Talking dirty

[hellkitten_81]

My boyfriend loves it! I want to talk like the filthiest little slut. Not only ​for him, I'd love to be fluent and confident in all things nasty. Advice?

 

[Erotic_Canadian]

Practice, when my exwife expressed interest, I started with describing how something felt at the moment. How wet and hot her tight pussy felt gripping my aching cock. I would read her erotic stories from whatever her current interest was. At first I felt nervous and a bit foolish, so I practiced, by talking to myself, while on the road. Now a days, with unlimited minutes and almost 100% cell coverage, my true love and I have some quite entertaining conversations.

Start small, have some sexy phone foreplay. Or naughty emails/ texts, just not while anyone is driving. I just about drove off the road a time or 2 receiving some very sexy pictures, now I refuse to look at the phone if I'm driving, thank goodness for Bluetooth .

Sometimes I still blank out and just enjoy whats happening, but variety is the spice for a successful relationship. Verbalize what you are going to do, build anticipation, what you are doing, heightens the experience, or describe how it felt, builds a memory.

"I'm going to slide my tongue down these rose petals, they are so very wet and dripping, I love it when your hips thrust forward for more." Practice makes it easier.

 

[Iamsubmissive]

Practice, when my exwife expressed interest, I started with describing how something felt at the moment. How wet and hot her tight pussy felt gripping my aching cock. I would read her erotic stories from whatever her current interest was. At first I felt nervous and a bit foolish, so I practiced, by talking to myself, while on the road. Now a days, with unlimited minutes and almost 100% cell coverage, my true love and I have some quite entertaining conversations.

Start small, have some sexy phone foreplay. Or naughty emails/ texts, just not while anyone is driving. I just about drove off the road a time or 2 receiving some very sexy pictures, now I refuse to look at the phone if I'm driving, thank goodness for Bluetooth .

Sometimes I still blank out and just enjoy whats happening, but variety is the spice for a successful relationship. Verbalize what you are going to do, build anticipation, what you are doing, heightens the experience, or describe how it felt, builds a memory.

"I'm going to slide my tongue down these rose petals, they are so very wet and dripping, I love it when your hips thrust forward for more." Practice makes it easier.

Very HOT advice! Wish I could add to that but I suck at dirty talk...I like to hear it (a lot), but too shy or self conscious to actually say it.

 

[philos]

Think of it as a kind of roleplay. You're just playing the part. It is supposed to be fun and playful.

 

[sazzyslut69]

Naughty emails/texts is a really good idea, it can act as a precursor to the real life dirty talk!

Guys seem to really get off when I do it, when I tell them how filthy I am and how much I love sucking their cock/getting fucked, etc. And in return it really gets me off when they tell me what a dirty slut I am and all that Dirty talk is the best!

 

[KUJACK]

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My boyfriend loves it! I want to talk like the filthiest little slut. Not only ​for him, I'd love to be fluent and confident in all things nasty. Advice?

Be real, describe what is happening in vulgar terms, he will respond.

 

[michaeluad]

I would suggest that before you talk dirty with your boyfriend you have a talk with him so that he is aware that you want to try it. This can break the ice and warm him up to the fact that you want to try using erotic talk. If you have this talk you can figure out what words are OK to use and what may be a turn-off for him. This can make all the difference!

Now you need to do your best to sound natural. Take a deep breath and relax. You really need to be yourself. Do your best to avoid clinical terms such as penis or vagina. You may need to work on expanding your "naughty" vocabulary. You might want to try watching a few adult movies so that you can get some ideas about what words to use.

I want you to remember that the number one thing you need to do is have fun!

 

[HumasWanderingWeiner]

I wonder if there is a dirty talking for dummies book? There probably is something on youtube. Heck, I've found videos on just about anything on there. Ok, I wasn't trying to be snarky, I am actually serious.

 

[Gotham_Central]

At the risk of being obvious, communication! Start there!

One person's hottest word ever is another person's off button. Find out what he likes, remember variety, don't get stuck on the same word. As in writing, repetition in speech is off putting.

 

[Chris57]

I'm about 1/2 way through writing a an article of sorts on this very topic..I'll post when done

 

[Rocketman00i69]

Dirty talk

If I was you I would check out the audio section of literotica. Of course we all have our favorites but you can get an Idea of what sounds good to you and what others like by checking out the Hall of Fame section.

 

[DeeRyder]

I'm about 1/2 way through writing a an article of sorts on this very topic..I'll post when done

Interesting thread, to me dirty talk is stimulation on Steroids, very arousing ! Many people especially women are conditioned from childhood that what George Carlson would define as the 7 dirty words not allowed on television.. Words like Cock, Cunt, Fuck, Pussy, Dick , Asshole. So having these words trigger a inner alarm bringing the thoughts that you might be a low life. Maybe you are if you use these as insults, sarcastic name calling etc. But if they are used between humans engaging in sex, they loose the negative and gain the positive exchange to enhance the sexual experience, and today's acceptance as woman get off on feeling like a little slut, just like us men have been all along ! Truth if you love to fuck, male or female, Ur a little slut. That's exciting.

 

[Lit1111]

How to get started?

Practice, when my exwife expressed interest, I started with describing how something felt at the moment. How wet and hot her tight pussy felt gripping my aching cock. I would read her erotic stories from whatever her current interest was. At first I felt nervous and a bit foolish, so I practiced, by talking to myself, while on the road. Now a days, with unlimited minutes and almost 100% cell coverage, my true love and I have some quite entertaining conversations.

Start small, have some sexy phone foreplay. Or naughty emails/ texts, just not while anyone is driving. I just about drove off the road a time or 2 receiving some very sexy pictures, now I refuse to look at the phone if I'm driving, thank goodness for Bluetooth .

Sometimes I still blank out and just enjoy whats happening, but variety is the spice for a successful relationship. Verbalize what you are going to do, build anticipation, what you are doing, heightens the experience, or describe how it felt, builds a memory.

"I'm going to slide my tongue down these rose petals, they are so very wet and dripping, I love it when your hips thrust forward for more." Practice makes it easier.

I have never tried this before, but it does seem to be a great idea. What will be a harmless starting point?

 

[calamityjane401]

I am not well-versed in this area either - great how to! There are some ideas here that I'll be working on for sure.

 

[Carnevil9]

Do a search on "dirty talk" in the Lit story section. You'll find lots of good examples (including one by me).

Also, pretend to be someone else. Think of a slutty friend or acquaintance you know, and role play that you are that person. That will make the words flow easier.

Also, you might try using an accent. Some people find accents sexier or naughtier than non-accented speech. And it can also help you slip into your "alternate" persona.

When my GF slips into her "naughty southern belle" persona, I get so hard and horny that it practically hurts!

 

[Conager]

Contrast mames it hotter, I feel.

If you swear like a sailor in your ordinary life it's a little less dramatic than if you come across as a Baptist school teacher.

For it to feel authentic, it needs to be authentic. Don't bother to script. Say what comes to mind, unshackle your inner perv. You have thoughts; express rather than supress them. Don't censor yourself or "clean it up."

That thing that sounds silly as it passes through your filter will be hot to your partner. Maybe. If not, laugh, adjust, and go again.

 

[DeeRyder]

My boyfriend loves it! I want to talk like the filthiest little slut. Not only ​for him, I'd love to be fluent and confident in all things nasty. Advice?

I would put these things that are of you together and let them give you dirty talk wings ! First of all Ur catalog and vocabulary of smutty dirty talk, let mingle with Ur sex drive until you feel the fire glowing down to U pussy, then open up and let Ur pussy feed Ur mind until it is soak and wet saturated ! After that I believe​ you will become a sought after pro ! I hope you find me and use Ur talents with me, or if you need any help along the way I am a fairly good teacher and coach !

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

My husband only joined to write some of our own stories about things we've done. We normally don't talk dirty. But now I even write some of the stories from his old notes.
The first complaints we got was they wanted more details of what I wore and things I did. Then they asked us to write more like porn stories. We've been adding dirty talk as much as we can.

As time went on and I started having sex with more men they seem to like to hear me talk dirty and they call me a slut and other things. At first it seemed offensive and dirty. Now I even write fuck in stories.

We hear three year olds in stores say fuck and worse things.

I forgot, we grew up going to small neighborhood strip clubs. I had as much fun as my hubby. Even in my late teens men there called me a whore, a slut, a bitch and more. I'll never forget the young black commedian on stage sometimes. He talked about my tits and asked if I fuck N***. Later this same young man was on TV and in movies. It was Peoria born Richard Pryor. Peoria was where I got my training to dress like a slut.

 

[Yerkiddin]

Very HOT advice! Wish I could add to that but I suck at dirty talk...I like to hear it (a lot), but too shy or self conscious to actually say it.

I should think the right partner would bring that out of you.

Anything stop you from practicing on your own? Maybe read a story you like that has dirty talk in it, and say those parts out loud?

 

[lovematurebbws]

I suggests saying where you want him to shoot his load. On your tits, ass, face, etc. For example: "cum all over my ass baby!" That always put me over the edge.

 

[IntrovertWantsOut]

Hard consonants, wet vowels.
Season to taste.

 

[LindaSue]

My man gets off when I am a real whore and use the word cunt with him. Fill my cunt with that big hard cock honey. Feel my wet cunt, and so on

 

[MistressMoira]

I am always so uncomfortable with talking dirty. It feels so unnatural to me.

 

[GD88]

I am always so uncomfortable with talking dirty. It feels so unnatural to me.

Talking dirty doesn't have to be "dirty". My wife means it when she said she doesn't swear but her dirty talk is erotic in its own way.

"I love every inch of you" (When she's initiating sex)
"Your body says yes" (When I'm trying to "resist" eating sex)
"Let my mouth take care of you" (When she's about to give me oral)
"I'm excited too" (Guides my hand to her pussy over clothes)
"It's going to feel good" (What she whispers when she gives me a handjob)

 

[LanguageOfLove]

I am the same way when it comes to dirty talk...But I like those

I have to practice more often!