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Lets hope, if Santa comes down my chimney this year, he's using protection :cool:
hmmm....well not the same as Adam's that's for sure :eek:

How come no one mentions that Gabriel is so obviously non-binary? :mad:

I had a role-playing game called "In Nomine" where you could play angels (or devils). It was established that all the angels and devils in that were whatever gender they felt like; most favoured one or t'other but I seem to recall Gabriel/le was happy to switch.
 
Great parenting :) Really clever cover up too!

The Past
that's a weird thing. I'm home home for Christmas and have had a day of mooching in jamas and shuffling socks. A while ago Mum made me promise NOT to throw out things from my boy past but to put them in the loft, because one day 'you never know, you might want to look at them'. Well, wattyano? Mum's are so smart. Last year I wasn't in a frame of mind but today I ventured up there and stuck a peek into some old things: photos, certificates - stuff like that. I was expecting to find it quite difficult, but instead I found it quite .... dislocated? remote? It really was like I was looking at another persons stuff. The only thing that got me was my music certs, because music is a thing that has bridged between my two lives. Plus I miss the music friends and my teacher. The other things are just stuff. I'll keep them still, out of curiosity.
So yea, time huh?
Weird
 
Ok, here's my question. What is the deal with the heels? They look so painful and uncomfortable. I can imagine twisting an ankle just thinking of it.
 
The Past
that's a weird thing. I'm home home for Christmas and have had a day of mooching in jamas and shuffling socks. A while ago Mum made me promise NOT to throw out things from my boy past but to put them in the loft, because one day 'you never know, you might want to look at them'. Well, wattyano? Mum's are so smart. Last year I wasn't in a frame of mind but today I ventured up there and stuck a peek into some old things: photos, certificates - stuff like that. I was expecting to find it quite difficult, but instead I found it quite .... dislocated? remote? It really was like I was looking at another persons stuff. The only thing that got me was my music certs, because music is a thing that has bridged between my two lives. Plus I miss the music friends and my teacher. The other things are just stuff. I'll keep them still, out of curiosity.
So yea, time huh?
Weird

Thank you for sharing this. It's amazing how music can take us out of ourselve and transcend our limitations. I suppose that's what people call spiritual.
 
Ok, here's my question. What is the deal with the heels? They look so painful and uncomfortable. I can imagine twisting an ankle just thinking of it.
Good question
It's all about the line of your leg: the shape of the heels suggest all kinds of female curves, like you ass is the heel or the arch of the heel could be …?
Then they make you stand and walk differently - you stick your ass out to balance. Men like asses, women like asses.
The thing that makes me laugh the most are porn vids and pics with women wearing heels as they fuck in bed. I mean like WTF is that about?! Apart from leaving the bedclothes like they been hit with a shotgun, you're prolly gonna ruin the mattress as well.
But I'm a practical girl. I like hiking. I like being able to touch my toes because my achilles hasn't shrunk through wearing heels.
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I just don't get it :D



but I do wear them for posh :eek:
 
Good question
It's all about the line of your leg: the shape of the heels suggest all kinds of female curves, like you ass is the heel or the arch of the heel could be …?
Then they make you stand and walk differently - you stick your ass out to balance. Men like asses, women like asses.
The thing that makes me laugh the most are porn vids and pics with women wearing heels as they fuck in bed. I mean like WTF is that about?! Apart from leaving the bedclothes like they been hit with a shotgun, you're prolly gonna ruin the mattress as well.
But I'm a practical girl. I like hiking. I like being able to touch my toes because my achilles hasn't shrunk through wearing heels.
And
I just don't get it :D



but I do wear them for posh :eek:

My gf is a practical girl, also. Skirts, dresses, high boots are great for accentuating her physical form, but we just don't see the point of sacrificing her ability to walk long distances or even run when we are out. She is the kind of person who might want to veer off the sidewalk to investigate an unusual plant or animal.

She has pretty good balance, and has worn high heels for special occasions, but they always end up going to a thrift store after one use.
 
Well, you know, for the fit and used to it both are possible. Where ing JUST heels is a bad idea. As Stickygirl says, you get problems getting your heels back to the floor and its not good for body. But I used to go between heels and ballet shoes and horses, so two extremes of position, and was fine. Its a matter of keeping fit and flexible. When you stop either of course, it becomes different. :). Regular exercise that includes good counter stretching and barefoot walking should be ok. And who wants bunions and stuff too? Foot and ankle and leg and back health is all part of it. :).

And, if I don't wear my shoes in bed stickygirl, where on earth would I where them now? :)
Ugh - ballet - I loooove ballet and wish so much I had studied it. I have a friend who dances and I recently went back stage for one of her shows, like standing in the wings. Seeing them come off stage running with sweat made me respect what they do so much more, when they make it look so effortless. gah

Welcome to the thread Tompal - hope the ballet talk doesn't put you off ;)

Coati - your gf sounds like my sort of girl :)
 
Do an adult beginners class. As exercise or for fun. :). There are plenty of people who feel the same. I wish I could still do a dance class for exercise. :)


Or get the New York City ballet exercise DVDs and do it at home. Brilliant work outs, watching my husband who is not so graceful trying to do them has made me giggle some times. ;)
Ha! That's what mirrors are for isn't it?! :D
 
Goats? Not sure what that is, if I am one, or if I have done anything goatish? Aren't they a Greek symbol for being horny?
 
Merry Christmas Sticky Girl :rose::kiss::rose: and to everyone else on in GLBT, it doesn't matter what you are or who you love, just be a decent loving person in 2016 xxxxx
 
Merry Christmas Sticks. I hope the holiday season brings you rest, peace, and fun. Thanks for just being you.

Tom - :rose::kiss::heart:
 
Great parenting :) Really clever cover up too!

The Past
that's a weird thing. I'm home home for Christmas and have had a day of mooching in jamas and shuffling socks. A while ago Mum made me promise NOT to throw out things from my boy past but to put them in the loft, because one day 'you never know, you might want to look at them'. Well, wattyano? Mum's are so smart. Last year I wasn't in a frame of mind but today I ventured up there and stuck a peek into some old things: photos, certificates - stuff like that. I was expecting to find it quite difficult, but instead I found it quite .... dislocated? remote? It really was like I was looking at another persons stuff. The only thing that got me was my music certs, because music is a thing that has bridged between my two lives. Plus I miss the music friends and my teacher. The other things are just stuff. I'll keep them still, out of curiosity.
So yea, time huh?
Weird

That's pretty cool, actually. I'm glad you kept your stuff. You may have transitioned, but you still have your memories.

I hope you had a very Merry Christmas. Thanks for your well wishes to me and mine! :rose: :kiss:
 
Thanks for your wishes everyone xxx. I had a proper family Xmas complete with babies, good food and maybe a couple of glasses of fizz.

I keep seeing Lit threads Lit from guys who are "no-way-definitely-not-gay-but-love-dick-and-pussy-and-hot-shemales - wow, yes would love to be pegged by one of those, but not a hairy man just his dick". It takes patience not dive in when, as today on a 'I'm a straight sissy' or whatever thread, someone says "yea, I love those hot MtF TGs", because it's a lot like fingers being dragged down a chalk-board to me.
It is objectification and pretty ignorant, but then of course it's 99% BS and fantasy, so I know that if I take deep breaths and think about the Dalai Lama, I can flip to another thread without making a fool of myself.
But I think I finally get it - it's just fucking isn't it? Fantasy fucking. So who am I to pop their fantasy bubble, if that's what they need to whack off to?

If people have real life questions about trans issues, then they know where to find me. We can even talk about fucking, but only if there are two people in the bed, because the other person is more important than anyone's dick (or pussy). :)
 
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