Strap-on experiences

[Eager2TRYRU]

Call me literal, but gay is two men touching eachother sexually. I can't think of a thing a man and woman can do alone together sexually that could be gay.

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I told some of the guys I work with, about a threesome I had. One of the "scenes" we did, was a girl and I 69'd, with her on top, and my head was near the edge of the bed. The other girl was wearing a strap on, and she fukked the girl I was eating out. They told me that since I was so close to the strap on, that it was gay of me. How much less gay can having sex with two women be?

That scene was so hot, I can still picture it clearly in my head. Every now and then, I'd pull my knees up, holding her in place, and the other girl would just drill her deep. I could hear her losing he breath almost at the intesity. If that's gay, I wanna be that gay all the time.[/QUOTE]

There is nothing "gay" about what a man and woman do together... and your threesome wasn't "gay" for you being the only man. Personally I don't see the need to label things but if I had to label your threesome... awesome comes to mind. My wife's fantasy is a lot like what you describe except she wants to use her strapon on me after she pushes my head between the other woman's legs and forces me to lick her. As I'm servicing the other woman she wants to pound me from behind.

 

[MsAphrodite]

Share is the only way to go, fuck you, fuck me , win win

 

[cf23430]

Share is the only way to go, fuck you, fuck me , win win

I love that attitude...mmmm

 

[tmock]

Would love to find a female to use strapon on me in central NC.

 

[eastern sun]

I've been thinking to use Midori's scarf harness but have not gotten around to it yet.

The comments seem positive so perhaps it is worth giving it a try.

Thanks for the link. I'll try it.

 

[fossie123]

I want to get a feeldo i think the sight of a feeldo poaking out of my wife coming at me with the intention of fucking my ass is so hot it makes me dribble with excitement

 

[MichaelHohner]

As a very heterosexual male with a job that requires power, decisions, and intensity, it's always been a fantasy of mine to give myself to a lover with a strap on. I think the taboo nature, the power reversal, and the pleasure from it would be so liberating and sensual. Funny how the mind works, and also funny how hard it is to find someone to fulfill that desire.

 

[MissIntrigue]

As a very heterosexual male with a job that requires power, decisions, and intensity, it's always been a fantasy of mine to give myself to a lover with a strap on. I think the taboo nature, the power reversal, and the pleasure from it would be so liberating and sensual. Funny how the mind works, and also funny how hard it is to find someone to fulfill that desire.

I would think that with the internet available, there are so many women on the web also...there's got to be a percentage of us that are into that.

I hear this same issue of not finding 'the someone to fulfill' that from mostly men but it seems, more seldom heard from, that women also are having a hard time with either finding or getting the man to agree to letting them experiment.

As I've grown with this 'characterizational' quality about myself, I find I'm just a little more forward and blunt about it. I'm not callous, or obnoxious about it but discreet and I wait for any opening to bring it to the table if I feel that I have an opportunity. Kind of like a cat waiting to pounce at the right time. Sometimes I make an opportunity. It depends on what platform you're communicating, and if you can trust the other person with the information as well. Be careful but be persistent with your feelers out there.

 

[cf23430]

Miss I, Wish I lived closer to you so that you might just prounce into me...lol.

Hope all is well with you.

C

I would think that with the internet available, there are so many women on the web also...there's got to be a percentage of us that are into that.

I hear this same issue of not finding 'the someone to fulfill' that from mostly men but it seems, more seldom heard from, that women also are having a hard time with either finding or getting the man to agree to letting them experiment.

As I've grown with this 'characterizational' quality about myself, I find I'm just a little more forward and blunt about it. I'm not callous, or obnoxious about it but discreet and I wait for any opening to bring it to the table if I feel that I have an opportunity. Kind of like a cat waiting to pounce at the right time. Sometimes I make an opportunity. It depends on what platform you're communicating, and if you can trust the other person with the information as well. Be careful but be persistent with your feelers out there.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Miss I, Wish I lived closer to you so that you might just prounce into me...lol.

Hope all is well with you.

C

If we lived closer to each other, you'd never be the same.

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

If we lived closer to each other, you'd never be the same.

I know this wasn't said about me but I enjoyed the comment none the less... I get chills from most of the stuff you write, you have a supremely confident attitude that is very sexy...

 

[tiez]

Kind of like a cat waiting to pounce at the right time.

Mrowr!!!

Howdy stranger.

 

[MissIntrigue]

I know this wasn't said about me but I enjoyed the comment none the less... I get chills from most of the stuff you write, you have a supremely confident attitude that is very sexy...

What a huge compliment...so huge, seriously, it moved me...thank you!

 

[MissIntrigue]

Mrowr!!!

Howdy stranger.

Howdy stranger yourself...how's your world? Seems like eons ago we talked about meeting for coffee sometime...good to 'see' you!

XO

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

What a huge compliment...so huge, seriously, it moved me...thank you!

I've always been partial to confident women... actually it's almost a weakness

 

[escriterra]

Toying and then pouncing

I would think that with the internet available, there are so many women on the web also...there's got to be a percentage of us that are into that.

I hear this same issue of not finding 'the someone to fulfill' that from mostly men but it seems, more seldom heard from, that women also are having a hard time with either finding or getting the man to agree to letting them experiment.

As I've grown with this 'characterizational' quality about myself, I find I'm just a little more forward and blunt about it. I'm not callous, or obnoxious about it but discreet and I wait for any opening to bring it to the table if I feel that I have an opportunity. Kind of like a cat waiting to pounce at the right time. Sometimes I make an opportunity. It depends on what platform you're communicating, and if you can trust the other person with the information as well. Be careful but be persistent with your feelers out there.

Perhaps it's fear that prevents more lovers and potential lovers from asking for the pleasures of F to M strapon sex -- fear of what the other will think. Will he think I'm 1) too aggressive? 2) too kinky? 3) too unsatisfied with the way things are? Will she think I'm 1) gay?

Complex psychology aside, there is, after all the worries are stripped away, the pure eroticism, pleasure, and satisfaction (mental, emotional, physical) to be experienced by both parties during a loving session of strapon man-fucking. Getting to that point has its own rewards, and we wonder if Miss I likes to toy and tease a bit before she pounces . . .

It can be deliciously arousing for a lady to bring her man around to the idea of opening to her penetration, and there are countless ways to be subversive about it, to lead him to a place where he lusts for something he has never before considered. THEN the unbridled joy of pouncing, of seizing the moment, and helping him understand how truly pleasurable it is for both of you . . . well, such games of planning/teasing/toying/leading/discovering/enjoying are such sexy fun!

No?

 

[sterculius]

My wife and I have been together for a total of 34 years but it's only been during the past four years that I've opened up to her and confided that I had really enjoyed giving blowjobs to my best friend on a regular basis for most of our high school years. She was surprised, but since she likes sucking my cock, she could understand why I might like doing it too and rather than being repelled by the revelation, she wanted to know more about my oral history. She asked if I still had the desire to suck cock and when I admitted that I did, she suggested that we get a strap on dildo to use just for that purpose. We chose the rather large Jeff Stryker cyberskin dildo because it resembled in shape and size the cock of my high school friend that I loved sucking on. She was amazed at my ability to deep throat this dildo but at my urging, she now aggressively fucks my mouth and throat the way I loved having it done to me. Although my friend never attempted penetrating me anally, my wife eagerly enjoys fucking my ass as energetically as she fucks my mouth. Primarily because of the planning and preparations necessary, we only indulge in this activity once or twice a month but they are usually marathon sessions. After a pleasant period of foreplay, I'll bring her to at least one orgasm by eating her delicious pussy. She'll usually want to reciprocate by sucking and deep throating my cock before she straps on her dildo. That's my cue to get down on my knees so that she can hold my head and fuck my throat before turning me around and fucking my ass doggy style.
It has brought me an immense sense of relief in being able to unburden and share an early experience that I had never told to anyone else before for fear of being thought perverted. I couldn't equate my normal, obsessive lusting after women with my simultaneous intense erotic need to suck my friends big cock. I've only recently learned, through reading accounts of other men on forums like this, that I'm not alone in my desires. It has brought me and my wife closer together emotionally as well as physically as a result our mutual enjoyment of this form of sexual activity.

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

I've done this act in this manner as well as Domming and it's quite the experience to share as well.

I have to wonder if Domination came about so that a man could feel as if he was really being taken to justify the 'gay' that people put with anal sex with men.

So when did you first become interested in using a strap on? Was it your idea or your partners?

 

[amylin456]

I would think that with the internet available, there are so many women on the web also...there's got to be a percentage of us that are into that.

I hear this same issue of not finding 'the someone to fulfill' that from mostly men but it seems, more seldom heard from, that women also are having a hard time with either finding or getting the man to agree to letting them experiment.

As I've grown with this 'characterizational' quality about myself, I find I'm just a little more forward and blunt about it. I'm not callous, or obnoxious about it but discreet and I wait for any opening to bring it to the table if I feel that I have an opportunity. Kind of like a cat waiting to pounce at the right time. Sometimes I make an opportunity. It depends on what platform you're communicating, and if you can trust the other person with the information as well. Be careful but be persistent with your feelers out there.

You sound so wickedly wonderful ... I would love to be dressed sexy for you .. as in being your 'lesbian partner'.. and let you have your way and then open to pleasing you in any way you would like....

 

[MissIntrigue]

Perhaps it's fear that prevents more lovers and potential lovers from asking for the pleasures of F to M strapon sex -- fear of what the other will think. Will he think I'm 1) too aggressive? 2) too kinky? 3) too unsatisfied with the way things are? Will she think I'm 1) gay?

Complex psychology aside, there is, after all the worries are stripped away, the pure eroticism, pleasure, and satisfaction (mental, emotional, physical) to be experienced by both parties during a loving session of strapon man-fucking. Getting to that point has its own rewards, and we wonder if Miss I likes to toy and tease a bit before she pounces . . .

It can be deliciously arousing for a lady to bring her man around to the idea of opening to her penetration, and there are countless ways to be subversive about it, to lead him to a place where he lusts for something he has never before considered. THEN the unbridled joy of pouncing, of seizing the moment, and helping him understand how truly pleasurable it is for both of you . . . well, such games of planning/teasing/toying/leading/discovering/enjoying are such sexy fun!

No?

I do agree that it's probably fear that makes a lot of men say 'no' to the act, or the idea of it. I've had men say straight out to me that their anus is for exit...not entry. Hypocritically enough, they want anal sex from a woman. I don't generally even become intimate with those. With me, no means no, which stands on both sides.

As far as toying a bit prior to pouncing...I enjoy a little game of cat and willing mouse...<smile>. My history with meeting men (and it hasn't been many- don't get the message that I fuck every man that approaches me with legs spread) desiring strap on has been mostly online. I am usually drawn to the ones that have been dying for it forever and through communication, I can tell if they'd be a good candidate for my time. I don't want my time wasted and in the same platform, I give enough communication that they know that they won't be disappointed either.

I had this one guy that 'found me' and we began discussing the fantasy, not 'a' fantasy..the fantasy of being 'taken'. We talked for quite some time. Some chats let to him having the most raging of erections because I was on this end of my computer driving him crazy. Then we met face to face and that made things much worse for him as he now had a visual. Some making out and touching let him I know I knew my way around a mans body. He said that 'I really know how to handle a man's cock'. I already have confidence, but that comment was nice validation!

His mind was going nuts in the coming weeks and months with our e-mails, chats, innuendo's, (this all transpired over about a 6 month period), the build up was delicious for the both of us. I was delicious for me as I love to tease and it was for him as he knew the result would be something he so deeply desired. He was patient but he knew that for him, the prize was huge.

One day he was fixing something on my car, (and I made reference to this in an earlier post- not sure if it was this particular strap on thread or my other favorite) and while he was bent into the trunk and reaching, I stepped up behind him and dry fucked his ass in his mechanic coverall as he was bent into the car. That drove him crazy. We had done some making out, some touching at this point in our 'relationship' but never suggestive actions such as that. That day was not a day that either of us had time to do anything other than a a very small bit of kissing and he had to live with that memory/feeling for a little bit before we could get the time to carry on. This was not one of the guys that wanted to be dominated, it was just erotic strap on loving and I gave him something to remember indeed.

So the tease...and the pounce, carefully crafted, can be quite the event in the end. Many men approach me through private message means are impatient, crude, disrespectful, and not in my area, not even close candidates. I don't travel. I'm not available to casual first time meeting fantasy making. Maybe another point in time perhaps.

I guess when I have decided to engage a man...you can say he'd been truly "intrigued".

 

[MissIntrigue]

So when did you first become interested in using a strap on? Was it your idea or your partners?

I'll be back later today to address this one.

 

[cf23430]

If we lived closer to each other, you'd never be the same.

I do love your confidence and y our alluring manner,,,,however after you see my luscious ass....I am quite certain that if we lived closer to gether it would be you that never would be the same....

 

[cf23430]

Mrs. I,

I have always loved your sensual nature and your confeidence in making a man feel that if he where ever be blessed enough to be in your presenence that would be the end of his search. I truly adore you and think your truly the sexiset woman on lit. Thank you for the thoughts and would hope one day to meet someone as you in RL.

C

I do agree that it's probably fear that makes a lot of men say 'no' to the act, or the idea of it. I've had men say straight out to me that their anus is for exit...not entry. Hypocritically enough, they want anal sex from a woman. I don't generally even become intimate with those. With me, no means no, which stands on both sides.

As far as toying a bit prior to pouncing...I enjoy a little game of cat and willing mouse...<smile>. My history with meeting men (and it hasn't been many- don't get the message that I fuck every man that approaches me with legs spread) desiring strap on has been mostly online. I am usually drawn to the ones that have been dying for it forever and through communication, I can tell if they'd be a good candidate for my time. I don't want my time wasted and in the same platform, I give enough communication that they know that they won't be disappointed either.

I had this one guy that 'found me' and we began discussing the fantasy, not 'a' fantasy..the fantasy of being 'taken'. We talked for quite some time. Some chats let to him having the most raging of erections because I was on this end of my computer driving him crazy. Then we met face to face and that made things much worse for him as he now had a visual. Some making out and touching let him I know I knew my way around a mans body. He said that 'I really know how to handle a man's cock'. I already have confidence, but that comment was nice validation!

His mind was going nuts in the coming weeks and months with our e-mails, chats, innuendo's, (this all transpired over about a 6 month period), the build up was delicious for the both of us. I was delicious for me as I love to tease and it was for him as he knew the result would be something he so deeply desired. He was patient but he knew that for him, the prize was huge.

One day he was fixing something on my car, (and I made reference to this in an earlier post- not sure if it was this particular strap on thread or my other favorite) and while he was bent into the trunk and reaching, I stepped up behind him and dry fucked his ass in his mechanic coverall as he was bent into the car. That drove him crazy. We had done some making out, some touching at this point in our 'relationship' but never suggestive actions such as that. That day was not a day that either of us had time to do anything other than a a very small bit of kissing and he had to live with that memory/feeling for a little bit before we could get the time to carry on. This was not one of the guys that wanted to be dominated, it was just erotic strap on loving and I gave him something to remember indeed.

So the tease...and the pounce, carefully crafted, can be quite the event in the end. Many men approach me through private message means are impatient, crude, disrespectful, and not in my area, not even close candidates. I don't travel. I'm not available to casual first time meeting fantasy making. Maybe another point in time perhaps.

I guess when I have decided to engage a man...you can say he'd been truly "intrigued".

 

[EnglishGuy1982]

I do agree that it's probably fear that makes a lot of men say 'no' to the act, or the idea of it. I've had men say straight out to me that their anus is for exit...not entry. Hypocritically enough, they want anal sex from a woman. I don't generally even become intimate with those. With me, no means no, which stands on both sides.

As far as toying a bit prior to pouncing...I enjoy a little game of cat and willing mouse...<smile>. My history with meeting men (and it hasn't been many- don't get the message that I fuck every man that approaches me with legs spread) desiring strap on has been mostly online. I am usually drawn to the ones that have been dying for it forever and through communication, I can tell if they'd be a good candidate for my time. I don't want my time wasted and in the same platform, I give enough communication that they know that they won't be disappointed either.

I had this one guy that 'found me' and we began discussing the fantasy, not 'a' fantasy..the fantasy of being 'taken'. We talked for quite some time. Some chats let to him having the most raging of erections because I was on this end of my computer driving him crazy. Then we met face to face and that made things much worse for him as he now had a visual. Some making out and touching let him I know I knew my way around a mans body. He said that 'I really know how to handle a man's cock'. I already have confidence, but that comment was nice validation!

His mind was going nuts in the coming weeks and months with our e-mails, chats, innuendo's, (this all transpired over about a 6 month period), the build up was delicious for the both of us. I was delicious for me as I love to tease and it was for him as he knew the result would be something he so deeply desired. He was patient but he knew that for him, the prize was huge.

One day he was fixing something on my car, (and I made reference to this in an earlier post- not sure if it was this particular strap on thread or my other favorite) and while he was bent into the trunk and reaching, I stepped up behind him and dry fucked his ass in his mechanic coverall as he was bent into the car. That drove him crazy. We had done some making out, some touching at this point in our 'relationship' but never suggestive actions such as that. That day was not a day that either of us had time to do anything other than a a very small bit of kissing and he had to live with that memory/feeling for a little bit before we could get the time to carry on. This was not one of the guys that wanted to be dominated, it was just erotic strap on loving and I gave him something to remember indeed.

So the tease...and the pounce, carefully crafted, can be quite the event in the end. Many men approach me through private message means are impatient, crude, disrespectful, and not in my area, not even close candidates. I don't travel. I'm not available to casual first time meeting fantasy making. Maybe another point in time perhaps.

I guess when I have decided to engage a man...you can say he'd been truly "intrigued".

All I can say is that he is a very lucky guy... I would love to hear the rest of the story....

 

[billc393]

So the tease...and the pounce, carefully crafted, can be quite the event in the end. Many men approach me through private message means are impatient, crude, disrespectful, and not in my area, not even close candidates. I don't travel. I'm not available to casual first time meeting fantasy making. Maybe another point in time perhaps.

I guess when I have decided to engage a man...you can say he'd been truly "intrigued".

@MissIntrigue...

The tease, that dance you described so well, can be as good as the actual event!

I've never really understood the interest in just 'bending over' for some NSA, hardly know the other person, strapon sex... it's in the intimacy for me, for certain. I want to know her, know that what she's doing to me, is driving her as crazy with lust as it's driving me... Then again, casual sex always left me feeling pretty empty afterward, that's probably why it doesn't interest me.

Those lucky individuals who've been "intrigued" should be thanking the cosmos they had that opportunity!