Facesitting & Rough Cunnilingus

[Byakuya]

I love when my face is used for her pleasure. That alone is almost enough to get me off. Just tonight she had my head scissored between her thighs and was fucking my face hard. It hurt my head and neck but I loved it. Sometimes when she sits on my face, breathing becomes a challenge. I struggle to find opportunities to suck in air as she's sliding forward and backward. Occasionally I just can't manage to find an opportunity to breathe and I have to push her off.

My wife normally isn't all that kinky, but lately she seems to be getting more comfortable with this kink. This seems like a good opportunity to let her explore being dominant in the bedroom. I'm just wondering how I could use this to lead into other things. I thought about having my hands tied behind my back next time she sits on my face, but I'm a little worried about not being able to push her off in an emergency. She's definitely not ready for the full-blown whips, chains, and leather experience, but it seems like this is at least some progress. I want to encourage her without making her feel pressured.

 

[xxx_ellie]

have her grind on your face till she cums then wait as the cum drips down into your mouth as she pins you with her thighs and makes you drink it.

 

[bone251]

have her grind on your face till she cums then wait as the cum drips down into your mouth as she pins you with her thighs and makes you drink it.

I love it when that happens.

 

[mslv4Her]

NIce way to bring the thread back, tbck

http://www.femdomfetishblog.com/images/smn03.jpg

 

[Bandit58]

Sometimes when she sits on my face, breathing becomes a challenge. I struggle to find opportunities to suck in air as she's sliding forward and backward. Occasionally I just can't manage to find an opportunity to breathe and I have to push her off.

Have you thought about using a "safe signal"? Similar to a safe word, it lets your partner know that you need something, eg to breathe, without having to stop the action too much

My Dom and I use a system of three hand taps on His butt or thigh when I need to catch my breath during a throat fucking. He allows me to pull back, get a couple of deep breaths and then go back to the business at hand

 

[catalina_francisco]

tbck1000, this is not meant to be a pic thread so could you please just save your collection for your own PC or emailing to those who might want them instead of flooding the thread with them.

Catalina

 

[smotherman]

I love when my face is used for her pleasure. That alone is almost enough to get me off. Just tonight she had my head scissored between her thighs and was fucking my face hard. It hurt my head and neck but I loved it. Sometimes when she sits on my face, breathing becomes a challenge. I struggle to find opportunities to suck in air as she's sliding forward and backward. Occasionally I just can't manage to find an opportunity to breathe and I have to push her off.

My wife normally isn't all that kinky, but lately she seems to be getting more comfortable with this kink. This seems like a good opportunity to let her explore being dominant in the bedroom. I'm just wondering how I could use this to lead into other things. I thought about having my hands tied behind my back next time she sits on my face, but I'm a little worried about not being able to push her off in an emergency. She's definitely not ready for the full-blown whips, chains, and leather experience, but it seems like this is at least some progress. I want to encourage her without making her feel pressured.

Great thread! my fetish is facesitting/smothering! Finally another submissive guy, I thought I was the only sub guy in this community lol.

My past relationships, my ex gilfriends all tied my hands behind my back which made things more interesting. You should try that with your wife, The feeling of helplessness is just so incredible. Just take things slow with her and gradually bring her around to whips, chains etc.

Best of luck to you both!

 

[laylayum]

hmm...

Although I'm fine if a guy doesn't want me to do anything but hover over his face, I find it really amazing when he wants me to grind myself onto his face. I've never actually gotten to the point of smothering him this way, but if a guy was into it, I think I'd find it very exciting. Since I'm a squirter, I guess I'm a bit inhibited about not wanting to go too far - although there would be plenty of warning and time to back off if he wanted me to. I just don't know how to approach this subject with guys I date... but it's hot to know you're out there guys, wanting this!

 

[claydobbs]

Interesting.

 

[bone251]

Although I'm fine if a guy doesn't want me to do anything but hover over his face, I find it really amazing when he wants me to grind myself onto his face. I've never actually gotten to the point of smothering him this way, but if a guy was into it, I think I'd find it very exciting. Since I'm a squirter, I guess I'm a bit inhibited about not wanting to go too far - although there would be plenty of warning and time to back off if he wanted me to. I just don't know how to approach this subject with guys I date... but it's hot to know you're out there guys, wanting this!

With me you could approach from above, then rest you clit on my tongue while I finger your Gspot. Repeat. Repeat. More,Repeat. More,More,More,.....

 

[laylayum]

great thoughts...

With me you could approach from above, then rest you clit on my tongue while I finger your Gspot. Repeat. Repeat. More,Repeat. More,More,More,.....

You've really got me worked up, I must admit.. loved the visual you conjured up with your words!

 

[RhymeFairy]

awwww gawd, it's been toooo long.

My fella nd I had date last week and it seems an eternity. We had a great time but had both burnt the candle at both ends .... this just goes to show ya, take time, relax and go for it ... grrrrrrrrrrrr


*mmmmmmmmmm

 

[kcmlf]

Love it

My hubby and I have a set of restraints that slip under the bed and are velcro. I like to put his hands and feet in the straps, which can be taken off by him if he wishes. That allows me to sit on his face, keep his mouth busy, but allows him to get free if I smother him. I like the limbs spread out better than behind his back - allows me better access.

 

[Byakuya]

Although I'm fine if a guy doesn't want me to do anything but hover over his face, I find it really amazing when he wants me to grind myself onto his face. I've never actually gotten to the point of smothering him this way, but if a guy was into it, I think I'd find it very exciting. Since I'm a squirter, I guess I'm a bit inhibited about not wanting to go too far - although there would be plenty of warning and time to back off if he wanted me to. I just don't know how to approach this subject with guys I date... but it's hot to know you're out there guys, wanting this!

I've noticed there are actually quite a few guys who want this. It's really exciting to me when I'm having a tough time breathing, gasping for breath, but she keeps grinding away.. so intent on pleasuring herself that she ignores my predicament..

don't let squirting make you feel inhibited! my wife has "squirted" in my mouth before and I loved it! I wish it happened more often..

we recently discovered that my weight bench is great for facesitting.. She straddles my face and holds on to the bar for support.. last time we did that, she really went to town on me.. she was grinding my whole face.. rubbing her clit from my mouth to my nose.. it's perfect, except she has to be careful that she doesn't pull the 200 pound barbell off onto my head..

if smothering is the main goal, I've found that it's a lot more difficult to breathe in a reverse facesitting position.. when her pussy is in my mouth and my nose is in her ass.. if she isn't leaning forward slightly, I can't breathe at all in that position..

I've been thinking about buying one of these so she gets some penetration while she's riding my face.. anyone ever use one of those?

 

[laylayum]

I've seen one...

I've noticed there are actually quite a few guys who want this. It's really exciting to me when I'm having a tough time breathing, gasping for breath, but she keeps grinding away.. so intent on pleasuring herself that she ignores my predicament..

don't let squirting make you feel inhibited! my wife has "squirted" in my mouth before and I loved it! I wish it happened more often..

we recently discovered that my weight bench is great for facesitting.. She straddles my face and holds on to the bar for support.. last time we did that, she really went to town on me.. she was grinding my whole face.. rubbing her clit from my mouth to my nose.. it's perfect, except she has to be careful that she doesn't pull the 200 pound barbell off onto my head..

if smothering is the main goal, I've found that it's a lot more difficult to breathe in a reverse facesitting position.. when her pussy is in my mouth and my nose is in her ass.. if she isn't leaning forward slightly, I can't breathe at all in that position..

I've been thinking about buying one of these so she gets some penetration while she's riding my face.. anyone ever use one of those?

But since I've really never completely done any "true" facesitting, I have not experienced one. It looks like it would be fun, though, and from what you've shared, it seems like something your wife would really love. You'll have to keep me posted as to whether you end up getting and using one.

The weight bench sounds like a perfect place for facesitting... and many other activities... the possibilities are endless there as opposed to more restrictive surfaces!

 

[Byakuya]

The weight bench sounds like a perfect place for facesitting... and many other activities... the possibilities are endless there as opposed to more restrictive surfaces!

yeah, the weight bench is really cool! lots of bondage possibilities.. my hands could be tied underneath, or up by my head.. and my feet could be bound down below by the leg-lift.. we haven't really used it for bondage yet, but I'm hoping to try it soon..

it also has a curl apparatus at the other end which is great for fucking because she holds onto it when she's riding my cock while facing away from me..

the main bar is the perfect height for her to hold on to while she's riding my face.. she has complete control over how much weight she puts down.. her feet are free to touch the ground on either side of my head, so she can apply as much or as little pressure as she desires..

it seems like it was designed for sex..

 

[midevo8]

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[mickyp123]

Okey Dokey

well that told you.......

i like em though,

Used as a form of power exchange, the thought is quite erotic, and just keep pushing the envelope and limits...

 

[DeservingBitch]

Speaking as a Fdom, facesitting is as much about dominating a guy and using him for my pleasure as doing his laundry naked is (no offense to those with a laundry fetish).

 

[mickyp123]

Speaking as a Fdom, facesitting is as much about dominating a guy and using him for my pleasure as doing his laundry naked is (no offense to those with a laundry fetish).

Cool, i think with facesitting though, it's a little bit more carnal, maybe more so if the Domme keeps eye contact and remains aloof.


Clothed, or naked and would your own mood change the scenario?

 

[Alt]

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=494711&page=102

 

[DeservingBitch]

Cool, i think with facesitting though, it's a little bit more carnal, maybe more so if the Domme keeps eye contact and remains aloof.


Clothed, or naked and would your own mood change the scenario?

Something seems to be getting lost in the translation.

What I'm saying is that from my perspective, facesitting or queening as nothing to do with domination or using a msub for my pleasure. It's about catering to the msub fantasy. Nothing wrong about it if it gets you wet.

But in my book, being pleasured shouldn't mean painful and uncomfortable gymnastic. How am I supposed to enjoy having my cunt eaten out -- let alone cum -- if it means squating and keeping my attention focused on not asphyxiating the guy under me? Way to ruin oral sex.

 

[BiBunny]

Something seems to be getting lost in the translation.

What I'm saying is that from my perspective, facesitting or queening as nothing to do with domination or using a msub for my pleasure. It's about catering to the msub fantasy. Nothing wrong about it if it gets you wet.

But in my book, being pleasured shouldn't mean painful and uncomfortable gymnastic. How am I supposed to enjoy having my cunt eaten out -- let alone cum -- if it means squating and keeping my attention focused on not asphyxiating the guy under me? Way to ruin oral sex.

Jesus, I'm so glad you said that. I knew I couldn't be the only chick in the whole world who feels that way about it. If I'm going to enjoy having my cunt licked, I'm going to be lying on my back, and he's going to be lying between my legs. If I want to smother the guy, I'm going to put a plastic bag over his head or something. No sense in trying to combine the two into some kind of male sub jack-off fantasy.

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

I can't imagine doing this, I think I would feel too self conscious.

And I think my submissiveness prevents me from finding this too appealing, but if it was what HE wanted then of course I would do my best to please him.

However, I'd love to find myself in the situation where he ordered a lady to fuck my face.... but then this just fits in with what has been said already - this is catering to my fantasy more than the needs of the person that is sat on my face.

 

[mickyp123]

I can't imagine doing this, I think I would feel too self conscious.

And I think my submissiveness prevents me from finding this too appealing, but if it was what HE wanted then of course I would do my best to please him.

However, I'd love to find myself in the situation where he ordered a lady to fuck my face.... but then this just fits in with what has been said already - this is catering to my fantasy more than the needs of the person that is sat on my face.

All the more fun to make you sit and watch as another sub has your fantasy done to her, once or twice...