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now i'm curious. who's a 'troubled' alt? and who said he was dead?

There was someone here who stalked threads and sent ugly messages. If you didn't respond or if you responded nicely, he would get aggressive. He'd been here under one name or another for a long time. Someone posted that he had passed away, uhm, maybe in December? I didn't really pay attention.
 
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There was someone here who stalked threads and sent ugly messages. If you didn't respond or if you responded nicely, he would get aggressive. He'd been here under one name or another for a long time. One of the other members posted a "Dear Litster" message about his death in December I think. I don't know the details but his death happened very shortly after he had gotten into a lot of trouble for his behaviour. I knew of him for a long time when I lurked and before I created an account. I blocked him after his first few messages to me, then other people (what I think were his alts) contacted me and were really aggressive and hostile. It was so cruel and unnecessary that stopped using my account. I simply have avoided him but I am sure others can give you more information. I only know my experience, but I gathered that my experience was not unique. I've been very careful since then.
lilli:cattail:

we're talking about troubledone, right? I remember him from when i first joined (as my sig says, I've been here once before ;))

I always wonder how people know of litster's deaths, especially since many seem to be hear 'secretly', i.e. without their SO knowing.
 
Can I whine??

After a week of being gone and getting none, hubs is home and thinks he is 18. It has been 4 times in just over 24 hrs. FOUR times. Twice last night, that was fun, once this morning which was a little surprising, once this afternoon which was very surprising. Who does that?! I am old. I am sore and I need a break but it's like not I'm gonna say no or anything. So instead I am in my living room at 1am, more than a little scared to go to my bed. :eek::eek:
 
Can I whine??

After a week of being gone and getting none, hubs is home and thinks he is 18. It has been 4 times in just over 24 hrs. FOUR times. Twice last night, that was fun, once this morning which was a little surprising, once this afternoon which was very surprising. Who does that?! I am old. I am sore and I need a break but it's like not I'm gonna say no or anything. So instead I am in my living room at 1am, more than a little scared to go to my bed. :eek::eek:

My guess is he's probably gonna sleep now...
Unless he's been prepping for this and been wanting to worship you (Aphrodite) properly...:D
 
Can I whine??

After a week of being gone and getting none, hubs is home and thinks he is 18. It has been 4 times in just over 24 hrs. FOUR times. Twice last night, that was fun, once this morning which was a little surprising, once this afternoon which was very surprising. Who does that?! I am old. I am sore and I need a break but it's like not I'm gonna say no or anything. So instead I am in my living room at 1am, more than a little scared to go to my bed. :eek::eek:

I think you are very lucky!
 
OK....hi. I apparently need to chime in here because I really need to know what's going on. Hi tink, barefootgirl, and Lilli so...I had been corresponding with the same person for two weeks. He'd been relatively nice *most days* until one day I made it clear I wasn't going to "play" and he made me feel like a worthless disposable thing. I chide myself because he shouldn't have had such an effect on my emotions. Person has been trying to get back into my good graces and I tend to be the forgiving type...also the naive type...dangerous mix I know. So... What do I need to know here. Person is 100% creep, with proof that he has been doing this to multiple people within the last 2 weeks?
..

Edit: and yes, I feel incredibly stupid for even entertaining it at all.
 
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OK....hi. I apparently need to chime in here because I really need to know what's going on. Hi tink, barefootgirl, and Lilli so...I had been corresponding with the same person for two weeks. He'd been relatively nice *most days* until one day I made it clear I wasn't going to "play" and he made me feel like a worthless disposable thing. I chide myself because he shouldn't have had such an effect on my emotions. Person has been trying to get back into my good graces and I tend to be the forgiving type...also the naive type...dangerous mix I know. So... What do I need to know here. Person is 100% creep, with proof that he has been doing this to multiple people within the last 2 weeks?
..

Edit: and yes, I feel incredibly stupid for even entertaining it at all.

First thing you need to know is it's not your fault that he's a creep. I'm PMing you.
 
Can I whine??

After a week of being gone and getting none, hubs is home and thinks he is 18. It has been 4 times in just over 24 hrs. FOUR times. Twice last night, that was fun, once this morning which was a little surprising, once this afternoon which was very surprising. Who does that?! I am old. I am sore and I need a break but it's like not I'm gonna say no or anything. So instead I am in my living room at 1am, more than a little scared to go to my bed. :eek::eek:

I think you are very lucky!

Me too! Send some of that action over my way, wouldja? :)
 
OK....hi. I apparently need to chime in here because I really need to know what's going on. Hi tink, barefootgirl, and Lilli so...I had been corresponding with the same person for two weeks. He'd been relatively nice *most days* until one day I made it clear I wasn't going to "play" and he made me feel like a worthless disposable thing. I chide myself because he shouldn't have had such an effect on my emotions. Person has been trying to get back into my good graces and I tend to be the forgiving type...also the naive type...dangerous mix I know. So... What do I need to know here. Person is 100% creep, with proof that he has been doing this to multiple people within the last 2 weeks?
..

Edit: and yes, I feel incredibly stupid for even entertaining it at all.

100% creep. You ALWAYS have the right to say NO. Even if you are wearing a collar. You are always allowed to say no, because you respect yourself. And if he is a proper gentleman (doesn't matter if he's a Dom or not) he will respect you AND your wishes.
 
Thank you. I appreciate the folks who have messaged me or replied. It's been a long day, but truth is always better than rose colored glasses. It was a good reminder after 10 years away from the unpleasantness of dealing with people online. I'll learn again. Hopefully sooner rather than later. Thank you again.
 
My guess is he's probably gonna sleep now...
Unless he's been prepping for this and been wanting to worship you (Aphrodite) properly...:D

He was asleep when I finally crawled in bed but he did wake me up stupid early on Sunday. :rolleyes:

I think you are very lucky!
I am lucky. It was nice to feel missed.

OK....hi. I apparently need to chime in here because I really need to know what's going on. Hi tink, barefootgirl, and Lilli so...I had been corresponding with the same person for two weeks. He'd been relatively nice *most days* until one day I made it clear I wasn't going to "play" and he made me feel like a worthless disposable thing. I chide myself because he shouldn't have had such an effect on my emotions. Person has been trying to get back into my good graces and I tend to be the forgiving type...also the naive type...dangerous mix I know. So... What do I need to know here. Person is 100% creep, with proof that he has been doing this to multiple people within the last 2 weeks?
..

Edit: and yes, I feel incredibly stupid for even entertaining it at all.

100% creep. You ALWAYS have the right to say NO. Even if you are wearing a collar. You are always allowed to say no, because you respect yourself. And if he is a proper gentleman (doesn't matter if he's a Dom or not) he will respect you AND your wishes.
I totally agree with him. Never ever feel bad for saying no.

pfff, too much effort and I hate balls; well, those kinds. I'll stay here in my jammies.
I agree. Give me a PJ party with cozy clothes anyday!

https://www.onesmallblonde.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/pajamas-28-1024x683.jpg
 
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