Deepest Darkest Secret your spouse/partner doesn't know!!!

[PleasePeesMe]

Was it

Well it's just after 3am and I'm back in after a girly night out... and my first extra marital sex. I feel like a teenager. Heart pounding. Very flushed and feeling so alive. Mmmm

with a girl?

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

with a girl?

No, an older gentleman a friend of mine is very good friends with.

 

[Dreamer110]

No, an older gentleman a friend of mine is very good friends with.

And I assume a very good friend of yours now to.

 

[darlasmaster01]

on occasion I like to wear lace panties

 

[screwher]

Well it's just after 3am and I'm back in after a girly night out... and my first extra marital sex. I feel like a teenager. Heart pounding. Very flushed and feeling so alive. Mmmm

Nice! Does your husband know? Is he one of those men that enjoys his wife having sex with other men?

 

[Dreamer110]

Been in that situation. Loved when she came home.

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

And I assume a very good friend of yours now to.

Yes he is. We're texting now.

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

Nice! Does your husband know? Is he one of those men that enjoys his wife having sex with other men?

No but I'm telling him tonight. He has confessed he has had another woman during the time we've been married so I'm thinking he's not going to be angry. Hopefully appreciative and enthusiastic.

 

[Dreamer110]

No but I'm telling him tonight. He has confessed he has had another woman during the time we've been married so I'm thinking he's not going to be angry. Hopefully appreciative and enthusiastic.

Lucky guy and husband.

 

[Madmar]

Deepest darkest secret- that I'm not just reading stories at Lit but participate here on the boards.

This is not my deepest darkest but he doesn't know this either. However, is it a secret if your spouse doesn't even care to know? I mean, he could ask me anything and I'd probably tell him anyway. And as for what I'm reading, he could always look over and read my laptop screen and show an interest in something we could share and learn a thing or 3 about me and also about the nature of other people.

 

[sexywriterfla]

No but I'm telling him tonight. He has confessed he has had another woman during the time we've been married so I'm thinking he's not going to be angry. Hopefully appreciative and enthusiastic.

I can appreciate the honesty, good for you. And him. But honestly, if I was married to you I wouldn't need to fuck another woman. Just saying.

 

[screwher]

This is not my deepest darkest but he doesn't know this either. However, is it a secret if your spouse doesn't even care to know? I mean, he could ask me anything and I'd probably tell him anyway. And as for what I'm reading, he could always look over and read my laptop screen and show an interest in something we could share and learn a thing or 3 about me and also about the nature of other people.

Maybe you should take the initiative and let him in on this. I know I'd be thrilled to have my wife on here sharing this with me.

 

[xxxpaulzzz]

Well it's just after 3am and I'm back in after a girly night out... and my first extra marital sex. I feel like a teenager. Heart pounding. Very flushed and feeling so alive. Mmmm

are you in that state because the sex was good or just the situation?
how much older is this older gentleman?

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

I can appreciate the honesty, good for you. And him. But honestly, if I was married to you I wouldn't need to fuck another woman. Just saying.

He's always said its hard travelling around a lot. I've met her once and she's seems very nice. Quite a bit different to me, but we have a similar outlook. I suspected it but he was distraught thinking it would mean we'd split.

As I said when I was undressing him, it's only a problem if you love her more than me. If you love her that's fine. But not if you want her over me. She's married too and wanted some relief with a decent man. He said why is it wrong if I don't love her? Really I thought? You don't care anything for a woman you're fucking? That would be fucked up I told him honestly. I think he was surprised by my beliefs. I've always believed it's not who you're doing now that matters but who you go home to and spend the night and everyone thereafter with that truly matters.

 

[screwher]

No but I'm telling him tonight. He has confessed he has had another woman during the time we've been married so I'm thinking he's not going to be angry. Hopefully appreciative and enthusiastic.

Good luck and I hope everything works out for you. BTW is that you and your husband in the photo on your profile? Just curious.

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

are you in that state because the sex was good or just the situation?
how much older is this older gentleman?

Both. He's 28 years my senior.

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

Good luck and I hope everything works out for you. BTW is that you and your husband in the photo on your profile? Just curious.

No I'm a redhead, my friend did it as a styled picture of me on her computer and tweaked a few details for modesty. Husband loves it. Hubby has more hair but is as 'cuddly'.

 

[Dreamer110]

Both. He's 28 years my senior.

See, us older guys can hold up our end of the deal! Well I assume he did?

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

See, us older guys can hold up our end of the deal! Well I assume he did?

Very, VERY well He's a very well skilled lover, but more than that very sensitive. It wasn't just a 'fuck' for him.

 

[Madmar]

Maybe you should take the initiative and let him in on this. I know I'd be thrilled to have my wife on here sharing this with me.

Sadly, hon, not in the cards for me. I am familiar with my husband and his work. As an example, shall I let you in on one of his deepest darkest? He has not masturbated in years. Says he is uncomfortable touching himself. I am speechless.

 

[ConflictedOne]

Sadly, hon, not in the cards for me. I am familiar with my husband and his work. As an example, shall I let you in on one of his deepest darkest? He has not masturbated in years. Says he is uncomfortable touching himself. I am speechless.

YIKES...

I would have exploded by now...LMAO!

 

[Dreamer110]

Both. He's 28 years my senior.

Very, VERY well He's a very well skilled lover, but more than that very sensitive. It wasn't just a 'fuck' for him.

I can understand that. I spend much more time pleasing her now before the 'main event '. So do you think he'll get another chance? Or was it a one time fling?

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

Sadly, hon, not in the cards for me. I am familiar with my husband and his work. As an example, shall I let you in on one of his deepest darkest? He has not masturbated in years. Says he is uncomfortable touching himself. I am speechless.

Good grief. He should be the Pope!

 

[cryingalien]

Good grief. He should be the Pope!

Agreed

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

Whenever I heard of someone like that, and I mean absolutely no disrespect but I feel immensely sorry for them. Sex, making love is perhaps the most beautiful, pleasurable and transcending experiences that people can have.