husband is the last person I sleep with before falling asleep at night. :)

That's a good rule to follow. That's our ideal within the lifestyle too. I see it as we're enjoying her sex with other men together. The guys are just real life sex toys shall we say.
 
My husband is trying to convince me to do something like this but I'm not sure. I don't yet understand why some men desire this.

Mine suggested it as compensation for his ED. He wanted me to still experience full sex. We'd fooled around some in our early years but he was participating then. I wasn't sure how he'd handle it just being a minor player or as a watcher.
 
that is a great question I've been pondering a lot lately.

Until recently I didn't understand why any guy would want to watch his wife take another mans cock.

Even in an open relationship, I didn't mind hearing about my partner's exploits, I wasn't jealous but it didn't turn me on either and had no interest in seeing her with another guy.

With my wife discovering my BBC fetish, and I discovered her many experiences with BBC lovers and because of my fetish, I enjoyed hearing about their cocks but the thought of her fucking them in front of me had zero appeal.

Then she told me about a FWB with a porn size BBC she used to enjoy getting fucked by for hours, somehow it changed things.

It was hot as fuck to hear but at first I also felt a bit inadequate and insecure. Once I considered how she enjoyed the experience from a purely sexual place, there was no reason for me to be threatened by it from a standpoint of them having a romantic long-term love together.

With the negative emotions shifted through enjoying the thought of the woman I love most getting pleasure from the object of my fetish combined to make a very exciting fantasy

As I thought of her encounters with him, the thought of me watching it and sharing in her pleasure became more and more exciting.

I also have lived out my BBC fetish enough that its enjoyment in reality began to rarely match my fantasy excitement. Fantasizing about watching my wife enjoying BBC was a way to go further down the fetish rabbit hole.

I told her about my recent fantasy , and she expressed that scenario was not a turn on for her.

I'm actually glad as it makes it feel a bit safer to fantasize about as I know there is little chance of it complicating our relationship. That is way more important to me than any sexual fantasies I may enjoy.

I can see her being open to role play the fantasy at some point, but in no way do I want to push something she isn't interested in.

I think she would lose respect for me, as I know how highly she values monogamy at this point in our marriage.

I think she may be really scared of your reactions to her interactions with a BBC. I know there are times I tone it down some for the sake of hubby's feelings. We have a regular FWB now that I'm really opening up to. But I'm still not as vocal or open with hubby there as I would be with my lover alone.
 
I think she may be really scared of your reactions to her interactions with a BBC. I know there are times I tone it down some for the sake of hubby's feelings. We have a regular FWB now that I'm really opening up to. But I'm still not as vocal or open with hubby there as I would be with my lover alone.

Glad to hear that you have a regular fwb, makes things so much easier.
Wish I could find one close to me. :(
 
Glad to hear that you have a regular fwb, makes things so much easier.
Wish I could find one close to me. :(

It is nice. Just wish he contacted more. May be looking for a replacement if it doesn't pick up! :) We've got a bunch to choose from. I thought we'd killed all our ads but one escaped us and has been getting some hits recently. Just waiting to see the outcome of hubby's medical turmoils.
 
Our first was with an ex-boyfriend of mine. Talk about kind of uncomfortable. LOL

As i have stated in previous posts on Lit the first time i watched my wife was with her ex-husband. He was an old high school buddy of mine. We both agreed on him being the guy because we knew we could trust him to keep it to himself. It worked quite well for us for about 3 years. Then we all moved on to others.
 
As i have stated in previous posts on Lit the first time i watched my wife was with her ex-husband. He was an old high school buddy of mine. We both agreed on him being the guy because we knew we could trust him to keep it to himself. It worked quite well for us for about 3 years. Then we all moved on to others.

That's awesome that y'all found someone that worked out for you :)
I think the fwb pool is very very slim where I live :(
 
It is nice. Just wish he contacted more. May be looking for a replacement if it doesn't pick up! :) We've got a bunch to choose from. I thought we'd killed all our ads but one escaped us and has been getting some hits recently. Just waiting to see the outcome of hubby's medical turmoils.

It is nice that you have oppositions, with your Beauty and personality I'd guess they're beating down your door for some play time :rose::rose::rose:
 
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