Isolated Blurt Thread

[impressive]

Yep... just like if you're not careful, you'll start looking "frumpy" and not even realize it. You just think you're being comfy.

Sooooooooooooo true. Comfy is easy & convenient. Sexy takes effort. Of course, when the clothes come off, so does the frumpy.

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

Sooooooooooooo true. Comfy is easy & convenient. Sexy takes effort. Of course, when the clothes come off, so does the frumpy.

I so wish I could post video clips of How I met your Mother from last night.

ted: what pose did you go with?

lily: I went with " I have tits "

its funnier if you see the whole episode, but does highlight the difference between men and women and what is sexy.

 

[kimbalee]

I so wish I could post video clips of How I met your Mother from last night.

ted: what pose did you go with?

lily: I went with " I have tits "

its funnier if you see the whole episode, but does highlight the difference between men and women and what is sexy.

gotta say, I freakin' loved it! LMAO!

fave was Barney doing the "Tom Selleck" pose. HAHAHAH!!!

although... I also rather enjoyed "The Thinker," and of course, "The Captain" lol and "Superman" is always a given.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

God, I love sushi!

 

[rgraham666]

Not much point to it.

 

[Bran_Hopewell]

I was just informed that eggnog is not easy to clean out of a keyboard.

My bad.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Not much point to it.

To what?

 

[rgraham666]

Flirting, chasing women, relationships. The whole schlemiel.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Flirting, chasing women, relationships. The whole schlemiel.

Don't give up, man. Just because so many women are shallow (as are so many men, of course), doesn't mean that it's hopeless. You always have hope until you're six feet under.

Just thought I'd encourage you a bit.

 

[rgraham666]

Don't give up, man. Just because so many women are shallow (as are so many men, of course), doesn't mean that it's hopeless. You always have hope until you're six feet under.

Just thought I'd encourage you a bit.

It's not hopeless. But it is on the order of winning the lottery.

Anyway, my subconscious has given up. It's been months since I looked at a woman and gotten that little twinge of anticipation I used to feel.

Without that, why bother?

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

It's not hopeless. But it is on the order of winning the lottery.

Anyway, my subconscious has given up. It's been months since I looked at a woman and gotten that little twinge of anticipation I used to feel.

Without that, why bother?

Here's hoping that you get it back. Oddly enough, I know what it's to be convinced that it wouldn't happen in the long-term sense. I was that way for a long time. At a much younger age, yes, but still I know the hard, cold sense that it would never happen. It tended to make me jaded about women for quite a while.

 

[Belegon]

It's not hopeless. But it is on the order of winning the lottery.

Anyway, my subconscious has given up. It's been months since I looked at a woman and gotten that little twinge of anticipation I used to feel.

Without that, why bother?

Dude.

I've said this to you before, I'm sure. But if I haven't...

How you feel about your chances affects your chances. How you feel about yourself affects your presentation.

The old line about confidence being sexy is true. Who wants to be with someone who doesn't want to be with themself? Of course, stuck in that negative mindset, you'll probably either get mad at me for slamming on you or start a list of WHY you wouldn't want to be with yourself.

But how you feel when you look in the mirror is available to other people. They feel it, they see it...they sense it somehow.

And those emotions are under your control. Even if you think they are not. Sure, there are medical states which may affect how much you can change them. I'm aware of that. But affect them a little, if that's all you can. And then build on that success.

And the emotional crosses over. When I was forty pounds heavier, I wasn't happy or excited about the way I looked. When I decided to change that...for ME, not for others... I began too feel better about myself. Which led to me getting compliments. Which I took to heart instead of dismissing as people "being nice." Which motivated me to keep improving myself.

There are things you can do. For the emotional, it requires some mental discipline. Don't talk down about yourself. Only accent your positives. And that's for you, not us. We know your positives. We like you, more than you like you I often believe.

For the physical, which may be less important to you but will have a positive effect on both others and YES on your own self-image... there are immense amounts of exercises you can do with nothing more than a bit of clear floorspace.

Rob, flat out. I know you are not a violent man. But I am. The way you talk about yourself? If someone else talked about my friend Rob that way, I would get in their face. And if they didn't stop, there would be violence.

But I can't kick YOUR ass to make YOU quit talking bad about you.

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

Fuck but I wish I could make her understand that one significant gift is more appreciated than 4 shitty gifts.

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

Not much point to it.

And yet I'd still be honored to be your wing man, any day, any time, any place.

 

[Chantilyvamp]

One really should not try and walk through walls no matter how small one is!But the bouncing bit is rather funny

 

[Belegon]

And yet I'd still be honored to be your wing man, any day, any time, any place.

...and Rob, least you think that my feelings about you have changed in any manner, I want to make sure I echo this sentiment of Sal's

 

[rgraham666]

Thanks guys.

 

[hmmnmm]

Meanwhile, at least one sometimes pines for the old days. Sometimes.

 

[trysail]

(Fair Use Excerpt)
16th ANNUAL BAD SEX IN FICTION AWARDS
By James Pressley

Nov. 25 (Bloomberg) -- John Updike’s sex scenes -- including a romp with a “Widows of Eastwick” witch in a beachside motel room -- won a Lifetime Achievement Award at Britain’s ever- anxiously awaited Bad Sex in Fiction Awards.

Rachel Johnson, the sister of London Mayor Boris Johnson, captured the 16th annual Bad Sex Award itself for a scene in “Shire Hell” that begins with moans and nibbles and works up to screaming and other animal noises.

Previously won by Tom Wolfe, Sebastian Faulks and Norman Mailer, the contest seeks to dishonor the author of the year’s worst sex scene. London’s monthly Literary Review inaugurated the prize in 1993 “to draw attention to the crude, tasteless, often perfunctory use of redundant passages of sexual description in the modern novel, and to discourage it.”

The judges cited Updike for his “unique achievement” after his latest novel, “The Widows of Eastwick,” garnered a fourth consecutive nomination for the prize...

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

...and Rob, least you think that my feelings about you have changed in any manner, I want to make sure I echo this sentiment of Sal's

Same here.

 

[impressive]

The is a jacuzzi jet calling my name. I can hear it...

Immmmmmmmmp! Immmmmmmmmmmmp! Sit on me, Imp!

 

[CeriseNoire]

Immmmmmmmmp! Immmmmmmmmmmmp! Sit on me, Imp!

Dirty thoughts, dirty thoughts...

Bad Cerise

 

[TheeGoatPig]

I don't like my answers to some of these questions...

 

[Vermilion]

Fuck but I wish I could make her understand that one significant gift is more appreciated than 4 shitty gifts.

'splain?

 

[Chantilyvamp]

I don't like my answers to some of these questions...

what questions? *gets nosy*