Bold Flesh: BBW's 2.0.

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Good morning everyone! I'm still fairly new to Lit, but I pop in and out of this thread daily. I don't often post, but I really enjoy both the inner and outer beauty of the women here, and from a distance, I've grown fond of the supportive and appreciative men, too. I have lost close to 60 lbs. in the past 17 months, and I am finally becoming more comfortable with my body. Last week I experimented with some very casual self-photography. I'm not sure if I like the results. I am up in the air about posting a few photos. Up in the air means I'm nervous as hell. I was just wondering if the ladies here felt like sharing any wisdom on body image and self-confidence or could maybe offer some insight into how they felt before and after posting their images here. Were you as nervous as I am? Were your photos received warmly, and did the reaction in any way boost your self-esteem? I thank you in advance for sharing your thoughts...:rose:

I was extremely wary about posting snapshots and videos of myself on here at first, then I met someone long ago and he helped me to get over that fear with my own thread; before I knew it, I was making posts every two or three days with pictures -- I'm not a confident woman in real life, but the way people treat me on this forum, I feel like an actual person to them, instead of the inadequate person people in my life have made me to believe I am.

Meeting some of the people on this forum has started to change my life after such a drastic event early last year, that I'm not really sure I know how to repay them; I'm just hoping stupid, sweet, (sometimes) sexy photos will suffice. :eek:
 
I was extremely wary about posting snapshots and videos of myself on here at first, then I met someone long ago and he helped me to get over that fear with my own thread; before I knew it, I was making posts every two or three days with pictures -- I'm not a confident woman in real life, but the way people treat me on this forum, I feel like an actual person to them, instead of the inadequate person people in my life have made me to believe I am.

Meeting some of the people on this forum has started to change my life after such a drastic event early last year, that I'm not really sure I know how to repay them; I'm just hoping stupid, sweet, (sometimes) sexy photos will suffice. :eek:

Aw, Collar...it's so nice to hear that you've had such a positive experience here. I'm very happy for you! I know all to well what it means to feel inadequate. It's a horrible, yucky feeling, and one I am trying desperately to rid myself of. Can I ask, what sort of photos did you start with?
 
Aw, Collar...it's so nice to hear that you've had such a positive experience here. I'm very happy for you! I know all to well what it means to feel inadequate. It's a horrible, yucky feeling, and one I am trying desperately to rid myself of. Can I ask, what sort of photos did you start with?

I started off not really showing my face, and I'd have clothing on. Different outfits. Generally in black and white.
 
I started off not really showing my face, and I'd have clothing on. Different outfits. Generally in black and white.

One of my hangups is that I think I look better nude than in clothing. Nothing ever seems to fit right. I really don't know how to dress for my body type, and since I am continuing to lose weight, I don't want to spend the very little money I have on repeatedly buying things that fit. I have a few photos (3, I believe), that I think are simple and flirty. They're mirror shots, post-shower, in a towel. Too much to soon, do you think?
 
One of my hangups is that I think I look better nude than in clothing. Nothing ever seems to fit right. I really don't know how to dress for my body type, and since I am continuing to lose weight, I don't want to spend the very little money I have on repeatedly buying things that fit. I have a few photos (3, I believe), that I think are simple and flirty. They're mirror shots, post-shower, in a towel. Too much to soon, do you think?

If you're comfortable posting it, then nothing is ever too much.
 
I'm having all sorts of problems. Which image hosting site do you use, Collar?
 
Oh gosh Texas, I don't even know what "uploading directly" means. I am a complete moron...:confused:

lol no your not :p

if you want to add a pic
you can go to manage attachments
below the submit reply button

then you want to hit
browse, and search for the pic on you computer
and then hit upload when you find it

then when youve
uploaded it, hit submit reply
 
lol no your not :p

if you want to add a pic
you can go to manage attachments
below the submit reply button

then you want to hit
browse, and search for the pic on you computer
and then hit upload when you find it

then when youve
uploaded it, hit submit reply

I think it worked, though they appear really small(???). Thank you!!!!!:rose:
 
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You look stunning.
 
Um...vagirl?? Two words...more please :D

The fact that that body supports that mind...lightening isn't supposed to strike the same place twice ;)
 
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