Social Experiment - Ladies, Send a PM to a Random Man on Lit for a Change

[Chris_Michael]

Seeing I've never played it I have zero clue what you're going on about lol
I'm just having fun splatting kids,
Mm imagine if splatoon was real...

Well, I mean... you can play matches of Paintball with kids lol

 

[Chris_Michael]

Sooo bored today... maybe I should take a nap

I feel the same. I feel like I'm wasting time.

I wanna sleep, too.

 

[pikmin1388]

Well, I mean... you can play matches of Paintball with kids lol

Splatting people is fun especially some people
Not hinting at any one mind you
But I'd duck if I was you lol

 

[Chris_Michael]

Splatting people is fun especially some people
Not hinting at any one mind you
But I'd duck if I was you lol

I thought you didn't know me like that. LMAO

 

[Chris_Michael]

Man when I finally get done with these 14 days, I might go back to learning Japanese. I really want my weeb dreams to come true.

 

[The_gladiator]

I feel the same. I feel like I'm wasting time.

I wanna sleep, too.

I'm in some kind of stressed category somewhere between agitated anxious and pissed off. What a weird feeling.

 

[Chris_Michael]

I'm in some kind of stressed category somewhere between agitated anxious and pissed off. What a weird feeling.

Well what's causing that?

 

[pikmin1388]

I'm in some kind of stressed category somewhere between agitated anxious and pissed off. What a weird feeling.

You okay ?

 

[The_gladiator]

I dunno. Probably...

Not sure what's causing it Chris, just needy I guess and lonely and bla bla bla *insert whiny adjectives here*

 

[Chris_Michael]

I dunno. Probably...

Not sure what's causing it Chris, just needy I guess and lonely and bla bla bla *insert whiny adjectives here*

Hey man, I feel ya. I had stupidly high hopes for Gracie and that turned south real quick. I haven’t fully recovered yet. Right now, I’m one bipolar motherfucker.

Lonely and irritable seems to be the norm right now.

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

Hey man, I feel ya. I had stupidly high hopes for Gracie and that turned south real quick. I haven’t fully recovered yet. Right now, I’m one bipolar motherfucker.

Lonely and irritable seems to be the norm right now.

Alas, it'll ease off. Just gotta be aware of what each person wants on here, it can get complicated easily. I've gotten really bonded with some people, couldn't even call it close, it was beyond that. It hurts.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Alas, it'll ease off. Just gotta be aware of what each person wants on here, it can get complicated easily. I've gotten really bonded with some people, couldn't even call it close, it was beyond that. It hurts.

Yeah it feels fucking bad, man.

I guess a more positive perspective is that it was quick and ended relatively painlessly compared to it being dragged out and hurting way worse later.

I gotta get back to my zone where I feel comfortable by myself. It’s really tough to do when you’ve had a taste of what’s possible. It’s definitely a high.

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

Yeah it feels fucking bad, man.

I guess a more positive perspective is that it was quick and ended relatively painlessly compared to it being dragged out and hurting way worse later.

I gotta get back to my zone where I feel comfortable by myself. It’s really tough to do when you’ve had a taste of what’s possible. It’s definitely a high.

Every drop of it is addicting. Just start to be aware of when you feel it and steel yourself. We all crave it, Lit draws those of us who whether we admit it or not are missing "something".

 

[The_gladiator]

Every drop of it is addicting. Just start to be aware of when you feel it and steel yourself. We all crave it, Lit draws those of us who whether we admit it or not are missing "something".

I agree with this for sure...
At least in coming here I can know I'm not alone

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

I agree with this for sure...
At least in coming here I can know I'm not alone

*Fist Bumps* Nah man, never alone. I'll share a drink with any of you freaks anytime.

 

[The_gladiator]

*Fist Bumps* Nah man, never alone. I'll share a drink with any of you freaks anytime.

Even if I'm lame and drink water? Lol

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

Even if I'm lame and drink water? Lol

Hell yea that is fine, I'll drank your portion. No on will ever know.

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

Every drop of it is addicting. Just start to be aware of when you feel it and steel yourself. We all crave it, Lit draws those of us who whether we admit it or not are missing "something".

I've said this a time or two myself. Its hard to want something so badly and to be shown a slim sliver of what it might be like, only to have it taken away.

Someone once said that if you can't get laid, you get in a fight. For men that seems to be true. We drown our emotional pain in physical pain.

 

[The_gladiator]

I've said this a time or two myself. Its hard to want something so badly and to be shown a slim sliver of what it might be like, only to have it taken away.

Someone once said that if you can't get laid, you get in a fight. For men that seems to be true. We drown our emotional pain in physical pain.

Sometimes... though its verbal not physical for me.

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

I've said this a time or two myself. Its hard to want something so badly and to be shown a slim sliver of what it might be like, only to have it taken away.

Someone once said that if you can't get laid, you get in a fight. For men that seems to be true. We drown our emotional pain in physical pain.

Pain can be a release, it triggers so much for us. So many chemicals and sensations.
Emotions are harder, time is the only way to truly heal from them.

Sometimes... though its verbal not physical for me.

Verbal leaves scars worse than anything. Some people just have a pass fro our defenses.

 

[Chris_Michael]

I've said this a time or two myself. Its hard to want something so badly and to be shown a slim sliver of what it might be like, only to have it taken away.

Someone once said that if you can't get laid, you get in a fight. For men that seems to be true. We drown our emotional pain in physical pain.

Yeah but there is also pain in relationships, too.

Whether it be with a man or a woman, the effort required does not seem worth the benefit of companionship, this fake ass drug called love, and the gift of sex. We have grown up being shown these perfect, impossible romances in movies, TV, and even videogames. Churches teach of a perfect special “ONE” and your family/friends pressure you into having kids ones day.

It’s all a big load of shit. What you’re really getting a ticket to is a lot of problems, a lot of responsibilities, and a lot of debt.

Watch this load of shit to see what I mean:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EtvfHnZMcOY

That video is basically how the US treats all men. Why? Economic boom and stupid religious beliefs of divinity. But really, it’s all about money. And America is a fucking scam. And that’s both parties.

Stay single, jerk off, and fucking enjoy it. If you need to pay for sex, then hey go for it. If you get lucky, great. But if not, you may be winning the lottery and not even realizing it.

Because some men are miserable as fuck in seemingly happy marriages with kids and great jobs. Ask them about it as they pour up their 20+ year old scotch and down a few glasses. Because that’s the American way.

 

[Froya]

I've said this a time or two myself. Its hard to want something so badly and to be shown a slim sliver of what it might be like, only to have it taken away.

Someone once said that if you can't get laid, you get in a fight. For men that seems to be true. We drown our emotional pain in physical pain.

Using physical pain tends more toward men, but it's definitely not just men who do that.


Good to see you guys talking.

Emotional stuff, relationship stuff can be pretty fucking challenging. No magic words for that, and most of us are just pushing along the best we know how. Everything ends. There's no escaping that. What's left to us is deciding which risks are worth taking and how to handle whatever comes after.

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

Personally I say fuck, drink, and light fireworks. Dress up as indians and tea bag as much as possible. It's really the only way to honor America these days.

We all need someone, regardless of if we actually think we do or not. Our lives are made better(Hopefully) by those around us. If nothing else we are changed by them. Sometimes even painful change is the best option.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Using physical pain tends more toward men, but it's definitely not just men who do that.


Good to see you guys talking.

Emotional stuff, relationship stuff can be pretty fucking challenging. No magic words for that, and most of us are just pushing along the best we know how. Everything ends. There's no escaping that. What's left to us is deciding which risks are worth taking and how to handle whatever comes after.

Heeeeyy, long time, no see. Where you been?

 

[Froya]

Heeeeyy, long time, no see. Where you been?

I was doing offline things. Today, I spent some time with my cousins. We went out for Turkish food tonight. Great dinner, good times.

I'm going out into the world again tomorrow, just so you know.