Female forced orgasm... How to

[Jcm412]

I would like to try implementing forced orgasms with my sub. Does anyone have any tips, instruction , or info about it? Or is it as simple as it seems?

 

[Loverskitten]

Every woman is different. But...
1. Know her trigger spots.
2. Magic wand!
3. Restraints

I know my sweet spots, if I use my magic wand a half inch movement on the clit can make a difference. Tie her/spread her, and use the wand on her clit, moving ever so slightly, adding ever so slight pressure, watch her reaction, add fingers or use attachments if she likes that, keep at it, she'll beg you to stop.

 

[coatcheckgirl]

Agreed - something that vibrates ... intensely ... should do the trick right on that clit.

...does for me... repeatedly.

 

[Wifeshairycunt]

thinking....

when I go down on my wife she gets close to cumming or cums and then gets very sensitive and I need to stop.

What actually happens in force orgasms for example if I continued?

Pleasure? Pain? irritation?

 

[Mr.G]

Try This

Look on my TRY THIS thread. Around pg 6 there is a couple of SPANKING & FORCED G-GASM posts.

The beauty of using the G is that it does NOT get overly sensitive so the O's can continue until the cows come home. The clit becomes super sensitive and does NOT lend itself well to forced anything once it has reached that point. It's one thing to force orgasms. It's another to force the agony of over - stimulating a clit that will likely only respond with pain and a feeling of being rubbed raw.

As far as forced G-GASMS go even a vanilla couple can have fun with that Once the G-Spot is working the partner is IN CHARGE of her orgasms and can "force" more than she ever considered having before. It should be discussed prior to the event unless you have a relationship where pretty much anything is OK to try w/o asking first.

For some women the loss of control is a HUGE turn on. For others - not so much. Make sure you know her well enough that her response will be positive and then have at 'er.

 

[Holley]

when I go down on my wife she gets close to cumming or cums and then gets very sensitive and I need to stop.

What actually happens in force orgasms for example if I continued?

Pleasure? Pain? irritation?

From my own experence, nothing else' I had to be restrained to get passed this spot. A finger rubbing my clit I would start or maybe have an orgasm. But would have to stop because of it becoming so sensitive I couldn"t handle being stimulated any longer'
Then my husband forced me passed this point and i had an orgasm like never before.
The more times I was forced through it the easier it became. Now I do not need to be forced and really have enjoyed the more intense orgasms.
So it will be pleasure / pain / pleasure

 

[Joseph28]

Good point

 

[fed0ra]

Try This thread

Look on my TRY THIS thread. Around pg 6 there is a couple of SPANKING & FORCED G-GASM posts.

The beauty of using the G is that it does NOT get overly sensitive so the O's can continue until the cows come home. The clit becomes super sensitive and does NOT lend itself well to forced anything once it has reached that point. It's one thing to force orgasms. It's another to force the agony of over - stimulating a clit that will likely only respond with pain and a feeling of being rubbed raw.

As far as forced G-GASMS go even a vanilla couple can have fun with that Once the G-Spot is working the partner is IN CHARGE of her orgasms and can "force" more than she ever considered having before. It should be discussed prior to the event unless you have a relationship where pretty much anything is OK to try w/o asking first.

For some women the loss of control is a HUGE turn on. For others - not so much. Make sure you know her well enough that her response will be positive and then have at 'er.

MrG, the 'Try This' thread didn't work.

 

[Kim_Burly]

How to make your sub a quivering mass of Jello

Forced orgasms in 10 easy steps:

1. Drape 4-5 old bath towels over a pillow on your bed.

2. Place her bottom on the pillow and securely tie her down.

3. Tease her with a Hitachi Magic Wand, on low until she is sincerely begging for release.

4. Put an effective gag in her mouth.

5. Slowly and gently bring her to an orgasm with the MW on low.

6. Give her 30 seconds to catch her breath.

7. Attack her clitoris with the MW on high, don't stop until she has emptied her bladder by peeing* uncontrollably.

8. (Optional) Kneel between her thighs and give her a thorough, head to toe golden shower. This will entail more prep work.

9. Immediately take her as hard as you can, for as long as you can.

10. Untie her and make her clean up the mess she made .

*She is peeing. She is not ejaculating, she has ovaries, not testicles. She is not "squirting" some unknown fluid that from some unknown place that has escaped the notice of medical science for all of these years. It is urine coming from her urethra, under a good amount of pressure because of muscle spasms. It is PEE! Accept and embrace that fact.

 

[NightL]

MrG, the 'Try This' thread didn't work.

It has a new home since recent board upgrades
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

 

[fed0ra]

It has a new home since recent board upgrades
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

Thank you, NightL

 

[CutieMouse]

*She is peeing. She is not ejaculating, she has ovaries, not testicles. She is not "squirting" some unknown fluid that from some unknown place that has escaped the notice of medical science for all of these years. It is urine coming from her urethra, under a good amount of pressure because of muscle spasms. It is PEE! Accept and embrace that fact.

Skene's Gland

 

[Mr.G]

Another expert who doesn't have a clue

Yes, some women do urinate during intense sexual release but there IS a difference between the two. If you've ever TASTED the fluid during G-GASMS / ejaculating you wouldn't make such a definitive and ignorant statement. It is NOT urine. NO, there isn't a lot of research into this and many experts are as clued OUT as you are but that doesn't change the FACT that the fluid is NOT pee.

Women are mortified by the thought of peeing on a lover or just peeing during intense sex and don't need to hear an unfounded statement based on ignorance that they are peeing. YOU are clearly into "golden showers" but most women are not, find it disgusting and would rather terminate sex than pee during the act. GSpot stimulation can often initiate ejaculation without orgasm and that is even more important to reassure most women that they are NOT emptying their bladders when this happens. This is one of the reasons I instruct women to have a good pee right before having a lover do the GSPOT technique - so they are confident there is nothing there even when they feel like they need to pee again.

*She is peeing. She is not ejaculating, she has ovaries, not testicles. She is not "squirting" some unknown fluid that from some unknown place that has escaped the notice of medical science for all of these years. It is urine coming from her urethra, under a good amount of pressure because of muscle spasms. It is PEE! Accept and embrace that fact.

 

[LallyH]

I ejaculate a tremendous amount, and I agree with Mr G that it is definitely not urine. We mostly play first thing in the morning when we wake up, so I empty my uncomfortably full bladder before we begin.

My Dom then uses controlled/forced orgasms and I do multiples, meaning that I ejaculate 25-30 times in a single session. We use towels to absorb the fluid, which is clear, not yellow, and almost without odour and taste. If my Dom is licking me, he allows it to land in his face which he would not do if it was urine. Also he watches me ejaculate and says that the fluid comes from the vagina, not the urethra.

Edit: my Dom says that there are online videos of the female ejaculation.

 

[Cookie123]

Skene's Gland

Thank you..I was just about to point this out.
I believe there is also another gland involved, however the name escapes me at the moment..Barthsomething. I received my info from friend, who happens to be Chief of Medicine at a local hospital.

 

[Aphro]

No, it is not always pee. Some of the squirting videos I have seen...yes, it probably is. I think the ones where it is shooting out of them like a fire hose, it probably is, LOL!

But I know I have "squirted" for want of a better term, and it was not pee. I worried that it was, at first. I had to jump right up and strip the bed down, I was so freaked out. But whatever it is, it dries up fast, is clear, and it does not smell like dried urine when dried on sheets or towels.

BUT...we're not talking gallons of fluid, maybe, I dunno, a tablespoon or two, more or less? Enough to make a big wet spot, not enough to hose someone down across the room.

I have kids, so believe me, I know what dried up pee smells like on sheets! This is NOT it.

Mind you, I have never needed to be tied down and "effectively" gagged for orgasms...if anyone wants to give me one, or three, or ten, I am more than happy to oblige them!

 

[Scrubber]

No, it is not always pee. Some of the squirting videos I have seen...yes, it probably is. I think the ones where it is shooting out of them like a fire hose, it probably is, LOL!

But I know I have "squirted" for want of a better term, and it was not pee. I worried that it was, at first. I had to jump right up and strip the bed down, I was so freaked out. But whatever it is, it dries up fast, is clear, and it does not smell like dried urine when dried on sheets or towels.

BUT...we're not talking gallons of fluid, maybe, I dunno, a tablespoon or two, more or less? Enough to make a big wet spot, not enough to hose someone down across the room.

I have kids, so believe me, I know what dried up pee smells like on sheets! This is NOT it.

Same here. Well, apart from the having kids bit.

 

[Kim_Burly]

I ejaculate a tremendous amount, and I agree with Mr G that it is definitely not urine. We mostly play first thing in the morning when we wake up, so I empty my uncomfortably full bladder before we begin.

My Dom then uses controlled/forced orgasms and I do multiples, meaning that I ejaculate 25-30 times in a single session. We use towels to absorb the fluid, which is clear, not yellow, and almost without odour and taste. If my Dom is licking me, he allows it to land in his face which he would not do if it was urine. Also he watches me ejaculate and says that the fluid comes from the vagina, not the urethra.

Edit: my Dom says that there are online videos of the female ejaculation.

OK, I don't want to get into a pissing match over this . I had done a lot of research about this since I started peeing when my former Dom would not stop with oral service until I peed, had many, many intense orgasms and I was completely wrung out. The stuff I found about "female ejaculation" is basically the same unsubstantiated stuff that was noted on Wikipedia. At a party about two years ago, I had been overserved, so I asked my neighbor, who is an OB/gyn and she told me that there was no mystery gland that secretes a special, orgasmic fluid. She brings it up every time I see her, I think she does it herself.

I will purpose a little test, eat some asparagus and then squirt, you'll know for certain then if it is urine or not. I drink so much water so that other than my first pee in the morning, my urine is always clear. I would also urge you ladies to talk to your gynie and see what she says. Anyhow, I don't care if I'm right or wrong, I just hope all of my sisters out there are having the best orgasms they can .

 

[LallyH]

There's a whole thread on it somewhere else on this forum. If I was clever enough I'd do a link.

 

[Que]

OK, I don't want to get into a pissing match over this . I had done a lot of research about this since I started peeing when my former Dom would not stop with oral service until I peed, had many, many intense orgasms and I was completely wrung out. The stuff I found about "female ejaculation" is basically the same unsubstantiated stuff that was noted on Wikipedia. At a party about two years ago, I had been overserved, so I asked my neighbor, who is an OB/gyn and she told me that there was no mystery gland that secretes a special, orgasmic fluid. She brings it up every time I see her, I think she does it herself.

I will purpose a little test, eat some asparagus and then squirt, you'll know for certain then if it is urine or not. I drink so much water so that other than my first pee in the morning, my urine is always clear. I would also urge you ladies to talk to your gynie and see what she says. Anyhow, I don't care if I'm right or wrong, I just hope all of my sisters out there are having the best orgasms they can .

So, because she's a woman and a doctor you assume she knows what she's talking about right?

You're probably one of those people that think that the reason that there are more women in collegeand more women with advanced degrees then men is because somehow women are more qualified- not that they're actively and systematically discriminating against males, especially white males..

 

[Kim_Burly]

So, because she's a woman and a doctor you assume she knows what she's talking about right?

You're probably one of those people that think that the reason that there are more women in collegeand more women with advanced degrees then men is because somehow women are more qualified- not that they're actively and systematically discriminating against males, especially white males..

Well, hello to you too. Yes, I do assume that because she is a gynecologist with the same plumbing as me she knows something about what goes on down there. As I said, we are all entitled to our own thoughts about this. Believe what you want, I just want women to experience the intense orgasms that come from being pushed beyond the normal stopping point.

On the ratio of women to men in college, you might be surprised what I think about that. However, since you have read my mind so there is no reason for me to waste any more time typing out my thoughts. Have a nice day!

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

From personal experience, I squirted enough to drench bathtowels, then had to empty my bladder as the session had lasting some time and to put not to fine a point on it, I was busting.
What comes out of me when I cum is cloudy white in colour and does not taste or smell like urine.
I am not saying that some women don't lose control of their bladder, it wouldn't be hard to do, but some don't, and have ejaculatory orgasms.

 

[LallyH]

This.

It is my experience exactly. I pee before sex but can then soak a bath towel minutes later. Apart from all the other reasons of smell, colour and physical point of exit that indicate that it's not urine, I am simply not capable of producing that volume of pee in such a short space of time.

That said, I only began to ejaculate in recent years so I can understand scepticism from those who don't, but there is enough evidence on this thread and others to support the veracity of the phenomenon.

 

[Que]

Well, hello to you too. Yes, I do assume that because she is a gynecologist with the same plumbing as me she knows something about what goes on down there. As I said, we are all entitled to our own thoughts about this. Believe what you want, I just want women to experience the intense orgasms that come from being pushed beyond the normal stopping point.

On the ratio of women to men in college, you might be surprised what I think about that. However, since you have read my mind so there is no reason for me to waste any more time typing out my thoughts. Have a nice day!

Yeah the word entitled does suit.

So, woman after woman posts, politely telling you that just because YOU have an incontinence problem that their experience doesnt match you experience.

Your gyno unless bi or lesbian or horribly prossesionaly inappropriate has experience with exactly one set if 'plumbing' (what an infantile way of referring to your 'peepee).

None of your previous posts suggest that you have any experience with another either.

Just because you chirp cheerfully your passive aggressive drivel doesn't make what you're doing any less harmful.

Many women would be mortified at the prospect of losing continence during play. I can tell you having played with a mere couple handfuls of women in my lifetime that it is more likely than not that appropriately manipulated any woman can squirt and it isnt urine you ignorant twat...

It doesn't have the right viscosity it doesn't have the smell or flavor of urine.

The ones that weren't able to it's because of the urge that they felt that made them think that they had to get up and pee so playtime was suspended.

When your oh so smart and knowledgeable plumbing gets 'wet' and slippery during intercourse did you assume your peepee was leaking pee? You ( And your gyn who was admitted to medical school based on the type of her plumbing - PS not that its germaine to this discussion but- my brothers a ob/gyn and the only reason he made into medical school is because of some rather unique qualifications he has) do know that the vagina and the urethra are separate holes in your peepee?

Passive agressive twat- meet aggressive-agressive dick. Chirp on that and STFU!

 

[Kim_Burly]

This.

It is my experience exactly. I pee before sex but can then soak a bath towel minutes later. Apart from all the other reasons of smell, colour and physical point of exit that indicate that it's not urine, I am simply not capable of producing that volume of pee in such a short space of time.

That said, I only began to ejaculate in recent years so I can understand scepticism from those who don't, but there is enough evidence on this thread and others to support the veracity of the phenomenon.

OK, OK I wave the white flag of surrender . All I can say definitively is that what comes out of me is urine. I do hope every woman here at least tries to get there. I respectfully bow out of this thread and I sincerely apologize to any women I may have offended.