How popular are blowjobs, actually?

[RawSilhouette]

The appeal of sucking a cock to me is the senses. I’m a huge sensory girl and sucking cock engages all of my senses which heightens my own arousal. The taste and texture of precum, the smell of his masculinity, the sound I can produce from his chest or throat with the torture of my tongue, and look on his face as he’s consumed with feeling… I can practically cum just from sucking cock alone, and need just the lightest touch of my clit to send me over the edge. It’s such a turn on, and it turns me on to know that I have that kind of affect on him. I can make him lose hold of all of his senses with my lips, tongue, and throat. It’s so powerfully erotic. I suck my husband’s dick as often as I can for him, yes, but also just for me.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Depends on how many you have had in your life. So, I would say pretty popular.

 

[Not Normal]

I like blowjobs, but they aren't the be all, end all for me. If only one of us is to get oral, I'd rather it be the woman I'm with. I'd rather eat pussy than get head. My wife loves to give me blojobs and has become quite skilled over the years. We rarely have sex that doesn't involve a blowjob. She's less interested in having her pussy eaten, but sometimes enjoys it. So I don't always eat her out.

My girlfriend is the opposite. She doesn't mind giving blowjobs, but it's not a huge thing for her, so it only happens sometimes, which it fine. She loves getting her pussy eaten, and I give her many orgasms that way.

 

[Plasmaball]

Universally hated..

 

[TheUKGent]

I love receiving a blowjob so long as it's done with the desire to do it rather than feeling that it should be done through 'duty' or obligation. However, I'd add that proviso to any sexual act as I wouldn't indulge in something like going down on someone unless I really wanted to. What's the point of doing something half-heartedly?

One of my most memorable blowjobs was where my partner really took her time to tease me and keep me on the edge as long as possible. It was obvious that she enjoyed what she was doing to me and the control she had over my pleasure which, in turn, made it all the more fun for me.

 

[CliodhnaOB]

Blowjobs aka sucking dick is often talked about as one of the "pillars" of sex, at least as much if not more so than eating pussy.

But I wonder, how well does that match up with your experiences?

Those who have suckable dicks - do you enjoy bjs? Are they important for you, in terms of fulfilling your sexual desires? Have your partners actually been any good at it?
Do you like it in fiction/imagination more than in reality?

Those who have dated people with penisses, do you give bjs? Did your partners insist, or did you bring it up? Do you like doing it, hate it, go along with it reuctantly?
In your statistic, do you get the impression that bjs are very important to your target demographic?

Ive always loved giving them, best time is when he least expects it xx

 

[WeShallUnclench]

Universally hated..

Oh yeah wasn't there, like, a horror movie about this a while back

'The Day The Cocks Were Blown', or something like that

 

[lowcollar]

I lost interest in a woman who wasn't almost immediately. For me, oral sex is a staple as both a way to get warmed up, fun to watch and a great way to finish. I am also at least that interested in eating a woman' pussy and ass. I could never be with a partner who didn't like oral sex.

 

[MuscularMaleXStripper]

Very popular

 

[TinaG_2023]

Very popular

Do male strippers get them often?

 

[Mrman69]

I once had a coworker that gave an incredible blowjob. We would take advantage of any time that we could slip away so she could get my cock in her mouth.

Can you get me a job application?

 

[Sir_Timo_Volodok]

Hetrosexual male. I'm going to go against the grain and say, "Meh" to blowjobs. I could take 'em or leave 'em.

Don't get me wrong, it feels good, but I'm in my 40s and can count on one hand how many orgasms I've had from oral. For one, they usually seem to happen without any sort of advance discussion, and I'm not going to shoot my load into someone's mouth without knowing they're okay with it. I know a few women are into it, but most are not, and it feels degrading/demeaning and pulls me out of the moment thinking about it.

Two, one of my fetishes is creampies, and a blowjob kind of feels like a waste in that regard.

At best, for me, they fall into the "foreplay" category.

Unless we're talking about road head, now that can be sexy af and is worth a thread of its own...

 

[alexgriffin74]

I've not had many and of the ones I have had, I've only enjoyed one of them. Thank you Tammy, wherever you are....

 

[Jdear78]

You can put me in the category of loving them all...

 

[pellso27]

Better to give that relieve

 

[GoodGirlsDeserveFun]

I have found with most of the guys I have been with, a blowjob is expected. That being said, I do like to give them. I find it very arousing to have a cock in my mouth and I love to play with it.

I’ll kiss the head. Cup the balls, stroke it with my hand while taking it deeper and deeper into my mouth. Suckling on the head.

I like to get the guy worked up and it does make me aroused, moist and ready for cock

Couldn't have put it better!

I really enjoy sucking my boyfriend - some days I'm more into it that another's just because of my mood at the time - but overall I really enjoy doing it AND watching myself do it. I like hearing how much he enjoys it and seeing the effects . I'm happy to even if it's just a short suck - we went out the other day and I sucked him for a few minutes before we left.

 

[Icekiller56]

My girlfriend gives great blowjobs. We're in a long distance relationship, so anytime we're together she likes to suck my cock. Last week she blew me in my hotel room before going to dinner which made dinner a lot more interesting being in cum soaked underwear

 

[zoso682001]

I can't think of one woman I've been with that hasn't sucked my dick .One or two weren't very good but still seemed happy to do it . There have been a few that only wanted to suck me and that was ok but eventually got almost boring .

Every blowjob is different and enjoyable in it's own way .

 

[Sir_Timo_Volodok]

I can't think of one woman I've been with that hasn't sucked my dick .One or two weren't very good but still seemed happy to do it .

It’s less than 20% for me. Most were alright to good. Only one was terrible. Could tell she watched too much bad porn.

My current partner is meh on giving them and is quite content with my being meh on receiving. It’ll occasionally happen as extra heated foreplay, if she takes me into her mouth it’s a safe assumption intercourse is soon to follow.

 

[LisaMayTurner]

I like it (understatement) but many women do not. In the male mind it is a "pillar" but that's because of porn movies. It's amazing how many guys love and adore me sucking them off like a porn movie star. If I try anything different so many guys immediately get soft and I have to go back to porn movie mode. It's fun but it's also a bit samey and routine. Mind you, there are some lovely new techniques around and it's always fun to try variations.

 

[Chridi]

I enjoy sucking cocks. Just during foreplay or in between. Teasing their cock with my mouth, lips, tongue, is a playful way to make the sex more adventurous. It often involves short, repeated strokes. 69 is definitely part of this, which can take a bit longer. For most men, I think, it's more about having my lips around their toy, sucking and licking them, than about climaxing that way. Maybe it's because of me, prefering they cum in me. And when they come by bj, I usually feel it; some even point it out to me, asking where they can cum. All in all, I'm certain I've given more cocks a blowjob than I've had in my pussy. However, I'm not a big fan of being fucked wildly in the mouth and deep-throat stuff isn't my thing either.

 

[OralDave]

I like it (understatement) but many women do not. In the male mind it is a "pillar" but that's because of porn movies. It's amazing how many guys love and adore me sucking them off like a porn movie star. If I try anything different so many guys immediately get soft and I have to go back to porn movie mode. It's fun but it's also a bit samey and routine. Mind you, there are some lovely new techniques around and it's always fun to try variations.

Men love their hard cocks-- their totems, manmeat, phalluses. They need a woman to suck them to make them feel like porn stars
But you're right-- about pornos and correct technique are necessary, unfortunately. Well, not too unfortunate. We're addicted.
Lovely new techniques!! Show me, Lisa.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I like it (understatement) but many women do not. In the male mind it is a "pillar" but that's because of porn movies. It's amazing how many guys love and adore me sucking them off like a porn movie star. If I try anything different so many guys immediately get soft and I have to go back to porn movie mode. It's fun but it's also a bit samey and routine. Mind you, there are some lovely new techniques around and it's always fun to try variations.

Giving a receiving a good cocksucking, like giving and (how I imagine) receiving a good pussy-licking feels, and I'm always open to learning new techniques and fun variations. We should collaborate...

 

[FMacCumhail]

I'm a huge fan of receiving head from a woman who loves doing it...but it's been a while. Since I'm long and very thick, it presents certain challenges that frankly usually lead to blowjobs that aren't great for either party involved. The fact that I'm uncut can also complicate matters.

I've learned to love eating pussy (my favorite thing to do in bed now!) and usually go straight into fucking when she's satisfied from that, but I admit to dreaming about long, sensual blowjobs from a woman who embraces the challenge!

 

[KyleR215]

Being single and been out of a few dates and relationships with women that are fresh and new I can say that they are very common. Part of that new exploration of each other.

Would they die off and diminish over time if the relationship progressed longer (years)? I don’t know.

I know when I was married, they came to a stop after about 5 years, about the same time all sex came to a stop. But I cannot base everything off that one bad experience