Cuckolds: to watch or not to watch?

[Coconutty70]

One for the cuckolds and hotwives:
What is the preference between being present in the room when the wife is having her way with a guy, versus knowing she’s doing it and being told all about it or following up later? Do you switch on this depending on some factor or other… or prefer one way exclusively?

Do you think hotwives have different preferences and if so, do you therefore sometimes have a difference in preference… and if so who gets their own way?

(Asking for a friend )

 

[magicalmoments]

One for the cuckolds and hotwives:

What is the preference between being present in the room when the wife is having her way with a guy, versus knowing she’s doing it and being told all about later? Do you switch on this depending on some factor or other… or prefer one way exclusively?

Do you think hotwives have different preferences? Do you sometimes have a difference in preference and if so who gets their own way?

(Asking for a friend).
*cough*

Definitely watch. We made a ritual of me guiding the other guys cock into her, at least on the first couple of meetings. I would watch them together and after he had cum I'd fuck her. that was the usual scenario. with her long time partners I might sometimes watch the game on tv as they were banging away in the next room. but usually i'd watch and reclaim.

My wife never expressed a preference about me watching. She never objected, loved it when both guys were working her together and was happy to see guys alone. There was never a "get their own way" element involved.

 

[switchersm]

My wife has the same lover in 10th year now. I always watch, kiss her, hold her or fondle her tits while they fuck. And i always eat her lover's cum out of her well filled pussy.

 

[bjjazz]

The hottest sex I ever had with my bf, was afterward describing in detail to him what happened on my date with a man. It still gets me wet thinking about it.

 

[Sweepup50]

I find that my wife prefers I watch when she is having sex with another man, she says she feels safer that way but saying that there has been a few instances where I have not watched but have heard the odd scream of pleasure coming from her. As for me I love watching as another guy fucks her and see the look of pleasure on her face as she is pounded.

 

[pixie07]

I get to watch occasionally but most of the time she is having sex with her boyfriend and I hear about it later or I get to listen from another room . I haven’t been allowed to watch in a long time

 

[OldGoodPup]

Watch. I fluff him for her. Place him inside her. Sometimes I'll lick his shaft and balls as they slide into her. Sometimes I'll lick her clit or rosebud as she rides. And sometimes she'll have me rest my head on her belly so I can watch him slide in and out slowly while she tousled my hair. She'll hold my head tightly to her belly. On his last stroke as she bucks against me in orgasm, he'll slide from her and into me so he can empty in my throat as she is orgasming under me.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

One for the cuckolds and hotwives:
What is the preference between being present in the room when the wife is having her way with a guy, versus knowing she’s doing it and being told all about it or following up later? Do you switch on this depending on some factor or other… or prefer one way exclusively?

Do you think hotwives have different preferences and if so, do you therefore sometimes have a difference in preference… and if so who gets their own way?

(Asking for a friend )

My wife started out cheating with a single colleague of hers, then I found out, then I gave her a hall pass to resume fucking him, so it's always been a "hear about it after" situation for me, and it's an intense turn-on. I'd love to watch but he has no idea I found out, still thinks she's cheating, and we want to keep it that way.

 

[Nellie60]

Wow that would be hot hearing the details from her and him thinking its still cheating.

Would she go as far as bringing him to your place and fuck him while you are hiding in the wardrobe or in the room next door and hearing their lovemaking?

I have only watched one ex commit an act on another man while I was present. Very intense and hot.

 

[MrMannson]

I would love to start out watching, but i don’t have enough faith in me to have restraint and to NOT join in. I would have to have some of that, it would kill me not to!

That being said, nothing is a turn on quite like my wife heading out for a night with her friends and her returning to share details and hopefully a little something between her legs for me to enjoy

 

[Nellie60]

I held off even when it was different watching the glorious scene occurring live in front of me, cause I wanted to enjoy her afterwards on my own

It was worth it not to escalate it

 

[Paul01uk]

Both. It's incredible to watch but also to wonder and imagine when they're alone.

 

[Nellie60]

Only one time I captured the moments my first girlfriend committed a sexual act on another man without her knowledge. That was very hot as she didn't pretend and was as she was with someone in private.

 

[Phatfeet]

I am like 90% glad I was never with my wife when she was wife-shared, and about 10% wished I had been.

I initially wanted to, but unlike most couples we never discussed wife sharing before we just got into it. It all started from a simple comment made by my best friend about sex and his wife, and I said… with my wife present mind you, “she’ll do that”. Granted I knew her, and him, and did give her a way out should she wish not to get sexual with my best friend, but after a second she said she do it with him.

It took awhile to convince him to try it, with her joining in, but it was only after I realized he wanted to, as did she, but just not with me there. So I made an excuse to walk off and she took care of him.

 

[Phatfeet]

After that she was shared with other men, but I was never there for it.

The 10% part though comes from her assuring me after the first stranger that she did, that she wore a condom. It is hard to describe, but she was so adamant that she did that it was one of those things where it was so over the top, so important to her that I believed her, that I don’t think she actually did. To this day I think 25% of me thinks she actually wore one, and 75% of me says she didn’t.

So there are elements I wish I was there to see as I will just otherwise never know. But for the most part I am glad I was never there when she took care of other men.

 

[Texsuns]

I definitely prefer being in the same room while my wife is using other men for sex. Watching them go from seduction to the final climax is so hot, especially if he is a newbie to her and playing with married women.

However I get a huge rush, like intensely aroused, when she comes home from a date and tells me what happened, in detail. The difference is that watching her have sex is a turn on that could last for hours while hearing her story lasts minutes.

 

[Sgts19]

I've seen her many many times with my friend or a video he's made.

Tried the swinging thing and never saw her but did hear the audio, yes without her knowing. Over the top exciting and some of my best material when I want to get off. To me listening is close to actually seeing it.

 

[bjjazz]

The hottest sex I ever had with my bf, was afterward describing in detail to him what happened on my date with a man. It still gets me wet thinking about it.

Or talking about it with a new bf.

 

[Nellie60]

I definitely prefer being in the same room while my wife is using other men for sex. Watching them go from seduction to the final climax is so hot, especially if he is a newbie to her and playing with married women.

However I get a huge rush, like intensely aroused, when she comes home from a date and tells me what happened, in detail. The difference is that watching her have sex is a turn on that could last for hours while hearing her story lasts minutes.

Watching allowed me to fufil that fantasy of what she was like with another man. The whole beginning of her making out to full to on enthusiastic ending was very pleasurable for me.

The stories she told me about her past relationships, I can see now how she reacts and how he reacts to someone elses girl.

Its can only be described as intensely erotic.

 

[JR284]

We started in a similar way as Ed_Summer. I discovered she was cheating and it was a huge turn on to hear all the details of what she had done. When we officially got into the lifestyle, that dynamic had already developed. Plus, she felt a lot more comfortable continuing to fuck on her own and she loved giving me all the details afterwards. The anticipation of hearing from her or just knowing that she's out getting fucked but not knowing exactly what is going on is so intense and gets me worked up for when she gets back. That being said, it's absolutely amazing when I do get to watch her get fucked in front of me but we definitely have a preference for having her do her own thing and me learning about it afterwards.

 

[jxp617]

I don't have any cuck fantasies where I just watch. However, I'm turned on by the idea of my finishing first in my wife's mouth and then watching for a few moments as the other guy continues to fuck her until he cums too

 

[EternityGhost14]

My wish is that my wife would fuck or suck a guy, who thinks that she is cheating on me.

 

[Nellie60]

My wish is that my wife would fuck or suck a guy, who thinks that she is cheating on me.

Most guys would Ike that idea, being able to chase and win another man's girl as the thought of secretly and by the way dangerously having illicit acts with her is both hot and forbidden.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

My wish is that my wife would fuck or suck a guy, who thinks that she is cheating on me.

I've achieved this, albeit by an unexpected and difficult route, and I can vouch - it's fucking phenomenal.

 

[Chridi]

For us it is not one way or the other. I think my boyfriend prefers to watch. While participating was the first idea/intention: doing mfm, he is becoming more and more passive lately, limiting himself to helping me undress, some kissing, things like that. Also, the "after-sex" with him is postponed to the next moment when we are alone again, mostly the next day. In recent years, those sharing moments with him present are becoming increasingly rare, probably due to circumstances and timing, but also because I prefer he is not there to watch. I don't mind, but it is not the same when I have sex with other guys without him present. I feel more liberated to enjoy and sometimes even do things I don't do with my bf. And yes, I do tell him about it, mostly over the phone right after the sex. And every time he is cuming - the best phone sex is sharing the details after a hot fuck with one of his friends.