policywank
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I think there is some truth to that. It may also be that the specific white women that they encounter (as opposed to all white women) are more uninhibited for whatever reason. Certainly married women who step outside their marriage are not necessarily representative of all women and we do tend to have clarity in what we want.
I make this contrast to women more broadly because I think that we are so conditioned to suppress our urges by society that it may take us longer to come to grips with what we want in a sexual relationship. It can me the same for men, but men are conditioned to accept their desire for a primarily physical sexual experience whereas women are not. By the time we make the decision to step outside of our marriage it is often the case that we have worked our way through all that stuff and are resolved to embrace and seek to fulfill our true desires. We have also grown out of the preconception that all intimate relationships must be at least nominally based upon the expectation of something more permanent or serious.
From that point of view, it is very liberating to decide to just go after what we want and to hell with what others think we should do. And while I do want to be careful about adding to much of a racial aspect to things, it is self-evident that if we are going to pursue some adventure we are going to step outside of our cultural norms. And black men or latin lovers are pretty high up the bucket list.
