For Discussion: BBW's and Fat Attraction

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It doesn’t have to be a lack of self-confidence. I think there is a fallacy that heavy women are desperate and lonely, therefore, easy prey. Or just easy….

True, but what decent, confident man with his own self worth would take advantage of that?

 

[pointless]

the kind that just wants some pussy and doesn't care how or where he gets it.

 

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How much more do you think I have to devolve to be on par with the likes of you and Cheebs?

Honey, you'll never even be in the same stratasphere. Par? Take your Mulligan and bow outta this one gracefully...

 

[pointless]

stratosphere, dude. the word is stratosphere.

 

[Image]

the kind that just wants some pussy and doesn't care how or where he gets it.

I rest my case...

 

[Luk]

Honey, you'll never even be in the same stratasphere. Par? Take your Mulligan and bow outta this one gracefully...

Dear, spell check is your friend.

 

[QueenLevitra]

Dear, spell check is your friend.

lame










.

 

[Lancecastor]

True, but what decent, confident man with his own self worth would take advantage of that?

The kind that hangs out on the AmPics thread, the Playground and in increasing numbers, on the GB.

 

[Sonny Limatina]

I think it's sweet when a woman says that a man would never do this or that to get pussy. It means there are a couple we're still fooling.

 

[QueenLevitra]

I think it's sweet when a woman says that a man would never do this or that to get pussy. It means there are a couple we're still fooling.

It's times like these that I gotta give a big shout out to my Dad and my older brothers!!!


I soooo fucking :::::::HEART::::::: you guys!!!!!!!! like Stevie and NKOTB and Madonna all rolled into one big flipping fatty!!!

(Dinner's on the table and the ironing is done and hung in your closet...I'll tuck and roll that black satin lining right after I cart "this mornings kitty" to the litter)

Oh the RAPTURE!

 

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Dear, spell check is your friend.

*sadly shakes head

 

[where]

Do you have a big screen monitor?

so you are really fat then?

 

[renard_ruse]

True, but what decent, confident man with his own self worth would take advantage of that?

I've got news for you, any normal man wants to have physical relations if he expresses interest in a woman, whether she's thin, chubby, a model or a clerk in a grocery store. That doesn't mean that's all he wants, and a few, very few these days, will wait out of moral reasons, but the underlying desire is physical relations. What do you think men want from any woman? Just companionship? Sorry, companionship is nice, but you can get than from a dog.

 

[renard_ruse]

That's exactly what I said, fool Now go back and read it again and then tell me it isn't. Men who have no confidence will not take the chance of being shot down by the prom queen. It's a sad and vicious cycle...

Maybe the fact that fat girl or the school nerd is less stuck up and obnoxious than most prom queens is appealling in and of itself, not because its considered "easy." Hell, those girls probably take more work to get with than some slutty prom queen. How do you suppose she got voted prom queen in the first place, lol.

 

[cookiejar]

Maybe the fact that fat girl or the school nerd is less stuck up and obnoxious than most prom queens is appealling in and of itself, not because its considered "easy." Hell, those girls probably take more work to get with than some slutty prom queen. How do you suppose she got voted prom queen in the first place, lol.

I was prom queen and guess what? I was a virgin.

 

[QueenLevitra]

I was prom queen and guess what? I was a virgin.

Of course you were Dear.

It just stands to reason.

 

[cookiejar]

Of course you were Dear.

It just stands to reason.

Im not sure what that means actually.

 

[Lancecastor]

From FullFigurePlus.com:

6 Reasons People Think Fat Girls Are Easy

1. Jealous that men prefer meat to bone.
2. Big girls will trade sex for food.
3. Larger women are so grateful for attention they are more willing to give up the goods.
4. Skinny people are truly EVIL.
5. Skinny people are stupid.
6. Fat girls think lots of sex equals lots of love.

And from Lance Armstrong's LiveStrong.com:

Some of the social maladjustments arising from incest are alcoholism, drug addiction, prostitution and promiscuity.

Food, sex, alcohol and/or drugs deaden painful memories of the abuse and expel reality temporarily.

If a victim perceives obesity to be unattractive, and if she believes she was abused because she was pretty, she may overeat in a misguided attempt to defend herself from further sexual assault.

Read more: http://www.livestrong.com/article/13941-sexual-abuse-and-incest/#ixzz1IE9ercmn

 

[QueenLevitra]

Im not sure what that means actually.

Of course you don't Dear.

 

[Luk]

*sadly shakes head

Oh, I see. You can get all over me for a grammatical error but I can't point out your poor spelling. The double is strong with this codger.

 

[Lancecastor]

Oh, I see. You can get all over me for a grammatical error but I can't point out your poor spelling.

You're not so slow after all.

 

[neci]

my goodness. bring out the fat and everybody goes whack.

i've never been thin. i have always been fat. today i am healthier. i quit the fast food and eating out all of the time. i try to listen to my body. i make myself move more. one year i set a new years resolution to work out during sex. i set a goal to start at 20 minutes, three days a week, of doing the work. i didn't change my food that year. i just changed my activity level. i started replacing bending with squats. i hate the gym. i don't like being out in the sun for long periods of time "exercising." i just made it a point to start moving more. instead of sitting in my chair and listening to a song, if i'm getting tired, i get up and dance to one. after my body began to get stronger, i started working on the food. i just changed my route through the grocery store. if i don't bring it into the house, i don't eat it. if i want it, i get it, but i get a smaller portion. i cook what i enjoy cooking, and i add extra veggies and fruit. if i only have fruit, and there are no chips, i will eat the fruit. my body feels better. when my body feels better, i feel better. i can also fuck a lot longer. i still have a long way to go, but in a way i'm there. it takes a long time to change a habit. i can't think about the numbers, or i end up binging or just sitting on my ass. i got tired of sitting on my ass. my goal was to get my waist back. and to fuck better. that too.

funny thing though, i couldn't start doing that until i decided that i could love myself for who and where i was. i know. cue the melodramatic music. this is a song for December. it started around the time i began photographing myself. i was able to explore every curve, at my heaviest weight. carving into it. manipulating it. i didn't keep any of the pictures. i just purged them through. i felt cleansed. still fat, but i began to feel my body. it was Mr. Twinkie. after my affair with him, he just never looked the same.

as far as attraction goes, who knows. people like what they like. i'll take a beautiful fat woman looking like a neolithic goddess over a skinny bitch any day. now, a petite, quiet asian women. good lord. i don't know. that's harder. ETA. it would depend on who made the better sammich.

 

[vrosej10]

But being attracted to unhealthy people is not normal, just as being attracted to violent people is not normal.

Unhealthy takes many guises. Fat is one such guise.



I think what makes me "special" is I'm not willing to play along with the way other men here fawn over women...any women...in order to encourage them to post nude pictures of themselves or engage in cybersex.



Likewise, pretending that being obese is "okay" is abusive to women.

http://www.frumpzilla.com/image_gallery/Adriana-Lima-7.jpg
Adriana Lima: Victoria's Secret Model
Height 5'10" – Weight 112 pounds
Height 1.77m – Weight 50.91 kg


http://www.wildsound-filmmaking-feedback-events.com/images/kate_beckinsale_bikini.jpg
Kate Beckinsale: Actress (movie "Underworld")
Height 5'8" – Weight 115 pounds
Height 1.72m – Weight 52.27 kg

http://www.70sbig.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/BMI-Chart.png

These women are by definition underweight and at the same risk healthwise as an obese woman. So according to you, as this is an unhealthy state, it would be abnormal to desire these women and to encourage them to strip for you.

 

[blunt_trauma]

interesting.
i'm now in the upper range of healthy.
but, at 5'6'' and 98 pounds, 24y/o me isn't even on the chart.

an observation:
the guys who came on to me when i was on the verge of starvation? they were, for various reasons, looking for someone they could control.
the guys who come on to the new, muscular, solid me? fewer in number but sounder of mind.

the conclusion:
the sex was way better when i was practically dead from lack of burger.
everything else was pretty shit.

 

[vrosej10]

interesting.
i'm now in the upper range of healthy.
but, at 5'6'' and 98 pounds, 24y/o me isn't even on the chart.

an observation:
the guys who came on to me when i was on the verge of starvation? they were, for various reasons, looking for someone they could control.
the guys who come on to the new, muscular, solid me? fewer in number but sounder of mind.
the conclusion:
the sex was way better when i was practically dead from lack of burger.
everything else was pretty shit.

At 156lb I hated myself. I had such bad body dysmorphia that I was unable to recognise myself in the mirror and was genuinely traumatised by being thin; internal body image refused to meet up with external one. The guys that hit on me thin, I wouldn't have touched with a fifty foot pole. They were all shallow arseholes and like the guys you mentioned seemed to want the control thing. I enjoy sex more at my current weight and the guys who hit on me tend to be (as you said) sounder of mind and much more mature.