Meet Mr and Mrs MF!

[Hornblende]

As we enter our second year of kink, we've just clocked up another one!

I'm currently suffering from a whiplash injury to my neck from a kinky play party in a dungeon on Wednesday evening. The amusing thing is that I'm the Dom.

I had Mrs MF neatly secured on a steel-framed Saint Andrew's Cross, with her wrists and ankles buckled firmly but not tightly so that she couldn't escape my clutches but could still jangle the chains that held her. Moreover, I had put a blindfold on her so that she had no idea what was coming next. Perfect!

I rummaged in our toolbag and drew out a trusty flogger and a pinwheel, planning to use them in combination in unpredictable places. I drew out a couple of "eeek" noises from Mrs MF as I crept around her gleefully. Then I had the brainwave of sneaking behind her for some cheeky action. Bang! I thumped the side of my head on one of the protruding steel bars of the Saint Andrew's Cross.

"What was that?", asked Mrs MF. My pride stood in the way of an honest answer, so I mumbled some story about tripping over one of the bars. I picked up the action and all was fine for the next fifteen minutes. Then, in a bout of amnesia, I did exactly the same thing again.

I thought I had escaped with a couple of bruises to my head, but yesterday morning I woke up with a pain at the bottom of my neck that must be a reaction to those bumps. It's still there today. By contrast, Mrs MF has no visible marks, bruises or discomfort from my mistreatment of her. It's a tough life being a Dom.
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This is brilliant!

 

[Cumference]

Ouch!

Best wishes for a quick recovery!

I did something similar heading a yoga ball some years ago. I could feel it for a couple of months.




...... Apart from that, it is a pretty funny story.

 

[Mindfondler]

This is brilliant!

Apart from that, it is a pretty funny story.

Thanks!

As with many amusing stories, though, there is a serious point to be made. If I had knocked myself out, then Mrs MF would have been stuck on the Saint Andrew's Cross, unable to free herself, potentially for a long time. As it happened, we were in a dungeon with others nearby, so help would always have been at hand, but if we had been on our own then it would have been advisable for us to have some other kind of Plan B. It's food for thought.
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[LizzieEr]

As we enter our second year of kink, we've just clocked up another one!

I'm currently suffering from a whiplash injury to my neck from a kinky play party in a dungeon on Wednesday evening. The amusing thing is that I'm the Dom.

I had Mrs MF neatly secured on a steel-framed Saint Andrew's Cross, with her wrists and ankles buckled firmly but not tightly so that she couldn't escape my clutches but could still jangle the chains that held her. Moreover, I had put a blindfold on her so that she had no idea what was coming next. Perfect!

I rummaged in our toolbag and drew out a trusty flogger and a pinwheel, planning to use them in combination in unpredictable places. I drew out a couple of "eeek" noises from Mrs MF as I crept around her gleefully. Then I had the brainwave of sneaking behind her for some cheeky action. Bang! I thumped the side of my head on one of the protruding steel bars of the Saint Andrew's Cross.

"What was that?", asked Mrs MF. My pride stood in the way of an honest answer, so I mumbled some story about tripping over one of the bars. I picked up the action and all was fine for the next fifteen minutes. Then, in a bout of amnesia, I did exactly the same thing again.

I thought I had escaped with a couple of bruises to my head, but yesterday morning I woke up with a pain at the bottom of my neck that must be a reaction to those bumps. It's still there today. By contrast, Mrs MF has no visible marks, bruises or discomfort from my mistreatment of her. It's a tough life being a Dom.
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Hahaha.... this story is just so adorable...

 

[butterfly_flip]

*subscribes*
What a lovely thread

 

[Hornblende]

Thanks!

As with many amusing stories, though, there is a serious point to be made. If I had knocked myself out, then Mrs MF would have been stuck on the Saint Andrew's Cross, unable to free herself, potentially for a long time. As it happened, we were in a dungeon with others nearby, so help would always have been at hand, but if we had been on our own then it would have been advisable for us to have some other kind of Plan B. It's food for thought.
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Didn't Stephen King write a novel based on this premise once? I think it was called Gerald's Game.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I wonder what had your attention so captive that you failed to be cautious.
Mrs. MF must have been a very provocative sight for you!

You do make a good point in regards to her being left restrained if something happened to you. What could you do to prevent that if you were alone? Has anyone else had that happen, do they have something they could share?

I hope you are applying ice packs, MF! It certainly will help take some of the swelling down!

 

[Mindfondler]

Hahaha.... this story is just so adorable...

Thanks! It seemed too good not to pass on.

*subscribes*
What a lovely thread

We're very flattered! Thanks for your kind words.

Didn't Stephen King write a novel based on this premise once? I think it was called Gerald's Game.

A Google search confirms that you are correct. We hadn't read it, though.

I wonder what had your attention so captive that you failed to be cautious.
Mrs. MF must have been a very provocative sight for you!

You are correct in that assumption.

You do make a good point in regards to her being left restrained if something happened to you. What could you do to prevent that if you were alone? Has anyone else had that happen, do they have something they could share?

It's a tricky one! We've heard tales of automated alarm systems that trigger a response if they're not reset within a particular period. More simply, it's possible to arrange for someone else (presumably kink-friendly) to call in a pre-specified time to check that all is okay, or if they don't receive an "all clear" call by a certain time. I guess there must be other solutions out there.

For Mrs MF and me, it won't often be an issue. Totally against our expectations, we've discovered that we most enjoy our kinky play with other people around us (not necessarly joining in with us, but just having fun around us). We therefore prefer to take advantage of pre-booked sessions at an equipped dungeon with our local kinky friends nearby, who no doubt would swoop into action in the event of any problems. Neither of us ever imagined that we would be so bold and outgoing -- we had always previously assumed that we were "just in the bedroom" types.

I hope you are applying ice packs, MF! It certainly will help take some of the swelling down!

It would certainly do that. I'd have to remember to apply it to my head, though.
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[DarkSimian]

As we enter our second year of kink, we've just clocked up another one!

I'm currently suffering from a whiplash injury to my neck from a kinky play party in a dungeon on Wednesday evening. The amusing thing is that I'm the Dom.

I had Mrs MF neatly secured on a steel-framed Saint Andrew's Cross, with her wrists and ankles buckled firmly but not tightly so that she couldn't escape my clutches but could still jangle the chains that held her. Moreover, I had put a blindfold on her so that she had no idea what was coming next. Perfect!

I rummaged in our toolbag and drew out a trusty flogger and a pinwheel, planning to use them in combination in unpredictable places. I drew out a couple of "eeek" noises from Mrs MF as I crept around her gleefully. Then I had the brainwave of sneaking behind her for some cheeky action. Bang! I thumped the side of my head on one of the protruding steel bars of the Saint Andrew's Cross.

"What was that?", asked Mrs MF. My pride stood in the way of an honest answer, so I mumbled some story about tripping over one of the bars. I picked up the action and all was fine for the next fifteen minutes. Then, in a bout of amnesia, I did exactly the same thing again.

I thought I had escaped with a couple of bruises to my head, but yesterday morning I woke up with a pain at the bottom of my neck that must be a reaction to those bumps. It's still there today. By contrast, Mrs MF has no visible marks, bruises or discomfort from my mistreatment of her. It's a tough life being a Dom.
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even better, if you had knocked yourself out, and having to explain to the paramedics what happened.....

and I see that others have had the same thoughts; I should read all the posts before posting lol

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

cute story ..
Hope your head feels better soon.

 

[TheSilverLining]

Exactly! Anticipation is a good thing, right?
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Well yes, I simply felt all pouty on Mrs MF's account - I wouldn't want to wait 10 years for a toy!
However, I see she gets to use one elsewhere regardless. Hope your neck feels better soon!

 

[Aphro]

Today is our official 1st Kinkiversary!
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We would have planned a big celebration with friends, but we're a bit tied up all day. :caning:


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Happy anniversary!

 

[Mindfondler]

even better, if you had knocked yourself out, and having to explain to the paramedics what happened.....

I gather that they've seen it all before -- and a lot more besides!

cute story ..
Hope your head feels better soon.

Thanks! My head feels back to normal (at least, as normal as it ever is) and my neck now rotates from side to side (not all the way round!) without significant discomfort.

Well yes, I simply felt all pouty on Mrs MF's account - I wouldn't want to wait 10 years for a toy!
However, I see she gets to use one elsewhere regardless. Hope your neck feels better soon!

Mrs MF still gets to borrow one when I see fit.

Happy anniversary!

Thank you! We've had a good one and we're boldly moving forward into our second year with fresh new plans (see Mrs MF's new writing on Fetlife!).
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[GrrlFriday]

As we enter our second year of kink, we've just clocked up another one!

I'm currently suffering from a whiplash injury to my neck from a kinky play party in a dungeon on Wednesday evening. The amusing thing is that I'm the Dom.

I had Mrs MF neatly secured on a steel-framed Saint Andrew's Cross, with her wrists and ankles buckled firmly but not tightly so that she couldn't escape my clutches but could still jangle the chains that held her. Moreover, I had put a blindfold on her so that she had no idea what was coming next. Perfect!

I rummaged in our toolbag and drew out a trusty flogger and a pinwheel, planning to use them in combination in unpredictable places. I drew out a couple of "eeek" noises from Mrs MF as I crept around her gleefully. Then I had the brainwave of sneaking behind her for some cheeky action. Bang! I thumped the side of my head on one of the protruding steel bars of the Saint Andrew's Cross.

"What was that?", asked Mrs MF. My pride stood in the way of an honest answer, so I mumbled some story about tripping over one of the bars. I picked up the action and all was fine for the next fifteen minutes. Then, in a bout of amnesia, I did exactly the same thing again.

I thought I had escaped with a couple of bruises to my head, but yesterday morning I woke up with a pain at the bottom of my neck that must be a reaction to those bumps. It's still there today. By contrast, Mrs MF has no visible marks, bruises or discomfort from my mistreatment of her. It's a tough life being a Dom.
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Sounds like you need a spotter! Congratulations on your kink anniversary!

 

[Mindfondler]

Sounds like you need a spotter! Congratulations on your kink anniversary!

Thanks! We wouldn't mind having a spotter. Indeed, we're both finding that there's something compelling about being watched (in the right way).
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[BlackCashmere]

Thanks! We wouldn't mind having a spotter. Indeed, we're both finding that there's something compelling about being watched (in the right way).
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Nice to see you after a long time...nice for you to keep us company in the slums...

 

[Mindfondler]

Nice to see you after a long time...nice for you to keep us company in the slums...

Thank you! It's nice to hear from you too. I didn't realise that the standard of this locality had taken a dive.
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[Mindfondler]

I thought I'd post a short update on our recent activities as my previous postings were a while ago.

As I reported here, Mrs MF and I have been busy for the last couple of months with a young lady who was interested in learning more about kink and saw my personals advert. The three of us have met, spent several days together and had a lot of fun. We're hoping to do more of that when spare time permits.

Yesterday evening, Mrs MF and I went out to a dungeon for another kinky play party. Success! This time I didn't bump my head. Just as significantly, we were flattered to be approached by a newbie couple who had earlier been watching our BDSM scene together and said how much they had enjoyed the experience. That's unusual for us, as our play doesn't often raise the attention of others: it's soft, sensual and understated compared to the more common hard impact play. It certainly worked for us, and it's delightful to hear that it also did so for others.
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[barefootgirl69]

I'm so happy things have been going well with you both!

 

[Cumference]

Good to hear from you.

 

[Mindfondler]

For the benefit of those who haven't met us in person and would like to get to know us a bit better, I've added an audio introduction to us. <-- Click for SoundCloud audio clip
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[Mindfondler]

Mrs MF and I are currently seeking contact with new people, particularly in the UK or Europe (on the basis that we'd like to meet them face-to-face). We've been running for several weeks a couple of personals adverts in Literotica Personals and BDSM Personals but they don't seem to getting much attention.

Mrs MF in particular is feeling dispirited at the moment. She's recently had a knock-back from her attempt to help within the kink community by creating a small and friendly event to encourage nervous newbies to meet regulars. Unfortunately, she was let down repeatedly by people saying that they would go along and not turning up. She ran her Ladies' Munches for six months but, several times, she ended up sitting on her own in the pub for hours waiting fruitlessly for "no shows", so she reluctantly pulled the plug on them.

I think it's a shame that things had to go that way. Mrs MF is keen to deploy her nurturing skills (as am I), and I know that she's fantastic at it. Over the last year, she has helped many individuals to find their confidence, to take their first anxious steps into the kink community and then to go on and fly for themselves.

To be blunt, we're both feeling a bit down and ignored at the moment. We're happily continuing with our own play, but we both have unfulfilled needs around wider contact with people — hence our adverts.

I'm expecting this thread to sink rapidly back into oblivion on The Playground, but if anyone spots it before then and is prepared to offer us at least some moral support, then we'd both be very grateful for it.
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[EllaMayme]

Just had a listen to the new introduction and you guys made me giggle.
Mrs MF, you sound lovely and even sweeter than what Mr MF already described you as.
Mr MF, your voice...well, I've heard it before

Stay positive and keep your heads up. Hope you two find the right people to have fun with.

A lovely pair like you deserves it

 

[Mindfondler]

Just had a listen to the new introduction and you guys made me giggle.

Thanks! I'm glad that you enjoyed it. I wish that more people would listen to it. The total count at the moment appears to be just nine (and some of those hits might just be me testing the link). I doubt that many will conclude that it's a total waste of the 49 seconds spent on it.

Mrs MF, you sound lovely and even sweeter than what Mr MF already described you as.
Mr MF, your voice...well, I've heard it before

Cheers!

Mrs MF is lovely! When she read your warm words, she giggled and blushed a bit, but I think she took them on board.

Stay positive and keep your heads up. Hope you two find the right people to have fun with.

A lovely pair like you deserves it

Many thanks! I think it's just a question of us getting the right exposure over a long enough time. At the moment, I don't think we've found the trick, either here or in other places where we've highlighted our search.
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[gracie920101]

Well I for one am quite jealous that Mrs. MF has a nightly opportunity to listen to you read her a bedtime story. Because I know I certainly wouldn't turn down a chance to listen to you read even if it was just the train schedule!

I was quite pleased to hear both of you on that last bit!

Alternately, it saddens me to hear that there has been no one to stop lurking, step out of the shadows, and take advantage of a great offer for mentoring from either of you. I would have loved to have someone to do a little hand holding when I was a much younger newbie.

I feel someone will pop up when you least expect it. Things always seem to happen like that.

Hugs to both!