Watching wife get fucked

This is a massive fantasy of mine. Love the thought of looking into her eyes as a big strange cock pushes into her.

I've recently added this to my repertoire of masturbation fodder. I think its the fantasy that excites me the most lately.

For me it's a past FWB she had on and off for years. Imagining his big and VERY THICK black cock entering her pussy after I've just fucked her for a bit to help loosen her up and made sure she is wet and ready.

She has no interest in this, which is totally fine with me. Some things are best kept in Fantasyland, which is where I think this one will continue to reside.
 
My husband is trying to convince me to do something like this but I'm not sure. I don't yet understand why some men desire this.

The question is - Do you want to? If so, then start slow... go for drinks 3 of you. See his reaction. Is it just his fantasy? Or he wants to watch you enjoy.

For me it's like buying a long awaited expensive gift for her and watching her excitement receiving that gift PLUS giving her the freedom of knowing that she is powerful to achieve her desires AND watching her feel good... because all I want to do for her is make her feel good. Plus it's sooo dirty and taboo.

Now that being said, I don't want to sound like an insecure husband. Actually, it's the other way around. It's the trust we have for each other and are not afraid to display. We both know that we can fuck with others IF we want to and we've done it, but... it turns me on more to think (and see) her with other man than me fucking other women and she prefers watching me with other women over fucking with other men.

That's just us. Others have other reasons.
 
My husband is trying to convince me to do something like this but I'm not sure. I don't yet understand why some men desire this.

that is a great question I've been pondering a lot lately.

Until recently I didn't understand why any guy would want to watch his wife take another mans cock.

Even in an open relationship, I didn't mind hearing about my partner's exploits, I wasn't jealous but it didn't turn me on either and had no interest in seeing her with another guy.

With my wife discovering my BBC fetish, and I discovered her many experiences with BBC lovers and because of my fetish, I enjoyed hearing about their cocks but the thought of her fucking them in front of me had zero appeal.

Then she told me about a FWB with a porn size BBC she used to enjoy getting fucked by for hours, somehow it changed things.

It was hot as fuck to hear but at first I also felt a bit inadequate and insecure. Once I considered how she enjoyed the experience from a purely sexual place, there was no reason for me to be threatened by it from a standpoint of them having a romantic long-term love together.

With the negative emotions shifted through enjoying the thought of the woman I love most getting pleasure from the object of my fetish combined to make a very exciting fantasy

As I thought of her encounters with him, the thought of me watching it and sharing in her pleasure became more and more exciting.

I also have lived out my BBC fetish enough that its enjoyment in reality began to rarely match my fantasy excitement. Fantasizing about watching my wife enjoying BBC was a way to go further down the fetish rabbit hole.

I told her about my recent fantasy , and she expressed that scenario was not a turn on for her.

I'm actually glad as it makes it feel a bit safer to fantasize about as I know there is little chance of it complicating our relationship. That is way more important to me than any sexual fantasies I may enjoy.

I can see her being open to role play the fantasy at some point, but in no way do I want to push something she isn't interested in.

I think she would lose respect for me, as I know how highly she values monogamy at this point in our marriage.
 
My husband is trying to convince me to do something like this but I'm not sure. I don't yet understand why some men desire this.

Speaking as a guy, I don't get it either. I would never share my girl, ever. I'm just not built like that. But if another guy wants to share his I'm more than willing to oblige.

That being said be careful if you do this. I've seen it absolutely destroy marriages.
 
My husband is trying to convince me to do something like this but I'm not sure. I don't yet understand why some men desire this.

I think it depends on the husband. Some get turned on by their wives being more sexually liberated. Some are turned on by a cuckold scenario, either with or without humiliation. Some are undoubtedly hoping to get their own side partner out of the deal.
 
I have seen both my first and second wife being fucked by other guys. But what I think turns me on the most is the little collection of videos that she made with various guys in her college ad grad school years.

They are quite varied (and I haven't actual seen them all yet): Clothed, naked, one guy, two guys and so on. I think my favorite is the one with Cindy wearing a a simple blue dress that hugs her petite body. Her lover in this case was a young preppy looking guy with what turns out to be nice cock -- maybe 7" or so.

They kiss a lot at the beginning and eventually he helps Cindy slip off her dress to real a little black bra and panty set underneath. The panties soon comes off and the boy is soon licking my future wife's pussy as well as fingering her intensively. He follows by taking of his pants and underwear to reveal his swollen member and them expertly rubs it up and down Cindy's pussy for what seems like several minutes. When he finally pushes his cock inside Cindy she looks so relieved. But she is soon moaning and thrusting back as he enjoys her little body.

They seem quite expert and perfect together and they may have actually cum together. But eventually they fall back exhausted on the bed. The final shot is of my future wife's pussy with slimy cum dripping out
 
Pleasure

Everyone is different and has different reasons.
For me it started as pride. Proud of her body, proud of her personality and especially proud of her sexual skills.
This was before the first time.
It turned into wife pleasuring. I know the expression used here is wife sharing; I am not fond of it.
Sex is pleasurable. Sex in a small group should be more pleasurable. And that is what I wanted for my wife, more pleasure.
Yes, it was pleasurable for myself and our friends but to me that was secondary. Giving her pleasure gave me pleasure.
I didn’t just sit back and watch, I participated equally as the did the other male(s).

Then there was the awakening of some long hidden desires which was a bonus.
 
Well said

Everyone is different and has different reasons.
For me it started as pride. Proud of her body, proud of her personality and especially proud of her sexual skills.
This was before the first time.
It turned into wife pleasuring. I know the expression used here is wife sharing; I am not fond of it.
Sex is pleasurable. Sex in a small group should be more pleasurable. And that is what I wanted for my wife, more pleasure.
Yes, it was pleasurable for myself and our friends but to me that was secondary. Giving her pleasure gave me pleasure.
I didn’t just sit back and watch, I participated equally as the did the other male(s).

Then there was the awakening of some long hidden desires which was a bonus.

Well said. My wife and I have a small group that we get together and play with. We both enjoy seeing each other get intense pleasure. I love to see her eyes when one of our friends enters her! And also her expression when they cum. Sex should be a fun experience to be shared.
 
This has been a huge fantasy of mine for a very long time. My thoughts are a bit different than most here.
I want to be the one fucking her while we are watched.
 
This has been a huge fantasy of mine for a very long time. My thoughts are a bit different than most here.
I want to be the one fucking her while we are watched.

We would enjoy watching you...hopefully you would give us a turn...
 
I think it depends on the husband. Some get turned on by their wives being more sexually liberated. Some are turned on by a cuckold scenario, either with or without humiliation. Some are undoubtedly hoping to get their own side partner out of the deal.

This is how My feelings could be be defined. We're both loving her sexual liberation. And I guess that makes me a cuckold which I'm fine with. But definitely without the humiliation (if you want my wife, you better respect me).

And I know I'm not going to be getting a side partner out of the deal.
 
I never understood my husband's fantasy, but my motto is, "It's his game, I just enjoy playing it." :)
 
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