The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[BiBunny]

Bunny, I would trade places with you in a second: snow's gotta be better than melting in a heatwave.

It wouldn't be so bad if I could get some sun with my forty degree days, but it's humid and cloudy most of the day.

... I'mma go eat some more popsicles...

I'm down for swapping. It gets about that hot here every July and August, so I can handle it. Besides, I have tropical blood.

Stay cool, my friend!

 

[Keroin]

I remember now why I studiously keep 'difficult' people out of my life. I also remember how easy it is to fall into that trap where you start going along with things that set your teeth on edge, for the greater good or whatever.

Thankfully I have one of those ass-kicking friends who offered me sound advice instead of just pity.

Stern-but-not-mean email sent to the offending party. Feels like a hundred pounds off my shoulder. Drawing firm boundaries seems like it's going to be a lot more unpleasant than it actually is when you just do it. BOUNDARIES ARE GOOD!

Less than a month and I never have to interact with this person in any capacity! HUZZAH!

 

[Stella_Omega]

I remember now why I studiously keep 'difficult' people out of my life. I also remember how easy it is to fall into that trap where you start going along with things that set your teeth on edge, for the greater good or whatever.

Thankfully I have one of those ass-kicking friends who offered me sound advice instead of just pity.

Stern-but-not-mean email sent to the offending party. Feels like a hundred pounds off my shoulder. Drawing firm boundaries seems like it's going to be a lot more unpleasant than it actually is when you just do it. BOUNDARIES ARE GOOD!

Less than a month and I never have to interact with this person in any capacity! HUZZAH!

YESSS!

My sister called me this morning because today she might be facing a truly poisonous person, and she wanted to rehearse her reactions before the fact. I was so proud of her for being all proactive and shit. I have to try the same thing myself more often.

 

[Keroin]

YESSS!

My sister called me this morning because today she might be facing a truly poisonous person, and she wanted to rehearse her reactions before the fact. I was so proud of her for being all proactive and shit. I have to try the same thing myself more often.

Oh, good for her! Yes, sometimes you have to be super Spock-like about it. I've even done up an email that I can just copy & paste as a reply to any future emails from this person. Just one more measure to prevent me from sliding back into his craziness. Some people are just toxic, there is no way to reason with them, and you simply have to go into full survival mode.

Also, this is why I'm OK with being the person who gives ass-kickings rather than hugs and sympathy (most of the time) when people start venting about the toxic people in their lives. A little healthy venting is fine but there comes a point where you need to stop venting and act - and sometimes we need someone to remind us of this, as I did today.

 

[the captians wench]

i now have a fancy keyboard and case for my iPad.

The keyboard is going to take some getting used to as it's even smaller than my netbook keyboard, but the hard plastic shell was a bigger selling point as I am terrible with gadgets and have been known to break the most unbreakable things.

 

[seela]

So, I'm cataloging his books. Genre, author, title, original title, publisher and year of first print, publisher and year of first print in Finnish (if exists), publisher and year of his copy, remarks about condition of the copy and other neat tidbits that there might be related to the bthe ook that I can find.

187 and counting. And I've only done sci fi so far!

This here is the reason why the shelves are still kinda empty and the boxes are still kinda full.

At least this makes buying presents for him a lot easier.

 

[the captians wench]

So, I'm cataloging his books. Genre, author, title, original title, publisher and year of first print, publisher and year of first print in Finnish (if exists), publisher and year of his copy, remarks about condition of the copy and other neat tidbits that there might be related to the bthe ook that I can find.

187 and counting. And I've only done sci fi so far!

This here is the reason why the shelves are still kinda empty and the boxes are still kinda full.

At least this makes buying presents for him a lot easier.

My mom is supposed to be doing the same thing for my patterns as I now have so many I've lost track of which I still need more of.

Of course at the moment she has no way to get to my apartment other than me bringing her here, and if I'm here while she works on it then I will feel as if I have to help and the whole reason she's doing it for me is because I want none of it!

So it may be a while.

 

[the captians wench]

Not that I ever really feel like it, but I'm really not in the mood for counting inventory tonight

 

[bhndblueyes88]

O.M.G. Now I've TWISTED that ankle. I fucking hate winter.

 

[lostandfound197]

Today...

was good

bring on the rain...because I'm going to dance in it..finally

 

[BiBunny]

Shit. Just when I thought maybe I'd gotten rid of Clingy McSaranWrap, he's back again, annoying the hell out of me. Now he's trying to get me to meet him. Ugh.

Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, FUCK YOU.

Why do I always attract these kind, and why don't they ever get the idea and go away?

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Why do I always attract these kind, and why don't they ever get the idea and go away?

Sooo this is a bad time to proclaim my undying love for you and to hang on your every move, word and association? *flutters eyelashes*

 

[graceanne]

Shit. Just when I thought maybe I'd gotten rid of Clingy McSaranWrap, he's back again, annoying the hell out of me. Now he's trying to get me to meet him. Ugh.

Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, FUCK YOU.

Why do I always attract these kind, and why don't they ever get the idea and go away?

Have someone text him that you're their bitch and to back off. That's what I do for my sister when she's got a saran wrap person bugging her. Thrills me to no end, and it usually works cause then they get all jealous and pissed and she can be all 'dude, we went on one date. we didn't sleep together. you don't get to be jealous with me. f. off.'

 

[BiBunny]

Sooo this is a bad time to proclaim my undying love for you and to hang on your every move, word and association? *flutters eyelashes*

It's never a bad time for that.

Have someone text him that you're their bitch and to back off. That's what I do for my sister when she's got a saran wrap person bugging her. Thrills me to no end, and it usually works cause then they get all jealous and pissed and she can be all 'dude, we went on one date. we didn't sleep together. you don't get to be jealous with me. f. off.'

Eh, I can't really do that because this is the guy I talked about a month or two ago who's my work friend's brother. I love her to death and don't want to piss her off, and she'd know it was a lie, LOL. It's a good idea for any others I run across, though.

 

[midwestyankee]

Eh, I can't really do that because this is the guy I talked about a month or two ago who's my work friend's brother. I love her to death and don't want to piss her off, and she'd know it was a lie, LOL. It's a good idea for any others I run across, though.

What about allowing him one date that just, by chance sort of, happens to be truly ball-shrinkingly scary for him? Surely by now you know enough about him to make him fear for the mayhem and soul-crushing that would be his future should he date you regularly in just a few hours.

What he wants is a date. So give him one that would terrify Rambo.

 

[Keroin]

Checking stats on my blog today, I saw that someone had read this long-ago post about Internet bullies...

http://the-coconut-chronicles.com/2008/05/16/mr-internets-home-for-wayward-bullies/

Despite my over-enthusiastic use of commas and some bad grammar, (hey, it was hot, my brain was slow!) I think it's still one of my faves.

 

[CutieMouse]

I am dutifully eating a thrown-together, surprisingly comforting, bowl of black eyed pea & ham [bacon] soup. Because I'm not sure I can handle a repeat of 2012, and will willingly take all the woo-woo magic-folklore-superstition-good-luck I can get.

 

[seela]

I had a sex dream about my ex last night. A way, way ex, the one, I lost my virginity to. I hadn't thought of him for years, I couldn't even remember his proper name and eventually had to ask a friend if she remembered what his real name was so that I could google him (hey, isn't that the standard procedure?!). She did remember, and laughed at the fact that all I remembered was his nickname, and I googled.

He's a firefighter, and man, has he turned out well.

 

[the captians wench]

Well, as I thought, that movie was stupid, inaccurate, funny, romantic,and made me "home sick," reminiscent, mournful, happy, sad and settled in a longing for many things.

Not really sure if I liked it or not.

 

[Plucky19]

You promised you wouldn't leave again.

Nothing is ever alright unless you are here.

Come home.

 

[Red Sonja]

You promised you wouldn't leave again.

Nothing is ever alright unless you are here.

Come home.

((Plucky))

On another note... I've been trying to figure out where to say this for the last couple weeks, and I guess here is as good a thread as any. It is definitely a random blurt...

I do not want to be a MIL or a grandmother right now. I am *only* 44. However, this is not a decision I get to make. The person who has the power to make the decision has already made it and the wedding is this coming Monday.

Of course, I'll be there because I love my son and I love my future dauther in law, but man, I wish I had a few more years. They are only 19. So young. Odds definitely stacked against them.

It's just this is so not what I wanted for him/them right now. More to the point, there's nothing I can do about it and I think that's what I hate the most.

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

((Plucky))

It's just this is so not what I wanted for him/them right now. More to the point, there's nothing I can do about it and I think that's what I hate the most.

I know you are worried, but just keep loving as you obviously do and just exist in their periphery in case they need to reach out. Often that is all people need to feel supported to really stretch and grow, and sometimes it really can mean everything. They are lucky to have you on their team.

And a hug for Plucky too!

My blurt for today...Sometimes so much of life feels like a rollercoaster. When you get to the top of the climbs and peer down at the next fall...scream if you must, but do try to throw your hands up and surrender sometimes because at the end of the day or of a life, it's just a terribly beautiful and too short a ride.

 

[BiBunny]

I wish men knew how fucking disgusting they were. Ditto the creepy "curious" women.

Actually, even if they knew, I doubt they'd give a shit. *Shudder*

 

[wantedwanted]

in 2013 I want to have a damn sight more sex than I did in 2012, and this time to indulge in my bdsm fantasies, have them more than a private fantasy as it were... now need to find willing participants

 

[bhndblueyes88]

BLAAHHHH Cold. I hate colds -_-