Daddy fetish (New)

[INeedLove]

INL is a baby girl that never had such a real life experience still a baby girl?
Too many questions for a Wednesday.. ?

Actually what I mean by my comment is those girls who play at being a little online but have no intentions or doing so face to face. It's just a fantasy or a way to get off temporarily.

it really depends on the individuals and what they need out of the relationship, but I tend to agree, for a great many D/bg couples it can not remain "online only" or ithe bond will eventually dissolve

I agree. You reach a point where you really want and need to be together. But a deep bond can develop when you message, skype, phone, text etc.

Hello INL! Thanks, and it's always good to see you.

I'm fine, thanks for asking ... just busy.

Are you behaving?

Giggles! Yes, unfortunately I am behaving. I had a crown put on today so I'm nursing a sore mouth.

Just a quick note to say HI Ya'll! Taking a couple days off to spend time away with the SO. Love and Hugs to all!

PEACHES!! You are teasing us with peeking in and running away. I miss you darling girl! Huggles!!!!

 

[BurningMonkey]

I agree. You reach a point where you really want and need to be together. But a deep bond can develop when you message, skype, phone, text etc.

A deep emotional bond, yes. Agreed.
But is it really a true Daddy/little relationship without being together physically?

 

[mutato]

A deep emotional bond, yes. Agreed.
But is it really a true Daddy/little relationship without being together physically?

In my opinion it can be if both parties understand and accept that limitation. There is no single correct way in this kind of relationship.

 

[INeedLove]

A deep emotional bond, yes. Agreed.
But is it really a true Daddy/little relationship without being together physically?

Yes, I believe it is.

In my opinion it can be if both parties understand and accept that limitation. There is no single correct way in this kind of relationship.

Right on daddy M!

 

[BurningMonkey]

Then I'm happy for you.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

what I think needs to be emphasized is that for each Couple it's relative. What may seem shallow and temporary to one D/lg couple might be exactly what another couple are seeking/expecting. It's when one type (online only) attempts a relationship with the other type that it ain't never gonna work. .

In that situation one person is never going to get what they need.
.If people are honest upfront with what their expectations are, there's no problem with either way.

think of it in terms of breeding. if you breed two Lions, you get a baby lion cub. If you breed two tigers you get a tiger cub. But if you breed a lion and a tiger you get what's called a liger, which is a dead end animal (sometimes) . Same thing with these relationships

 

[KalIsBack]

Question for the Gents of the Room ... how/when did you decide/discover you were a Dominant ... a Daddy?? I see claims of Dominants that have 'trained' - needed or not? And what does it consist of?
My experience is limited, and I may know someone perhaps of further interest that is also 'green'. In horses, a green rider and a green horse are a recipe for disaster. We met with him knowing my preference in Gentlemen, I've directed him to our usual reading recommendations, and he has not fled screaming into the mist. I take that as a good sign.
So now I am curious ...

1) How/when did I decide/discover I was a Dominant/Daddy?

- I'll be frank. For the longest time, I frowned upon either title. Nothing about the D/s or DD/lo (or whatever combination you prefer) appealed to me in the slightest. BDSM was one of those grey areas I avoided, just because it seemed so unpleasant. I couldn't understand what sort of man would get off on having power over a woman like that, making her do all sorts of depraved, sometimes humiliating things, and then holding her tightly at the end and saying I love you. That's what it boiled down to in my mind, and I basically said I couldn't abide any of that.

But on the flip side, I was already pushing towards being a Dominant, I suppose. I did enjoy light bondage, as a form of teasing. I did enjoy directing the flow of my partner's sexual experience. But to me, being a Dom meant so much more than that, that I couldn't accept.

And serene changed my understanding of that. We'd talked at a decent length about power play. It's likely fairly obvious that she enjoys it thoroughly, and she put a new perspective in my mind and showed me how to enjoy it too. You may all be somewhat familiar with FaS' old Control Thread and the newer Milkshake thread; I avoided both very pointedly. But after a point, serene started quoting things and posting things to me from the Milkshake thread, and from this one, and from other sources, along the lines of power play. And she shared some fantasies of hers, and intrigued me. And from there, it was just a slow seduction into the role. I don't think I'll ever forget the feeling she first called me Sir. It was something entirely unexpected. I'd hated the sound of the title, but in the span of a few weeks, she changed my perspective entirely. Remarkable, really.

2) Have I 'trained' or not?

I'm not sure what you mean by that, but I'll say that I have done some reading, perusing things written by other Doms. I have spoken to other subs to attempt to gain a better understanding of things. It's important to me that I keep serene happy, as long as it lies within my power to do so. There was a post somewhere back about being wrapped around my little one's finger. And it's entirely true. I'm hers just as much as she's mine. It works both ways. I strive to please her just as much as she strives to please me. And I do work towards that. So however that may or may not answer your question....

3) Green rider and green horse.

Sounds like a dirty euphemism.

Serene is green to this, more or less. There are things she's done with me in the past few months that she's never done before. And there are many things I've done in the past few months with her that I've never done before.

And it's not necessarily a recipe for disaster. There are such things as 'naturals.' We were friends for a few months before we were D/s, and that probably helped immeasurably. We knew each other. We're best friends, on top of being D/s. And when you have a deeper understanding of the other person's likes and dislikes, slipping into a new setting isn't so bad. When you're willing and eager to learn, you make great progress with minimal mistakes.

Not to say that we haven't made mistakes. I have. Several, large and small. But we bounce back from them quickly. We're still doing well. We probably will be for a while to come. Even though we're new to this.

Apologies for rambling and the late reply, and I hope this answered your question.....

 

[sereneone4u]

1) How/when did I decide/discover I was a Dominant/Daddy?

- I'll be frank. For the longest time, I frowned upon either title. Nothing about the D/s or DD/lo (or whatever combination you prefer) appealed to me in the slightest. BDSM was one of those grey areas I avoided, just because it seemed so unpleasant. I couldn't understand what sort of man would get off on having power over a woman like that, making her do all sorts of depraved, sometimes humiliating things, and then holding her tightly at the end and saying I love you. That's what it boiled down to in my mind, and I basically said I couldn't abide any of that.

But on the flip side, I was already pushing towards being a Dominant, I suppose. I did enjoy light bondage, as a form of teasing. I did enjoy directing the flow of my partner's sexual experience. But to me, being a Dom meant so much more than that, that I couldn't accept.

And serene changed my understanding of that. We'd talked at a decent length about power play. It's likely fairly obvious that she enjoys it thoroughly, and she put a new perspective in my mind and showed me how to enjoy it too. You may all be somewhat familiar with FaS' old Control Thread and the newer Milkshake thread; I avoided both very pointedly. But after a point, serene started quoting things and posting things to me from the Milkshake thread, and from this one, and from other sources, along the lines of power play. And she shared some fantasies of hers, and intrigued me. And from there, it was just a slow seduction into the role. I don't think I'll ever forget the feeling she first called me Sir. It was something entirely unexpected. I'd hated the sound of the title, but in the span of a few weeks, she changed my perspective entirely. Remarkable, really.

2) Have I 'trained' or not?

I'm not sure what you mean by that, but I'll say that I have done some reading, perusing things written by other Doms. I have spoken to other subs to attempt to gain a better understanding of things. It's important to me that I keep serene happy, as long as it lies within my power to do so. There was a post somewhere back about being wrapped around my little one's finger. And it's entirely true. I'm hers just as much as she's mine. It works both ways. I strive to please her just as much as she strives to please me. And I do work towards that. So however that may or may not answer your question....

3) Green rider and green horse.

Sounds like a dirty euphemism.

Serene is green to this, more or less. There are things she's done with me in the past few months that she's never done before. And there are many things I've done in the past few months with her that I've never done before.

And it's not necessarily a recipe for disaster. There are such things as 'naturals.' We were friends for a few months before we were D/s, and that probably helped immeasurably. We knew each other. We're best friends, on top of being D/s. And when you have a deeper understanding of the other person's likes and dislikes, slipping into a new setting isn't so bad. When you're willing and eager to learn, you make great progress with minimal mistakes.

Not to say that we haven't made mistakes. I have. Several, large and small. But we bounce back from them quickly. We're still doing well. We probably will be for a while to come. Even though we're new to this.

Apologies for rambling and the late reply, and I hope this answered your question.....

Perfect answer.

 

[mutato]

Good morning to all, it's finally Friday! I hope everyone has a great day.


Kal: I think that's a great answer. You given an example of why a D/s relationship is a wonderful thing - you can make it whatever you want it to be. As long as both partners are willing and consent, anything is possible. I believe it brings a deeper, richer experience to a relationship because of the intense amount of trust it requires.

 

[peachesmelba]

Actually what I mean by my comment is those girls who play at being a little online but have no intentions or doing so face to face. It's just a fantasy or a way to get off temporarily.

I agree. You reach a point where you really want and need to be together. But a deep bond can develop when you message, skype, phone, text etc.

Giggles! Yes, unfortunately I am behaving. I had a crown put on today so I'm nursing a sore mouth.

PEACHES!! You are teasing us with peeking in and running away. I miss you darling girl! Huggles!!!!

"Hi my sweet beautiful Sister! SO is letting me 'borrow' his WiFi hot spot for the next couple of days so I'll be roller blading through the Great Room here more frequently than is usual lately. Sorry to hear about the crown sweetie - feel better!

And Happy Friday to ALL my beloved Sisters and to the Daddies who watch over us! Special love and hugs to INL, Serene, DD, TT, and Daddies RJ and M. If I haven't mentioned you by name it's because I'm having a brain cloud and I apologize. Welcome to all the newbies!"

 

[RjThoughts]

"Hi my sweet beautiful Sister! SO is letting me 'borrow' his WiFi hot spot for the next couple of days so I'll be roller blading through the Great Room here more frequently than is usual lately. Sorry to hear about the crown sweetie - feel better!

And Happy Friday to ALL my beloved Sisters and to the Daddies who watch over us! Special love and hugs to INL, Serene, DD, TT, and Daddies RJ and M. If I haven't mentioned you by name it's because I'm having a brain cloud and I apologize. Welcome to all the newbies!"

Hiya Peaches!!!!!

 

[sereneone4u]

"Hi my sweet beautiful Sister! SO is letting me 'borrow' his WiFi hot spot for the next couple of days so I'll be roller blading through the Great Room here more frequently than is usual lately. Sorry to hear about the crown sweetie - feel better!

And Happy Friday to ALL my beloved Sisters and to the Daddies who watch over us! Special love and hugs to INL, Serene, DD, TT, and Daddies RJ and M. If I haven't mentioned you by name it's because I'm having a brain cloud and I apologize. Welcome to all the newbies!"

Sister!

*squeals and hugs you*

Miss you so so much!!!

 

[mutato]

Yay! Peaches is back! Woohoo! Even if it's only for a few days, that's great. So happy to see you again, you've been missed so much!

Hopefully everything is going well for you. (((hugs)))

 

[peachesmelba]

Hiya Peaches!!!!!

Sister!

*squeals and hugs you*

Miss you so so much!!!

Yay! Peaches is back! Woohoo! Even if it's only for a few days, that's great. So happy to see you again, you've been missed so much!

Hopefully everything is going well for you. (((hugs)))

(Squealing and running to hug Serene. Blushing at Daddy RJ and Daddy M.) "Missed everyone here too! Everything is good. Working a LOT. Hope all here are well. Missed too much to catch up..." (Blushing again)

 

[RjThoughts]

(Squealing and running to hug Serene. Blushing at Daddy RJ and Daddy M.) "Missed everyone here too! Everything is good. Working a LOT. Hope all here are well. Missed too much to catch up..." (Blushing again)

Yes we do

 

[INeedLove]

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Happy Saturday everyone.

 

[INeedLove]

"Hi my sweet beautiful Sister! SO is letting me 'borrow' his WiFi hot spot for the next couple of days so I'll be roller blading through the Great Room here more frequently than is usual lately. Sorry to hear about the crown sweetie - feel better!

And Happy Friday to ALL my beloved Sisters and to the Daddies who watch over us! Special love and hugs to INL, Serene, DD, TT, and Daddies RJ and M. If I haven't mentioned you by name it's because I'm having a brain cloud and I apologize. Welcome to all the newbies!"

Huggles! Yay for wifi hot spots!! The crown went well and my mouth is much better. How's work? You are truly missed around here.

Sister!

*squeals and hugs you*

Miss you so so much!!!

She is very special, isn't she?

I never heard back from you after answering your email.

 

[Miasorrow]

Thank you all for taking the time to answer..I think I just realized that being honest about what you need and want and can have is what makes all the difference..
What mutato, RA and Kal said.

In my opinion it can be if both parties understand and accept that limitation. There is no single correct way in this kind of relationship.

what I think needs to be emphasized is that for each Couple it's relative. What may seem shallow and temporary to one D/lg couple might be exactly what another couple are seeking/expecting. It's when one type (online only) attempts a relationship with the other type that it ain't never gonna work. .
In that situation one person is never going to get what they need.
.If people are honest upfront with what their expectations are, there's no problem with either way.

Good morning to all, it's finally Friday! I hope everyone has a great day.
Kal: I think that's a great answer. You given an example of why a D/s relationship is a wonderful thing - you can make it whatever you want it to be. As long as both partners are willing and consent, anything is possible. I believe it brings a deeper, richer experience to a relationship because of the intense amount of trust it requires.

I guess you could have a daddy/ baby girl interaction but it would be kind of incomplete before you physically sense the other person.

How can one be a Daddy without the nurturing embraces needed when things are down?

Actually what I mean by my comment is those girls who play at being a little online but have no intentions or doing so face to face. It's just a fantasy or a way to get off temporarily.

I agree. You reach a point where you really want and need to be together. But a deep bond can develop when you message, skype, phone,

 

[klippert]

good morning Baby-girls...Daddys.. Funny story. Yesterday, while wasting gas chasing down suckers that owe me money.
0800 Out the door, on the highway...I realized, I didn't have my GPS...so I used my fall back... smRt Phone...I use the Waze (tm) app.... round 1030.. My Wazes starts beeping. Message coming in...

Traffic was heavy...bridge work, I slowed down enough to check my message..the message.... "hello Daddy".. Oh if I didn't tell you. my profile name (nic) is HerDaddy.... the Waz'r was heading the other direction. we had a little back and forth.

So anyone up and down I-75 near Grand Blanc, MI (south Flint) Clarkston, and you use Waze...and you see HerDaddy signed in....say Hi

 

[peachesmelba]

Huggles! Yay for wifi hot spots!! The crown went well and my mouth is much better. How's work? You are truly missed around here.

She is very special, isn't she?

I never heard back from you after answering your email.

(Squeals again and runs to hug you!) "Yes - definitely hooray for hot spots and HOORAY for the SO letting me use his for a few days. Work is good mostly - last night was sort of hell but you always have those days...nights. I work exclusively the Midnight to 6AM shift so most days I'm sleeping...a lot. The work is a LOT more physical than my old office job and a WHOLE LOT less stressful. I've lost 45 lbs now so far! My Manager submitted my name for Assistant Manager training....that's sort of 'on hold' for the moment - our old District Manager has been transferred to a new District and the new DM isn't training right now. BUT, one of OUR store's Assistant Managers is pregnant with twins so there is a possibility that our store will need a new AM before long too..."

 

[peachesmelba]

Thank you all for taking the time to answer..I think I just realized that being honest about what you need and want and can have is what makes all the difference..
What mutato, RA and Kal said.

I guess you could have a daddy/ baby girl interaction but it would be kind of incomplete before you physically sense the other person.

"I know I've been gone quite a while and missed a lot. It seems to me you've already gotten some excellent input regarding your question but I'd like to add that sometimes a DD/lg relationship can grow out of a 'regular' relationship. And that sometimes a 'real' relationship can grow out of an online relationship. It all requires time and trust though and a willingness to be honest with each other about who you are and the things you want/need and that turn you on."

 

[peachesmelba]

good morning Baby-girls...Daddys.. Funny story. Yesterday, while wasting gas chasing down suckers that owe me money.
0800 Out the door, on the highway...I realized, I didn't have my GPS...so I used my fall back... smRt Phone...I use the Waze (tm) app.... round 1030.. My Wazes starts beeping. Message coming in...

Traffic was heavy...bridge work, I slowed down enough to check my message..the message.... "hello Daddy".. Oh if I didn't tell you. my profile name (nic) is HerDaddy.... the Waz'r was heading the other direction. we had a little back and forth.

So anyone up and down I-75 near Grand Blanc, MI (south Flint) Clarkston, and you use Waze...and you see HerDaddy signed in....say Hi

"Morning Daddy K. We don't see you nearly often enough. Have a terrific weekend!"

 

[DappleDoxie]

(Squeals again and runs to hug you!) "Yes - definitely hooray for hot spots and HOORAY for the SO letting me use his for a few days. Work is good mostly - last night was sort of hell but you always have those days...nights. I work exclusively the Midnight to 6AM shift so most days I'm sleeping...a lot. The work is a LOT more physical than my old office job and a WHOLE LOT less stressful. I've lost 45 lbs now so far! My Manager submitted my name for Assistant Manager training....that's sort of 'on hold' for the moment - our old District Manager has been transferred to a new District and the new DM isn't training right now. BUT, one of OUR store's Assistant Managers is pregnant with twins so there is a possibility that our store will need a new AM before long too..."

I am so terribly glad to see you!!!!!
So happy you are doing well and are happy and successful!!
NOw if we could just get your internet fixed to enjoy you more often!! Cause we are sorta selfish that way! LOL Hugs, Dear Girl!!

 

[peachesmelba]

I am so terribly glad to see you!!!!!
So happy you are doing well and are happy and successful!!
NOw if we could just get your internet fixed to enjoy you more often!! Cause we are sorta selfish that way! LOL Hugs, Dear Girl!!

"DD!!!!!!" (Running to throw my arms around you and hug you and laugh) "NOT selfish! I wish I could be here more too! I miss ya'll SO much...you and the whole family!"

 

[Miasorrow]

"I know I've been gone quite a while and missed a lot. It seems to me you've already gotten some excellent input regarding your question but I'd like to add that sometimes a DD/lg relationship can grow out of a 'regular' relationship. And that sometimes a 'real' relationship can grow out of an online relationship. It all requires time and trust though and a willingness to be honest with each other about who you are and the things you want/need and that turn you on."

And I guess sometimes a fantasy only "executed" online can be as "real" as it gets. Thank you.