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Imagine, if you will, a conversation like this.

Him: Hi how are you?
Me: Hi
Him: Let's chat!
Me: Ok
Him: I want to chain you in my dungeon and assfuck you until you beg me to stop
Me: [silence]
Him: WHY ARE YOU GHOSTING ME?

As soon as the convo goes weird or dark or creepy, or in any way makes me uneasy, I'm out. And I don't owe anybody an explanation.
 
Villainesse said:
Imagine, if you will, a conversation like this.

Him: Hi how are you?
Me: Hi
Him: Let's chat!
Me: Ok
Him: I want to chain you in my dungeon and assfuck you until you beg me to stop
Me: [silence]
Him: WHY ARE YOU GHOSTING ME?

As soon as the convo goes weird or dark or creepy, or in any way makes me uneasy, I'm out. And I don't owe anybody an explanation.
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Absolutely. I am sorry if that's what other people do to ladies on here
 
Villainesse said:
Imagine, if you will, a conversation like this.

Him: Hi how are you?
Me: Hi
Him: Let's chat!
Me: Ok
Him: I want to chain you in my dungeon and assfuck you until you beg me to stop
Me: [silence]
Him: WHY ARE YOU GHOSTING ME?

As soon as the convo goes weird or dark or creepy, or in any way makes me uneasy, I'm out. And I don't owe anybody an explanation.
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Some people think that is being dom, sadly.
 
Seems like more and more women like to ghost people on here.you can talk for awhile and have a connection then poof they are gone
 
Ghosting here is terrible.
1.) Profiles are very specific and to the point: "I don't want you to say hello" - So you want to be treated terrible? I don't get that. I would rather be nice up front so you don't have to deal with the douche that you complain sends dick pics off the bat that you don't want.
2.) I would rather have a "I'm not interested" DM vs nothing. Be honest, it doesn't hurt.
3.) Tell people you are talking to 15+ DM's. Nothing worse than 20-30 minutes between messages, when everyone can see you are online, and you keep going, where are they?

Signed, Continually Frustrated (Is it that I'm getting older? Sigh.)
 
I get several "Ladies" wanting to chat with me...supposedly ladies? I have no idea if they are ladies, and what they want but I know it isnt the same thing that I'want.
I suppose in a way I ghost them...I'm an old man, and I am here for sexual titillation only. I'm not here for the weather or to talk about work, and I wont send money.
I enjoy talking to anyone about sex...
 
TheOne007 said:
Ghosting here is terrible.
1.) Profiles are very specific and to the point: "I don't want you to say hello" - So you want to be treated terrible? I don't get that. I would rather be nice up front so you don't have to deal with the douche that you complain sends dick pics off the bat that you don't want.
2.) I would rather have a "I'm not interested" DM vs nothing. Be honest, it doesn't hurt.
3.) Tell people you are talking to 15+ DM's. Nothing worse than 20-30 minutes between messages, when everyone can see you are online, and you keep going, where are they?

Signed, Continually Frustrated (Is it that I'm getting older? Sigh.)
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I understand your frustration, but please consider how it looks from my end.

1) I get a lot of unsolicited pm's. I won't reply to links or weird rp scenarios or anything creepy or just outright RUDE (unless it's so rude i'm angry like the guy who mocked my breast size)
2) many contain no effort or information, just "hi" or little more
3) some say "saw your profile" but clearly they didn't
4) i likely won't reply to the ones above
5) i try to at least acknowledge some or most of the rest, but sometimes I just don't feel like it. Keep in mind, these are UNSOLICITED, I don't "owe" them anything.
6) if I do reply, often they are either very pushy or come at me right away with a link or a creepy rp scenario, and those I "ghost".
7) sometimes I just don't feel you and I don't want to argue about so I just bail out

Sorry. It's not easy on this end either. If you don't like my responses, your best bet is try someone else.
 
Villainesse said:
Imagine, if you will, a conversation like this.

Him: Hi how are you?
Me: Hi
Him: Let's chat!
Me: Ok
Him: I want to chain you in my dungeon and assfuck you until you beg me to stop
Me: [silence]
Him: WHY ARE YOU GHOSTING ME?

As soon as the convo goes weird or dark or creepy, or in any way makes me uneasy, I'm out. And I don't owe anybody an explanation.
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Not only should that person be ghosted, they should be immediately blocked.
 
DirtyBamaDaddy69 said:
Not only should that person be ghosted, they should be immediately blocked.
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I have blocked a few. Like the guy who, ON HIS FIRST PM TO ME, mocked my breast size.

I took the high road and mocked his penis size lol. We traded a couple more insults and then I blocked him.

Please understand this. I REALIZE MOST OF YOU ARE NOT LIKE THAT. But it only takes a couple of experiences like that to make you wonder if you should EVER reply to a pm.
 
To be honest I wouldn't want to be a female on this site. The garbage that they constantly have to deal with on a daily basis from rude, crude douche bags who think that they are god's gift to women and every woman wants to see their junk or wants to be treated like a slut just because they are on a sex site. And then god forbid that they ignore a DM. Too many rude assholes on here that can't accept rejection or being ignored. All of the women on here deserve nothing less than respect and dignity no matter their username or profile or anything else.
 
Villainesse said:
I have blocked a few. Like the guy who, ON HIS FIRST PM TO ME, mocked my breast size.

I took the high road and mocked his penis size lol. We traded a couple more insults and then I blocked him.

Please understand this. I REALIZE MOST OF YOU ARE NOT LIKE THAT. But it only takes a couple of experiences like that to make you wonder if you should EVER reply to a pm.
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I get you. I feel you. No explanations needed. You are right on.
 
I almost took down my avatar. I'm proud of my body, I work hard at it, and I took the risk of putting up a picture so I could express myself and let people get a glimpse of who I am.

I realize I don't have the biggest boobs in the world, trust me. But come on.
 
Villainesse said:
I almost took down my avatar. I'm proud of my body, I work hard at it, and I took the risk of putting up a picture so I could express myself and let people get a glimpse of who I am.

I realize I don't have the biggest boobs in the world, trust me. But come on.
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Beautiful lady all I see is amazingly beautiful and incredibly sexy woman. Fuck the haters. There's absolutely nothing wrong with anything about you. I think that they are perfect for you.
 
Villainesse said:
Imagine, if you will, a conversation like this.

Him: Hi how are you?
Me: Hi
Him: Let's chat!
Me: Ok
Him: I want to chain you in my dungeon and assfuck you until you beg me to stop
Me: [silence]
Him: WHY ARE YOU GHOSTING ME?

As soon as the convo goes weird or dark or creepy, or in any way makes me uneasy, I'm out. And I don't owe anybody an explanation.
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Nailed it 👍
 
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