Audio porn thread?

It is quite interesting how some of you have nothing better to do then not only be in a rush to dispute what I said but to message me these thoughts in private.

I am at no time pretending to be an exclusive authority on Tantra nor a guru of perfect sexual practices for everyone. I have studied and practiced orgasm control because giving the maximum amount of pleasure to my partner is something that truly fascinates me. So perhaps I have a little knowledge on the matter is all.

Anyhow all I was saying is that part of Tantra has to do with orgasm control. Counting down an orgasm to hold off from it seems like it fits into the definition of orgasm control. Thus it could be considered a form of Tantra.

The whole point of the practice is to be unselfish. Some of the posters on here seem to just want to find forms of selfish and 'gorgeous' pleasure from these audios. This is called an opinion. I may be wrong and obviously many others disagree with me. But I am not going to ever conform just to 'please others' and to 'go along with the crowd'.

Then I said that the most important thing in all of this is that the audio producer and listener enjoy the experience.

Should this enjoyment not be the ultimate goal of anything sexual?
 
Oh and by the way here is part of the definition of Tantra from Wikipedia. I have capitalized the most interesting points. I will let all of you be the judge!

TANTRA

"Sexual rites of Vamamarga may have emerged from early Hindu Tantra as a practical means of catalyzing biochemical transformations in the body to facilitate HEIGHTENED states of awareness. When enacted as enjoined by the Tantras, the ritual culminates in a SUBLIME EXPERIENCE of INFINITE AWARENESS for BOTH participants.

Tantric texts specify that sex has three distinct and separate purposes—procreation, PLEASURE, and liberation. Those seeking liberation eschew frictional orgasm for a higher form of ECSTASY, as the couple participating in the ritual lock in a static embrace. Several sexual rituals are recommended and practiced. These involve elaborate and meticulous preparatory and purificatory rites.

The sexual act itself balances energies coursing within the pranic ida and pingala channels in the subtle bodies of BOTH participants. The sushumna nadi is awakened and kundalini rises upwards within it. This eventually culminates in samadhi, wherein the respective individual personalities and identities of EACH of the PARTICIPANTS are completely dissolved in a UNITY of cosmic consciousness".

And now a piece on orgasm control from the same source.

ORGASM CONTROL

"Orgasm control, also known as "EDGING", "peaking", "surfing", and by other terms,[1] is a sexual technique which involves the MAINTENANCE OF A HIGH LEVEL OF SEXUAL AROUSAL FOR AN EXTENDED PERIOD OF TIME WITHOUT REACHING ORGASM, although orgasm can be reached eventually. If orgasm is not reached after the extended period of arousal, it is referred to as erotic sexual denial. If the partner whose orgasm is being controlled, sometimes referred to as the submissive partner, is put into physical restraints, it may better control the orgasm (the activity is sometimes called tie and tease and if orgasm is denied it is TEASE and DENIAL). Another possibility is for one partner to subject the other to multiple orgasms.

Orgasm control can involve either one sex partner being in control of the other partner's orgasm, or a person delaying their own orgasm during either sexual intercourse or masturbation. To experience orgasm control, any method of sexual stimulation can be used - for example, manual, oral, intercourse, or with sex toys - either alone or by means of one or more active partners.

Orgasm control is called "slow masturbation" in Alex Comfort's The New Joy of Sex and "extended massive orgasm" in Vera and Steve Bodansky's 2000 book of the same name, and is similar to the Venus Butterfly technique used in the volume The One Hour Orgasm (1988) by Leah and Bob Schwartz.

In a two-person sexual activity, one partner would stimulate the other, gradually bringing them up to the point high in the plateau phase where an orgasm is actually building, and will then reduce the level of stimulation to just below that needed to trigger the orgasm. By carefully VARYING the intensity and speed of stimulation, and by practicing with the same partner to learn their responses, a person can be held in the highly-aroused state near orgasm. This process may be repeated as desired, but at some point repetition may cause the urge to orgasm to become OVERWHELMING. When a partner eventually provides enough stimulation to achieve an orgasm, it may be STRONGER than usual due to the INCREASED TENSION and arousal that builds up during the extended stimulation.

Since orgasm control prolongs the experience of powerful sexual sensations occurring during the final build-up to orgasm, the physical demands of being kept or keeping oneself in this highly-excited state for an EXTENDED time can induce a pleasurable, almost EUPHORIC state, and at times creates CHANGES within an individual's perceived CONSCIOUSNESS".
 
So anyway...

Anyone else interested in the 100 - 1 challenge, or should we come up with a new one? The more ideas the merrier! :)
 
Thank you.

And I agree - there are some remarkable sounding women in here, aren't there?

Some good sounding guys too, hehe =P

I believe your bio line, "tragedy is never really knowing oneself" is one of the most astute and accurate life observations that I have read... Thanks, Ace
 
Where are all the men in this thread to make some contributions?!

Well I am thinking that some men on here (like Roger) like to listen (get) much more than they like to record (give).

Also other guys (and girls) may want to only 'contribute' things to special people within their lives and not to the entire Lit community in general.

Just a hunch.
 
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