some sensible ground rules, I think, for an intimate mail exchange

[hornyhubby48]

I am writing this new "search" ad, because my previous one was hijacked by friendly Litsters. I hope this one will avoid that fate.

Main reason for writing it was to give me an opportunity to explain "my" ground rules. But of course I must describe first, WHAT if anything it could get you, if you attempt to follow the rules with me.

The mail exchange I seek with you, a very sensible woman, as I see you, is meant to create companionship for the two of us mainly. Companionship of a kind we are missing in our primary relationships, and/or which we find a welcome addition to our lives.

Why exactly we are missing meaningful companionship is immaterial. What matters only is that both of us look for more than we have right now: a companionship that includes true empathy and caring, for example. In both directions. And which will hopefully lead to some badly needed liking and attraction of one another.

And which will include erotic banter as well, and experiencing lust with each other. Because both of us feel horny inside, and we like to live out our horniness also.

And there's another item we could include in our companionship, if you like. In fact I would very much enjoy if we included it: intellectual intercourse. Are you familiar with the term "sapiosexual"? I consider myself to tick this way, and it would be nice if you did as well.

Now the ground rules I believe we must follow: when each of us decides that we like to get to know one another: we have to feel very strongly the need for responsiveness and fairness. If not, we may as well not get involved with each other at all. I mean that you ought to feel compelled to respond to "things" I mention to you and vice versa. If I convey five thought to you in an e.mail, and you respond to only one and a half of them, that will lead to disappointment n both sides.

In case my mails should bore you, or if you should not enjoy reading them, you have to tell me good bye, of course. No sense for two people communicating who do not enjoy reading each others' mails. But once a "channel" becomes established between us, we ought to desire to use it as well.

The next item, fairness is hard to adhere to for women, really, as I have experienced. Why? Because Mother Nature has designed men and women in a way that tends to provide unfair advantages for women. That's just the way it works, unfortunately, and true emancipation is a constant struggle against the designs of Mother Nature. For both sides! That's the way I feel, and I'll be glad to detail my reasoning to you, if you like to hear it.

I guess that's the essence of what I wanted to write already. Not all that much, really. But essential stuff for me. I hope it is essential for you as well.

 

[georgerb]

I need to start the popcorn machine up....

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1464983

 

[bi11ionaire]

Make Literotica Great Again!

 

[EquinoxRising]

 

[Chasingdreams]

The next item, fairness is hard to adhere to for women, really, as I have experienced. Why? Because Mother Nature has designed men and women in a way that tends to provide unfair advantages for women. That's just the way it works, unfortunately, and true emancipation is a constant struggle against the designs of Mother Nature. For both sides! That's the way I feel, and I'll be glad to detail my reasoning to you, if you like to hear it.

By far my favorite part. Totally worth the extra calories to add butter to the bowl tonight. Way to be equally condescending AND instructional at the same time. Come sit with me, I’ll share my snacks while we compare notes on how well this is going to go for you.

 

[LostGirlTink]

By far my favorite part. Totally worth the extra calories to add butter to the bowl tonight. Way to be equally condescending AND instructional at the same time. Come sit with me, I’ll share my snacks while we compare notes on how well this is going to go for you.

The misogyny is strong in this one.

 

[MsCupcake]

I'll skip the popcorn, but will take some wine..my 2 cents

How about accepting when you're politely told "no thank you" instead of accosting, and bombarding a person with message after message, hoping your obnoxious questions will change their mind?



In case my mails should bore you, or if you should not enjoy reading them, you have to tell me good bye, of course. No sense for two people communicating who do not enjoy reading each others' mails. But once a "channel" becomes established between us, we ought to desire to use it as well.

The next item, fairness is hard to adhere to for women, really, as I have experienced. Why? Because Mother Nature has designed men and women in a way that tends to provide unfair advantages for women. That's just the way it works, unfortunately, and true emancipation is a constant struggle against the designs of Mother Nature. For both sides! That's the way I feel, and I'll be glad to detail my reasoning to you, if you like to hear it.

I guess that's the essence of what I wanted to write already. Not all that much, really. But essential stuff for me. I hope it is essential for you as well.[/QUOTE]

 

[hornyhubby48]

a truly remarkable woman!

Ms Cupcake, you are truly an amazing woman, if you permit me to say so.

You joined Lit a month ago, maybe almost two, you have not written a single post (except his one), don't have a profile either, but you possess clairvoyant abilities, which allow you to guess that I tend to pester women with countless mails, after they tell me to get lost!

These are truly respectable traits of yours, I should say. I predict that you will rise to stardom here very quickly.

If I were you, I would pick a few more peoples' ads here, which do not meet your approval, and see what despicable traits you can invent about them as well. And then write another post like yours above, so everybody can see, how clever you are.

Have a good day, and happy hunting!

PS: even though I consider your post pretty crappy, I find your signature statement a real gem!

 

[MsCupcake]

Dear Hubby

Pretty obvious you spend so much time messaging people that you forget who it is you've contacted. Yes, I joined last month and promptly received a message from you, then another, and another and so on, and so on. Initially, I responded and went back and forth a bit until you began to pester in such a way that it turned me off, and I politely said, no thank you.

No clairvoyance here. I responded to your thread after seeing it while I was surfing the boards. I chose to put in my 2 cents because I felt you needed a dose of reality and judging from some of the other comments, you should rethink your approach and position on your thought process, ground rules, whatever you wish to call it.

Here's a reminder, no, even online is still no. If there's a connection with someone, you feel it, and if there's not, it's best to be honest and upfront instead of misleading, which causes hurt and anger.

I do hope that clears up why I wrote. I don't mind being hunted by the right person Happy hunting to you!

Ms Cupcake, you are truly an amazing woman, if you permit me to say so.

You joined Lit a month ago, maybe almost two, you have not written a single post (except his one), don't have a profile either, but you possess clairvoyant abilities, which allow you to guess that I tend to pester women with countless mails, after they tell me to get lost!

These are truly respectable traits of yours, I should say. I predict that you will rise to stardom here very quickly.

If I were you, I would pick a few more peoples' ads here, which do not meet your approval, and see what despicable traits you can invent about them as well. And then write another post like yours above, so everybody can see, how clever you are.

Have a good day, and happy hunting!

PS: even though I consider your post pretty crappy, I find your signature statement a real gem!

 

[MsCupcake]

Could not help it, and I clicked on it!

very interesting

I need to start the popcorn machine up....

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1464983

 

[momdebbie]

I cant figure out a single reason why any lady would respond to any of this joker's personal ads. Unless they just want to feel sorry for themselves.

 

[hornyhubby48]

Pretty obvious you spend so much time messaging people that you forget who it is you've contacted. Yes, I joined last month and promptly received a message from you, then another, and another and so on, and so on. Initially, I responded and went back and forth a bit until you began to pester in such a way that it turned me off, and I politely said, no thank you.

No clairvoyance here. I responded to your thread after seeing it while I was surfing the boards. I chose to put in my 2 cents because I felt you needed a dose of reality and judging from some of the other comments, you should rethink your approach and position on your thought process, ground rules, whatever you wish to call it.

Here's a reminder, no, even online is still no. If there's a connection with someone, you feel it, and if there's not, it's best to be honest and upfront instead of misleading, which causes hurt and anger.

I do hope that clears up why I wrote. I don't mind being hunted by the right person Happy hunting to you!

I don't know WHO you corresponded with, MsCupcake, but it was not me. I checked both of my accounts and not a trace of MsCupcake there in the mail boxes.

Besides that, why would I have written to you in the first place? There's absolutely no info about you on Lit, which might lead a man to contact you about.

Could it be that you suffer from reading disabilities as well?

 

[hornyhubby48]

MsCupcake and her horny hubbies

I just checked and there are at least 20 different horny hubbies here on Lit, probably more. I regret that I picked a name with so little originality.

All the more important to watch out, MsCupcake, who you are accusing here of hideous crimes against Cupcake ladies!

 

[MsCupcake]

I speak 3 languages, no reading, or speaking disabilities here. How curious that people have reached out to me after reading this and are commenting on similar experiences with you. So, does that mean we all have reading disabilities or perhaps you have selective amnesia?

Please note, it's been very interesting reading your past post, which is similar to this one, and the comments made by others. You just don't get it and you never will. The problem is not "us" it's "you".

I've chatted with many people here but I can tell you for sure that I will never forget your name because you were the first person to ever write to me. I wish I would have saved the messages instead of deleting them. I would love nothing more than proving you're a liar.

PS: many people don't have bios here, but that doesn't prevent me from messaging them and vice versa. I've tried to update my bio but haven't been successful. I've asked Lit for help and haven't heard back. I didn't need to explain that, but I figured I would set you straight.

I don't know WHO you corresponded with, MsCupcake, but it was not me. I checked both of my accounts and not a trace of MsCupcake there in the mail boxes.

Besides that, why would I have written to you in the first place? There's absolutely no info about you on Lit, which might lead a man to contact you about.

Could it be that you suffer from reading disabilities as well?

 

[georgerb]

very interesting

Depending on the result, some extra seasoning may not hurt...I'm sure another user name for them will soon appear. Made me feel better that they self checked and verified they didn't contact you.

I also checked my rain gauge and it apparently didn't rain anywhere on planet Earth yesterday.

 

[hornyhubby48]

what can I say, Ms Cupcake

even if you speak 5 languages, apparently it is impossible to get the idea into your head, that with 25 or more horny hubbies here on Lit, it is the easiest thing in the world to mix up one with another.

I am awfully glad that you and I are not going to court in a really important matter, with you as a witness against me

 

[LostGirlTink]

I'm just gonna step in here for a minute. You messaged me and called me some pretty vile things after I called you out on your last post. (adding the link here in case anyone missed it http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1464983) I certainly never answered any of your multiple ads that all reek of the same misogynistic desperation. I just pointed out the flaw in your ad and suggested you might consider a different approach.

You recommended that I do some pretty unspeakable and graphic acts, made a couple suggestions that aren't even physically possible and mentioned a few things "that I deserve for opening my mouth" which might be fun with the right person, but never with you.

So my belief is with those who are sharing your behind the scenes behavior. .
Your public behavior indicated who you were, but you just keep validating that.
Truthfully, your writing style is distinct, your demeanor condescending, your attitude pompous, you could create 12 different personas and I guarantee that within a handful of posts we will be able to recognize you shining through in every single one. I'm confident she didn't "mistake you for someone else." Even if someone was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt here, this is a weak and desperate ploy.

Kudos on a stellar demonstration of what not to be.

 

[MsCupcake]

Well stated. Bravo!

I'm just gonna step in here for a minute. You messaged me and called me some pretty vile things after I called you out on your last post. I certainly never answered any of your multiple ads that all reek of the same misogynistic desperation. I just pointed out the flaw in your ad and suggested you might consider a different approach.

You recommended that I do some pretty unspeakable and graphic acts, made a couple suggestions that aren't even physically possible and mentioned a few things "that I deserve for opening my mouth" which might be fun with the right person, but never with you.

So my belief is with those who are sharing your behind the scenes behavior. .
Your public behavior indicated who you were, but you just keep validating that.
Truthfully, your writing style is distinct, your demeanor condescending, your attitude pompous, you could create 12 different personas and I guarantee that within a handful of posts we will be able to recognize you shining through in every single one. I'm confident she didn't "mistake you for someone else." Even if someone was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt here, this is a weak and desperate ploy.

Kudos on a stellar demonstration of what not to be.

 

[MsCupcake]

I can assure you if we were going to court, I would win because I would have done my due diligence. I don't have to try and convince anyone what I said is true. Your MO is the same, confirmed yet again by another person, Tink. Unless you have an evil twin we know nothing about, I suggest you take responsibility and STFU.

Now, I'm not wasting a single second responding to any more of your posts (denials) and I suggest that you take time to reflect on your attitude, behavior, approach, because as you are now, no one will touch you with a 10 foot pole.

even if you speak 5 languages, apparently it is impossible to get the idea into your head, that with 25 or more horny hubbies here on Lit, it is the easiest thing in the world to mix up one with another.

I am awfully glad that you and I are not going to court in a really important matter, with you as a witness against me

 

[MsCupcake]

I'll skip the season and will take the wine

 

[Uggg]

Yay! More!

I love this guys threads so much! talk about lively! Make room for me on the couch!

*Sits down to watch all the fun and games. Puts on safety goggles.*



Uggg

 

[hornyhubby48]

to all he howling hounds here

I am going to write ONE post, and one post only, to address all the howling hounds here on Lit, who feel they have a patriotic duty, to hunt down this terrible Litster me with non-conventional approaches to post writing. And who committed so many verbal crimes, supposedly, reported by several women (only trouble none of them remember the EXACT user name of their tormenter).

Don't you think that there are better things to do in life than harping on the way somebody writes his ads? Especially after you have sensed – I hope that you were able to do that at least – that I don't give a darn about all your howling?

At least I am going to quit looking at this thread with all your derogatory posts on it, and finally focus on what I prefer doing instead: communicate with a sweet lady who responded to my ad in a civilized manner. You know; one of these people who y'all figured could not possibly have replied to a creepy ad like mine.

 

[LostGirlTink]

I love this guys threads so much! talk about lively! Make room for me on the couch!

*Sits down to watch all the fun and games. Puts on safety goggles.*



Uggg

Hi. *jumps onto the couch*
Scootch over and share your popcorn please. He's lying his ass off again and it's HILARIOUS.

Do you think he doesn't think we know that only one person is assigned a screen name?
Do you think he thinks people are that dumb?
Do you think he really expects anyone to believe his drivel?

Tune in 10 minutes when he starts a new post!

 

[Uggg]

Hi. *jumps onto the couch*
Scootch over and share your popcorn please. He's lying his ass off again and it's HILARIOUS.

Do you think he doesn't think we know that only one person is assigned a screen name?
Do you think he thinks people are that dumb?
Do you think he really expects anyone to believe his drivel?

Tune in 10 minutes when he starts a new post!

Hiya Tink,

so many questions, I can't rightly say what he thinks but I'm pretty sure he won't be able to resist telling us!

I don't really understand the angst but I recognize someone with something they just have to say.

*Hands over whats left of the popcorn and also offers raisins (They're special, I found them near a rabbit.) and a spare pair of safety goggles (Coz I spect you'll need them more than me)*

 

[pikmin1388]

I've been following this thread for a good reason,, unfortunately I know this guy but as glblock. Was messaging him for a few weeks. I deeply regret it . Thought I could find someone to make up for what was missing in my relationship. But I found constant criticism, someone scarily controlling demanding things to be done this or that way. I was even put down for going on lit when I apparently should have been spending time messaging him. Final straw was an erotic fantasy I wrote , now most guys would have loved to receive such a thing but no he tore it to shreads, pulled it to pieces , last thing I needed after a stessful day . He has zero empathy.
All your comments about him are correct , I ask ladies please do not contact him you will regret it.
Unfortunately some people never learn I'm sure another ad will appear by him .