Litiquette VI

How close do you think Literotica reflects your real life?

  • 100%, The way I interact here is exactly how I interact in real life

    Votes: 39 20.2%
  • 0%, Are you crazy. Literotica is as far away from my real life as anything could possibly be and I l

    Votes: 24 12.4%
  • 50%, It's close to my real life, at least how I interact publicly

    Votes: 43 22.3%
  • 50% I'm far more kinky, naughty, filthy here than I am in real life.

    Votes: 87 45.1%

  • Total voters
    193
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I just thought he was incontinent? No?

You are correct. It is a well known fact that has has front drip and back drip. But we love him, nevertheless.

Since Papa C is on the beach right now handing out tickets to those enjoying themselves, I'll ask a question.

We all love Papa C and his absence is noted. Sometimes people leave here or take breaks. I've certainly been away for quite some time, myself. My question is... Do you get attached to people here? Are your connections only surface deep or do they go deeper than that? Does it make you sadness when your people leave or take a break? Or is it more just the lay of the land here?
 
You are correct. It is a well known fact that has has front drip and back drip. But we love him, nevertheless.

Since Papa C is on the beach right now handing out tickets to those enjoying themselves, I'll ask a question.

We all love Papa C and his absence is noted. Sometimes people leave here or take breaks. I've certainly been away for quite some time, myself. My question is... Do you get attached to people here? Are your connections only surface deep or do they go deeper than that? Does it make you sadness when your people leave or take a break? Or is it more just the lay of the land here?

Awwwww, look who has an avatar once again. And I just want to start by congratulating you on a bald faced attempt to get the fine citizens of the PG to tell you how much you've been missed. :rolleyes:

Of course you get attached to people here - even if it is just enjoying posts by a witty Litster from afar. I can't tell you how many times I've thought "I wondered why Litster 3278 hasn't posted in awhile?"

I try to stay surface whenever possible. Life sure is a lot easier when you are superficial. Keeps those pesky feels at bay. That helps with the whole "make you sadness" thing. ;)
 
You are correct. It is a well known fact that has has front drip and back drip. But we love him, nevertheless.

Since Papa C is on the beach right now handing out tickets to those enjoying themselves, I'll ask a question.

We all love Papa C and his absence is noted. Sometimes people leave here or take breaks. I've certainly been away for quite some time, myself. My question is... Do you get attached to people here? Are your connections only surface deep or do they go deeper than that? Does it make you sadness when your people leave or take a break? Or is it more just the lay of the land here?

There are a lot of people here that I really like and enjoy. When they leave it does suck because I like the goofy banter that we have/had. I stick mostly to the surface, but there are a handful of people I really wish I had in my life (in the flesh, so to speak). But that's why it's important to enjoy what you've got while you've got it. It does make me sadness, but that's life! :)
 
Awwwww, look who has an avatar once again. And I just want to start by congratulating you on a bald faced attempt to get the fine citizens of the PG to tell you how much you've been missed. :rolleyes:

Of course you get attached to people here - even if it is just enjoying posts by a witty Litster from afar. I can't tell you how many times I've thought "I wondered why Litster 3278 hasn't posted in awhile?"

I try to stay surface whenever possible. Life sure is a lot easier when you are superficial. Keeps those pesky feels at bay. That helps with the whole "make you sadness" thing. ;)


And still, you did absolutely nothing to tell me how much I have been missed. Daft. Worse than a man.

Unless... Am I Lister 3278?
 
Awwwww, look who has an avatar once again. And I just want to start by congratulating you on a bald faced attempt to get the fine citizens of the PG to tell you how much you've been missed. :rolleyes:

Of course you get attached to people here - even if it is just enjoying posts by a witty Litster from afar. I can't tell you how many times I've thought "I wondered why Litster 3278 hasn't posted in awhile?"

I try to stay surface whenever possible. Life sure is a lot easier when you are superficial. Keeps those pesky feels at bay. That helps with the whole "make you sadness" thing. ;)

There are a lot of people here that I really like and enjoy. When they leave it does suck because I like the goofy banter that we have/had. I stick mostly to the surface, but there are a handful of people I really wish I had in my life (in the flesh, so to speak). But that's why it's important to enjoy what you've got while you've got it. It does make me sadness, but that's life! :)

Both of the above posts pretty much cover all the feels stuff of frequenting this place.
 
Alright... So we all try to keep our feelers at bay. Like Suz said, it makes life easier here.

Do you think you can always fight those feelings? Attraction is hard to fight. Even online, chemistry is real. Feelings can be real. I mean, I have no doubt that Papa Chained has some deep love for me. But it's an unrequited love and I suspect maybe that's why he is absent now.

Do you put safegaurds in place to ensure that your feelings don't get out of whack? How good are you at keeping those walls up? Boundaries that we set for ourselves are often moving targets.
 
Feelings... feelings.... feelings...

I have walls and have grown better at strategically building those walls. But people act like having honest feelings for someone is the worst thing that can ever happen. It can and does lead to heartache sometimes and feeling conflicted and a whole host of other bad feelings but it's also so wonderful to find another person who sparks you in some way. Why would you not want that?
Now I've never been someone to go out of my way for those feelings. I think that's where you run into trouble. But sometimes it just happens and you let someone behind those walls and trust them to be careful with you. Usually, if you're discerning, it's worth the risk.
 
Feelings... feelings.... feelings...

I have walls and have grown better at strategically building those walls. But people act like having honest feelings for someone is the worst thing that can ever happen. It can and does lead to heartache sometimes and feeling conflicted and a whole host of other bad feelings but it's also so wonderful to find another person who sparks you in some way. Why would you not want that?
Now I've never been someone to go out of my way for those feelings. I think that's where you run into trouble. But sometimes it just happens and you let someone behind those walls and trust them to be careful with you. Usually, if you're discerning, it's worth the risk.

I think that feelings can be good. I have been gone from this site for quite some time. And there were people that I genuinely missed. There are some amazing people here. Some are dumber than a sack of dicks. But sometimes you can find some genuinely brilliant people here with some great minds.

I think the issue is that it is difficult to allow those relationships to grow or develop here. It's almost as if this place designed to create relationships destined for failure, due to geography or life or scandals. There is also the fear of not knowing about the other person. I mean, someone could trick you terribly here and you'd never know. Worst case scenario... You chat with a girl and she tells you she's a D cup and you find out she's not. I mean, can you imagine how badly you would feel?!

But peruse the Dear Lister thread and you see the number of passive aggressive (or aggressive aggressive) posts where people really have fucked stories. It seems like, over time, people get more jaded here. Some come here wide eyes and bushy tailed. Then they leave looking like they got ran over by a shit wagon.
 
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I think that feelings can be good. I have been gone from this site for quite some time. And there were people that I genuinely missed. There are some amazing people here. Some are dummer than a sack of dicks. But sometimes you can find some genuinely brilliant people here with some great minds.

I think the issue is that it is difficult to allow those relationships to grow or develop here. It's almost as if this place designed to create relationships destined for failure, due to geography or life or scandals. There is also the fear of not knowing about the other person. I mean, someone could trick you terribly here and you'd never know. Worst case scenario... You chat with a girl and she tells you she's a D cup and you find out she's not. I mean, can you imagine how badly you would feel?!

But peruse the Dear Lister thread and you see the number of passive aggressive (or aggressive aggressive) posts where people really have fucked stories. It seems like, over time, people get more jaded here. Some come here wide eyes and bushy tailed. Then they leave looking like they got ran over by a shit wagon.

True. I've been luckier than most and still had my share of hurt. But I've ended up with amazing friends and someone pretty special. So for me, the good always outweighs the bad.

Also, mine are certifiable Ds so..... :rolleyes:
 
Feelings... feelings.... feelings...

I have walls and have grown better at strategically building those walls. But people act like having honest feelings for someone is the worst thing that can ever happen. It can and does lead to heartache sometimes and feeling conflicted and a whole host of other bad feelings but it's also so wonderful to find another person who sparks you in some way. Why would you not want that?
Now I've never been someone to go out of my way for those feelings. I think that's where you run into trouble. But sometimes it just happens and you let someone behind those walls and trust them to be careful with you. Usually, if you're discerning, it's worth the risk.

Preach it sister 🙌🏼
 
True. I've been luckier than most and still had my share of hurt. But I've ended up with amazing friends and someone pretty special. So for me, the good always outweighs the bad.

Also, mine are certifiable Ds so..... :rolleyes:

Dammit! Fuck that spelling error! Argh. Well played Saint PLP. Well played.

Certifiable? I wonder, do they come with certificates of authenticity? Is there a titty authority? Like appraisers, but for boobs?

"What we have here is a fine D cup, excellent cut and skin clarity. I would rate these prime D Cups."

Maybe there could be an Antiques Roadshow type setting. But I feel some may be disappointed though, when they find our their tits are fake.
 
Dammit! Fuck that spelling error! Argh. Well played Saint PLP. Well played.

Certifiable? I wonder, do they come with certificates of authenticity? Is there a titty authority? Like appraisers, but for boobs?

"What we have here is a fine D cup, excellent cut and skin clarity. I would rate these prime D Cups."

Maybe there could be an Antiques Roadshow type setting. But I feel some may be disappointed though, when they find our their tits are fake.

Hahaha, where's that thread???

I'd like to volunteer as Tit Credentialer. Please? Thank you!
 
Hahaha, where's that thread???

I'd like to volunteer as Tit Credentialer. Please? Thank you!

Uh, if anyone is being a Titty Appraiser, it's me. I'll be very professional. Like, "Ma'am, if you would like them appraised, take those motherfuckers out and let's do a bounce test."

Maybe we could have a committee though. Titty by consensus.
 
You are correct. It is a well known fact that has has front drip and back drip. But we love him, nevertheless.

Since Papa C is on the beach right now handing out tickets to those enjoying themselves, I'll ask a question.

We all love Papa C and his absence is noted. Sometimes people leave here or take breaks. I've certainly been away for quite some time, myself. My question is... Do you get attached to people here? Are your connections only surface deep or do they go deeper than that? Does it make you sadness when your people leave or take a break? Or is it more just the lay of the land here?

Connections and friendships certainly happen, and that's awesome. I don't really get ATTACHED per se but it's happened before. When people disappear and go quiet without warning, especially someone you're friends with, that definitely sucks. That's happened too. But life happens and I try to be understanding. Doesn't mean that it's not going to hurt, though.
 
I think the issue is that it is difficult to allow those relationships to grow or develop here. It's almost as if this place designed to create relationships destined for failure, due to geography or life or scandals. There is also the fear of not knowing about the other person. I mean, someone could trick you terribly here and you'd never know. Worst case scenario... You chat with a girl and she tells you she's a D cup and you find out she's not. I mean, can you imagine how badly you would feel?!

This is pretty accurate (although weirdly people have been real about bra sizes ;) ). Sometimes you meet awesome people and anything more just straight up can't happen.
 
Uh, if anyone is being a Titty Appraiser, it's me. I'll be very professional. Like, "Ma'am, if you would like them appraised, take those motherfuckers out and let's do a bounce test."

Maybe we could have a committee though. Titty by consensus.

I will join your titty commitee as you need at least one person with actual titties. :rolleyes:
 
Well, well, well... look who’s bored and needs a lil fix to spice up his day. 😉
Yeah, he earned a few “missed ya” in the PG. Yay, yahoo!! Look who’s back. 🎉
And the newer folks that have never been graced with the wise words and charm of the one and only. This is gonna be great to watch! Please stick around, pleasaase!

Nice to see ya PMann.

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My connections to people here vary. I keep it real in my head, but that doesn’t mean I don’t care about or someone doesn’t cross my mind throughout the day.
Like Suz and HW, I wonder when someone disappears, what’s going on. But then other times I think some need to take a break, sort out the RL and Lit Fantasy Fuckland. It’s a shit show at times.
*Shrugs* Not my monkeys. Not my circus.

#2
Feelings, chemistry, real... it’s like jumping down the rabbit hole.

While it all naturally evolves, the key thing to keep front and center is this: at the end of the day, no matter the connection, heart felt conversations or steamy chats, they’re not yours to have. Plain and simple.
That right there is what keeps the head and the heart in check. When you have that solid and in place, like mother fucken solid, it’s easier then to enjoy the feeling that perhaps shouldn’t be there.

We only live once, there’s no one tried and true way to love and life - you either build walls or proceed with caution. But the ones that come into our lives and dance like no other, that stick around through the ups and downs of RL are almost unheard of. Only a silly fool will loose a diamond while chasing after party glitter.
 
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