Self-objectification

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Ripe

Sex is not a goddamn performance.

Sex should feel as natural as drinking water.

It should not require confidence.

Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe.

Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening cock, ripening pupils, ripening state of being. Ripe and augmented and brimming. Your energy goes to your pumping heart, then to every external nerve, then to theirs, on fire.

You bask, roll, play in it. You sigh, moan, laugh.

It’s not about being “good in bed.”

It’s about being happy.

One should never worry if they’re doing it “correctly.” Sex is not factual. I don’t want your cookie-cutter sex, I don’t want your meticulously crafted, calculated, fool-proof fuck. I don’t want a show. I want you. Let your instincts, urges and whims define that. It’s enough.

What do most girls like? Forget about it. Statistics are meaningless when there’s only one. Hello, here’s me. Here’s you.

Don’t worry about taking it too slow. We got time. We got infinite rhythms, combinations, possibilities. Explore each fuck. Take our time. We can do a different one later.

Don’t worry about making me come. I’m here. Right where I want to be.

I am overwhelmed by wanting; you don’t have to convince me. I want you because I like you. So don’t put on a front. Don’t taint this.

I’m frustrated—it’s just authenticity I want.

It’s originality.

It’s passion.

It’s joy.

Don’t say that something I like is ugly. Don’t compare yourself to the rest. You will live and die with and within your experiences like everyone else. If someone thinks you are amazing, they are not wrong. Their universe is as real as any other; it is forged through perception.

I don’t care if you accidentally slammed my head into the wall, if you slipped out, if my arm cracked, if the delightful pressure of your wet lips on my anything made a silly sound. There is no right way and no wrong way.

“Good in bed,” what.

You’re good in my bed. I’m pleased you’re there. I feel it suits you.

Shove your technique. Let your memory swallow it. Fuck me like you’d fuck me, fuck me like you feel.

This isn’t a test.


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I don't react to very many things like this, but this one was amazing. This is what one says to the person they actually love and want to be with. Would love to hear this from someone.
 
I think a blue crotch rope would work nicely on you. Lovely breasts....perfect for ropework!

I've recruited a lover to assist with some rope work tomorrow. While I don't think we'll get to your suggestion, I hope you'll still be pleased with the results :)

So lovely I'm at a loss for words....and wishing I had access to a really fast jet :)

I'm sure you could charm someone out of theirs.. I'll help! :D

Maybe you need a firm hand ;)

I've got one of those coming over later. :D Birthday spankings for meeeee!

I don't even know where to begin. Good lord. Lovely!

Thank you, handsome! (I quickly learned that solo ropework is damn frustrating.)

Too bad I never did boyscouts, I'm shit with ropes and knots. :rolleyes:

Too bad, indeed.

Just came across this thread. So artistic and beautiful. Love it.

Thank you, and welcome! :kiss:

While I have no knowledge whatsoever about rope work, I would be willing to learn!

I promise to be *mostly* patient while you practice on me.. ;)

I don't react to very many things like this, but this one was amazing. This is what one says to the person they actually love and want to be with. Would love to hear this from someone.

I'm glad you liked it. I certainly thought it was worth sharing.. especially since I'm of the opinion that this is how one should go about sex with any partner, not just the one you love :kiss:
 
Oh, hey, happy birthday n stuff. You've finally caught up to me, but I have a feeling I'll pull away again in a few months. :rolleyes:
 
Happy birthday Beautiful! Wish you all the sexy birthday wishes you can think of, and hope they all come true for you. :kiss: :heart:
 
A birthday? What can I give you to make your birthday a wonderful day, and can I give it to you multiple times? :)
 
I know some people who are good with rope work, but not quite shibari. I look forward to seeing what you come up with.

I'll post the photos soon, just wrapping up the editing!

(As you'll see, it was a freestyle endeavor.. hopefully no one around here is a purist when it comes to rope.)

Nice! Best way to celebrate a birthday, and oh, happy birthday!

Thank you, you sexy beast!

Birthday?? Happy Birthday to you!!! Do enjoy!!

Thank you! I did! ..and am continuing to :D it turned into a birthday weekend. (No complaints here.)

ApproachingCurve-I must say ILOVE the new Avatar!!

Thank you, Albert! :kiss:

:kiss:
Hello frisky one:cool:

Hello! I've missed you and your manly ankles.. ;)

Happy birthday Beautiful! Wish you all the sexy birthday wishes you can think of, and hope they all come true for you. :heart:

Thank you!! They did, and I didn't even have to blow out any candles.. :kiss:

A birthday? What can I give you to make your birthday a wonderful day, and can I give it to you multiple times?

Ooohhh I'm sure we can come up with something..

Any birthday cake left? :)

There wasn't any to begin with.. but if there were, I'd certainly be sharing it with you :)
 
Due to *ahem* breast size issues.. we improvised! (And I kept moving too much.. and he has a perfectionist streak..)

Enjoy! :heart:
 
Outstanding......

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Due to *ahem* breast size issues.. we improvised! (And I kept moving too much.. and he has a perfectionist streak..)

Enjoy! :heart:

Birthdays, boobs and bondage! . . . . . Hard to beat that combination! Looks like your lover gave your beautiful boobs a big load of frosting too!
 
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