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I can see it.

My trans girlfriend and I present ourselves as a typical male female couple in clothing and behavior. Our sexual roles are also that of a man and a woman but they are at odds with our social roles.

My girlfriend has the masculine sexual role which consists of being dominant sexually and using her cock to fuck and inseminate her partner. I have the feminine sexual role which consists of being submissive sexually and allowing my holes to be used by my partner in fucking me. My asshole is used to fulfill the function of a female cunt or pussy and that is how I have come to think of it sexually.

So, in that sense, I am definitely femme and she is masc.
 
Call me uncultured and an insolent straight fuck if you like, but I'm buggered if I understand ANY of the above. Beyond my ken. I shiver at the prospect of looking up "AMAB", too.
 
I did look it up. There's non-binary AMAB, too, which must be useful. Does all this have to be added to LGTBI? Is it still that? They keep adding to it, you see, adding in all the groups and subgroups and subsubgroups and Venn diagrams to such an extent that nobody really knows anymore just how many different groups and subgroups and subsubgroups we're not supposed to alienate or hate. Should we add in a P for pussifiers now? I mean, what the fuck ...? It's like treading on eggshells these days. I think twice about opening a door for anyone now, male or female or anything inbetween or including both, or giving up my seat on the train.
 
Wow. Did you just come here to stir up shit, or what?
Come here to stir up shit. Is that a thing? I haven't just come here, no, I was leaving it for later, thanks. However, you do make a valid point in that releasing a sticky wad can stir up shit in a certain naughty area, so well done there.
 
Pussification: An odd word and an odd concept. I have nothing against feminization or sissification, and tbh, have often in the throes of gender dysphoria literally wished I would wake up with a pussy and my male equipment would disappear forever. However, there are many of us who think of ourselves as sissies, crave and emulate femininity, and desire to “be pussified” who have zero interest in cocks, whether it be having one, sucking one, or being penetrated by one.

My beautiful and Dominant Wife has taught me and made me admit out loud to Her several things:
1) I will never have a pussy. The best I can do is worship hers.
2) I must accept that I have an inadequate penis that She does not need it.
3) It is a privilege for a male to wear women’s panties, and I must continue ro demonstrate that I deserve it.

Does that make me pussified, feminized, or sissified, or all three? NancyPan
 
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I think only you can answer that. I have tried to explain better what I'm trying to do here in the comment directly above.
All too confusing to me. There is too much variation to categorize. Is there a benefit in another label? If so, the one you are suggesting is, IMHO, way, way too loaded.
 
Not a label. Not at all. An attempt to fight against one.

I'm offline for the night. Back in the morning. Either to try to explain more clearly — or to ditch the thread as a lost cause.
I don't think it's a lost cause. The thread spoke to me because I am not a sissy. I don't wear women's clothing or have any desire to do so. I don't judge those who do but it's not for me. So I like what you were trying to do here.

Even though I feel femme when I bottom for my girl, I know a lot of bottoms don't feel that way at all. Again, respect to all types of people who bottom - for sure it's not one size fits all.
 
I do hate to prolong a lost cause, but I am at a loss to understand, the issue you are trying to elucidate. You could simply relax and move onto something a little less fraught, just an idea!
 
Pussies take a pounding! They bounce back!

It's balls that r fragile. Soldiers tough in combat should receive a medal in the image of a pussy
 
I've now read and inwardly digested all subsequent explanations and elucidations, and I'm relieved to find that I understand even less than before. If I HAD got any of it, I'd have been worried about my mind.

Why are people so desperate to compartmentalise and decompartmentalise, include, exclude, onboard, offboard and veer off and veer on about their sexuality, AND shout it out to all and sundry? Jesus.
 
I really do think this thread is a lost cause. I'm going to remove all my comments and ask the mods to remove the entire thing. I'll think more, and then (maybe) raise the issue on another day, in another way, that (hopefully) won't confuse and offend so many people.
 
There was no need for that, liqueur. If you like, you could start from scratch and tell everyone what you like doing or don't like doing with your junk. Like everyone does on here.

Just lose the neurotic compulsion for labelling and delabelling and explaining/excusing yourself, because very few of us sickos and perverts give a single solitary shite about that. Just be someone wanking in the Internet wilderness like everyone else.
 
I really do think this thread is a lost cause. I'm going to remove all my comments and ask the mods to remove the entire thing. I'll think more, and then (maybe) raise the issue on another day, in another way, that (hopefully) won't confuse and offend so many people.
You are ALWAYS going to get jackasses like ClockworkFox making homophobic comments. Just put him on ignore and he never sees your thread. Personally I thought the thread and your intent was perfectly clear.
 
You are ALWAYS going to get jackasses like ClockworkFox making homophobic comments. Just put him on ignore and he never sees your thread. Personally I thought the thread and your intent was perfectly clear.
I did put him on ignore, and since then he seems to have disappeared. But you seem to be the only person who understood what i was trying to do... We'll see. Thanks.
 
Pussification: An odd word and an odd concept. I have nothing against feminization or sissification, and tbh, have often in the throes of gender dysphoria literally wished I would wake up with a pussy and my male equipment would disappear forever. However, there are many of us who think of ourselves as sissies, crave and emulate femininity, and desire to “be pussified” who have zero interest in cocks, whether it be having one, sucking one, or being penetrated by one.

My beautiful and Dominant Wife has taught me and made me admit out loud to Her several things:
1) I will never have a pussy. The best I can do is worship hers.
2) I must accept that I have an inadequate penis that She does not need it.
3) It is a privilege for a male to wear women’s panties, and I must continue ro demonstrate that I deserve it.

Does that make me pussified, feminized, or sissified, or all three? NancyPan
I think it makes you (and your wife) amazing! That’s fantastic!
 
I did put him on ignore, and since then he seems to have disappeared. But you seem to be the only person who understood what i was trying to do... We'll see. Thanks.
Sad. Like you, I see the sissy threads and I can relate to some of what they are saying but most of it (the cross dressing, the feminization etc), I just can't relate to at all.
 
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