Have you ever paid for sex?

Maddening isn't it? When they're face down satisfied and you're not even at the halfway mark
My wife told me when she was younger she believed that blue balls were just a story guys made up to get a HJ/BJ. To her everlasting credit, when she found out they really did hurt, she was ashamed of a LOT of the teasing she had done.
 
I'm not sure if i can bust in 15 min. I guess it depends on the girl whos providing the service. I can if she has no teeth hahaha
I briefly dated someone with such control of her vaginal muscles she could clamp down so hard it would actually begin to hurt. We went our separate ways over 35 years ago because of personality conflicts.
 
Several times. I used to visit "massage parlours" back in the day when they were fronts for what were illegal brothels. I'd have a massage and when the girl asked me if there was anything else, I'd ask her if I could fondle her naked breasts. That was my main indulgence. It was rare for me to fuck a prostitute, only maybe a half dozen times. Once I had a body massage which is where the girl rubs all over your naked body with her naked body. I shot my bolt during that one. I had a couple of hand jobs. I also used to pay a married woman for sex, well I paid her husband and fucked his wife. She was as keen as mustard, she wasn't being forced. I once went to a professional masseuse for a therapeutic massage and ended up fucking her, no extra charge. And finally my wife was a prostitute for a short time about a year before we met. Although I never paid her for sex.
Lovely. You've stimulated the local economy. Among other things
 
I have when I was much younger on quite a few occasions mainly in Indonesia. I once did on the Caribbean coast of Costa Rica. There was a beautiful black woman in a restaurant there that kept staring at me and smiling. After a while she came to talk to me. She only spoke Spanish but I’m a pretty good speaker of it. We chatted and she let me know that she occasionally offered her services. We had amazing conversations and laughed a lot talking about everything under the sun. Eventually we left and went to my room. We had amazing sex for a few hours until we were both spent. We talked more and after I had paid her twice what she told me she expected she invited me out to dinner. A friend of hers joined us and we ate and chatted. When it was time to go I tried to pay the bill but she would not let me. She told me she had a wonderful time and wanted to treat me. I was touched. She was so beautiful, fun and sweet. Here’s to her. Gracias senorita! Te recuerdo! ❤️🥂❤️
Sound almost like a movie. Great story!
 
Another thing about my prostitute experiences. I discovered that Samoan women are the best fucks i ever had. There were quite a few Samoan girls working the parlours back in the day.
 
I haven’t. But I’m open to it. I like the idea of hiring a male erotic dancer as a birthday or anniversary gift for my wife. A private show in our living room. He slowly strips for her. When he’s naked he ends up with his big cock in her face. Then, if my wife’s willing, I tip him a little extra to take my sexy wifey up to our bedroom.
 
I have never paid but Indirectly I was paid for sex and companionship when I was in university. As a 4 yr senior player, allowed 5 yrs in Canada, I was approached by the wife of a booster at a booster fundraising event. He was a businessman and away a lot and she was lonely and seeking company. The arrangement had some very specific details, which included absolute discretion, so I spent a lot of extra hours ‘at the library’ when asked. She would make dinner or order delivery.
 
I haven’t. But I’m open to it. I like the idea of hiring a male erotic dancer as a birthday or anniversary gift for my wife. A private show in our living room. He slowly strips for her. When he’s naked he ends up with his big cock in her face. Then, if my wife’s willing, I tip him a little extra to take my sexy wifey up to our bedroom.
Sounds like fun. He'll give her his tip
 
There's nothing wrong with it; I have but it's when I confirmed I can't actually have penetrative sex with someone I'm not in a relationship with (was married at the time, still am, have not been with anyone else other than my wife and the sex worker; wife is poly with a partner so it's all good) and that I enjoy using my tongue and my hands more than using my dick; it's either that or I wasn't very good at the time at explaining what I wanted.

She agreed to a few things before she came round (nothing extreme, fingering her, me rimming her, anally fingering her) and then on the day she said she doesn't do any of that. Ended up with a disappointing blowjob while I at least did enjoy eating her pussy (her butthole was so enticing as well, but I respected her boundaries). Even though she was gorgeous, we just weren't compatible and I gave up and sent her away (paid).

I partially regret it because it wasn't a great experience like I was hoping, but I'm grateful that it helped me know more about myself and what I enjoy. I have really bad issues with trusting people with my body due to childhood trauma. Oddly though I have no qualms about going down on a complete stranger; I just probably won't be able to fuck them unless a very strong connection was made, very quickly.
 
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