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WendyTrilby said:
I tend to take on the aggressive role during sex and like to make demands of my partner, often ending up on top, usually in reverse cowgirl, looking back over my shoulder, making eye contact with him. While I ride him, I deny him access to anything else but a view of my backside while I enjoy the pleasure of being on top. It’s my power move, and it works wonders.

But there are times when I want to be submissive, and I show that through my outfit. If I’m wearing a skirt that’s over the knees, you can be sure of two things: 1) Even if I’m wearing panties, they will soon be around my ankles. 2) I expect that skirt to be lifted when you bend me over something that can support two bodies in action.

However, I actually enjoy this for a specific reason – because I’m like an animal marking its territory. If I give out the signal that I want to be taken from behind, its probably because I want to earn a badge of honor that I did it on my bosses desk, or while face down on my obnoxious neighbor’s Porche, or on your couch where they guys will be enjoying Monday night football while I tingle knowing they are relaxing in the very spot you took me 24 hours earlier.

I explained this to my shrink, who told me that while 43% of women have a submission fetish, that isn’t me, because I’m using this form of submission to guide the narrative to my benefit.

"But I let them bend me over. I willingly submit," I told her, convinced I was acting submissive in this position.

She pointed out that I was controlling the narrative from start to climax and well beyond (the continuing thrill of knowing what we did and where). In short, she told me, when he gets to bend me over, lift the skirt, panties around the ankles, and hold me down, he is not in charge, even if I let him think he is.

She listed several things, including symbolic transgression, which refers to me breaking a power boundary, then mentioned fetishized privacy, which is the sheer pleasure I get from knowing what others don’t know (she’s right, love that feeling of knowing something you don’t know).

As it turns out, symbolic transgression is normal fantasy for some, but since I actually do it, it’s a fetish.

Of course, while she’s telling me this, I’m looking around the room and thinking how fun it would be to sneak in here tonight with a date, get bent over her desk, and break another boundary.
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You really do have a way with words, which comes from knowing what you like, I love how it's all on your terms, your posts are so arousing. I do wonder if that therapist realized your plan, or spent any time imagining you doing those things.

Now I'm imagining the guys being clueless about the couch, I can see why it's a turn on, almost like reverse exhibitionism
 
WendyTrilby said:
As it turns out, symbolic transgression is normal fantasy for some, but since I actually do it, it’s a fetish.
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I'm fascinated by your description. Also very intrigued by this term, and would like to know more (thinking it applies to me also, but not clear). Is a PM okay?
 
NIKAlit96 said:
I love to be bent over. Any position from behind I feel more submissive and him in control of our pleasure. 🥰
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There is something so intimate, so visceral, about standing behind a partner and bending them over while being deep inside them.

The sense of immediacy, and depth , and feel of their body against mine...

Just so wonderful
 
I love the softness of a female butt as I thrust my cock in and out of her vagina whilst carressing her nipples, breasts and licking her neck. Standing orgasms drive me wild.
 
I have slight contradictions with being bent over and sex from behind.

I absolutely love head down, butt up and being ‘exposed’ like that for oral and foreplay. It feels really intimate. I like being spread open in that position.

But this is the contradictory part - sex from behind doesn’t always work for me. It’s something to do with the angle of my vagina, and certain heights/angles of partner that it can actually be quite painful. I’ve tried all sorts, pillows, different levels but sometimes with a partner it just won’t work.
But then with other it can be amazing. So (before if was married) I had to approach sex front he rear with a little caution to understand if it worked.
 
LittleGreene said:
I have slight contradictions with being bent over and sex from behind.

I absolutely love head down, butt up and being ‘exposed’ like that for oral and foreplay. It feels really intimate. I like being spread open in that position.

But this is the contradictory part - sex from behind doesn’t always work for me. It’s something to do with the angle of my vagina, and certain heights/angles of partner that it can actually be quite painful. I’ve tried all sorts, pillows, different levels but sometimes with a partner it just won’t work.
But then with other it can be amazing. So (before if was married) I had to approach sex front he rear with a little caution to understand if it worked.
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Does it have to do with the length of your partner and him being able to hit your cervix in that position?
 
Foolhen said:
I have been impressed (I won't say surprised) by how many women that I've been with really enjoyed being bent over and penetrated from behind. For one it was her preferred position even though she never orgasmed during sex. My wife also loves a hard pounding from behind and she will come that way too if I can manage to last long enough.

I'm curious how many women really like being bent over and what it is about the position that turns you on.
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A pair of VERY snug handcuffs make it all the more enjoyable for me.
 
NIKAlit96 said:
I love to be bent over. Any position from behind I feel more submissive and him in control of our pleasure. 🥰
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Cthulhu1138 said:
There is something so intimate, so visceral, about standing behind a partner and bending them over while being deep inside them.

The sense of immediacy, and depth , and feel of their body against mine...

Just so wonderful
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2 different perspectives. I agree more with NIKAlit96. Doing her from behind does make me feel a bit more in control. I always find myself wanting to do more, rub her clit, squeeze her nipples, pull her hair. And always seem to get a great reaction from that.
As far as being intimate like Cthulhu1138 feels. For me there is nothing more intimate than looking in herit eyes when your inside her, especially first penetration.
But to each there own
 
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