Strap-on experiences

[mannishboy]

well, she got into a pretty good rhythm but she was getting tired so she went real slow , pumping me which felt fantastic.. the guy knelt of the bed and brought his cock closer as he must have seen how much i liked it and he held it out as I starting really licking it . He liked it as well and began putting his hand behind my head and slowly pulling my mouth down further.. Then back up.. I was having a hard time breathing to be honest so I tried going slow which helped plus I really found out how much I liked it .. When she saw my head start to bob up and down , she picked up her pace and I pushed back onto the strap-on.. it felt very good...

I'm starting to feel good reading this...

 

[PolyLvr]

My wife did me this morning with a strapon. We don't do it enough so I have a hard time with the size sometimes. I felt soooo goood, though.
When we were done I did her with a Hitachi Magic Wand. She really gets off on playing with my ass, so the Magic Wand sent her over the edge. She left a huge wet spot on the bed, and squirted about 2 feet.

She wants to do me with a strap on while her boyfriend does her. Or do her boyfriend while he does me.

 

[silverwhisper]

jenblossoms: consider adding this page to your sig or somewhere else on your profile. and that's quite a good beginning!

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[malesapiens]

Tried it and liked it...

Early in my marriage, before I knew about submission per se, I asked my wife and she agreed to use a strapon. It was uncomfortable at first, but I..uhm.. found it amazing. She found it was not that much of a turn-on, so we eventually stopped it after a few tries. Later a woman new to domination (who had been a sub) used one on me and was hooked. At first She pumped, but later had me do the pumping--- a real turn-on for Her.

 

[neillydun]

Read this with interest. We have been using strap-ons for years. Im not gay in any way, no attraction to guys at all but just love my girl doing me with a strap-on. Even watching her with one on, moving around does it for me. The bigger the better actually. We just got a new one but i struggle to take it. Any tips (excuse the pun), its 14" long and 2.3" dia. Infact is this even possible. She gets the tip in and about 5" before i have to get her to stop. Any advice would be fantastic
cheers

 

[MissIntrigue]

Read this with interest. We have been using strap-ons for years. Im not gay in any way, no attraction to guys at all but just love my girl doing me with a strap-on. Even watching her with one on, moving around does it for me. The bigger the better actually. We just got a new one but i struggle to take it. Any tips (excuse the pun), its 14" long and 2.3" dia. Infact is this even possible. She gets the tip in and about 5" before i have to get her to stop. Any advice would be fantastic
cheers

I wonder why you'd force the issue- possibly it's your own body that's fighting you. Perhaps you were not made to stretch that big. I had a man once that his body was shaped a little differently inside and the toys just wouldn't go past a certain point because of his turns and twists. Or at least that's what we came to decide.

If you've tried consistently, which would be the key...and couldn't, then possibly it may remain a fantasy to accommodate it. It took me three days in a row, with persistence and one man to take his fist once. It was my first time but after that day, if it didn't work, I wasn't going to push it again. I haven't had someone I could trust in that way again so it was an experience.

Good luck and do keep us posted.

 

[amylin456]

Early in my marriage, before I knew about submission per se, I asked my wife and she agreed to use a strapon. It was uncomfortable at first, but I..uhm.. found it amazing. She found it was not that much of a turn-on, so we eventually stopped it after a few tries. Later a woman new to domination (who had been a sub) used one on me and was hooked. At first She pumped, but later had me do the pumping--- a real turn-on for Her.

That sounds very very hot

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

I wonder why you'd force the issue- possibly it's your own body that's fighting you. Perhaps you were not made to stretch that big. I had a man once that his body was shaped a little differently inside and the toys just wouldn't go past a certain point because of his turns and twists. Or at least that's what we came to decide.

If you've tried consistently, which would be the key...and couldn't, then possibly it may remain a fantasy to accommodate it. It took me three days in a row, with persistence and one man to take his fist once. It was my first time but after that day, if it didn't work, I wasn't going to push it again. I haven't had someone I could trust in that way again so it was an experience.

Good luck and do keep us posted.

Good, solid advice as always Miss Intrigue. My wife started playing with my ass using a small vibrator I had bought her, and we slowly worked up to a vibrating realistic version that's about 7 inches long with a 2 inch diameter. That's as big as I'm interested in, I've no desire for anything bigger. She loves using her strapon on me once or twice a month and it feels amazing. She ends up squirting until the bed is soaked and I end up with one of those "my-life-is-flashing-before-my-eyes" orgasms that I still feel the next morning.

 

[milkempls]

my first experience is cuming this weekend with a lady i know she has used a dildo and vibes but now she wants to ream me so wooo hoooo hurry up saturday

 

[Hardon4u21]

I wonder why you'd force the issue- possibly it's your own body that's fighting you. Perhaps you were not made to stretch that big. I had a man once that his body was shaped a little differently inside and the toys just wouldn't go past a certain point because of his turns and twists. Or at least that's what we came to decide.

If you've tried consistently, which would be the key...and couldn't, then possibly it may remain a fantasy to accommodate it. It took me three days in a row, with persistence and one man to take his fist once. It was my first time but after that day, if it didn't work, I wasn't going to push it again. I haven't had someone I could trust in that way again so it was an experience.

Good luck and do keep us posted.

MissIntrigue - If your picture is of you. I would like to bend over for you and let you give it to me. I have never had a strap on experience, but I've fantasized about it.

 

[PolyLvr]

I wonder why you'd force the issue- possibly it's your own body that's fighting you. Perhaps you were not made to stretch that big. I had a man once that his body was shaped a little differently inside and the toys just wouldn't go past a certain point because of his turns and twists. Or at least that's what we came to decide.

If you've tried consistently, which would be the key...and couldn't, then possibly it may remain a fantasy to accommodate it. It took me three days in a row, with persistence and one man to take his fist once. It was my first time but after that day, if it didn't work, I wasn't going to push it again. I haven't had someone I could trust in that way again so it was an experience.

Good luck and do keep us posted.

I think I'm like that, somewhat. We can work up to a good size diameter, but the length is an issue for me. Even her smallest one hurts if she thrusts too hard.
One time though, we sat on a bed facing each other with our legs overlapping. I laid back and she worked one end of a double ender into me. Then she laid back and put the other end into her pussy. With her using a vibe, and me jerking off, we both had tremendous orgasms.
Maybe it's not just the length of the toy, but the position your body is in. Trying a different position may help.

 

[amylin456]

I think I'm like that, somewhat. We can work up to a good size diameter, but the length is an issue for me. Even her smallest one hurts if she thrusts too hard.
One time though, we sat on a bed facing each other with our legs overlapping. I laid back and she worked one end of a double ender into me. Then she laid back and put the other end into her pussy. With her using a vibe, and me jerking off, we both had tremendous orgasms.
Maybe it's not just the length of the toy, but the position your body is in. Trying a different position may help.

Many positions will aid in how much you can take.. but there is a limit. if you are not comfortable, then stop at that point.. it isnt how much you can take- it should be on how good it makes you feel. It's not a contest..
All just in my humble opinion..

 

[CoupleFromOhio]

Still waiting

I am still waiting for my first strap on experience with my wife. I want my first time to be perfect so we are looking for the best strap on equipment.

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

I am still waiting for my first strap on experience with my wife. I want my first time to be perfect so we are looking for the best strap on equipment.

Just some advice... I wouldn't wait for everything to be "perfect." We've tried several different strapons including small ones, realistic ones and the Feeldoe. Ultimately you'll have to try several before you find what's best for you and your partner and you'll need to experience different types to figure out what works best for you and your wife.

We thought the Feeldoe was the best for months... then we tried a realistic looking, vibrating strapon with a jaguar harness and my wife likes it much better than the Feeldoe, in fact, she comes harder using using the realistic we have... even though I would have thought the Feeldoe would have been best.

 

[Ateam311]

Just some advice... I wouldn't wait for everything to be "perfect." We've tried several different strapons including small ones, realistic ones and the Feeldoe. Ultimately you'll have to try several before you find what's best for you and your partner and you'll need to experience different types to figure out what works best for you and your wife.

We thought the Feeldoe was the best for months... then we tried a realistic looking, vibrating strapon with a jaguar harness and my wife likes it much better than the Feeldoe, in fact, she comes harder using using the realistic we have... even though I would have thought the Feeldoe would have been best.

Any idea which strapon you got after the Feeldoe?

 

[playingsneakily]

note...

Any idea which strapon you got after the Feeldoe?

you might still want a good harness... but there is a realistic feeldoe now (realdoe, but you have to know where to go...)

I'm thinking the 'doe with a harness and a good cock ring vibe for her is a good fit....

 

[pokiehontas]

Wow! The personal experiences shared here are so intense, and I envy the ladies who have tried dominating their partners with a strap on. After seeing consecutive pegging videos and reading about them, I have been curious about how it feels to dominate with a strap on. Unfortunately, no matter how I plead, my current bf won't allow it for he thinks of it as gay (no offense intended). Though he pleases me in other ways, I really want to try this. Anyone got any advice on how to make him succumb to this new fantasy of mine? I don't want us to fight over this but my curiosity is killing me. I don't want to end up cheating on him just to have it fulfilled.

 

[escriterra]

Wow! The personal experiences shared here are so intense, and I envy the ladies who have tried dominating their partners with a strap on. After seeing consecutive pegging videos and reading about them, I have been curious about how it feels to dominate with a strap on. Unfortunately, no matter how I plead, my current bf won't allow it for he thinks of it as gay (no offense intended). Though he pleases me in other ways, I really want to try this. Anyone got any advice on how to make him succumb to this new fantasy of mine? I don't want us to fight over this but my curiosity is killing me. I don't want to end up cheating on him just to have it fulfilled.

The lady's lust to take her man with a strapon, to experience the psychological as well as well the intense physical thrill, to discover what it's like to be the one to gaze in fascination as she observes her partner being the one to receive what she slides into him -- that powerfully erotic theme is a favorite activity in which my characters indulge themselves. You may enjoy discovering their various approaches to reaching the point where the woman, eager and aroused beyond measure, has positioned the end of her strapon at the entrance of her male's surrendered opening and then enters him, finding it every bit as erotic and mind-bending a trip as she had imagined. His groans and intense orgasm indicate he, too, takes pleasure in having his woman play the role of the penetrator.

The stories, I hope, emphasize the loving approach between partners that still maintains all the intensity of the anticipation, the sexual excitement and pleasure, and the incredible rush of erotic pleasure that strapon man-fucking provides to both the lady and her man. Lead your boyfriend along with gentle caresses of his opening while his cock is in your mouth. Tell him how masculine, how sexy his naked ass looks and that it turns you on so much you can't keep your hands off him and his glorious butt. Play out some sexy scenarios in other roles so it's clear that game-playing itself gets you hot and culminates with pleasurable orgasms for you both.

Then whisper to him that you're dying to have your finger inside him when he comes because feeling the spasms of his gripping hole that match the pumping spurts of cum from his hard cock will drive you insane with lust.

It will be a hot, intense, erotic step that will go a long way toward being able to ultimately order him into position, chest down and ass up, and let him know that you are about to fuck him deep and slow in a way that will give you the pleasure he is meant to provide with his cute little bottom as your personal plaything.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

Unfortunately, no matter how I plead, my current bf won't allow it for he thinks of it as gay (no offense intended).

You may went to discuss with him and mention that if pegging were "gay" because it's similar to anal sex performed by homosexual males, then so are blowjobs (them gays do it). Additionally, he can't eat you out anymore because that's gay; all those lesbians do it. Hell, he can't finger you either.

I know it's a bit extreme, but an honest talk about how the only way he would be gay is if he enjoyed having sex with other men. You can leave out all of the cocksucking that some couples do when the guy gets pegged and use a less realistic dildo.

 

[ladyJ154]

thought about it...

i think i would like the experience...its just not presented itself yet..maybe one day..lol

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

Any idea which strapon you got after the Feeldoe?

(Adam-Eve-Adams-Vibrating-Natural - 8" X 2")

A word of warning... the one we use pretty big. It has a 2 inch diameter but the vibration is so strong and feels so good, that with enough lube it's perfect for us. And my wife will usually cum two or three times from using it on me even though there is nothing inserted into her (like the Feeldoe).

We use it with a leather jaquar harness, the vibrator fits into the harness between the suction cup and balls.

The problem with the Feeldoe was not the look but the very, very weak vibration. Most reviews across the web seem to agree with that negative on an otherwise good product. But the negative is a very strong negative.

When I have more time I'll try to post more details from this weekend, I was absolutely pounded for 30 minutes before I pounded her with my cock... I don't know if I've ever cum harder... it was 75 minutes of one of the greatest nights ever.

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

You may went to discuss with him and mention that if pegging were "gay" because it's similar to anal sex performed by homosexual males, then so are blowjobs (them gays do it). Additionally, he can't eat you out anymore because that's gay; all those lesbians do it. Hell, he can't finger you either.

I know it's a bit extreme, but an honest talk about how the only way he would be gay is if he enjoyed having sex with other men. You can leave out all of the cocksucking that some couples do when the guy gets pegged and use a less realistic dildo.

I honestly and truly don't care what others think... but there is nothing "gay" about sexual contact between a man and a woman. That is absolutely ridiculous.

Personally, for me, men don't interest me. I don't find them attractive at all. I'm gratefully women find us men attractive. If I found men attractive I would have explored that. As it is, I find women attractive and I enjoy strapon play on various levels, both physical and emotional. Before or after strapon play I've never wished a real man was involved. But that's just me.

Irregardless of my personal feelings, sexual contact between a man and a woman can not be gay anymore than 2 lesbian women using a strapon makes them heterosexual.

 

[Moguard]

My fantasy with this is less of a domination anyways, when I think of it, the fantasy is a sensual one, between two loving partners. The image of a woman using a strap-on on me, in a sensual loving way is as hot as it gets for me.

 

[MissIntrigue]

My fantasy with this is less of a domination anyways, when I think of it, the fantasy is a sensual one, between two loving partners. The image of a woman using a strap-on on me, in a sensual loving way is as hot as it gets for me.

I've done this act in this manner as well as Domming and it's quite the experience to share as well.

I have to wonder if Domination came about so that a man could feel as if he was really being taken to justify the 'gay' that people put with anal sex with men.

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

We're not into any strong domination and there's no degradation. We have no interest in me dressing up like a girl in any way shape or form. For us, it's just exploring aspects of our sexuality and our bodies.

The main difference is that when a strapon is involved, she's much more aggressive from a "smack my ass and make me beg for it" type of way... which is awesome. With a strapon she's much more in control and orchestrating what goes on in bed. Before we started using a strapon I was in control almost all of the time. Reversing those roles has been great, the pinnacle was last Saturday when she had be begging for every little thing she was doing to me.

She was always a little aggressive... but as we've tried different things and explored... she's become much more aggressive... and that's helped take our sexual lives from awesome to a whole new level.