Dominatrix

[Little_Oral_Amy]

Being the brainless het male that I am (sorry, mother nature), I find the two messages to contrast...

I'm not name calling. Just pointing out limitations.

Guess you missed the word MOST instead of ALL?

 

[twister947]

I have, in the past, recommended HRT to a few guys...am I a bad person?

 

[bhndblueyes88]

You are being generous. Most men have no brains and heterosexual men generally lack the ability to look outside the box. It don't make them bad we just have to accept their limitations and move on.

That's pretty damned sexist to say. If a man said the same thing about a woman, what would you think about that statement?

 

[teknight]

I'm not name calling. Just pointing out limitations.

Guess you missed the word MOST instead of ALL?

Yeah, but I read MOST as damn nearly all... and I try to call dickheads dickheads on an individual basis... (We can argue about the number of times when I succeed in doing that).

 

[teknight]

I have, in the past, recommended HRT to a few guys...am I a bad person?

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Hampton Roads Transit?! Dear God, NO!

(Google HRT )

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

Yeah, but I read MOST as damn nearly all... and I try to call dickheads dickheads on an individual basis... (We can argue about the number of times when I succeed in doing that).

Well Hun you decide which category you are and own it. I will support you either way.

 

[teknight]

Yeah, but I read MOST as damn nearly all... and I try to call dickheads dickheads on an individual basis... (We can argue about the number of times when I succeed in doing that).

A more enlightened approach would be to say that I catch individuals at those moments when they're being dickish.
Better yet (although, I dunno, it smacks of a certain kind of arrogance), would be to attain a state of mind where such things are not important... Not just ignore 'em, be such that you don't have to ignore 'em.

 

[teknight]

Well Hun you decide which category you are and own it. I will support you either way.

Sweet. Condescension. Gotta love it.
A more interesting question would be: why are you so jaded? Or, if you don't like the potentially accusatory nature of the word "jaded" how have you reached your conclusion concerning most hetero men?

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

Sweet. Condescension. Gotta love it.
A more interesting question would be: why are you so jaded? Or, if you don't like the potentially accusatory nature of the word "jaded" how have you reached your conclusion concerning most hetero men?

What makes you think I need explain myself to you? I need not justify my opinion to you. Accept who I am as I accept you. No need for explanations. When I get old and write my memoirs buy the book.

 

[DVS]

This is my worst nightmare. Waking up to find myself trussed up on the wrack awaiting her pleasure or displeasure. The fear of being secured or bound is almost a phobia for me. I cannot begin to understand men who are submissive.

It is even odder for me to rationalize men who to the outside world are "alpha" males who get off on this. I make no idle boast when I say I would accept death rather than be placed in that situation. Like many masculine straight males being unmanned is one of our biggest fears.

I'm into giving and not receiving. It seems you are the same way. There are things I'll do to a woman that I will NOT accept for myself.

I am dominant and could not handle being submissive. In fact, I think part of the reason I'm dominant in my sex life is because I hate taking orders from people who don't know how to be a good supervisor or even understand that the ship they are running is sinking around them. My life has always been like that, with a few minor exceptions, so I think my sexual life counters my day to day life for a balance.

That does not mean I don't know there are men out there who do submit and enjoy it. In fact, I know there are some very powerful executive types that need submission to counter their powerful day to day lives. These so called "alpha" male's subconscious minds are coping with the stress of the day by creating the balance. Not everybody is that cut and dried, but it does happen. Equal emotions help people to live a healthy life.

I would never allow myself to be tied up. I don't enjoy the lack of control. And, I've got a small little phobia called claustrophobia that mostly fuels that. While I'm OK with other people doing it, not for me. I won't say some people's kinks aren't unusual, strange, weird, sick and perverted, but I also won't mind if people say my kinks are strange, weird, sick or perverted.

Sex is in the eye of the beholder. I can accept what we choose to enjoy as individuals. I don't always like it or try to understand it, but I can accept it. The human mind is a very, VERY intricate piece of machinery.

Now, with that out of the way...I have no qualms with you checking out the Internet while flying. I know the big birds are mostly automated, these days. They are just too big to rely on the skills of a pilot alone. They are far more advanced than some guy with a stick between his legs and a scarf around his neck. I don't even frown on the pilot taking a nap, as long as the co-pilot is awake, and visa versa. B-2 bomber pilots do that all the time, on long missions.

But, could you tell me the weather forecast for tonight and tomorrow night...mid-west U. S. speaking? I know pilots get that info, because it's vital to a calm flight. Got the scoop on rain and thunder storms?

 

[teknight]

What makes you think I need explain myself to you? I need not justify my opinion to you. Accept who I am as I accept you. No need for explanations. When I get old and write my memoirs buy the book.

You don't need to do anything. I agree with that. But I can ask the question. Plus, taking the approach of wanting to know what sparked your dim view of men makes it a lot easier for me to swallow what was an insult by proxy.

 

[teknight]

I'm into giving and not receiving. It seems you are the same way. There are things I'll do to a woman that I will NOT accept for myself.

I am dominant and could not handle being submissive. In fact, I think part of the reason I'm dominant in my sex life is because I hate taking orders from people who don't know how to be a good supervisor or even understand that the ship they are running is sinking around them. My life has always been like that, with a few minor exceptions, so I think my sexual life counters my day to day life for a balance.

That does not mean I don't know there are men out there who do submit and enjoy it. In fact, I know there are some very powerful executive types that need submission to counter their powerful day to day lives. These so called "alpha" male's subconscious minds are coping with the stress of the day by creating the balance. Not everybody is that cut and dried, but it does happen. Equal emotions help people to live a healthy life.

I would never allow myself to be tied up. I don't enjoy the lack of control. And, I've got a small little phobia called claustrophobia that mostly fuels that. While I'm OK with other people doing it, not for me. I won't say some people's kinks aren't unusual, strange, weird, sick and perverted, but I also won't mind if people say my kinks are strange, weird, sick or perverted.

Sex is in the eye of the beholder. I can accept what we choose to enjoy as individuals. I don't always like it or try to understand it, but I can accept it. The human mind is a very, VERY intricate piece of machinery.

Now, with that out of the way...I have no qualms with you checking out the Internet while flying. I know the big birds are mostly automated, these days. They are just too big to rely on the skills of a pilot alone. They are far more advanced than some guy with a stick between his legs and a scarf around his neck. I don't even frown on the pilot taking a nap, as long as the co-pilot is awake, and visa versa. B-2 bomber pilots do that all the time, on long missions.

But, could you tell me the weather forecast for tonight and tomorrow night...mid-west U. S. speaking? I know pilots get that info, because it's vital to a calm flight. Got the scoop on rain and thunder storms?

Now, see? When the argument is presented in this light, I get it. It'd seem you're saying the same thing as VBM (of course, that's my impression, and I may well be wrong)...but you're not whiny about it. I can't take people seriously on issues of alphaness when they whine while making a point. I know it's stereotyping, and that's uncool of me. I'm sorry.

Can we make your post the OP?

 

[CutieMouse]

You are being generous. Most men have no brains and heterosexual men generally lack the ability to look outside the box. It don't make them bad we just have to accept their limitations and move on.

I gotta say that (IMO) is about as equally offensive as a guy tossing out a "WTF? Are you on your period or something?"

I happen to like men. Some of them I even like specifically because of how their brains operate. Your use of the word "limitations" is belittling; just because their thought processes may be different than a woman's doesn't mean it's okay to talk about them in a derogatory manner.

 

[Stella_Omega]

When someone says something like "What are you on your period or something?" (I'm not going back and looking it up verbatim...) I don't get insulted because I am a woman, I get upset because it is a stupid, worthless comment. There are a lot more intelligent ways to "insult" that do not involve the lowest common denominator.

OH yeah. And we have also heard a few other terms here, that also relate to states of (supposed) feminine being, also bandied as insults.

You are being generous. Most men have no brains and heterosexual men generally lack the ability to look outside the box. It don't make them bad we just have to accept their limitations and move on.

Trust me, if I was only talking about men I would have said so.

I meet just as many women who cannot make the big leap as I do men. I know just as many men who intuit that wide spread, the ripples in the pond, with just as much clarity as I do or you.

It's tricky to make comparisons like this. There is a bigger difference within each group than there is between them.

it really feels to me like a species difference, basically. it's that wierd.

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

I gotta say that (IMO) is about as equally offensive as a guy tossing out a "WTF? Are you on your period or something?"

I happen to like men. Some of them I even like specifically because of how their brains operate. Your use of the word "limitations" is belittling; just because their thought processes may be different than a woman's doesn't mean it's okay to talk about them in a derogatory manner.

Oh please get a grip and stop taking life so seriously, really.

This is what I said earlier. People need to stop taking themselves seriously running around getting their panties in a wad, bent out of shape over words. I love men too don't mean I can't pick on them.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Oh please get a grip and stop taking life so seriously, really.

Ooookay.
I did say that as many women do this as men--

quod erat demonstrandum, I guess.

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

Ooookay.
I did say that as many women do this as men--

Quod est demonstratum, I guess.

I don't understand what you mean.

 

[teknight]

Ooookay.
I did say that as many women do this as men--

quod erat demonstrandum, I guess.

Stella, did you set this all up to prove a point?
Bad Stella! Go to my room!

 

[teknight]

Oh please get a grip and stop taking life so seriously, really.

This is what I said earlier. People need to stop taking themselves seriously running around getting their panties in a wad, bent out of shape over words. I love men too don't mean I can't pick on them.

And everyone's picking on you for pickin' on them. If you can pick, we can pick. Oh, the beauty of the interwebs.

Besides, what you said is a cop out. You said something thoughtless in the heat of things, but instead of owning up to it, you're accusing everyone else of not being nice to you.

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

And everyone's picking on you for pickin' on them. If you can pick, we can pick. Oh, the beauty of the interwebs.

Hun, I'm not getting offended by anybody. Pick away I can take it.

 

[HottieMama]

:gets popcorn:

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

:gets popcorn:

Not fair if you don't share (pout)

 

[teknight]

Hun, I'm not getting offended by anybody. Pick away I can take it.

Of course you're not. Which is why you had to tell CutieMouse to get a life and you had to tell all of us to get our panties unwaded, and also why you had to make the point that you're NOT offended. So, in other words, you don't mean a single word of what you say?

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

Of course you're not. Which is why you had to tell CutieMouse to get a life and you had to tell all of us to get our panties unwaded, and also why you had to make the point that you're NOT offended. So, in other words, you don't mean a single word of what you say?

I meant what I said. If she or anybody is really offended by what I said they need to get a life. Don't take things so seriously. I mean really now do you care what some anonymous person who has no effect on your life has to say? I sure don't.

 

[teknight]

I meant what I said. If she or anybody is really offended by what I said they need to get a life. Don't take things so seriously. I mean really now do you care what some anonymous person who has no effect on your life has to say? I sure don't.

Which is why you're taking the time to reply to all of these anonymous people that have no effect on your life. Because you don't care. Gotcha.
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BTW: QED= quod erat demonstrandum means "What was to be demonstrated"...it's implied that QED has been proven. That second part's tacit. Stella meant that your callous reply proved her point exactly.

ETA: if you feel the need to have the last word, go right ahead.