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Awww Lakey, maybe you need to visit the UK again! 😉

Yes I have, my ex fiancée and I were like rabbits, every room in the house got christened on a regular basis!

HYE had more than 2 dates with different people in 24 hours?

You're just determined to make me feel completely inadequate as man aren't you? :p :D ;)
Nope.

HYE left a date in the middle because it was just so bad?
 
You're just determined to make me feel completely inadequate as man aren't you? :p :D ;)
Nope.

HYE left a date in the middle because it was just so bad?

Not at all! I bet dates with you are so good, there just wouldn't be time for 2 in 24 hours 😉

Hmmm more that I made an excuse to leave. He kinda stalked me to my gym I agreed to one drink under pressure (he tried to take mein a cocktail bar whilst I was wearing gym clothes!) After the drink I made my excuses...he later bombarded me with creepy messages.... One of which was that he was in bed with his teddy bear and imagining it was me....

HYE been on a date and thought why did I agree to this?
 
Not at all! I bet dates with you are so good, there just wouldn't be time for 2 in 24 hours 😉

Hmmm more that I made an excuse to leave. He kinda stalked me to my gym I agreed to one drink under pressure (he tried to take mein a cocktail bar whilst I was wearing gym clothes!) After the drink I made my excuses...he later bombarded me with creepy messages.... One of which was that he was in bed with his teddy bear and imagining it was me....

HYE been on a date and thought why did I agree to this?

:D AWWW!

Yes! Oh, God YES!

HYE gone on a blind date that went well?
 
:D AWWW!

Yes! Oh, God YES!

HYE gone on a blind date that went well?

I've been on internet dating site dates that have gone well, I've dated a few for several months, and 2 of my closest male friends, I met in that way. I've never had a true, set up be a friend style blind date.

HYE been on a double date with friends?
 
I've been on internet dating site dates that have gone well, I've dated a few foe several months, and 2 of my closest male friends, I met in that way. I've never had a true, set up be a friend style blind date.

HYE been on a double date with friends?

Yes. And a "triple date" with friends. Some of my first dates were like that. Works out well for young people. Takes the pressure off of "just the two of you." I think the girls feel safer too.

HYE fallen in love at first sight?
 
Yes. And a "triple date" with friends. Some of my first dates were like that. Works out well for young people. Takes the pressure off of "just the two of you." I think the girls feel safer too.

HYE fallen in love at first sight?

Lust that became love, maybe....

One of my now closest male friends... We met on online dating, chatted loads for a couple of weeks, so we did build quite a strong connection beforehand. He met me at the train station, he tapped me on the shoulder as I was looking for him, I turned round and he bent to kiss me on the cheek and we ended up snogging, we kinda didn't stop, we went for a drink but couldn't really put each other down....that date lasted about 36 hours.....and for me became love, I'd never had such a strong intrinsic desire that quickly before.

HYE been in love with more than one person at the same time? (I'd say I have, both exes now, one was an ex I still loved whilst I fell for someone else, I remember acknowledging to myself that I loved them both)
 
Lust that became love, maybe....

One of my now closest male friends... We met on online dating, chatted loads for a couple of weeks, so we did build quite a strong connection beforehand. He met me at the train station, he tapped me on the shoulder as I was looking for him, I turned round and he bent to kiss me on the cheek and we ended up snogging, we kinda didn't stop, we went for a drink but couldn't really put each other down....that date lasted about 36 hours.....and for me became love, I'd never had such a strong intrinsic desire that quickly before.

HYE been in love with more than one person at the same time? (I'd say I have, both exes now, one was an ex I still loved whilst I fell for someone else, I remember acknowledging to myself that I loved them both)

Yes. I used to think you could only love one person at a time, but I think now, it's quite possible to be in love with two people (maybe more). I think the human capacity to love is nearly unlimited. While I think, in general, monogamy does work best (at least for me), I can see how polygamy or polyamory could easily work. It does, of course, require understanding and agreement of all parties.

HYE wished you could have been born in a different era?
 
Yes. I used to think you could only love one person at a time, but I think now, it's quite possible to be in love with two people (maybe more). I think the human capacity to love is nearly unlimited. While I think, in general, monogamy does work best (at least for me), I can see how polygamy or polyamory could easily work. It does, of course, require understanding and agreement of all parties.

HYE wished you could have been born in a different era?

I used to think the same when it came to love. But having seen how poly relationships have worked for close friends of mine and having acknowledged i have been in love with two people, I'd certainly be open to it.

I was born in 1980, I sometimes think it would be nice to go back to an era like the 1960s or 1970s before mobile phones and the internet became such a common sight (though I would feel lost without both now!). I remember how liberating it was to go out in the mid 1990s before I had my first mobile and be uncontactable. I also like the music from those eras and I am fond of music festivals.
As a woman, I wouldn't choose to go back prior to the second world war, and when women had less rights, nor would I wish to live through a world war such as that. Though I do love the fashion of the Georgian and Victorian British eras.

Essay over 😉

HYE wished you could travel back to a past time in your life and change things?
 
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I used to think the same when it came to love. But having seen how poly relationships have worked for close friends of mine and having acknowledged i have been in love with two people, I'd certainly be open to it.

I was born in 1980, I sometimes think it would be nice to go back to an era like the 1960s or 1970s before mobile phones and the internet became such a common sight (though I would feel lost without both now!). I remember how liberating it was to go out in the mid 1990s before I had my first mobile and be uncontactable. I also like the music from those eras and I am fond of music festivals.
As a woman, I wouldn't choose to go back prior to the second world war, and when women had less rights, nor would I wish to live through a world war such as that. Though I do love the fashion of the Georgian and Victorian British eras.

Essay over 😉

HYE wished you could travel back to a past time in your life and change things?

I think everybody wishes for that. There are a handful of things I would change. Won't go into specifics though.

HYE wished that you lived someplace else?
 
I always stop eventually?

Have you ever been wearing an item of clothing which became see-thru when it became wet?

Yes. Linen beachwear and rainstorm. Did not leave much to the imagination :D

HYE been caught naked?
 
HYE been caught naked?

Very nearly, but no. A bf's roommate came home suddenly, and I had to hop off the bf and jump into the open closet area near his bed. I stood there stark fuckin' naked, not daring to move a muscle lest the roommate hear something and poke his head around the corner and see me. That closet area was lit up, and the bf had a clear view of me. I don't know if he was trying to make me crazy, but he seemed to chat with the roommate for longer than necessary.

Have you ever had to inform a friend that he or she was accidentally exposing his or herself?
 
Very nearly, but no. A bf's roommate came home suddenly, and I had to hop off the bf and jump into the open closet area near his bed. I stood there stark fuckin' naked, not daring to move a muscle lest the roommate hear something and poke his head around the corner and see me. That closet area was lit up, and the bf had a clear view of me. I don't know if he was trying to make me crazy, but he seemed to chat with the roommate for longer than necessary.

Have you ever had to inform a friend that he or she was accidentally exposing his or herself?

Yep, roommates girlfriend

Have you ever intentionally put on a show for a member of the opposite sex?
 
Have you ever intentionally put on a show for a member of the opposite sex?

I tormented a religious male friend in college by deliberately giving him a look down my loose t-shirt with no bra. It was completely intentional, but I acted oblivious to anything happening. He was a nice enough guy, and I liked him, but he was also a proud virgin who claimed to never masturbate. I let him see what might have been the first nipples he ever saw up close. I silently noted that he ended up having to hide an erection.

Have you ever had sex while sick with the flu?
 
I tormented a religious male friend in college by deliberately giving him a look down my loose t-shirt with no bra. It was completely intentional, but I acted oblivious to anything happening. He was a nice enough guy, and I liked him, but he was also a proud virgin who claimed to never masturbate. I let him see what might have been the first nipples he ever saw up close. I silently noted that he ended up having to hide an erection.

Have you ever had sex while sick with the flu?

Sounds vaguely familiar.. teased the roommates girlfriend too. Wrote about this in another thread, but she stayed over while he was out of town. She could see me from his bedroom, gave a frequent show for her benefit while she pretended to be sleeping.

No, not with the flu!

HYE intentionally left photos of yourself where a member of the opposite sex would be sure to see them?
 
Sounds vaguely familiar.. teased the roommates girlfriend too. Wrote about this in another thread, but she stayed over while he was out of town. She could see me from his bedroom, gave a frequent show for her benefit while she pretended to be sleeping.

No, not with the flu!

HYE intentionally left photos of yourself where a member of the opposite sex would be sure to see them?

Lol....no

HYE had a really bad sunburn??

L:rose:
 
Lol....no

HYE had a really bad sunburn??

L:rose:

Oh my god yes! I once spent a significant amount of time in the desert. I recall the worst sunburn I got came from riding in a truck all day with the exposed arm resting on the open window. Horrible. Simply horrible.

HYE had frostbite?
 
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