Is it normal or am I completely effed up?
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Unless you're a homosexual... I'd say you are being manipulated by neo-decadent social mores. Do what you want; after you find out what YOU want. Avoid being led by social trend toward decadence, bdsm. Unless that's who you are.
Nope. Not at all homosexual. I bat straight. It's a fantasy I've harbored since high school and never acted on it. I think it's more of a bucket list thing. I love my wife and cannot get enough sex from her. And love the fantastic views offered by the female members of our race. Confident about my sexuality.
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Then don't suck cock, or take it in the ass. Unless you want to embrace decadence, and truly experience "diversity" haha. Yeah, maybe you should try a butt plug, make it a big black one, or a dildo. Ask your wife to peg you? Or, honor your marriage and your wife. Enjoy your fantasies without making them a reality. Or, just be one of those straight guys who loves sex with men. It's okay with me. Your wife might not approve.
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Welcome to my life (well, except the happy married part).
I am not gay in the sense that I am attracted to men. I am attracted to sex and the sexual act. The role reversal (traditionally, I have been the dom with all my GFs) is also a turn on.
Had my first dick sucking experience a few weeks ago, and can't wait to do more.
My fantasies range from a simple blowjob at an adult theater to getting full-on gangbanged by 4 or 5 guys.
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Oh my god, I’m a straight happily married man trapped in the body of a woman! It’s so good to know I’m not alone.
normal
what is normal ?
sounds like you are bi curious.....
off and on, throughout my life, i have dreamed that i was getting like the best bj ever.....to discover that it was actually a guy doing it......i always woke up both totally aroused and pissed
what does it mean? no idea. i have never had a waking minutes thought of wanting a guy to blow me or me to blow another guy. i have had that dream half a dozen times or so though.
everyone has thoughts and fantasies and maybe dreams too....that turn them on.....i guess some pursue whatever it is and some do not...…
i think that is normal is to admit that there are things you may find arousing that might be a little out there for you
what is normal ?
sounds like you are bi curious.....
off and on, throughout my life, i have dreamed that i was getting like the best bj ever.....to discover that it was actually a guy doing it......i always woke up both totally aroused and pissed
what does it mean? no idea. i have never had a waking minutes thought of wanting a guy to blow me or me to blow another guy. i have had that dream half a dozen times or so though.
everyone has thoughts and fantasies and maybe dreams too....that turn them on.....i guess some pursue whatever it is and some do not...…
i think that is normal is to admit that there are things you may find arousing that might be a little out there for you
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Here's what I don't get. If you are straight then you only are interested in the opposite sex. It's not abnormal for you to have the cravings you have but IMO that doesn't make you straight. It sounds to me like you are bi with some parameters. But is there a need to label? I think of sex as being on a spectrum. There is no one set way about it that's right or wrong.
Gotta be careful these daze using
words like "normsl." To say something
is "normal " is to imply that there are,
or might be things that are NOT
normal. If there is one thing we know
for sure, it's that we should never be
"judgemental."
If we say something is "normal" we
might make someone somewhere
feel bad. We all know that that is an
Immortal Sin.
So, yah, you may be f'd up, not hey!
let's not be "normal" "abnormal"
about it.
Let's all be f'd up together.
Love,
Jamie
words like "normsl." To say something
is "normal " is to imply that there are,
or might be things that are NOT
normal. If there is one thing we know
for sure, it's that we should never be
"judgemental."
If we say something is "normal" we
might make someone somewhere
feel bad. We all know that that is an
Immortal Sin.
So, yah, you may be f'd up, not hey!
let's not be "normal" "abnormal"
about it.
Let's all be f'd up together.
Love,
Jamie
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Exactly.
Just do what makes you happy. Dont trick anyone with games. Put your interests on the table and see who else is into it and go from there.
Hi new to thread,
I'm a 29m that feels the same way. I think about it alot. I enjoy cock to the point of just the cock. Past the shaft I dont care for, but put that pulsating member near me, I get hard within seconds. I dont feel like I'm "gay", I am engaged and I still want to go home and fuck the shit out of her. I just havnt found a way to tell her what I enjoy.
I'm a 29m that feels the same way. I think about it alot. I enjoy cock to the point of just the cock. Past the shaft I dont care for, but put that pulsating member near me, I get hard within seconds. I dont feel like I'm "gay", I am engaged and I still want to go home and fuck the shit out of her. I just havnt found a way to tell her what I enjoy.
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Sounds pretty normal to me. Good luck.
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you are queer dude.
When I was a soph I took Psych101. We had this on line test to see if you were gay or straight 0 was totally straight. 6 was totally gay; I got a 2 Most of the class got somewhere between 0 and 6 because Gay-Straight is a continuum. None of the guys in the class got a 0 which means they were all a little queer, which we girls knew already.
Love,
Jamie
Love,
Jamie
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That's interesting. Riddle me this? Why is it more acceptable for women to be together sexually then men? I get it. Women are far more attractive then men and I could list a million reasons why but I'd like to get other opinions too
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Just Gary without the "r". Accept it and move on.
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Chiming in.... I've often wondered this. I think it's because boys are raised in a culture where they're expected to be stronger and less emotional than women. Being with another man is perceived as feminine, which is perceived as bad (unfortunately).
With respect to the OP, I think sexuality is a lot more gray than it is black and white. Some people are completely gay or straight, but I think most of us are in between. Others of us just want to try everything once. Others fantasize about all sorts of stuff but never actually do the "freakier" stuff.
Nothing wrong with it. Doesn't matter how you label it. You like what you like.
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I feel for you man. i used to have the same issue. never once have a found another man attractive yet i would think about it. I'd tell myself i was just thinking about how i wanted a girl suck mine but i was fantasizing. One day i had the chance to really do it. A guy i met online only was totally cool about my 1st time and was ready and waiting so i figured i look up some gay porn before i did. i realized i just couldnt do it. im not gay i have no desire to see a man naked or his cock in my face but i did get into trans porn for a while. also never did anything but i felt it was a lil better. i know they are dudes too but at least they looked like female mostly and help easy my conscience. i slowly stopped the fantasy but still talk to them about experiences with 1st straight men but i know i couldnt do it.
And theres nothong wrong if you decide to do it one day. gay straight whatever you identify as we are all just people with desires doesnt make you effed up.
