Task Ideas for a female sub

[HisBlackPhoenix]

My husband/Sir is away with the military a lot and he has given me the task of coming up with more ideas for tasks. I have been tasked with wearing nipple clamps for an allotted time taking pictures of me using my large dildo (one just the tip in and the other as deep as I can take it) I ha've sent him a few more ideas on top of those but I need a few more. Can you help please?

 

[eric60red]

Yes I can help, I have trained several sluts, and have a long lists of tasks for them to preform. Do you want me to tell you here or in private? check this out http://trainingyou.tumblr.com/introduction.

 

[NewDaddyDom]

I would also like to know how I can further train my sub.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I would also like to know how I can further train my sub.

What do you want your submissive to do for you? What is important to you in your everyday life.
Make tasks about that.
Want the perfect cup of coffee or the perfect breakfast egg? Then the task would be about that.
Want to discuss that book or movie with someone? Then the task would be about reading or watching something.
Want a partner with flexible shoulders for bondage? Then the task would be about stretching exercises.

This is so personal and so much about what makes your relatinship better an hotter.

 

[HisBlackPhoenix]

I'm looking for ideas that I can write to Him about. We will work on further face to face training once he comes home. We've been together over a year and married 2 months. It's been a huge fantasy of mine to live a 24/7 lifestyle and I have done quite a bit of research for submissives. He has been contemplating the 24/7 lifestyle for about 7 months and has decided that this is something he wants to do. The daily task while he is away is new for me.

 

[midwestyankee]

Just a few ideas:

• Don't overload yourself with too many new obligations.
• Doing something sexual every day usually sounds hotter than it actually is after 90 straight days and counting.
• Consider at least one task that you know will make you a better/stronger/happier person over time. For example: perhaps a short meditation session every morning or a few minutes of exercise if this is not usually part of your routine.

 

[NewDaddyDom]

My wife and I have been married for 7 years and have 2 kids. We just started the 24/7 lifestyle a couple months ago and it has been fantastic

 

[CutieMouse]

I'm looking for ideas that I can write to Him about. We will work on further face to face training once he comes home. We've been together over a year and married 2 months. It's been a huge fantasy of mine to live a 24/7 lifestyle and I have done quite a bit of research for submissives. He has been contemplating the 24/7 lifestyle for about 7 months and has decided that this is something he wants to do. The daily task while he is away is new for me.

What does a "24/7 lifestyle" look like to you? What does a "24/7 lifestyle" mean in your own words - not a book? What does it look like and/or mean to him? Are you looking for service based tasks? Sexual tasks? What's the purpose here?

 

[HisBlackPhoenix]

A 24/7 lifestyle to me means a mix of both service and sexual based tasks. It means being there and doing as he ask when he ask.I want to give him everything I am.

 

[NewDaddyDom]

That is very similar to how our D/s lifestyle works. I tell my sub sub exactly what I want and expect, sexually or just in general. And she must obey. She must refer to me as sir or Daddy at all times. If there's something she wants, she has to know exactly how to ask me. And when she follows the rules and is a good girl, I tell her she is and I reward her.

 

[CutieMouse]

A 24/7 lifestyle to me means a mix of both service and sexual based tasks. It means being there and doing as he ask when he ask.I want to give him everything I am.

If your view of 24/7 is a combination of service and sex, then my suggestion would be to start with lists of skills that make his life better.

(This is the super hawt real life boring as hell answer, btw. )

How are your budgeting skills? Household management? Organizational skills? Cooking? What do you know about basic home repairs? Car maintenance? Gardening? What clerical (or otherwise) skills can you learn that will make his work easier (when he's home)? Are there any classes you can take to improve yourself, as a person? Should you learn massage therapy? Nutrition? Bookkeeping? Interior design?

When I have a lover, he gets what he wants (sexually); end of story. That's the easy part. The hard part is improving myself (in big and little ways), to be well equipped enough to offer the degree of service my lover(s) deserve.

I should also mention that I view D/s from a anticipatory service perspective. Because (IMO) if a lover has to constantly keep track of tasks, or ask me to do X, or constantly direct me... that's a lot of WORK, for little reward. And my job isn't to add to his work, it's to relieve his burdens.

 

[HisBlackPhoenix]

I am a good ole country girl.....my household skills have been engrained in me. I can cook bake clean take care of kids take care of my car (change the oil, spark plugs and tires if need be) I am a planner and a semi descent organizer. these were all things I learned long before my husband came into my life. He is sending me back to school so I can be a substitute teacher and start my own cake business as well. we Budget together and split the bills 50/50. I used to be an office manage so my clerical skills are very strong..... I want to be a great wife to him 1st and foremost. I also want to be a good sub for him as well.

 

[MeekMe]

You have a good foundation in my opinion. Much of what we do is based on how we interact with each other. In the mornings I wake up first so I prepare breakfast and lunch. During the day he goes to work so I manage bills, household chores and my own business. At night I make sure dinner is prepared and whatever else he needs. Most of what we do isn't "trained" but learned and cultivated through necessity. Sometimes it's not really "training" that is needed, but learning what is necessary for a successful relationship.

 

[HisBlackPhoenix]

We both were in rough 1st marriage So we have this deep uunderstanding about one another. My marriage was actually abusive physically mentally and emotionally. My husband now really treats me like a queen. We split the bills and the chores. I try to give him every single piece of me because his ex wife cheated on him. I want to give him piece of mind and comfort. This lifestyle was a fantasy for me and he fully embraced it. He wants to be the best Sir he can be for his pet he is already the absolute best husband to me.