My Woman fucks me with a strap on 2-3 times a week, will this loosen my anus?

[KingKong10]

Got a question for all of you. So my woman and I have always been into ass play for a year now. We have finally worked up to getting a life size realistic jelly dildo inside of me, and boy does it feel great. My woman can go full thrusts a couple of times and I can take it. The strap on she is using is about 6.5 inches, jelly with veins, and its erect, not totally soft.

She bangs me a couple days a week sometimes more, and it's usually for a good half an hour until I blow or play role reversal and spin her over and blast inside her.

I'm just wondering tho, will her banging me a couple times a week over the next few months cause my anus to loosen? I heard pornstars like Brianna Banks now have loose asshole's.

Anyone know?

So far it still feels nice and tight.

 

[HeyItsDani]

I heard pornstars like Brianna Banks now have loose asshole's.

You heard that? Where? I'm envisioning you walking through the grocery store and overhearing that conversation, "You know, that Brianna Banks woman has a really loose asshole now. I guess that's what years of being banged in the ass does to you..." lol Where did you hear that, btw?

Seriously, though. I've seen people, including a woman who calls herself a doctor who's "seen hundreds of people" with loose anuses from "years of anal sex" (to which I call bullshit), state that too much anal sex will cause a loose anus. Personally, I don't believe it would. The anus is a muscle, and like all muscles, the more it is exercised the stronger it gets. Many people get loose anuses as a natural part of growing older, and I suspect any relationship to their having been sodomized repeatedly is probably tangential at best. All I can say for sure is that I sure hope it isn't true.

Maybe some of the medically-trained people here can speak a little more intelligently about it. I don't think I can recall seeing any official studies on the subject!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Do your kegel exercises, and all will be well.

There are guys out there who have done things like.. two large, male arms at once... or wine bottles... who have torn the ligaments so badly that they can't squeeze down so good.

There are other guys who have taken these same things regularly without doing themselves any damage at all.

You can probably guess the big difference is in warming up and letting yourself open at your own speed. I watched a guy take a dildo that was nearly 8 inches in diameter-- that's across-- and it took him and his partner three tries, on three different days, and about forty minutes on the successful attempt. And about a half-gallon of lube!

 

[Bors]

I'm almost 50 now, and haven't observed any loosening from rather vigorous play for decades.

 

[DVS]

Got a question for all of you. So my woman and I have always been into ass play for a year now. We have finally worked up to getting a life size realistic jelly dildo inside of me, and boy does it feel great. My woman can go full thrusts a couple of times and I can take it. The strap on she is using is about 6.5 inches, jelly with veins, and its erect, not totally soft.

She bangs me a couple days a week sometimes more, and it's usually for a good half an hour until I blow or play role reversal and spin her over and blast inside her.

I'm just wondering tho, will her banging me a couple times a week over the next few months cause my anus to loosen? I heard pornstars like Brianna Banks now have loose asshole's.

Anyone know?

So far it still feels nice and tight.

The anal sphincter is a muscle. Muscles get more toned with use. Other than something sharp or pointed, not using enough lube or not taking time to loosen before something large is inserted, you should be OK. While I can't say for sure, because I'm not a doctor, I'd guess the stories you've heard about loose assholes is just experienced people who have trained their body to accept large objects in their ass. It's kind of a mind over matter thing. You can train your asshole in that way.

So, remember to relax, don't fight insertion and always use plenty of lube. For longer sessions, be sure the lube is NOT water soluble. Water soluble lube will break down with time and no longer be much help against injury.

Don't always believe things you read on the Internet. While some might be based on fact, there's so much bull shit out there that you can't tell what's true and what isn't.

Well shit, this is the Internet, isn't it. Oh crap. Sorry, no pun intended.

 

[neci]

Do your kegel exercises, and all will be well.

There are guys out there who have done things like.. two large, male arms at once... or wine bottles... who have torn the ligaments so badly that they can't squeeze down so good.

There are other guys who have taken these same things regularly without doing themselves any damage at all.

You can probably guess the big difference is in warming up and letting yourself open at your own speed. I watched a guy take a dildo that was nearly 8 inches in diameter-- that's across-- and it took him and his partner three tries, on three different days, and about forty minutes on the successful attempt. And about a half-gallon of lube!

that is impressive.

 

[HeyItsDani]

There are guys out there who have done things like.. two large, male arms at once... or wine bottles... who have torn the ligaments so badly that they can't squeeze down so good.

 

[TheLM]

The anal sphincter is a muscle. Muscles get more toned with use.

Stretching a sphincter is not the same as contracting it.

I could go into a long diatribe about Sliding Filament Theory and calcium ion channels and whatnot, but I think most people would rather get a shortened version:

First of all, there are internal and external anal sphincters. The little pucker you see is the external, and it is small, tighter, and the muscle fibers are arranged differently. Although this is the one we are talking about it is possible to retain bowel control using only the internal sphincter. Food for thought.

If you stretch yourself with a wide enough toy(and I mean VERY wide) you could lose sphincter control in the long run. Goatse has to wear diapers. (And if you're too new to the internet to know about such an ancient meme, I would encourage you not to google it.) If you take all of your proper measures you should be fine, but that doesn't mean that you won't "loosen up." It means that your shouldn't loosen up to the point of losing bowel control.

Make a fist. Squeeze it hard. Squeeze it less hard. See what I mean? It's still a fist. It'll still perform all of it's fist-like functions even if you can't squeeze as hard as someone like me with gorilla hands.... You won't run into a real problem until you have an issue with the actual function of the organ.

 

[DVS]

Stretching a sphincter is not the same as contracting it.

I could go into a long diatribe about Sliding Filament Theory and calcium ion channels and whatnot, but I think most people would rather get a shortened version:

First of all, there are internal and external anal sphincters. The little pucker you see is the external, and it is small, tighter, and the muscle fibers are arranged differently. Although this is the one we are talking about it is possible to retain bowel control using only the internal sphincter. Food for thought.

If you stretch yourself with a wide enough toy(and I mean VERY wide) you could lose sphincter control in the long run. Goatse has to wear diapers. (And if you're too new to the internet to know about such an ancient meme, I would encourage you not to google it.) If you take all of your proper measures you should be fine, but that doesn't mean that you won't "loosen up." It means that your shouldn't loosen up to the point of losing bowel control.

Make a fist. Squeeze it hard. Squeeze it less hard. See what I mean? It's still a fist. It'll still perform all of it's fist-like functions even if you can't squeeze as hard as someone like me with gorilla hands.... You won't run into a real problem until you have an issue with the actual function of the organ.

Since you directed this to me...yes, I'm aware there are two sphincter muscles. You know, you can go too far with technical information. Some people's eyes glaze over and nothing you say gets heard so I'm glad you didn't go into the diatribe or the differently arranged muscle fibers.

But you also don't need to scare the bejezuss out of somebody for no real reason, either. Everything in the body will change when taken to the extreme (the part of your post in bold) but the extreme is not the norm. And Goatse is definately extreme. I think you'd agree that with proper care and warmup, sufficient lube and not going to the extremes the OP should be fine.

Oh, I did google goatse. Shocking!
http://media.urbandictionary.com/image/page/goatse-16036.jpg.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

If you stretch it and stretch it and stretch it, your sphincter muscles will lose the ability to contract appropriately. however, it would probably need to be an extreme and you wouldn't be shitting your pants (Although your farts might sound HILARIOUS).

That being said, if you ALSO tone and contract the muscles to keep them from becoming over stretched after/before play, you'll probably hardly notice any reasonable difference. maybe noisier flatulence at most

 

[subwannabe]

What the hell is a loose asshole? Are you worried about becoming incontinent? I really think you are worrying about nothing. Relax and enjoy and make sure you hold your buttcheeks together while walking out in public!

 

[bergland]

This is not worried.http://www.lzxin.info/g.php

 

[redbombr0]

I'm just wondering tho, will her banging me a couple times a week over the next few months cause my anus to loosen? I heard pornstars like Brianna Banks now have loose asshole's.

I wish I had this concern, in my life.

I would consult with a medical person, as has been stated here. Individual experiences should not be discounted, but keep in mind that each person's body reacts uniquely to different foreign substances, and who knows if you do the same exercises (kegel or whichever), which may impact the looseness/tightness of your anus.

There are quite a few websites on line, on which you can post medical questions of a sexual nature, and to which they provide informative, medical answers with accompanying suggestions for further information. If you would like, I can get you a few links.

 

[CookingDom]

I'm just wondering tho, will her banging me a couple times a week over the next few months cause my anus to loosen?.

Regardless of the the result, at least you'll always have a plant pot to hand!

 

[Kajira Callista]

As much as I know this will probably Not happen I am oddly afraid of the same thing.

 

[radepor]

I doubt 'You'll' have a problem, If...

You stop with a life-sized dildo.

I didn't stop and I didn't want to; I'm paying the price and I still do it and I pay the price and live with the consequences.

A lifetime of being fucked may have a mild result; I doubt you would notice much difference unless she fucked you 40/times a day.

I, I had a different agenda; I wanted to fuck my ass with the largest object I could. The very largest object I ever inserted was a 4 1/2"-diameter buttplug.
It required extensive anal training and the physical sensation was indescribable.

Obviously; training began with smaller objects: 2.5", 3", 3.5" 4", 4.25". It has taken a toll; my asshole IS looser than it would be or should be.

Learn and decide for yourself.

Got a question for all of you. So my woman and I have always been into ass play for a year now. We have finally worked up to getting a life size realistic jelly dildo inside of me, and boy does it feel great. My woman can go full thrusts a couple of times and I can take it. The strap on she is using is about 6.5 inches, jelly with veins, and its erect, not totally soft.

She bangs me a couple days a week sometimes more, and it's usually for a good half an hour until I blow or play role reversal and spin her over and blast inside her.

I'm just wondering tho, will her banging me a couple times a week over the next few months cause my anus to loosen? I heard pornstars like Brianna Banks now have loose asshole's.

Anyone know?

So far it still feels nice and tight.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

I've been having anal sex regularly for about fifteen, and I've had hundreds of things up my bottom - penises, many dildos, fingers, and - a few times - a fist.

I've never had anything really stupidly large up there, but still I do slightly worry in case in the long term I may be sustaining some kind of physical damage.

As far as I can tell - and what my partner can gauge with her finger - my anus and sphincter are still perfectly tight. As people say, muscles stretch, and although I'm no physician, common sense suggests that as long as you don't take the mickey out of your body, you should be fine.

When you think about it, that part of your anatomy is actually designed to allow a fairly substantial object to pass through it every day.

 

[DVS]

I've been having anal sex regularly for about fifteen, and I've had hundreds of things up my bottom - penises, many dildos, fingers, and - a few times - a fist.

I've never had anything really stupidly large up there, but still I do slightly worry in case in the long term I may be sustaining some kind of physical damage.

As far as I can tell - and what my partner can gauge with her finger - my anus and sphincter are still perfectly tight. As people say, muscles stretch, and although I'm no physician, common sense suggests that as long as you don't take the mickey out of your body, you should be fine.

When you think about it, that part of your anatomy is actually designed to allow a fairly substantial object to pass through it every day.

That depends on you fiber intake, of course.