Ladies and gents, I present you with...

I never got the whole thing where if you fuck on the first date you're a lot less likely to talk to the person after. But then again, I don't get a lot of things about dating. :rolleyes:

Well he SAYS he'd be contacting me all the time but you know, I've heard that before. Not really sure.
 
Maybe you could go on the second date on Monday? Surely a 24-hour delay won't kill you. ;)

Otherwise, I'd say go for the sex. Given the choice between sex and exploding... well, it's a no-brainer.
Haha, a very tempting possibility...

Yeah...I'm not sure. We'll see how we get along. Maybe a second date involves me going to his house and him cooking for me :p
 
Get over here right now and I'll satisfy your inner slut over and over and over...

You have no idea how much I need that right now. Gonna try to distract myself with aerobics but my head is just going 'needsexneedsexnsexNEEDSEXNEEDSEX' Yeah you get the gist.
 
You have no idea how much I need that right now. Gonna try to distract myself with aerobics but my head is just going 'needsexneedsexnsexNEEDSEXNEEDSEX' Yeah you get the gist.

need to go see mister.

mister bater...

at least might take the edge off
 
You have no idea how much I need that right now. Gonna try to distract myself with aerobics but my head is just going 'needsexneedsexnsexNEEDSEXNEEDSEX' Yeah you get the gist.

I should probably try distracting myself from the need for sex with exercise...
 
I say go for it. If he's the kind of guy that doesn't keep it going if you have sex on the first date, it may have only been worth the sex anyway. If he's a keeper, he'll be a keeper whether or not it happens on the first or fifth date.
 
I'm so conflicted, waaaah. Want to be classy but satisfy my inner slut too. Oh dear.

Well... If you have been talking on facebook, he already knows you are classy, AND a slut due to the dirty talk. You're a rare bird Calypso. A nice girl who know what she wants and is not afraid to say it.

Screw him... date ME :) lol
 
So, advice me people.

I have a date on Sunday, with a guy I get on well with. I was talking to him on facebook the other night about how much I needed sex. And basically we got dirty talking. And now I'm going a first date and I just really wanna bang him. But I'd like him to talk to me after, so I might have to implicate the second/third date rule if I want this one to last.
But we both want it, and it's so obvious on both sides. I might explode next week if I don't, but I don't wanna be a slut with a guy I actually like.

Thooouuuughts?

Set up a second date for two days later. You can wait that long. If he's worth it, he'll wait that long.

See how the first date goes. Make sure he treats you the way you want to be treated. Make sure that he's into you enough to be willing to wait for date #2. How would you feel if your date turned out to be mostly about the sex and then you never heard from him again?

I suspect you'd feel used and pissed off and regretful.
 
Set up a second date for two days later. You can wait that long. If he's worth it, he'll wait that long.

See how the first date goes. Make sure he treats you the way you want to be treated. Make sure that he's into you enough to be willing to wait for date #2. How would you feel if your date turned out to be mostly about the sex and then you never heard from him again?

I suspect you'd feel used and pissed off and regretful.

That's funny, it's actually what we came up with :) if first date goes well, second date is being cooked dinner at his.
I would be thoroughly pissed and I'd feel like I could have done something to change that situation, so we'll see how it goes.
 
That's funny, it's actually what we came up with :) if first date goes well, second date is being cooked dinner at his.
I would be thoroughly pissed and I'd feel like I could have done something to change that situation, so we'll see how it goes.

Well good on the first bit, but you confused me on the second.

If you had sex on the first date and then you never heard from him again, you'd think that you had done something wrong? Besides the fact that you'd slept with him, I mean?

Oh, honey...
 

First time commenter here, you look amazing. I would love to oblige with that request!
 
I say go for it. He sounds like he's pretty keen on you.

Just so long as you don't stop talking to us.
 
Handcuff him to the bed on the first date and you've got him for as long as you like :devil::rose::kiss:
 
I say go for it. He sounds like he's pretty keen on you.

Just so long as you don't stop talking to us.

Not even considering it for the moment ;) I think if I got into a heavier relationship with a guy, I wouldn't want to risk upsetting him...but that's a conversation for another time.

First time commenter here, you look amazing. I would love to oblige with that request!

Giving me your lit virginity? I am honoured, mister. Hope you have as good a time here as I do.

Good luck with the date, he's one lucky guy! ;)

Aww, shy you utter babe. x

Well good on the first bit, but you confused me on the second.

If you had sex on the first date and then you never heard from him again, you'd think that you had done something wrong? Besides the fact that you'd slept with him, I mean?

Oh, honey...

Hey I'm not perfect :) I might chew really disgustingly at dinner or something....in fact, first dates should never involve dinner. But you're sweet, really.
 
Love your pics! Very sexy! Huge fan of the adorable lingerie too :)

Thanks you :) Love your pictures too. What a lady.

I say go for it. If he's the kind of guy that doesn't keep it going if you have sex on the first date, it may have only been worth the sex anyway. If he's a keeper, he'll be a keeper whether or not it happens on the first or fifth date.

I'm gonna try and stop myself, if it happens, it happens, I'll be a lady about it. Then on the second date I don't have to be.

Well... If you have been talking on facebook, he already knows you are classy, AND a slut due to the dirty talk. You're a rare bird Calypso. A nice girl who know what she wants and is not afraid to say it.

Screw him... date ME :) lol

A...parakeet? :D aww super you're so lovely.

Handcuff him to the bed on the first date and you've got him for as long as you like :devil::rose::kiss:

Hmmm...a tempting proposition.

really nice tits and wonderful body. Good job!

*Clears throat and prepares best west country accent* Proper jobbb. Note: I do not expect anyone not from the UK to understand this.
 
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