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INeedLove said:
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Happy Hump Day daddies and girls!! Have a great day.


Sending get well wishes to TT and anyone else who is feeling poorly.

Daddy Rj, I hope today is much better. It sounds emotionally draining.
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I SO want to go to wherever that picture is.

Thank you. Slowly getting there. Last day or work tomorrow for 2 1/2 weeks.
I got permanency at work yesterday, all without having to go through the recruitment process. So YAY

mutato said:
Happy Hump Day to one and all. Halfway through the work week and it's going well. I hope everyone else is doing great.

TT: I hope you're feeling better, working with the little Petri dishes... oops, I mean kids, it's always challenging to stay healthy. Sigh. (((hugs))) and happy healing thoughts for you.
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I'm glad to hear you're having a good week.

Yes charming little things they are. Thank you *hugs back*
 
DappleDoxie said:
Huh ... who knew LOL

Good morning all!! Been a tad busy, but always take a peek in!! Hugs to all.
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Hugs! Spring has sprung. Is it still too wet to ride?

mutato said:
Hi dear INL. :rose: :kiss: I'll pass on the beer but everything else sounds great! Good weather is here for now, it's supposed to get up to 60F today and the rest of the week will be in the 50s with no rain forecast for the next 5 days. Spring weather in CT is a variable thing though... one day it's warm, the next it might be snowing. :p
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Hi daddy M! :D At least the warmer weather means no snow is coming for that day. Right? Sending warm thoughts to you and Angel!

swag_man said:
Hello

I hope you have all been well during my absence (knowing this is unrealistic).

I do hope Dapple Doxies skull has healed. :)

Back for a while, if things work in my favour.

Waving, as I head off to bed.........
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Hi Swag. How's it going for you?

RjThoughts said:
INL Today is much better. The sun is out, it smells like spring has arrived, and I didn't have to see stupid people this morning.

I hope all's swell with you :D
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Good morning daddy Rj. I'm glad today is better. Stupid people....sigh. I'm hanging in. :rolleyes:

StarryEyed665 said:
I have come to join the party ;D This is an awesome thread! Hey all!
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Welcome to the thread!

tiedtits4me said:
I SO want to go to wherever that picture is.

Thank you. Slowly getting there. Last day or work tomorrow for 2 1/2 weeks.
I got permanency at work yesterday, all without having to go through the recruitment process. So YAY
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Wouldn't it be nice to know where that setting is? It looked like a wonderful spot to visit and spend a summer afternoon.

CONGRATULATIONS on getting permanency! That is terrific news. Did you celebrate? Those kids are going to benefit from having a caring person too.

Keep healing sweetie! Hugs!
 
INeedLove said:
Hi Swag. How's it going for you?
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A few challenges at this end, but getting through it all.

How are you?

It appears some new people have come to join the thread!
Daddies and little girls. Hi all. :)
 
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swag_man said:
A few challenges at this end, but getting through it all.

How are you?

It appears some new people have come to join the thread!
Daddies and little girls. Hi all. :)
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Hey you ^^
Hi to all. I consider myelf new here ..among the new ones..:D
 
Morning INL ... Not to wet - though we are supposed to get a storm. My new helmet will be here saturday!!! So tickled.
How lovely to see so many faces around here!!
This is day seven at work and then I have three days to prep for company.
Have a great day, everyone!!
 
INeedLove said:
Wouldn't it be nice to know where that setting is? It looked like a wonderful spot to visit and spend a summer afternoon.

CONGRATULATIONS on getting permanency! That is terrific news. Did you celebrate? Those kids are going to benefit from having a caring person too.

Keep healing sweetie! Hugs!
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It would be, shame we don't

Thank you. No I didn't. Thank you I hope so.

I'm trying. *hugs back*

INeedLove said:
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Those tender moments. And THAT spot that only Daddy knows about...:heart:




Have a great day daddies and girls! :rose:
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Aw love that one.

You have a great day too please
 
swag_man said:
A few challenges at this end, but getting through it all.

How are you?

It appears some new people have come to join the thread!
Daddies and little girls. Hi all. :)
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Good morning! Sorry to hear that you are having challenges. I hope they aren't too bad? I'm doing good. Staying out of trouble at the moment. LOL

DappleDoxie said:
Morning INL ... Not to wet - though we are supposed to get a storm. My new helmet will be here saturday!!! So tickled.
How lovely to see so many faces around here!!
This is day seven at work and then I have three days to prep for company.
Have a great day, everyone!!
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Oh no. Then you haven't been able to ride? Or do you have alternate helmets? Have fun with your company. I hope the weather cooperates.

tiedtits4me said:
It would be, shame we don't

Thank you. No I didn't. Thank you I hope so.

I'm trying. *hugs back*



Aw love that one.

You have a great day too please
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Happy Friday!! Have a great day yourself! It's almost the weekend so you'll get some rest time. Yay! :D
 
I have a silly question, and I am sorry for it. Being new to this situation (daddies and littles) I am having a hard time explaining the difference between a Daddy and a Dom? I apparently dont have the right words for it yet. :(
 
sunniegrl12 said:
I have a silly question, and I am sorry for it. Being new to this situation (daddies and littles) I am having a hard time explaining the difference between a Daddy and a Dom? I apparently dont have the right words for it yet. :(
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No such thing as a silly question. There are tons of definitions depending upon the person. A Daddy is usually a loving partner that wishes to help his/her little grow into a better person or to meet goals. A Daddy Dom is some of those same things but the DD likes the control over the little. Usually a DD is a nurturing and loving sort of person. A Dom is someone who seeks control in a relationship. The dom may care about the sub but may not.

The above is a really surface definition. There are lots of articles about doms and daddies online and also referenced in the previous pages of this and the old thread.

You'll find your words. Just give yourself time. We try to be a supportive thread. Please be careful, there are predators who troll this thread and who will contact you. Guard your heart and avoid giving much personal info unless you are ready. A daddy would NEVER pressure you. And a daddy is not simply interested in sex. He is interested in much more. (I hope this makes sense??)

Welcome to the thread!
 
Thank you INL. :)
Your answer confirmed my thoughts. But in a much simpler and less jumbled way. You're awesome!
 
tiedtits4me said:
Something I read and thought i'd share

"Care and feeding of Daddies:

1. Daddies may seem stalwart and invincible but often in the pursuit of providing for our Little Ones we need to be reminded to sit down/eat/sleep/breathe.

2. Daddies need praise. Often we act as a filter between you and the harshness of the world we want to spare you from. Telling us what a good job we are doing makes it all better.

3. Daddies need to be asked what they need sometimes :) Especially if your Daddy is a bit addled in the brain…

4. You are one of Daddy’s biggest sources of stress relief. Learn him. Interpret him. Let him know you delight in unwinding him.

5. Our community tends to tailor towards fun social activities where Littles get to interact with each other. It can be a bit different for Daddies. Encourage him to make friends with other Daddies when possible. We are a great support group for each other.

6. Play with your Daddy. Not just sexytimes. Try and understand his hobbies. Watch that bring out a smile in him.

7. He’s already wrapped around your little finger. Make that a safe stable place for him to be. Be the place he can retreat to as well.

8. When he does something manly…praise him for it. That goes right to our heads :)

9. Remind your Daddy why he is your Daddy. Do this periodically.

10. Always tell him the truth. Truth is the foundation of any solid relationship. Fibbing about getting into the cookies or where you hid his birthday presents do not count.

..I imagine this will not apply to every Big/Little relationship out there…but I hope it serves as a good reminder. Please feel free to spread this around and add your own take on things. I am sure I forgot many important issues (see number 3)."
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INeedLove said:
This came from Tumblr. I couldn't find the post to which you are referring. But this might give your friend some ideas:


Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms and their little girls

There is a lot of controversy and misconception surrounding this particular type of D/s relationship and to be honest, i, myself, was one of those perpetrators of ignorance until a few weeks back. Most people who do not put the time and effort into researching and trying to understand the Daddy Dom / little girl relationship dynamic are convinced that it revolves around incest and/or paedophilia. While for some individuals this is true, for the majority of true Daddy Dom and little girl relationships this couldn’t be further from the truth.

The first point i’d like to make is: Daddy Doms and their little girls are NOT sick and twisted perverts driven by deep seated incestuous or paedophilic desires.

Taking it too far – when men want their littles to look and act like real little girls because they get off from the illusion of having sex with an underage child. This kind of creeps me out to be honest!

Daddy Doms are not Fathers:

Unlike age-players who both enjoy and get off on viewing their partner as a real father figure or child, Daddy Doms are not fathers to their littles nor are littles children to their Daddy Doms. Daddy Doms view their roles much as a Master or Dominant would theirs, as a position of power over their submissive.

Little girls are NOT daughters:

Little girls do not desire a father or father figure, nor do they desire to be or be seen as little children. They are simply adult women with a childlike personality and who appreciate an emotionally mature partner to protect, comfort and love them. Littles in a DD/lg relationship are not interested in incest!

If he isn’t a father and she isn’s a daughter, what are they?

Daddy Doms are Dominants who simply assume a much more nurturing and caring role than Dominants in other types of D/s relationships. Little girls are submissive women who have a naturally childlike personality that is especially dominant in them when they are around a Daddy Dom who makes them feel safe and cherished.

Getting it right – a woman’s figure, ample assets, she is a real woman with a hint of child-like little coming through

Daddy Doms vs. Masters:

Daddy Doms are just like other Dominants and Masters but with 1 or 2 key differences. They still take charge and enjoy being in control but they often enforce different kinds of rules. Daddy Doms will more likely focus on their sibmissive’s personal growth, goals and needs than on things like protocol and how certain actions are carried out. Another difference is that Daddy Doms not only accept but actually value and treasure their submissive’s inner little, encouraging their sub to enter and even live in ‘little space’, to play and to explore and enjoy their little side. Other Masters may rather prefer a submissive with an adult attitude towards life and may actually find littles annoying. Another big difference between other Dominants and Daddy Doms is that being playful, having fun and being able to laugh, A LOT, is a necessity and it is also essential to have a nurturing and affectionate relationship with your little. Not to say that other types of Masters cannot show affection but for the most part they seem to me more stoic, more rigid and far less full of warm fuzzies.

The Title of ‘Daddy’:

When a little calls her Dominant ‘Daddy’, it is only a title, a love name if you will, and not meant as a reference to a father in any way. This title alone has caused much controversy and even some lifestylers in Daddy Dom / little girl relationships have their reservations about it. The feeling a little gets from calling her Dominant ‘Daddy’ is certainly not the same feeling she will get when calling her father ‘daddy’. Just the same, one will not feel the same when you say ‘I love you’ to your parents and to your lover/partner.

The Title of little girl:

Daddy Doms may call their littles by many different love names, dependant on his own personal preference and the personality of his little. Some names for littles may include little girl, little one, sweetheart and many others. Just as Daddy is simply a title so it ‘little girl’ and it by no means refers to the submissive as a daughter or underage child.

Daddy Doms and Sadism:
Just because a Daddy Dom is nurturing and affectionate does not mean that he cannot be sadistic as well. They can enjoy and embrace their inner sadist while catering to and fulfilling their submissive’s masochistic side.
Littles and masochism:

Not all submissives are masochists and so too not all littles enjoy pain. However, there is a good deal that does enjoy having their Dominant inflict physical pain on them, predominantly through spanking. It is these littles how are most compatible with a sadistic Daddy Dom who will feed their craving for pain and take pleasure in it at the same time.

What is a Daddy-Dom’s job?
First and foremost, Daddy Doms are Dominants and as such it is his job to take charge of his little, to guide her and help her achieve her goals, to protect her and to love and nurture her. Other types of Dominants may be free to flippantly order their submissive around purely for their own pleasure but Daddy Doms dominate and enforce rules according to goals set in place in order to nurture and guide their little and based on what is in their submissive’s best interest.

That being said, Daddy Doms do get a great deal of pleasure from their littles both sexually and otherwise.

Why Daddy Doms are the way they are and why do they like ‘little’ submissives?

Being a Daddy Dom is simply a part of someone’s personality, he likes being a dominant but he likes doing to in a more affectionate and nurturing capacity than is the accepted norm for D/s lifestyle relationships. Daddy Doms often enjoy and find both the little and adult sides of their submissives attractive and can appreciate them both. littles appeal to them because they cater to their desires to nurture, protect and love as well as him enjoying and being amused by the natural, child-like little girl personality in a beautiful adult woman’s body. (NOTE: Daddy Doms are not paedophiles; they do not see their submissives as little girls but rather appreciate the naturally occurring child-like attributes of their personality.)

Adult sexy with cute pigtails in the classic school girl fantasy role play.
Why are littles the way they are and why do they need a Daddy Dom?

Littles are unique women who retain a childlike aspect of their personality. This isn’t to say that there is something wrong with them, on the contrary, although the majority of society doesn’t understand their inner little and so sees it as something undesirable. These women need Daddy Doms to make them feel safe, to embrace their inner littles and accept them for who they are in their entirety, the grown up woman and the inner little girl.

Daddy Doms, little girls and Sex

Because of the misconceptions that Daddy Doms are fathers to their littles, reconciling the Daddy/little girl relationship with 2 sexually active, consenting adults often leads to the conclusion that these couples must be sick perverts. This is not true, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships, unlike age role-players, do not see or desire to see their partners as underage children or real father figures. They see each other as consenting adults with the bodies and minds of competent adults. It is simply their personalities that define them as mature, nurturing and dominant or child-like, young at heart and submissive.

What is a Daddy Dom Like?

Daddy Doms love their littles unconditionally. They cherish the woman as well as her inner little and revel in her childlike personality, her innocence and her appreciation of the simple things like cuddles and cartoons on a weekend morning, milkshakes instead of coffee and the way she turns to him for reassurance. He protects her, guides her when she is unsure of loses her way, he helps her reach her goals and is proud of her when she does. Daddy Doms with a sadistic streak may love to cause her physical pain, the type she likes and craves, but he hates and does everything he can not to hurt her emotionally. He will punish her for transgression, whether he enjoys it or not, and will praise her for a job well done. It takes a great deal of discipline and strength from a Daddy Dom to do what he needs to do: dominate, care for, guide, punish, praise, comfort, understand and love his little. He draws on his own life experiences to guide her and keep her safe all the while accepting her as his, all parts of her – grown up and little.

What is a little like?

Littles are very complex women as they are both sexy, adult women and cute inner littles. They can very well run a company but also may sleep with a teddy bear at night for comfort. She enjoys ‘little’ behaviour which may include games, puzzles, colouring in, arts and crafts, watching cartoons and going out for ice-cream. However, she also enjoys adult interests such as sexy lingerie, girls night out with friends, shopping and much more. She feels safest in her Daddy Dom’s arms and around him she is free to be herself, a quickly mix of adult and little girl and she is free to pursue her ‘little’ interests. She may be needy and whiny at times, she may have irrational fears. She will most likely pout and sulk sometimes but she will also light up with an innocent child-like enthusiasm for things she enjoys and, of course, for her Daddy Dom. She is submissive by nature, seeing the guidance, domination and nurturing love of a Daddy Dom who will guide, protect and comfort her when the world becomes too much to handle. She respects him, submits to his will and trusts him completely to keep her save and love her.

Daddy Dom and little girl vs. Age Play:

Unlike age players, Daddy Doms and their littles are not after the experience of being a father/older man or a physically and mentally underage child, desires which stem from deeply rooted incestuous and paedophilic desires. They are 2 adults with specific personality traits who are compatible with each other and work together towards a common goal, much like any other ‘vanilla’ relationship. Little girl submissives may have teddy bears and often enjoy many of the pastimes that younger children enjoy like puzzles, games and watching cartoons. They may also enjoy wearing cutsey items like PJ’s with cute bunnies or teddies on them, cartoon character t-shirts and maybe even wearing their hair in pigtails. However, their aim is not to look prepubescent because even under all that cute they are still a whole lot of fully grown adult woman.

There is always an exception:

There is always an exception to every rule and DD/lg relationships are no different. There will always be those living under the label of Daddy Dom and little girl who derive pleasure not from the relationship as i have outlined above but rather as a more permanent type of age role play where the little is chosen for her young age and acts, dresses and is essentially made to be an underage child. Where both parties derive pleasure from fulfilling deep seated paedophilic and incestuous fantasies through age role play and label it a DD/lg relationship. Now, i’m not talking about the super common school girl fantasy that many men have, after all, a more mature woman can easily dress up as a school girl to make that fantasy a reality for her partner without crossing the line. What i am talking about is barely legal littles with nearly prepubescent bodies who can easily pass for being 13 or 14 years old in the right clothes who are adopted by ‘Daddy Doms’ for their ability to, when acting the part, seem like a real underage child and the dominants get their pleasure from the illusion that they are really being intimate with a child. That is not the Daddy Dom and little girl relationship i am referring to as defined by my personal opinions on what i think DD/lg should be.

(via joycegina)

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INeedLove said:
And just another thought:

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Horus--as you've probably seen, there are some girls that are into age play. They like to act out at a younger age. Some even liking to color and suck pacifiers. There is as much variation in the Daddy Dom/little girl relationship as there are people in the life. Maybe your friend would be reassured to know there is no right way or one way to experience the dynamic.

Have a great Sunday!
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Here are a couple of good answers about Daddy's vs Doms
 
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