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That's interesting, but wonder if it's common. It feels men over run this site and women would be tentative
I feel a vibe that men dominate this site, although I don't think I could ever meet a guy online. I have friends that use dating sites, and it sounds like a nightmare or too much hassle for my taste. I get a lot of messages on here, but I don't have an issue with finding partners IRL, so I'm just not interested in the headache of trying to screen someone that I can't see in person. I'm an anxious person and paranoid of everyone.
 
I feel a vibe that men dominate this site, although I don't think I could ever meet a guy online. I have friends that use dating sites, and it sounds like a nightmare or too much hassle for my taste. I get a lot of messages on here, but I don't have an issue with finding partners IRL, so I'm just not interested in the headache of trying to screen someone that I can't see in person. I'm an anxious person and paranoid of everyone.
That’s very relatable and understandable to be cautious and protect yourself
 
I guess...
And yeah, probably way more men, but just was answering your question... have met some, and they were who they said they were
I never understood why some people lie on here, and the lies continue for many chats whether it be online or phone or video. Yeah I get that when you first meet someone online that you are vague in answers, descriptions, etc. After a little while though best to come clean early in a relationship. If it progresses to an actual meet how can you expect the other person to believe anything you have said, and majority of times the actual meet would be a letdown if anything, At least that is how it is with my experiences.
 
I feel a vibe that men dominate this site, although I don't think I could ever meet a guy online. I have friends that use dating sites, and it sounds like a nightmare or too much hassle for my taste. I get a lot of messages on here, but I don't have an issue with finding partners IRL, so I'm just not interested in the headache of trying to screen someone that I can't see in person. I'm an anxious person and paranoid of everyone.
Exactly my point. Even for a guy the dating sites were " challenging " Funny I'd spend an hour or 2 on a dating site, go out and meet a women in less time.
Don't get me wrong I've met some nice women on line but the process was like being a detective.
I like lit for the most part, but I think I do better face to face.
 
Greetings from a 62 year old fit fun guy in New Jersey.
Thankfully, I don’t act my age. 😉

Straight man - looking for a wise / funny woman, haha.
Would love to begin by chatting / getting to know women hopefully somewhere close in age to me.

(I tried editing a similar post from yesterday. Rookie mistake)
 
I’m one of them and it worked out for 4 years. So it is possible, just depends on the persons and location.
Good for you. That takes a bit of courage. But then again this site is pretty cut and dry unlike dating apps.
I'm big into chemistry with someone.
 
49 y/o single male in SW Florida looking for consistent good times with a charming and witty woman. I'll gladly host here at my condo including dinner and adult beverages :cool:
 
I'm curious to know if anyone has HONESTLY met someone from Lit through the site. You would think with such a variety of lets say "needs" it would be common.
I've met 4 different women from this site over the years. One was a one off and we had some fun and never saw each other again. The other 3 were multiple meets, lots of fun and one I still message with on another app. I've moved south since those days and it's not quite as common to find people on SW Florida as it was further north. Anyone here interested drop me a DM.
 
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