A Genuine Question about the S/M Life

It makes us kind and generous, even to insecure pieces of shit like yourself.

Buh-bye, my scuttling little wannabe.

Again, "La Rocha" "La Racha" "LaRocha" "LaRacha" do not mean "The Roach" in any language, in any way. Fucking you people need to learn about other cultures and languages, you sound like retards.
 
3113, your story Down to the Bone gave me a super boner. I liked when he fingerbanged her in the library. I'm gonna try it out with this girl I have to read MacBeth with. She's real nerdy, but she has a real nice body.
I like you better when you're like this-- not trying to be something you aren't. Just another schlub.
 
Really though, Mexico isn't some mysterious place like Nepal or something, it's all around you if you live west of the mississippi and south of colorado.

StellaOmega, I can't find your stories. Would I retain a softy while reading (in your boner inducing estimation) your work?
 
I guess that answers that question. :rolleyes:

TxRad, I don't get what your story "Booty Pirate" has to do with those porno vhs tapes my dad hides in his closet. Your Seymore Butts is nothing like that guy who does all those ladies in the behind, aside from the anal. I'm talking character development.
 
Atta boy! When embarrassed, lift your leg. Pee on the carpet. That'll show 'em who's boss!
 
My favorite porn movie was THE ANALYST.

My favorite porno has these two super nice looking Brazilian girls and one tranny. These girls are hot, but the tranny sort of ruins it. I mean tranny's are fine, but I don't like seeing dicks. I'd like trannys more if they had vaginas and not wingwangs.
 
I was in second period psychology today when my teacher was talking about co-dependence. I'm like, "WTF, Ms. Hayes, aren't Submissives and Dominants in the BDSM lifestyle the apotheosis of co-dependency?"

She's like, "LaRocha, don't say 'wtf' in class, and I'm not sure what you mean, I'll have to look it up and get back to you."

So now I'm thinking, "Oh, shit, what if Ms. Hayes learns about BDSM and wants to get into it." So I spent the rest of the day imagining Ms. Hayes getting in bondage clothing and stepping on Mr. Hayes' gentile genitals. Ms. Hayes looks hot for an old thirty-five year-old lady. I'd buy her VHS tapes if the Hayes' decided to distribute their new found sub/dom relationship.

This co-dependency, I never heard of it before. I think it means people can't function in their daily lives without the approval and guidance of another person. Usually people who are co-dependent don't think much of themselves, like they can't have their own unique existence and accept the responsibility of being supremely free. The fear of responsibility and freedom over the fear of God, cuz at least if you're afraid of God you're afraid of something and not nothing(Heideggerian 'no-thing') We learn about Heidegger in our Hitler and the Holocaust class. Heidegger was a Nazi, obviously, and we learn about all the Nazis.
 
I was in second period psychology today when my teacher was talking about co-dependence. I'm like, "WTF, Ms. Hayes, aren't Submissives and Dominants in the BDSM lifestyle the apotheosis of co-dependency?"

She's like, "LaRocha, don't say 'wtf' in class, and I'm not sure what you mean, I'll have to look it up and get back to you."

So now I'm thinking, "Oh, shit, what if Ms. Hayes learns about BDSM and wants to get into it." So I spent the rest of the day imagining Ms. Hayes getting in bondage clothing and stepping on Mr. Hayes' gentile genitals. Ms. Hayes looks hot for an old thirty-five year-old lady. I'd buy her VHS tapes if the Hayes' decided to distribute their new found sub/dom relationship.

This co-dependency, I never heard of it before. I think it means people can't function in their daily lives without the approval and guidance of another person. Usually people who are co-dependent don't think much of themselves, like they can't have their own unique existence and accept the responsibility of being supremely free. The fear of responsibility and freedom over the fear of God, cuz at least if you're afraid of God you're afraid of something and not nothing(Heideggerian 'no-thing') We learn about Heidegger in our Hitler and the Holocaust class. Heidegger was a Nazi, obviously, and we learn about all the Nazis.

I don't think your Ms Hayes really explained co-dependency very well to you. You should maybe either pay better attention or switch classes so you get a better teacher.
 
LA COCKAROCHA

Co-dependency is a word that means 'co-operation'. Back about 1980 it was an awful way to be because its antithetical to self-absorption and navel-gazing.
 
In fact, I agree with you on this.

I fell outta my chair!

But it really is true; we're all interdependent and no one is an island. Plus each of us brings different stuff to a relationship, and the combined resources make life easier for us.
 
I fell outta my chair!

But it really is true; we're all interdependent and no one is an island. Plus each of us brings different stuff to a relationship, and the combined resources make life easier for us.

Codependency or Codependence is a tendency to behave in ways that negatively impact one's relationships and quality of life. This behavior may be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, compliance, and/or control patterns.

In the early 80s codependency became linked to being the spouse/enabler of an alcoholic.
 
Codependency or Codependence is a tendency to behave in ways that negatively impact one's relationships and quality of life. This behavior may be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, compliance, and/or control patterns.

In the early 80s codependency became linked to being the spouse/enabler of an alcoholic.

which isn't any more relevant to bdsm relationships than vanilla ones...
I fell outta my chair!

But it really is true; we're all interdependent and no one is an island. Plus each of us brings different stuff to a relationship, and the combined resources make life easier for us.
interdependency isn't the same as co-dependency, but yeah... that self obsession from the 80s was vile.
 
Did Stella and JBJ just agree on something?
Did pigs start flying?

w00t:D

Oh, and ya think someone who has been on lit for six years and is still in HS can be excluded for being either too young or too stupid?
 
I fell outta my chair!

But it really is true; we're all interdependent and no one is an island. Plus each of us brings different stuff to a relationship, and the combined resources make life easier for us.
:eek:

Who are you, and what have you done with jbj?
 
A horrific example, but was the cannibal a sadist? He wasn't into pain as he gave the victim alcohol and pain killers (not saying they did the job, but he seemed to want to dull the pain, not intensify it). I don't think he even meant to horrify his victim with what he did to them, as he was looking for a willing victim who would not be horrified, who would go along with it.

To my way of thinking, if he was a true sadist, he would have wanted to keep the lover alive and around to torture, to hear screams of pain, crying and seeing the fear in his/her victim. That is what sadists usually get off on. All this guy seemed to want (grotesquely done, we'll grant) is to have someone literally give themselves to him to be consumed.

On the other side, however, I would label guy who agreed to be consumed a masochist.

I guess he wouldn't be a sadist if he didn't want his partner to feel too much pain. The world assumes the man that was eaten received sexual gratification from being eaten, but we don't really know if he got turned on by the pain itself. I think he died pretty quickly, it wasn't quite the drawn out ritual both hoped for. So we should take away the s and m factor from this relationship because we don't have enough information.

On the other hand, I've been following this thread since and it looks like separating s and m and submission and domination is the thing to talk about. I think from what the living cannibal says we do know that the act was a sexual act, for he and his victim. So, it might be better to say that this event was the ultimate in submission and domination, the total consumption of another human being. Instead of the relationship being 90% symbolic and 10% physical in terms of a normal D/S pairing, it might be only 10% symbolic and an almost complete act of physical domination.

So instead of saying that this resembles the ultimate s and m experience, we could say it resembles the ultimate submission and domination of two consenting adults.
 
:eek:

Who are you, and what have you done with jbj?

Weird isnt it?

I was nice to Psycho Bitch the other day; her Life Partner fled with a guy and married him! So she's upset and assaulted me outside for some comfort. I didnt immediately beat her with a stick, now everyone thinks I've evolved into Fred Rogers or lost my mind.
 
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