peachesmelba
Round and Succulent
- Joined
- Jun 14, 2009
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Wow, what a brazen cop out! Your attitude typifies the double standards of many of those dredging the sewer of this so called fetish.
One minute you are weeping great crocodile tears about your awful treatment at the hands of one of your recent ''Daddies'' Simpletimes? Then in the next lauding your SO for his unique place in your life-yea right!
How did this SO feel while you were publicly shagging the pastry chef? Perhaps some of those earlier men in your life ''The possessive in an ugly way'', types cared deeply enough about and for you to be wounded and hurt by your promiscuity?
Anyway, thanks for the wake up. I blundered in here just less than a year ago. Bored and at a loose end and with not a clue what this D/BGirl thing was about. Now, having wasted more time than it has been worth, I can see it for what it is, nothing more than another example of a hippie type INTERNET commune.
Stable membership depends on the acceptance that all have the right to infinitely variable morals, little interest in any kind of faithful monogamous relationships and an almost laughable belief in group and individual superiority.
I have to add that I have met a few truly delightful folks here and they know who they are. Thank you for everything, our exchanges will be missed.
Right now I'm off back into the real world, where the majority of normal and happy adult men and women can still live, love and honor each other, without the need for retreat into introverted fantasy.
I was just going to leave without saying a word since I have no idea what I have personally done to cause this vituperative attack. Other than, of course, stand beside a dearly loved sister - something I have done any number of other times with other sisters, without incurring your enmity. However - here are the facts - for you and anyone else who cares...
First - "SimpleTimes" was not one of my 'recent Daddies' - he has been, in point of fact, the only 'Daddy' I have ever had - and while I was his BG, he was privately carrying on with one of the other Littles here - who was also in a relationship at the time.
You said, "Perhaps some of those earlier men in your life ''The possessive in an ugly way'', types cared deeply enough about and for you to be wounded and hurt by your promiscuity?" REALLY??? And you know this how? Would you be referring to my first husband - a verifiable and diagnosed psychotic who ultimately spent a number of years in prison - NOT, mind you, due to anything I said or did, or because of the number of times he beat me black and blue and bloody...or caused the early forced termination of more than one pregnancy with such treatment... No? Maybe you're referring to my last husband - the alcoholic - whose mental and emotional abuse of myself and my young son was so damaging and pervasive that it was 13 YEARS before I could even consider being involved in a relationship again. Or perhaps you're talking about my birth father who first tried to teach me, with anger and violence, that women should be seen and not heard... And for the record - MY promiscuity during those relationships??? MINE??? Sorry - you've attacked the wrong girl.
As for my SO and I - I explained this, at length, in the early pages of the original thread which you obviously never read. We met on LitE and he is a continuing member of LitE. He is welcome here, on this thread, at any time - I would LOVE that. For all YOU know, Sir, he DOES come here on a regular basis to see what I'm doing. We are NOT married, unlike some of the others on this thread who are either married and/or involved in private D/bg relationships. NOT a judgement - simply a statement of fact.
So there are the FACTS - some of them anyway. Anyone desiring MORE information and more of my 'FACTS and Full Details' should please feel free to ASK whatever it is they want to know. I don't lie - I don't claim to be perfect though and I've made my share of mistakes over the years. Not least of which frequently involved settling on men and relationships. Regardless, I will not lie and if asked I will answer to the best of my ability and understanding, and without attempting to divert, judge or attack the questioner.
And to my Sister Baby Girls and the many loving Daddies who frequent this thread - my apologies for taking so much space in my attempt to elaborate
