tiny_tits journal and random thoughts

[tiny_tits]

Class C Misdemeanor. (Ticket) Public Lewd Conduct. But, only fineable if someone other than the ticketing officer complains, otherwise it can only be written and catalogued as a warning.

And don't ask me how I know.

Lol
I think if you (we) are halfway discreet, no one should complain.

 

[tiny_tits]

I've gotten oh so much better at this with age, experience, and improving my communication. Also something i like to refer to as "My Inner Whore" ... letting her show herself more often is what I'm practicing.

Enticements like prolonging his release are high on my list. I like to build the excitement in everything I do with a partner. I love long sessions, I take my time, I explore with every body part I've got ... all tools come out to play. I'm submissive but very passionate and fairly vocal in even small ways with small purrs, breathiness, allowing sounds to escape me at any time during any act.

Sloppy sucking and licking, experimenting with head movements and lots of variety with my tongue and lips, lots of eye contact, some nibbling on his inner thighs before and even during. I'm extremely oral so my mouth is always wanting something in it .... his lips, his tongue, his earlobes, his fingers, his skin, his nipples, his dick.

Never getting into a daily/nightly routine of starting a certain way and ending a certain way.... EVER. Sex is an exploration. You need a partner that also encourages you verbally, gently moving you off or away from something he's had enough of is simple enough body language.

I have a saying: Foreplay All Day ~ that simply means keep your love life alive in and out of the bedroom. There are countless ways to entice a man in ANY situation, public or private. The only thing lacking is your imagination and a little bit of courage so go there. He'll be pleasantly surprised the more adventurous you become. ... at least most men will that is. And if he isn't one of those, you need to move along because we can all tell you are destined for greatness! Follow your intuition and enjoy the ride!

Lovely- TY

 

[jckontharocks]

For me just being open and willing to experiment is as sexy as it can get. Nothing is hotter than. Knowing you can do anything to someone.

 

[tiny_tits]

For me just being open and willing to experiment is as sexy as it can get. Nothing is hotter than. Knowing you can do anything to someone.

Just letting someone know that you are open to anything allows them the freedom to reveal their desires.

 

[jckontharocks]

Just letting someone know that you are open to anything allows them the freedom to reveal their desires.

I agree with that. Plus you have the advantage being a female. I'll prettymuch do anything any girl wants me to do. Uuse that to your advantage and push the envelope.

 

[Idigsoftclams]

My advice. Figure out what turns you on and make it happen. If you can't talk about it, write it out in a note and tell him to open it on his way over.

If you are looking to be the best partner tell him to let you know what is working and what isn't.

Alternatively find a porn scene of what you want, play it, and tell him to repeat it;-)

Regardless enjoy and then repeat!

 

[tiny_tits]

No bullshit, please!

With very little hope for an honest straight answer, I'm gonna try anyway.
You will burn in hell for bullshit answers

Dudes, or Dudettes answering for their Dude:
(1) How many times do you typically cum in one 'night' of sex? (Or sex session- you know what I mean)
(2) what is the typical recovery time?
(3) what activity usually takes place in between?

 

[TwoShades]

With very little hope for an honest straight answer, I'm gonna try anyway.
You will burn in hell for bullshit answers

Dudes, or Dudettes answering for their Dude:
(1) How many times do you typically cum in one 'night' of sex? (Or sex session- you know what I mean)
(2) what is the typical recovery time?
(3) what activity usually takes place in between?

1. Two
2. 30 to 45 mins.
3. before I was married.... pillow talk. All the walls down. Soul to soul.

 

[tiny_tits]

1. Two
2. 30 to 45 mins.
3. before I was married.... pillow talk. All the walls down. Soul to soul.

TY

 

[6something]

With very little hope for an honest straight answer, I'm gonna try anyway.
You will burn in hell for bullshit answers

Dudes, or Dudettes answering for their Dude:
(1) How many times do you typically cum in one 'night' of sex? (Or sex session- you know what I mean)
(2) what is the typical recovery time?
(3) what activity usually takes place in between?

1. Well, it depends. Sometimes, in the past, we've just played together - watched each other masturbate - and when I'm doing that, I can get myself off at least three or four times in a row before I need a break.

If it's actual sex, it's usually so intense that it's one massive orgasm and then I have to tap out for a bit. LOL!

2. I've never watched a clock, but yeah - I think it'd be about a half-hour for me, too. Maybe an hour if we're just going to lie there and talk or do some light touching without trying to rush things.

3. Well, anything goes. Sometimes it's talking, sometimes it's a light cat nap all curled up together, entangled. Sometimes it's a shower, then someone else slips in, and it's all back to square one again!

 

[tiny_tits]

1. Well, it depends. Sometimes, in the past, we've just played together - watched each other masturbate - and when I'm doing that, I can get myself off at least three or four times in a row before I need a break.

If it's actual sex, it's usually so intense that it's one massive orgasm and then I have to tap out for a bit. LOL!

2. I've never watched a clock, but yeah - I think it'd be about a half-hour for me, too. Maybe an hour if we're just going to lie there and talk or do some light touching without trying to rush things.

3. Well, anything goes. Sometimes it's talking, sometimes it's a light cat nap all curled up together, entangled. Sometimes it's a shower, then someone else slips in, and it's all back to square one again!

(1) one after another?

 

[6something]

Yeah, one after the other. There's less cum produced each time, of course, and the last one is usually just a HUGE body 'shiver', but it's awesome nonetheless!

 

[Acktion]

Nowadays, it's "one and done". And usually quite a while between sessions. Before I got sick, however, that was a different story.

1) On a typical night we would range from 3 on the low side to 7 on the high side. Much depended on whether it was "a school night". That was our joking reference to whether we had to work the next day. (Yes, I am well aware that I am considered strange for a guy. It's called "sexual addiction" or if you want to get old fashioned "satyrmania".)

2) Recovery times differed a lot. Quite often, I was able to maintain erection between 1 and 2 and occasionally between 2 and 3. By the time we reached the period between 6 and 7, we were probably talking about 30 mins to an hour. (Note; the seventh didn't "shoot" very far and was more often than not just a dribble.)

3) I didn't actually stop in the seduction even if we took a break to raid the refrigerator. The mind is the primary erogenous zone after all. Generally, the way I looked at it was as long as I kept her going (and sans clothing), we weren't done. Here's some of the things I did in between actual penile penetration;

a) Still got a tongue and fingers! 'Nuff said.
b) Feed her. Fruit works best as it helps with hydration and sugar build up at the same time.
c) Write poetry (although anything probably works) on her back. Usually on paper, but occasionally on skin. (Water soluble ink a must!) Note; had a "special" 12" feather quill just for the purpose.
d) Sponge bath. Shower. Or SOME way of doing a little "clean up" to keep dried fluids from interfering with new and causing discomfort.
e) Sensuous massage. (Not to be confused with deep tissue, shiatsu, or any other.)
f) Sharing sexual fantasies.

I could keep going, but I have to keep some of my secret tricks. Seriously, though. In my experience, it didn't matter so much what was done during those periods between so long as my attitude remained loving and tender and sexual and I kept attention focused on her. And I didn't stop talking. Or more accurately, listening.

 

[albertaboy]

With very little hope for an honest straight answer, I'm gonna try anyway.
You will burn in hell for bullshit answers

Dudes, or Dudettes answering for their Dude:
(1) How many times do you typically cum in one 'night' of sex? (Or sex session- you know what I mean)
(2) what is the typical recovery time?
(3) what activity usually takes place in between?

I am almost 51

(1) Once generally
(2) An hour or so
(3) We usually keep cuddling and maybe watching porn

 

[tiny_tits]

I am almost 51

(1) Once generally
(2) An hour or so
(3) We usually keep cuddling and maybe watching porn

ahhh, honesty

 

[Tyrus]

This generally depends on our time spent together...

1. Normally once
2. I can be ready in an hour or so depending
3. Again depends...Cuddling,talking, oral or manual stimulation of each other

Like I said it all depends on situations and what time we have

 

[tiny_tits]

So can the recovery time be reduced?

 

[Tyrus]

I think it depends on the situation at hand and every man will be different.

 

[Tyrus]

Sex shouldn't be about how many times that you cum but how satisfied you are.....

 

[jomar]

With very little hope for an honest straight answer, I'm gonna try anyway.
You will burn in hell for bullshit answers

Dudes, or Dudettes answering for their Dude:
(1) How many times do you typically cum in one 'night' of sex? (Or sex session- you know what I mean)
(2) what is the typical recovery time?
(3) what activity usually takes place in between?

I am in my 50s...

1. Once, maybe twice but I can last a very long time and sometimes have difficulty even having an orgasm...but I love how often and hard my lover does.
2. I can often keep going after I cum, but if not then 10 to 20 minutes.
3. Cuddling and talking and glowing.

My two cents....good for you for thinking and asking. You are young, lighten up. It is not that you are uninspiring, it's the guys you are with are unimaginative/wary and can't read your mind. Read up on 'topping from the bottom.' Try an experiment: do what pleases you, what gets you off...I predict your partner will be pleased. If you're submissive, kneel as you give him a blow job and at some point tell him that you want to please him, that you will do whatever he wants, that he can use you for his pleasure...if that doesn't do it then it's back to the unimaginative/wary guy that may not be a good match for you. You've gotten some good advice here. By the way, don't pin your heart on a married guy. Best to you!

 

[tiny_tits]

I am in my 50s...

1. Once, maybe twice but I can last a very long time and sometimes have difficulty even having an orgasm...but I love how often and hard my lover does.
2. I can often keep going after I cum, but if not then 10 to 20 minutes.
3. Cuddling and talking and glowing.

My two cents....good for you for thinking and asking. You are young, lighten up. It is not that you are uninspiring, it's the guys you are with are unimaginative/wary and can't read your mind. Read up on 'topping from the bottom.' Try an experiment: do what pleases you, what gets you off...I predict your partner will be pleased. If you're submissive, kneel as you give him a blow job and at some point tell him that you want to please him, that you will do whatever he wants, that he can use you for his pleasure...if that doesn't do it then it's back to the unimaginative/wary guy that may not be a good match for you. You've gotten some good advice here. By the way, don't pin your heart on a married guy. Best to you!

I was so worried that 12" cock that cums 5 times would chime in- good for ya'll with (what sounds like to me) honesty.

 

[jomar]

I was so worried that 12" cock that cums 5 times would chime in- good for ya'll with (what sounds like to me) honesty.

Haha...no 12 incher here. But I have always had good stamina. And am fortunate to have a lover who is pretty responsive and wide open. Early on she asked me to do what she had never asked another partner...to spank her and talk dirty to her...trust, ya know? And anal sex...if it hurts you're not doing it right, it's all about the preparation.

 

[albertaboy]

I am in my 50s...

1. Once, maybe twice but I can last a very long time and sometimes have difficulty even having an orgasm...but I love how often and hard my lover does.
2. I can often keep going after I cum, but if not then 10 to 20 minutes.
3. Cuddling and talking and glowing.

My two cents....good for you for thinking and asking. You are young, lighten up. It is not that you are uninspiring, it's the guys you are with are unimaginative/wary and can't read your mind. Read up on 'topping from the bottom.' Try an experiment: do what pleases you, what gets you off...I predict your partner will be pleased. If you're submissive, kneel as you give him a blow job and at some point tell him that you want to please him, that you will do whatever he wants, that he can use you for his pleasure...if that doesn't do it then it's back to the unimaginative/wary guy that may not be a good match for you. You've gotten some good advice here. By the way, don't pin your heart on a married guy. Best to you!

That's the same as me, sometimes we get re-revved up I can go quite a while but not cum. My wife...that's another story in those circumstances

 

[k_m_d_]

If you feel like Googling more info on this, the technical term is 'male refractory period'.

 

[tiny_tits]

If you feel like Googling more info on this, the technical term is 'male refractory period'.

This is more fun.