Strap-on experiences

[MissIntrigue]

So when did you first become interested in using a strap on? Was it your idea or your partners?

I said I'd reply to this one later- here it is. A little wordy..

To answer the question about how I got started with strap on...I was still very new to the internet, but aware that a lot of sexual stuff was available online. I had been living with a guy that very quickly turned out to be a bad decision and I was in the works of moving back out. I consider myself unpartnered at the time regardless of my living situation. I was a room mate with this man and I couldn't wait to get out.

One day while surfing the net, and back when chat rooms were freely available on MSN, I began searching through the chat room listings/titles for any room that had bi females. I really wanted to get into some type of loop that had bi women so I could perhaps eventually meet one face to face.

As I was cruising the room names, I stumbled upon a chat room called 'strap on' somethingorother. I can't remember the exact name but I recall it had strap on in the title. I quickly put that together thinking I'd find bi women in there...and so my natural curiosity led me into the room. There were lots of 'bot's' in these chat rooms. The bots were spammers that would 'whisper' or 'private message chat' to you aside from your participation in the chat room itself. A private conversation within a chat room while able to maintain chat in the room itself...

I barely got the chance to say hi to anyone or really get into the conversation and I was getting hammered with 'whispers'. I was trying to read some of the chat going on, and close out the many whispers on the bottom of my screen. I could hardly keep up with the exclamations of "wow you're not a bot!!". I found out very quickly that there were no other women in that chat room. I was the only one there. When the whisperers were realizing I wasn't a bot is when the hammering began. I was very confused. But remained curious and I had several men answering very confused questions but one genuine man in a whisper that was being pretty patient with me about the questions that I had about what was going on in that chat room. I was overwhelmed with too many of the private conversation requests, and needed to get out of there- the effort to close the private chats was too much with trying to chat.

We ended up leaving that chat room with our chat moved to MSN after exchanging screen names. He answered every question that I asked. I couldn't believe that men liked doing that anal sex with a woman wearing a toy as if she was a man. I couldn't believe that they begged for it, I couldn't believe that they could actually have more intense orgasms from that type of sex. OMG how ignorant was I?!

And here I thought I knew all there could be to know about a man. You mean there is more to the male orgasm?! Well, being an inquisitive person from the beginning, an experimenter, trying new or odd things out with guys, always asking how that was or how this other thing felt when I did it this way instead of that way...blah blah blah..I was absolutley shocked and so turned on at the whole idea of it. I couldn't wait to chat with him again. The information was compelling, profound, my insides were boiling for anything more on this subject. I was hot for this.

The final frontier...to boldly go where no man has gone before? (no, I'm not a trekkie) There were men in this world that were letting the exit door get used for entry?! I mean other than gay men? I was very curious and wanted to know everything. I mean everything. I wanted to get a strap on harness, and a cock..and a man to play with! Well, as much as I wanted and wanted- where would I ever find a man like that? To admit that he'd like that- wouldn't he be afraid to be considered gay? HOW do you meet someone like that and where? I really wanted to wear a cock and fuck with it.

I was not having much luck finding a participant (not knowing where to look wasn't helping). I got so impatient that I decided that maybe owning the equipment might speed things along. I bought a harness, and one attachment, and owned it for at least 8 months before I got into talking to someone, seriously, and someone who was in my state. I met a guy on an adult dating site that was into some unusual stuff. Unusual for me, then. Turn ons for me, nonetheless. He was into the stockings, the panties, the strap on idea. (I had recently to that time found Literotica as well so I was finding a lot of other kinks I was interested in.) He'd never had strap on but had a girl in his past that was always wanting to use a dildo or a double dildo with him. He let her play and experiment but never was a strap on used, so the idea was appealing to us both and we each ended up being each others 'first' with the strap on. The experience is written about in my story...and in my perspective.

From there, it's been no turning back. I thought, for a time, that I could maybe 'give up' that part of me- way in the beginning...you know 'take it or leave it' while it was still so new and undiscovered to me for a possible [love] interest that was other than my first strap on guy...but...I've decided that this is in my core and my gut. No matter how stressed I am, out of cycle with my desires, focused on real life stuff but can't be sexual or sensual... the strap on threads of Literotica call me back to lurk, read, or post if I have something to chime in on....all the while still keeping my eyes open for that one partner that makes me burn in my core for him and fits me to no end, I still seek that trust and intimacy...sure I have play partners that I have great times with at whatever level things are with them, we have trust, some level intimacy, communication..but there's no permanence. We use each other to get what we need until the next best things comes for each of us. I'm still holding my breath waiting...and still holding out on the best that a guy can get from me. It's going to take a man that knows how to make a woman feel just like a woman to get that.

In the meantime, I've been practicing. Gaining confidence. Learning.

Oh...So was it my partners idea? Didn't have one at the time..still don't. It's my idea, my kink, my desire, my rhythm.

 

[cf23430]

MS I, it really sounds like you know what you want.....and it seems that you took a journey to get to that point

 

[Felix_Jones]

I said I'd reply to this one later- here it is. A little wordy..

To answer the question about how I got started with strap on...I was still very new to the internet, but aware that a lot of sexual stuff was available online. I had been living with a guy that very quickly turned out to be a bad decision and I was in the works of moving back out. I consider myself unpartnered at the time regardless of my living situation. I was a room mate with this man and I couldn't wait to get out.

One day while surfing the net, and back when chat rooms were freely available on MSN, I began searching through the chat room listings/titles for any room that had bi females. I really wanted to get into some type of loop that had bi women so I could perhaps eventually meet one face to face.

As I was cruising the room names, I stumbled upon a chat room called 'strap on' somethingorother. I can't remember the exact name but I recall it had strap on in the title. I quickly put that together thinking I'd find bi women in there...and so my natural curiosity led me into the room. There were lots of 'bot's' in these chat rooms. The bots were spammers that would 'whisper' or 'private message chat' to you aside from your participation in the chat room itself. A private conversation within a chat room while able to maintain chat in the room itself...

I barely got the chance to say hi to anyone or really get into the conversation and I was getting hammered with 'whispers'. I was trying to read some of the chat going on, and close out the many whispers on the bottom of my screen. I could hardly keep up with the exclamations of "wow you're not a bot!!". I found out very quickly that there were no other women in that chat room. I was the only one there. When the whisperers were realizing I wasn't a bot is when the hammering began. I was very confused. But remained curious and I had several men answering very confused questions but one genuine man in a whisper that was being pretty patient with me about the questions that I had about what was going on in that chat room. I was overwhelmed with too many of the private conversation requests, and needed to get out of there- the effort to close the private chats was too much with trying to chat.

We ended up leaving that chat room with our chat moved to MSN after exchanging screen names. He answered every question that I asked. I couldn't believe that men liked doing that anal sex with a woman wearing a toy as if she was a man. I couldn't believe that they begged for it, I couldn't believe that they could actually have more intense orgasms from that type of sex. OMG how ignorant was I?!

And here I thought I knew all there could be to know about a man. You mean there is more to the male orgasm?! Well, being an inquisitive person from the beginning, an experimenter, trying new or odd things out with guys, always asking how that was or how this other thing felt when I did it this way instead of that way...blah blah blah..I was absolutley shocked and so turned on at the whole idea of it. I couldn't wait to chat with him again. The information was compelling, profound, my insides were boiling for anything more on this subject. I was hot for this.

The final frontier...to boldly go where no man has gone before? (no, I'm not a trekkie) There were men in this world that were letting the exit door get used for entry?! I mean other than gay men? I was very curious and wanted to know everything. I mean everything. I wanted to get a strap on harness, and a cock..and a man to play with! Well, as much as I wanted and wanted- where would I ever find a man like that? To admit that he'd like that- wouldn't he be afraid to be considered gay? HOW do you meet someone like that and where? I really wanted to wear a cock and fuck with it.

I was not having much luck finding a participant (not knowing where to look wasn't helping). I got so impatient that I decided that maybe owning the equipment might speed things along. I bought a harness, and one attachment, and owned it for at least 8 months before I got into talking to someone, seriously, and someone who was in my state. I met a guy on an adult dating site that was into some unusual stuff. Unusual for me, then. Turn ons for me, nonetheless. He was into the stockings, the panties, the strap on idea. (I had recently to that time found Literotica as well so I was finding a lot of other kinks I was interested in.) He'd never had strap on but had a girl in his past that was always wanting to use a dildo or a double dildo with him. He let her play and experiment but never was a strap on used, so the idea was appealing to us both and we each ended up being each others 'first' with the strap on. The experience is written about in my story...and in my perspective.

From there, it's been no turning back. I thought, for a time, that I could maybe 'give up' that part of me- way in the beginning...you know 'take it or leave it' while it was still so new and undiscovered to me for a possible [love] interest that was other than my first strap on guy...but...I've decided that this is in my core and my gut. No matter how stressed I am, out of cycle with my desires, focused on real life stuff but can't be sexual or sensual... the strap on threads of Literotica call me back to lurk, read, or post if I have something to chime in on....all the while still keeping my eyes open for that one partner that makes me burn in my core for him and fits me to no end, I still seek that trust and intimacy...sure I have play partners that I have great times with at whatever level things are with them, we have trust, some level intimacy, communication..but there's no permanence. We use each other to get what we need until the next best things comes for each of us. I'm still holding my breath waiting...and still holding out on the best that a guy can get from me. It's going to take a man that knows how to make a woman feel just like a woman to get that.

In the meantime, I've been practicing. Gaining confidence. Learning.

Oh...So was it my partners idea? Didn't have one at the time..still don't. It's my idea, my kink, my desire, my rhythym.

Great post Miss Intrigue, thanks a lot for sharing. *l* Funny how you get ideas from online, I have a feeling the internet has launched more than a few experiments. Certainly did with me *l* It's encouraging to know that there's others in the same boat.
Love your posts Miss I, you've a really great attitude towards sex...you totally exude the confidence of someone that knows how to give and get pleasure.

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

I said I'd reply to this one later- here it is. A little wordy..

To answer the question about how I got started with strap on...I was still very new to the internet, but aware that a lot of sexual stuff was available online. I had been living with a guy that very quickly turned out to be a bad decision and I was in the works of moving back out. I consider myself unpartnered at the time regardless of my living situation. I was a room mate with this man and I couldn't wait to get out.

One day while surfing the net, and back when chat rooms were freely available on MSN, I began searching through the chat room listings/titles for any room that had bi females. I really wanted to get into some type of loop that had bi women so I could perhaps eventually meet one face to face.

So at this time had you ever had any sexual experiences with a woman?

We ended up leaving that chat room with our chat moved to MSN after exchanging screen names. He answered every question that I asked. I couldn't believe that men liked doing that anal sex with a woman wearing a toy as if she was a man. I couldn't believe that they begged for it, I couldn't believe that they could actually have more intense orgasms from that type of sex. OMG how ignorant was I?!

Not very ignorant at all, or I would have to believe that you, me and the vast majority of people were/are equally ignorant. Up until two years ago every time I had seen pictures of girls with strapons I thought they used them on other women.

And here I thought I knew all there could be to know about a man. You mean there is more to the male orgasm?! Well, being an inquisitive person from the beginning, an experimenter, trying new or odd things out with guys, always asking how that was or how this other thing felt when I did it this way instead of that way...blah blah blah..I was absolutley shocked and so turned on at the whole idea of it. I couldn't wait to chat with him again. The information was compelling, profound, my insides were boiling for anything more on this subject. I was hot for this.

The final frontier...to boldly go where no man has gone before? (no, I'm not a trekkie) There were men in this world that were letting the exit door get used for entry?! I mean other than gay men? I was very curious and wanted to know everything. I mean everything. I wanted to get a strap on harness, and a cock..and a man to play with! Well, as much as I wanted and wanted- where would I ever find a man like that? To admit that he'd like that- wouldn't he be afraid to be considered gay? HOW do you meet someone like that and where? I really wanted to wear a cock and fuck with it.

I was not having much luck finding a participant (not knowing where to look wasn't helping). I got so impatient that I decided that maybe owning the equipment might speed things along. I bought a harness, and one attachment, and owned it for at least 8 months before I got into talking to someone, seriously, and someone who was in my state. I met a guy on an adult dating site that was into some unusual stuff. Unusual for me, then. Turn ons for me, nonetheless. He was into the stockings, the panties, the strap on idea. (I had recently to that time found Literotica as well so I was finding a lot of other kinks I was interested in.) He'd never had strap on but had a girl in his past that was always wanting to use a dildo or a double dildo with him. He let her play and experiment but never was a strap on used, so the idea was appealing to us both and we each ended up being each others 'first' with the strap on. The experience is written about in my story...and in my perspective.

I thought I knew pretty much everything about a woman sexually, but was very happy to learn that I still had a lot to learn. I love learning about my partner's sexual reactions, when a soft touch is needed, when she wants to feel me deep and hard... listening to her breathing, the excitement sounds that escape from her body... learning is a wonderful thing.

So for you, do you have a preference with regards to what the man is wearing? For you, is the man wearing female clothes part of the excitement or enhance your enjoyment? Personally, that aspect has no interest for me.

From there, it's been no turning back. I thought, for a time, that I could maybe 'give up' that part of me- way in the beginning...you know 'take it or leave it' while it was still so new and undiscovered to me for a possible [love] interest that was other than my first strap on guy...but...I've decided that this is in my core and my gut. No matter how stressed I am, out of cycle with my desires, focused on real life stuff but can't be sexual or sensual... the strap on threads of Literotica call me back to lurk, read, or post if I have something to chime in on....all the while still keeping my eyes open for that one partner that makes me burn in my core for him and fits me to no end, I still seek that trust and intimacy...sure I have play partners that I have great times with at whatever level things are with them, we have trust, some level intimacy, communication..but there's no permanence. We use each other to get what we need until the next best things comes for each of us. I'm still holding my breath waiting...and still holding out on the best that a guy can get from me. It's going to take a man that knows how to make a woman feel just like a woman to get that.

In the meantime, I've been practicing. Gaining confidence. Learning.

Oh...So was it my partners idea? Didn't have one at the time..still don't. It's my idea, my kink, my desire, my rhythym.

Ahh... more of that supremely confident attitude that touches me deeply.

 

[PolyLvr]

I've done this act in this manner as well as Domming and it's quite the experience to share as well.

I have to wonder if Domination came about so that a man could feel as if he was really being taken to justify the 'gay' that people put with anal sex with men.

Don't know.. about justification or 'gay', it just feels good and find it terribly erotic and arousing.. A hot form of another type of sexual gratification for some..

I can sort of see that point but I agree it just feels good, but when we do it we rarely do it without at least a bit of verbal domination and spanking.

For us there's no domme aspect.
For my part; I just love the feeling. Even if I'm sucking a real cock I don't think in terms of gay or not. I don't want to be with a man except for sucking or fucking. Kissing doesn't enter into it, or romantic feeling, or even tenderness like i show my wife. Just fucking and sucking.
For my wife; she loves pleasing me with a strap-on and she's titilated by the pseudo-gay aspect with her as the perpetrator.

 

[noobwriter]

So many replies to this thread that I don't have time to read them all, but I can say this...

I am totally open to having a woman use a strap-on to ravage my ass. I've been using toys on myself for a while, and my ultimate goal is to achieve orgasm without my cock being touched at all. I want to cum just from the sensation of having my ass pounded.

Sadly, I haven't yet found anyone to do it for me.

 

[pcarp]

Dang there are a lot of replies to this thread To address the original post:

Did you ever use a strap-on?
No, I haven't used one.

Was ever one used on you?
Yes, I have a g/f friend who loves to fuck my ass with her strapon

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?
I do not really get a lot out of it, but I love it when she does it. I love to see and hear her get off on the act. She loves it and she cums several times. She loves to watch me play with a toy first to get ready for her. Some days its a slow easy thing and others it's like she is taking out her frustrations on my ass

Would you do it again?
In a heartbeat. She is currently out of town but called me the other day to tell me that I better be ready because my ass is hers. She has been out of state taking care of an aging relative and is not happy. She told me that she has found a paddle and will be using it on my prior to her strapon. Spanking is a new avenue for her so this could be very interesting.

Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman?
While I am not a woman, I have had the pleasure of watching my g/f and another woman use a strapon on each other. It was wildly exciting for me. My g/f, surprised me when she told her friend that she (my g/f) wanted to watch as her friend fucked me. She has only allowed that one other time before and said it wouldn't happen again. She was very vocal as she watched and cheered her friend on.

 

[wannabeesis]

Two weeks ago I showed my girl my cock ring and she thought it was so hot that I had a sex toy. Last Friday night while fooling around she asked me if I had any other sex toys. After a few mins. of debating it in my head I told her I had a vibrating butt plug and enjoyed using it on myself. She wanted to see it. So I broke it out and then asked her to used it on me. She did and it was so hot. Tomorrow night after going to the movies we are going to stop at the Porn shop on the way home. She wants to pick up a dildo for me to use on her and I'm going to pick up a strap on for her to use on me. Should be a good time. I'll post about after it goes down.

 

[Fran26]

Strap-ons

Yes i have girlfriend ( she is a bit of a dominatrix ) she takes charge in the bedroom , one of her favorite game is to fuck my ass with a strapon while she goes at my cunt with a vibrator .
The orgasmes are something to behold , and the best part is that a strapon remains hard .
I love it, but i also love a man in there even if they don't last as long .
Fran

 

[escriterra]

I said I'd reply to this one later- here it is. A little wordy..

To answer the question about how I got started with strap on...I was still very new to the internet, but aware that a lot of sexual stuff was available online. I had been living with a guy that very quickly turned out to be a bad decision and I was in the works of moving back out. I consider myself unpartnered at the time regardless of my living situation. I was a room mate with this man and I couldn't wait to get out.

One day while surfing the net, and back when chat rooms were freely available on MSN, I began searching through the chat room listings/titles for any room that had bi females. I really wanted to get into some type of loop that had bi women so I could perhaps eventually meet one face to face.

As I was cruising the room names, I stumbled upon a chat room called 'strap on' somethingorother. I can't remember the exact name but I recall it had strap on in the title. I quickly put that together thinking I'd find bi women in there...and so my natural curiosity led me into the room. There were lots of 'bot's' in these chat rooms. The bots were spammers that would 'whisper' or 'private message chat' to you aside from your participation in the chat room itself. A private conversation within a chat room while able to maintain chat in the room itself...

I barely got the chance to say hi to anyone or really get into the conversation and I was getting hammered with 'whispers'. I was trying to read some of the chat going on, and close out the many whispers on the bottom of my screen. I could hardly keep up with the exclamations of "wow you're not a bot!!". I found out very quickly that there were no other women in that chat room. I was the only one there. When the whisperers were realizing I wasn't a bot is when the hammering began. I was very confused. But remained curious and I had several men answering very confused questions but one genuine man in a whisper that was being pretty patient with me about the questions that I had about what was going on in that chat room. I was overwhelmed with too many of the private conversation requests, and needed to get out of there- the effort to close the private chats was too much with trying to chat.

We ended up leaving that chat room with our chat moved to MSN after exchanging screen names. He answered every question that I asked. I couldn't believe that men liked doing that anal sex with a woman wearing a toy as if she was a man. I couldn't believe that they begged for it, I couldn't believe that they could actually have more intense orgasms from that type of sex. OMG how ignorant was I?!

And here I thought I knew all there could be to know about a man. You mean there is more to the male orgasm?! Well, being an inquisitive person from the beginning, an experimenter, trying new or odd things out with guys, always asking how that was or how this other thing felt when I did it this way instead of that way...blah blah blah..I was absolutley shocked and so turned on at the whole idea of it. I couldn't wait to chat with him again. The information was compelling, profound, my insides were boiling for anything more on this subject. I was hot for this.

The final frontier...to boldly go where no man has gone before? (no, I'm not a trekkie) There were men in this world that were letting the exit door get used for entry?! I mean other than gay men? I was very curious and wanted to know everything. I mean everything. I wanted to get a strap on harness, and a cock..and a man to play with! Well, as much as I wanted and wanted- where would I ever find a man like that? To admit that he'd like that- wouldn't he be afraid to be considered gay? HOW do you meet someone like that and where? I really wanted to wear a cock and fuck with it.

I was not having much luck finding a participant (not knowing where to look wasn't helping). I got so impatient that I decided that maybe owning the equipment might speed things along. I bought a harness, and one attachment, and owned it for at least 8 months before I got into talking to someone, seriously, and someone who was in my state. I met a guy on an adult dating site that was into some unusual stuff. Unusual for me, then. Turn ons for me, nonetheless. He was into the stockings, the panties, the strap on idea. (I had recently to that time found Literotica as well so I was finding a lot of other kinks I was interested in.) He'd never had strap on but had a girl in his past that was always wanting to use a dildo or a double dildo with him. He let her play and experiment but never was a strap on used, so the idea was appealing to us both and we each ended up being each others 'first' with the strap on. The experience is written about in my story...and in my perspective.

From there, it's been no turning back. I thought, for a time, that I could maybe 'give up' that part of me- way in the beginning...you know 'take it or leave it' while it was still so new and undiscovered to me for a possible [love] interest that was other than my first strap on guy...but...I've decided that this is in my core and my gut. No matter how stressed I am, out of cycle with my desires, focused on real life stuff but can't be sexual or sensual... the strap on threads of Literotica call me back to lurk, read, or post if I have something to chime in on....all the while still keeping my eyes open for that one partner that makes me burn in my core for him and fits me to no end, I still seek that trust and intimacy...sure I have play partners that I have great times with at whatever level things are with them, we have trust, some level intimacy, communication..but there's no permanence. We use each other to get what we need until the next best things comes for each of us. I'm still holding my breath waiting...and still holding out on the best that a guy can get from me. It's going to take a man that knows how to make a woman feel just like a woman to get that.

In the meantime, I've been practicing. Gaining confidence. Learning.

Oh...So was it my partners idea? Didn't have one at the time..still don't. It's my idea, my kink, my desire, my rhythym.

What a lovely, insightful description of the allure of F-to-M strapon sex that examines both the got-to-have-it lust AND the desire and search for a man who: 1) adores you, and 2) adores bending over for you. Ah, what a joy to find such a man!

Which prompts this question: Knowing that your special man will be like this, is the search best carried out by looking first for 1), or looking first for 2)? Women who crave strapon intimacies with a man are crestfallen after investing months with Mr-this-could-be-the-one, only to find out after gut-clenching worry yet unbearably exciting anticipation that the man will never consider such a thing (and wonders at his lady's sanity for even mentioning it). So is it better to bring this up early in a relationship? What if, having not brought it up at the outset, he DOES turn out to be Mr-this-is-the-one, and you could succeed in leading him slowly, lovingly, gently closer and closer to a willingness to open himself up to your pleasure (and his own) as you slide your strapon cock deep inside his asshole for the first time?

Now, that is surely the best way! With it you get all the schoolgirl-ish excitement of anticipating his deflowering as he squirms and moans when you take him for the first time. You get to wonder what that will be like, giggling at the thought of how sexy and fun it will be. You get the lovely hours spent fantastizing about your man's sexy, endearing comments, his anxious looks mixing eagerness and lust with worry about his virgin opening, and how you'll introduce him to your strapon---how you'll plan the taking of his virginity.

All so very, very hot!

But you never know whether it will ever happen, and you risk turning him off, driving a wedge between the two of you concerning future shared fantasizing, role-play, other sexy fun.

So, Miss I . . . what do you do? How do you find the man who is a strong, handsome, sexy lover and protector who loves you in every way (including those delicious, hard fucking sessions in which his very man-ness sates your every lustful need to be taken and filled to the point of ecstasy) AND who smiles when he sees you step through the bedroom door strapped in and ready to stroke your fake cock into his private opening as you take him while he lies on his back at the edge of the bed, his legs draped over your shoulders, so you can gaze into his gorgeous eyes and stroke his hard cock as you fuck him in the ass on the way to crashing orgasms for both of you?

 

[Prettywilling]

Such an interesting thread, I am getting to know a guy who has submissive leanings, he told me about an occasion when a girlfriend had been milking him and then slipped a butt plug into him, he was definately reluctant to share but at the same time very turned on by it. It very much caught my imagination. So I think that despite my usually submissive nature if getting to know each other turns into a lot more, I would love to do this to him.

 

[escriterra]

Lead him gently

Such an interesting thread, I am getting to know a guy who has submissive leanings, he told me about an occasion when a girlfriend had been milking him and then slipped a butt plug into him, he was definately reluctant to share but at the same time very turned on by it. It very much caught my imagination. So I think that despite my usually submissive nature if getting to know each other turns into a lot more, I would love to do this to him.

If things progress, and it becomes clear that perhaps the reason he shared the details of such an intimate encounter is because he hopes you might do similar things with him, then you may get your wish. Realize that exposing his vulverability as he did probably took a great deal of courage. You can reward him for the way he has placed his trust in you by reassuring him that his erotic tale turned you on incredibly and made you so hot to try the same thing with him that you fantasize constantly about sliding a butt plug into his sexy ass. Be sure to make it clear, though, that you want to be more to him than just a replay, that you want to explore additional ways to excite and arouse him. Then tell him the thought of getting him aroused and hard makes you get very wet.

Let him tell you that he wants more, then give it to him.

 

[Grum48]

Got the gear, got the partner.....Just aint got the time

 

[nedog25]

So, Miss I . . . what do you do? How do you find the man who is a strong, handsome, sexy lover and protector who loves you in every way (including those delicious, hard fucking sessions in which his very man-ness sates your every lustful need to be taken and filled to the point of ecstasy) AND who smiles when he sees you step through the bedroom door strapped in and ready to stroke your fake cock into his private opening as you take him while he lies on his back at the edge of the bed, his legs draped over your shoulders, so you can gaze into his gorgeous eyes and stroke his hard cock as you fuck him in the ass on the way to crashing orgasms for both of you?[/QUO


Personally speaking, this is the stuff dreams are made of. I'm definitely envious of those who find themselves in a relationship of this caliber.

 

[kellieanne]

I have thought about giving this a try with a willing guy...never had the opportunity yet

 

[Prettywilling]

If things progress, and it becomes clear that perhaps the reason he shared the details of such an intimate encounter is because he hopes you might do similar things with him, then you may get your wish. Realize that exposing his vulverability as he did probably took a great deal of courage. You can reward him for the way he has placed his trust in you by reassuring him that his erotic tale turned you on incredibly and made you so hot to try the same thing with him that you fantasize constantly about sliding a butt plug into his sexy ass. Be sure to make it clear, though, that you want to be more to him than just a replay, that you want to explore additional ways to excite and arouse him. Then tell him the thought of getting him aroused and hard makes you get very wet.

Let him tell you that he wants more, then give it to him.

Thanks for your reply, I hope I was encouraging to him in my response and getting to know each other continues apace so we shall see...

 

[billc393]

I have thought about giving this a try with a willing guy...never had the opportunity yet

I'd bet that half of the men you know would be willing if they knew the woman they were with wanted to try it with them. It's a tough thing to admit for many men, but, if a woman tells them that it arouses them just thinking about it... Well, I know I agreed to try it with the first woman who asked!

 

[redtheviking]

MIssIntrigue... I'm floored. Speechless even. I love your attitude and quest for sexual enlightenment and pleasure. I wish people were more open and honest about their feelings and desires. So many relationships would benefit from that level of communication. I'm in MA and would love to be part of your journey. My curiosity for all things sensual, sexual, and emotional is reinspired by you. Thanks for being you.

 

[LibraStud]

I have been looking for a woman who would enjoy this with me for years. It is so difficult to find someone who understands. I love to pleasure a woman in any way we want. In return I just ask for a lady who will take away my virginity. Is it you? PM me if you are unable to write there.

 

[paulthewetcd]

I love this thread, almost as much as I love getting taken with a strap-on!

 

[curiousguy318]

This has been quite a few years ago, when I was with a past girlfriend. We were out bowling, and we placed a bet, that the loser would do anything the winner wanted, and that we would not discuss the details until the night that it would happen. So I lost, and asked her what she wanted, she told me that when the time was right she would tell me. So weeks went by and I had forgotten all about it.

Well one day, she called me to come over and relax in her pool. I was at work and told her, I didn't have my trunks with me. She said no worries that she had bought me a swim suit to wear. So after work I headed to her house.

When I got to her house, I rang the bell, she opend the door, and I about fell to the floor. She was standing there, naked except for a pair of thigh high leather boots and a strap-on dildo around her waist.

Her Blond hair was all teased up, her make up was all done up. I started to speak and she shushed me, and told me to come in. I came in and closed the door behind me, and just watched and she confidently sashayed throught the living room. She turned and asked me, remember our bet? I looked at her strangly, she then said, the night I whipped your ass at bowling. I replied yes.

She said it is time to pay up. I said ok, what the hell do you plan on doing with that, I pointed at the strap-on. She said well first you are going to suck it, then it is going up your ass. I am going to fuck you tonight, and you will do everything I say, agreed she asked? I started to protest, and she shushed me again, and said a bet was a bet, besides your hard-on tells me you are liking the idea.

So then I started to say something, and she shushed me again, and said this is my night, I am in control, it will be my way, you do as you are told, when I tell you.

She then sat down on the couch and ordered me to strip. So I did. She was sitting on the couch stroking the latex cock like she was jacking off. She then told me to turn the stereo on and dance for her. Find something that you can bump and grind to. So I found a song and began to dance. I was dancing and she kept stroking the latex cock with one hand, and fingered herself with the other. Everynow and then she would hoot and holler or whistle.

After I danced a few songs, she stood up and turned the stereo off. That is when she ordered me on my knees. She walked over to me, and said to remain quiet, and do exactly as she says. I knodded

She then presented a tube of red lipstick and applied it to my lips. When she was satisfied with her handy work, she took ahold of the latex cock, and rubbed it across my lips, and my cheek. In a husky lusty voice, she said" open your mouth and suck my cock. I was frozen, lostin her eyes. Now she was sexy as hell, but this was a whole new level, and i could not even move, and then she smacked me in the cheek with the dildo, and commanded suck it and suck it now bitch. So i opened me mouth and she moved forward placing it in my mouth. She then said, I want you to suck it, just like when I suck your cock.
So for several minutes I tried to mimmick what she would have done to me. Then she really took charge, and grabbed my head, and began to thrust in and out of my mouth. She then went a little far, and I started to gag and choke, she pulled back lightly and said, oh someone needs to learn how to throat a cock, and shoved it back in. She then said, "baby that gagging and choking is music to my ears" now suck me, and throat it every time you go down. I got the choking and gagging under control, and began to suck it as she asked. I could smell her musky sent, and knew that she was really getting off on this, then i felt her buckle, and I grabbed ahold of her legs as she yelled out that she was cumming. When her orgasm subsided, she withdrew the latex cock, and looked down at me. She said I think we are off to a great start.

This is getting a little long, so I will stop here. If anybody wants more I will write more. Needless to say, what a fantastic introduction to strap-on play. When she penetrated me it hurt at first, but in no time she was fucking me with ease.

 

[boots72]

Please! More!!!

 

[Kirk_09]

Hey guys...Im totally new so sorry if i fuck up but I think i want to be sub and the idea of a woman wearing a strap on and making me enjoy her cock arouses me a lot. I read the stories on the first page about a dom making her sub suck on her cock methodically and it got me hard.

A strong older female dom is really appealing to me.

Again im totally new to BDSM and am trying to introduce myself to it. I even have a topic in the BDSM personals place.

check it out and i plan to make some good new friends here.

 

[DVoid]

My mistress used a strap-on on me the first time we met.
I'm gonna write a story on it soon. I'll admit it was a bit of a suprise,
wasn't expecting it at all. But I'll admit I loved it.

 

[SatinPaws]

hello all...
sneaking in here at last.
i'm just offering what little thanks i can to the lot of you for a wonderfully friendly and erotic thread.
yum yum!