What Are You Thinking? Continued 4

[LikeableMe]

I used to feel exactly the same way. I felt like a pit stop. I cant' tell you when that ended, but it did. I now have some amazing people in my life. You'll get there. You will. And I've messaged you before, and I'll say this again, if you ever need an ear, I'm around. Like, all the time.

I really hope so. I’m beginning to feel like time is running out on these things, but then again, if someone said that to me, I would tell them there is always time as long as they’re still breathing and don’t give up. I’m not too good at following my own words! Thank you, that means a lot. Looking around me, I often feel like the only person who feels this way!

 

[tolyk]

I really hope so. I’m beginning to feel like time is running out on these things, but then again, if someone said that to me, I would tell them there is always time as long as they’re still breathing and don’t give up. I’m not too good at following my own words! Thank you, that means a lot. Looking around me, I often feel like the only person who feels this way!

No, I'm pretty sure everyone feels like that at some point, but I did feel exactly that way. I also felt pretty bad about it when I realized my brother's friends used to hang out with me more than him when we were kids.. I did it to my brother, others did it to me.

 

[PlNKbits]

For some it's deniability. Putting it out on the forums, anyone can see it.. even someone's spouse....

I'm openly in a relationship with LostgirlTink, everyone knows it. I'm still a huge flirt, but that's all it is, flirting. I'm happily married, and also with Tink. My wife and Tink have met, hugged, talk to one another. But, not everyone is in an open/poly relationship.

That's another fear that they will lie if they are in a real life relationship. I'd rather know straight away, It saves on unnecessary hurt.

Poly/open relationships are actually not uncommon to me. We have a lot of "Imported staff" majority are married and only see wives 3 months out of a year. So they have local partners and girlfriends.

I have seen the two of you post a little together. It was a melt the bitterness moment. Brings hope back to people like me

I'm glad I've done something useful.

Very I'm enjoying the discussion

I’m not going to quote anyone directly, but the above is one of the things that won’t get out of my mind, and is preventing me sleeping. It’s so hard to know if people online are being real with you, it takes a lot of trust, and I have trust issues. My whole life I’ve been screwed over by anyone I trusted even a little. I’d make friends, become close, then introduce them to others in my life. Instead of becoming a wider group of friends, they would then go off and leave me. I’ve developed a belief that I’m the human equivalent of a pit stop - I fill a gap until someone better comes along. I keep thinking things are different, but they never are.

That I understand. I have known the same people my whole life and the 3 friends I still have a married into the family. The rest move on and I was left with the I used you to better myself feeling.

 

[tolyk]

I have seen the two of you post a little together. It was a melt the bitterness moment. Brings hope back to people like me

Thank you, that means a lot to me.

 

[PlNKbits]

Thank you, that means a lot to me.

Welcome.
It's very sweet to see.

(I should either stop my drinking or posting now lol)

 

[tolyk]

Welcome.
It's very sweet to see.

(I should either stop my drinking or posting now lol)

(why? Drunk posting can be fun... I'm all out of booze at the moment myself and all the liquor stores are closed)

 

[PlNKbits]

(why? Drunk posting can be fun... I'm all out of booze at the moment myself and all the liquor stores are closed)

Booze frees my tongue too much or fingers in this case.

I'll wake up to drunken facepalm moments

 

[numeniusa]

^^^ Weird reading this at 9am in my time zone

Later, though. Oh yes

 

[LikeableMe]

Booze frees my tongue too much or fingers in this case.

I'll wake up to drunken facepalm moments

I’ve done that a good few times on here I didn’t say anything too cringe-worthy, but definitely more than I wanted to say, but also things I needed to get off my chest! So it was a good thing in a way, and the edit function came in handy the next day

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

Thinking that the defining relationship of my life is probably with a man who”s been yelling at me while I yell at him for more than 40 years. No one else has tolerated me that long.

 

[tolyk]

Booze frees my tongue too much or fingers in this case.

I'll wake up to drunken facepalm moments

Fair enough

Well I'm heading off to get some sleep anyway (or try to at least)

Goodnight

 

[LikeableMe]

Fair enough

Well I'm heading off to get some sleep anyway (or try to at least)

Goodnight

Goodnight!

 

[Shi_One81]

I’m not going to quote anyone directly, but the above is one of the things that won’t get out of my mind, and is preventing me sleeping. It’s so hard to know if people online are being real with you, it takes a lot of trust, and I have trust issues. My whole life I’ve been screwed over by anyone I trusted even a little. I’d make friends, become close, then introduce them to others in my life. Instead of becoming a wider group of friends, they would then go off and leave me. I’ve developed a belief that I’m the human equivalent of a pit stop - I fill a gap until someone better comes along. I keep thinking things are different, but they never are.

^^^ This. What you wrote absolutely hit home. I was talking with a friend from Lit a couple nights ago about my “abandonment issues” I have those because everyone, doesn’t matter who it is, always ends up leaving me. I’m good enough for a little but not for a long time. A couple years ago I met someone from Kik for drinks and the entire time he was like, “I can’t believe I’m here with (Shi).” He was acting like I was famous or something and it weirded me out and I felt like a sexual conquest and not a person. Sometimes, I feel that way on Lit as well. I’ve had people tell me I could count on them and they were a friend, but that wasn’t the case.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I think people don't value their hearts enough. People let others in so easily. Make people work. I've said this a number of times, but I'll repeat again.

Jesus had 12 friends. One sold him out for 12 pieces of silver. JESUS CHRIST. He was betrayed and screwed over for 30 pieces of silver.

If you have more than 12 friends, you have too many. Unless youre better than Jesus.

Value your hearts. Your emotions. Your time. Invest in those who appreciate it.

 

[PattiJolene]

Tgif...

 

[emsway]

Thanks, rando.

 

[mnbreastluver]

Nobody cares if their deodorant is 24 hour or 48 hour, they are still going to apply it once a day.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

And now for that 10am meeting.

^^^^ and that up there.
“.... Your time. Invest in those who appreciate it.“
Nicely said up there Pmann.

 

[TongueLust]

I think people don't value their hearts enough. People let others in so easily. Make people work. I've said this a number of times, but I'll repeat again.

Jesus had 12 friends. One sold him out for 12 pieces of silver. JESUS CHRIST. He was betrayed and screwed over for 30 pieces of silver.

If you have more than 12 friends, you have too many. Unless youre better than Jesus.

Value your hearts. Your emotions. Your time. Invest in those who appreciate it.

^Facts! ❤

 

[Blues]

missswannie does go to some amazing places.

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

Thinking that it costs 1.7 cents to make a penny, but they keep making them. Because of collusion between politicians and the zinc lobby. Complete waste of zinc and taxpayers’ money. This kind of nonsense will be the death of us all.

 

[JerseyJade]

I'm thinking I can't wait to move. Nosey neighbors!

 

[ydahecnot]

I thought the bush had me hidden well enough

 

[TongueLust]

That I'm excited for this full moon in Pisces.
I'm going to refresh my altars, and enjoy this magical energy.
#FridayThe13th🕯

 

[Lothario1956]

Sunday she's all mine....mmm!