Distance Domination-Support Thread

[SubKekiLee]

Originally Posted by his_carolyn
you are right, i never even thought about how his friends and family were getting in touch with him. god how fucking stupid am i

His carolyn You are not stupid.. It is a learning experience.. My Sir and I both say he is cheating on his wife... end your relationship now although it will hurt now it will be better for you and the kids... take time to heal and recover and then seek out the true one for you.. there is someone for you I promise...

We all make mistakes... we all want things to be true...

That does not make you stupid...

MP I so AGREE with you.. Nice to see you ..

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Just giving the thread a bump

Nothing new to report here...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Originally Posted by his_carolyn
you are right, i never even thought about how his friends and family were getting in touch with him. god how fucking stupid am i

His carolyn You are not stupid.. It is a learning experience.. My Sir and I both say he is cheating on his wife... end your relationship now although it will hurt now it will be better for you and the kids... take time to heal and recover and then seek out the true one for you.. there is someone for you I promise...





MP I so AGREE with you.. Nice to see you ..

I pop by every once in a while...

To request my presence at any time just send up the MP symbol...

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[Sexualinnocent]

Master has asked me these same questions...i felt i didn't trust if i had these feelings, but Master has totally assured me of things. Master gave me the most wonderful answer, making sense...

Trust is hard for me due to the past and Master understands that. Master wants me to get out of that, and i think W/we can work it out. The feelings that i am not a good sub were not valid (true feelings, yes, but my own interpretations...which were wrong.). W/we are doing much better.

It is a poly thing, yes, but i also understand my status in the "family" so to speak.

i am much happier. But i so want to meet Master! Master has said, soon, so i Trust and believe.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I hate not knowing what is going on. I feel so helpless and I hate that feeling so much.

Plus it doesn't help that I inherited my mother's worrier mentality.

Being in a LDR...sucks.

 

[SubKekiLee]

Saying goodbye is so hard Sir always says it isnt goodbye.. it is see you later...... This am Sir left.... I wish I had gone with him now..

 

[minx1]

*hugs* to subkekilee and daddy2mylilgirl


I last saw him on the 15th March and thought I was dealing with things pretty well. We haven't been able to have much contact with eachother, though more than I thought which is good....though at the same time its difficult. I'm feeling so sensitive that I misread everything he says in his emails. We don't get the chance to talk on im, so any misunderstanding doesn't get resolved, until maybe the next email.
I'm behaving like a pain in the ass because I feel insecure. I miss talking to him properly, so very much.
He is a significant part of my life and having that restricted to this degree is so bloody difficult. I miss him so much; his strength and perspective on things, his ear and advice, his sense of humour.

I've tried my best not to dwell on what is missing and get on with all the things I have to do. There's a lot. But arranging things isn't that easy and I think I feel the distance even more than ever because he is usually such a huge support over things like this.

Still, I'm half way there, just a few more weeks and I will see him again.

 

[signorafica]

oh is o agree with all the punishment stuff -surely the ultimate in submission is to offer yourself up willingly!

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Love

Well it is slightly less than a month away from faeriefire and myselfs first meet. I have been blown away with how we have bonded. We connect on so many levels. I must be unusual as we can't get enough contact. We have several hours a day on the phone. And never seem to have enough time. Granted it's only been about a month and a half and new love. But can't see not loving her more and more each day. The sun rises and sets with her in my heart. I see expressing our love to each other the best way to build a strong foundation.

 

[00Syd]

Snoozebutton, your not so unusual. Its GREAT that you are in love. I am also in love, have been for over two years, and we STILL spend over an hour on the phone most days. My days always seem sad if I haven't talked to him before getting in bed. And still even after all this time neither of us ever wants to say goodnight.

I'm so happy for you both that you've found that love.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Snoozebutton, your not so unusual. Its GREAT that you are in love. I am also in love, have been for over two years, and we STILL spend over an hour on the phone most days. My days always seem sad if I haven't talked to him before getting in bed. And still even after all this time neither of us ever wants to say goodnight.

I'm so happy for you both that you've found that love.

I hope for a lifetime of happiness for the both of you.And let me say it's wonderful seeing a success story. I just think when in love you want all around you happy as well.

 

[00Syd]

I hope for a lifetime of happiness for the both of you.And let me say it's wonderful seeing a success story. I just think when in love you want all around you happy as well.

Well, neither of us have any idea that we're going to be together for a lifetime, we're too different But we're just trying to make each other as happy as we can, for now. All the best for you and yours...

 

[minx1]

I hope for a lifetime of happiness for the both of you.And let me say it's wonderful seeing a success story. I just think when in love you want all around you happy as well.

*smile* Unfortunately I think the nature of this thread means that you are unlikely to find 'all around you happy as well'....being separated form their PYL/pyls ya know. I think I tend to post here when I am feeling a bit blue and missing him and I think its the same for a lot of posters on here. Having said that I also post when I am feeling elated about seeing him or something similar....its a bit of an up and down thread lol

As 00syd said its not that you are different or unusual, perhaps more fortunate in that you are both able to talk to eachother more than some here can, with time differences and everyday life .... which is great.

Congratulations to you both btw.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

*hugs* to subkekilee and daddy2mylilgirl

Thanks.

As my little girl told me, nothing worth having is easy.

 

[EmpressFi]

Unless there's a small miracle..ok..semi-grand miracle... we're looking at a little less than 3 months until the next visit.

Of course we're hoping to squeeze in another visit before then, since it's been since Valentine's Day since the last visit...

There are some days where I think .. this isnt so bad.. I can see an end in sight... just the move and then to be a 4 hour drive away...

Then there are some days when I wonder how I will make it one breath to the next.

 

[00Syd]

Empress Fi, I truly respect you. You are so much stronger than I think I could ever be. I'll find myself crying in bed before I go to sleep about having to wait for three whole weeks before I see him again. And then I see so many people, so much stronger than myself, who make relationships work that I would probably have given up on a long time ago.

I hope you get to visit soon! *hugs*

 

[EmpressFi]

Empress Fi, I truly respect you. You are so much stronger than I think I could ever be. I'll find myself crying in bed before I go to sleep about having to wait for three whole weeks before I see him again. And then I see so many people, so much stronger than myself, who make relationships work that I would probably have given up on a long time ago.

I hope you get to visit soon! *hugs*

*hugs*

I'm lucky.. I have Malin... and I have constant IM windows going with him and a phone call almost every night. No, nothing takes the place of having him close. Beyond the sex and the servitude and the blowjobs and orgasms.. I'd give all of that up to just watch The Blues Brothers with him all snuggled on the couch.

but thank you..

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

There are some days where I think .. this isnt so bad.. I can see an end in sight... just the move and then to be a 4 hour drive away...

Then there are some days when I wonder how I will make it one breath to the next.

For me it changes every hour sometimes. But at the end of each day there is no doubt I want to be with her and will wait for her for as long as it takes.

Keep your head up.

 

[UK_Strawberry]

Ok so I'm pretty confused right now. Cream and I broke up June last year and whilst I'm not on top of the world I am doing ok – ish !!!!

Work is a pain in the ass and hopefully I will be moving on after my holiday (7 weeks and counting).

My reason for posting is my lack of interest in sex. Well not sex exactly – hell yes I still feel horny on a regular basis but “ordinary” sex doesn't do it for me (obviously otherwise I wouldn't be here !!!). Cream was my first (maybe only ?!) Master and when I try to imagine myself with someone else I just cant see it. How do I find another Master, someone I can trust and love – hell knows – Confused !!

Minx – glad to see you still around these parts and a special thanks for your words of wisdom when Cream and I broke up – much appreciated xx

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I hate not knowing what is going on. I feel so helpless and I hate that feeling so much.

Plus it doesn't help that I inherited my mother's worrier mentality.

Being in a LDR...sucks.

Dude...

I know that song by heart....

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Saying goodbye is so hard Sir always says it isnt goodbye.. it is see you later...... This am Sir left.... I wish I had gone with him now..

I never say good bye... we have our way of hanging up the phone with I lvoe yous and a kiss...

And the times I left, it was never good bye...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Well it is slightly less than a month away from faeriefire and myselfs first meet. I have been blown away with how we have bonded. We connect on so many levels. I must be unusual as we can't get enough contact. We have several hours a day on the phone. And never seem to have enough time. Granted it's only been about a month and a half and new love. But can't see not loving her more and more each day. The sun rises and sets with her in my heart. I see expressing our love to each other the best way to build a strong foundation.

That sounds great... and I can so relate to that feeling...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Empress Fi, I truly respect you. You are so much stronger than I think I could ever be. I'll find myself crying in bed before I go to sleep about having to wait for three whole weeks before I see him again. And then I see so many people, so much stronger than myself, who make relationships work that I would probably have given up on a long time ago.

I hope you get to visit soon! *hugs*

Its been close to a year... hopefully this summer...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

For me it changes every hour sometimes. But at the end of each day there is no doubt I want to be with her and will wait for her for as long as it takes.

Keep your head up.

OK.. are you me posting in an altered state? LOL

I can so relate to that line, but as Tom Petty says, "the waiting is the hardest part."

 

[Sexualinnocent]

Yes the waiting to meet Sir is most definitely the hardest part. He suggested a weekend and i cannot get out of work commitments no matter how hard i try....so i must wait longer.

Sigh. It's hard to keep believing, but i know that's the right thing.