Smart, sensual, sexual woman of 39

[lilyrl]

......

What the hell....I'll throw it out there.

First, I am a real woman. I am not trying to get customers for a web cam.

Second, I am a very sensual and considered to be a very attractive woman. Obviously, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but as a general rule, i turn a lot of heads. I will provide pictures if I find a real reason to do so. I value my privacy and I would rather feel out a potential meeting first before revealing myself right out there. I am 5'7, toussled wavy dark hair, dark eyes, great figure, thick lips.

You are probably wondering why I am posting on a chat board if I am what I say. I will tell you why. I have been in a long term sexless relationship (he cant and wont) and I am pretty much about to burst. I am ending this relationship, and right now, all the guys I know are either in relationships, or they are mutual friends. I came here because (one) I want really good sex and (2) want someone worth having it with....

I have been holding back for a long time and I am an innately sexual woman, I have a lot to give. I want someone who has deep and lasting capacity for sensuality, someone smart, funny, far left progressive, tall, and sexy. Down to earth.

I think great sex comes from connection on other levels, so I really don't care to just jump in bed with anyone but if I can find the right guy to play with...we will jump in bed all the time. I like sex. I love sex. I miss sex into my bones.

Some things about me:

love photography and do it semi-profesionally, love the outdoor stuff such as hiking and snowshoeing and tromping through rivers, but I do not like sports, great cook, progressive activist....., good sense of humor, socially aware and caring....

So, if you are a down to earth, progressive, funny, tall, sexy, smart guy who wants to have great sex with a sensual 50s throwback pin up sex kitten and play and laugh for hours, then write me. Absolutely NO married or committed men. Ages 29 to mid 40s.

Location: western MA, southern VT, albany, boston, or weekend trips to NYC.

And, please. If you are a guy who sends out pictures of his penis, don't bother responding to this ad

 

[charliep242002]

good luck finding someone

Hey, just read your interesting posting and wanted to wish you luck. You seem to be a pretty down to earth woman who knows what you want. I also know how hard it is to find someone I consider compatible for a long term relationship and not just a quick lay. So once again good luck to you in your quest to find a partner who makes you truly happy.

 

[charlie6681]

Hello

Good morning

 

[lilyrl]

To clarify....I am looking for real physical contact. I like fantasy and pretend as much as the next woman, but after such a long and brutal stint of deprivation, I want (no NEED) prolonged physical touch and passion. with a person capable of exchanging it with me. I should have also posted that I am not interested in any man with a porn addiction, not out of any strict morality but rather, men with porn addictions often have issues with performing with real women.

 

[sombrablanca]

I wish you luck with this. It'll give me hope to find the same. If you change your mind about age at all, please feel free. I'm a bit young (25) but as a few on here would tell you, I am rather more mature than my physical age would suggest.

 

[lilyrl]

As it is, the 29 age cut off is young. It is interesting to see so many younger men wanting older women, bit of a trip.

 

[charlie6681]

Good Morning!

 

[lilyrl]

Well, I have some weird mistress woman threatening to have her contacts at the FBI (yeah, right) arrest me if I dont play with her friend.

I have a bunch of horny teenagers telling me how mature they are....

And, a guy with a speedo not realizing that my no penis pictures rule also extends to speedos!

This is hopeless.

 

[ucleebo]

Well written, intelligent post. There is no doubt whatever as to exactly what you are looking for. Since we are not a fit in any way whatsoever, all I can do is wish you the best of luck!

 

[need_2_cum]

Good luck....and.....

Well, I have some weird mistress woman threatening to have her contacts at the FBI (yeah, right) arrest me if I dont play with her friend.

I have a bunch of horny teenagers telling me how mature they are....

And, a guy with a speedo not realizing that my no penis pictures rule also extends to speedos!

This is hopeless.

Good look in your quest......and.... I like the fact that you tied speeds & hopeless together so nicely ........

 

[lilyrl]

Thanks.

It has been highly amusing, if nothing else comes of it.

I find it hard to believe that there isn't one tall sexy funny progressive smart guy out there somewhere in my area who has some depth along with his sexual perversions! Passionate intensity and dark humor. Cmon!

 

[AngryWhiteSemen]

Thanks.

It has been highly amusing, if nothing else comes of it.

I find it hard to believe that there isn't one tall sexy funny progressive smart guy out there somewhere in my area who has some depth along with his sexual perversions! Passionate intensity and dark humor. Cmon!

Hmmm. Too many rules and conditions. You sure it's a real person you seek?

 

[Mr_J]

pm'd you, feel free message back

 

[echologue]

Hello

......

What the hell....I'll throw it out there.

First, I am a real woman. I am not trying to get customers for a web cam.

Second, I am a very sensual and considered to be a very attractive woman. Obviously, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but as a general rule, i turn a lot of heads. I will provide pictures if I find a real reason to do so. I value my privacy and I would rather feel out a potential meeting first before revealing myself right out there. I am 5'7, toussled wavy dark hair, dark eyes, great figure, thick lips.

You are probably wondering why I am posting on a chat board if I am what I say. I will tell you why. I have been in a long term sexless relationship (he cant and wont) and I am pretty much about to burst. I am ending this relationship, and right now, all the guys I know are either in relationships, or they are mutual friends. I came here because (one) I want really good sex and (2) want someone worth having it with....

I have been holding back for a long time and I am an innately sexual woman, I have a lot to give. I want someone who has deep and lasting capacity for sensuality, someone smart, funny, far left progressive, tall, and sexy. Down to earth.

I think great sex comes from connection on other levels, so I really don't care to just jump in bed with anyone but if I can find the right guy to play with...we will jump in bed all the time. I like sex. I love sex. I miss sex into my bones.

Some things about me:

love photography and do it semi-profesionally, love the outdoor stuff such as hiking and snowshoeing and tromping through rivers, but I do not like sports, great cook, progressive activist....., good sense of humor, socially aware and caring....

So, if you are a down to earth, progressive, funny, tall, sexy, smart guy who wants to have great sex with a sensual 50s throwback pin up sex kitten and play and laugh for hours, then write me. Absolutely NO married or committed men. Ages 29 to mid 40s.

Location: western MA, southern VT, albany, boston, or weekend trips to NYC.

And, please. If you are a guy who sends out pictures of his penis, don't bother responding to this ad

I'm really sorry I missed you. There are a lot of good men on this sight. I hope a few have managed to capture your attention. Please don't become discouraged. It might take some sifting the chaff from the grain. You sound delightful. I'm anxious to know more about you

 

[lilyrl]

I don't ask anything that I can't give.

I have sold myself short for waaaaaaaaaaay to long, hon. I realize a personal ad on a sex site is a long shot, but like I said...what the hell.

 

[WetBiMoose]

Good luck to you...

I fit the age bracket and all the other physical standards you are looking for but I'm nowhere near you. I know you'll be able to find someone on here that can fulfill those long lasting desires. If you want to have a little PM fun or Yahoo chat then feel free to message me. Or just if you need someone to vent to... either way I'm here.

 

[Verinka]

lilyrl, I can relate to you very much, although I'm older. I think it's possible you'd find what you're looking for here, but I don't think it's that likely. Most of the guys I'd think are in relationships and need 'more' in a more secret way. Or they need so much variety, they're in here getting that and would want to continue to do so. Then, there's the distance factor. wherever you are, it's far from the majority of people. I sort of think this site is sex FIRST (in all its forms) and relationships a distant second, but I'm sure they happen once in a while. I think maybe a place like Plenty of Fish, a free dating site, might be better. In my experience, even at 62 years old, putting the tiniest hint of liking sex and sensuality gives one lots of choice of suitors. It's not bad without doing that too. I've been very surprised. Plus you're looking in the area you live in and you can widen it as much as you like. There are categories of what you're looking for: dating, relationship, friends, other relationship, talk/email, etc. There are others, such as Lava Life, that even have 'hook-up' sections, but you're looking for more than that. If you find the right medium, there will be 'takers', I'm sure Have fun and all the best, sister! Men love women who are not looking for someone to look after them, pay the bills, but just enjoy each other!!! They may still be paying the bills for the ex-wife anyway and need someone like that!! But this is the wrong place. Enjoy the fantasies here while you look for a real fellow....

 

[echologue]

I don't ask anything that I can't give.

I have sold myself short for waaaaaaaaaaay to long, hon. I realize a personal ad on a sex site is a long shot, but like I said...what the hell.

It may be a long shot, but without hope, what have we? Expectations are good things to hold high.

 

[lilyrl]

Verinka...

I don't think I will go for a dating site. I just shot this up to see what happens, and if nothing does, that is fine. I know there are LOTS and LOTS of married men (many who apparently can't read because they keep writing me despite my qualication of single

My guess is that I will meet guys at caucuses and conferences and protests and rallies....

Jullian Assange is under house arrest or I would drop him a line

 

[\\`arr]

Unfortunately I do not live any where near the areas you have mentioned above. From what one could gather from your profile, you seem very interesting. Hopefully you do find someone to talk with. Good luck on the search!!

 

[orgamimime]

Hi Lily,

Throwing my hat in the ring as another who wishes you well because we are not in your general area. I do hope you find someone soon!

You seem to have so much to offer - and so much going for you. I wish you the best!

 

[Verinka]

LOL on Julian Assange. But wouldn't he want to reveal your name, address and phone number to everyone here, in the name of open information, all for the public good? I found there are all types on dating sites, but it's lovely to meet more naturally, of course. All the best.

 

[sombrablanca]

Welll, I'm not claiming myself mature. Im saying a few of the 40 +s I know on here have said they thought I was as well and were shocked at finding out I'm 25.

 

[NeverWinterNite]

Thanks.

It has been highly amusing, if nothing else comes of it.

I find it hard to believe that there isn't one tall sexy funny progressive smart guy out there somewhere in my area who has some depth along with his sexual perversions! Passionate intensity and dark humor. Cmon!

I think there are some men on Lit who fit your qualifications. Don't give up. I think it's just going to take time.

I wish you the best with your search.

 

[lilyrl]

Nah. Jullian uses his powers for good.

His interview with Cenk on the young turks made me wet. I was like some infatuated teen groupie...Oh yeah, Jullian...school em...fight em...bring em down...Yeah baby...ohhhhh you know I love it when you talk about Bush the II's (Obamas) unconstitutional rendition and detainment of American citizens....oh wow, yes, yes...don't stop...tell me the real definition of terrorism again....I am your servant...bring me over the top baby....YES YES...Sarah Palin IS an idiot....

I finally know what bakes my cupcakes....